Don't use this dating site. This dating site just gives you false hope. I joined this dating site thinking I would find the love of my life. I heard on YouTube that this dating site is for people that are looking for a serious relationship. Which that is a lie. I have only gotten three profile views and I get matched with mostly women that live outside my state and some that live in Canada. I don't understand why this site thinks I would be compatible with women that live outside of my state and that live in Canada. When I sent questions to some women on the site. Only one of the women answered the questions I sent them. WTF! I hate that this site does not let you know which of your matches are paid members and when they were last active on the site. That would be helpful knowing how active they are on this site. The commercials are a bunch of lies and deceitful. The commercials make it seem like anyone who joins this site is guaranteed to find their perfect match. I have been on this site for awhile and have not found my perfect match. I have noticed that the commercials where couples talk about there success with the site seem to only show couples from the same ethnicity. So it makes you wonder if eHarmony is biased against interracial dating and interracial relationships. Also the dude in the commercial lies. He says start communicating for free. What does he mean by free? This site is not free. You have to pay to send a message to any of your matches. So he is so wrong.