Val S.

I normally check Sitejabber or Yelp for reviews before signing up for a dating site due to past experiences, but I fumbled the ball on this one. The men on here don't read the profile after they look at your picture. They just leave a message without checking for compatibility. They want you to send your number instead of just swapping numbers which is a huge red flag for me. Then you can't filter according to your area, age, preference in what type of relationship you are seeking. I had this one man that stated he could not recall what my profile said but could remember what I looked like, and asked me what I was seeking. When I told him a friendship that had the potential to lead into more and this was stated in my profile, his response was, hmm. (Here is another one not reading my profile). He then proceeded to try and steer the conversation to s-x after only the second day of speaking with him on the phone and proceeded to accused me of not being exciting enough because I would not indulge him and it was just "adult talk". WT-? We are in the initial stages of communicating and have not even met yet. This late 50's man used emoji's as a form of communicating with me but in my observation it was to avoid answering certain questions about himself especially when it came to marital status. I told him he would be wasting his time on me, but it was me that did not want my time wasted with the constant text messages that I was trying to decode. I felt as though I was communicating with a 13 year old. I don't know which was worse, the stupid emoji's or his broken grammar in these text messages, yet he claimed to have a Bachelors degree. I would guess about 70-80% on this site are not seeking anything serious, so ladies think twice before handing over your money. Thank goodness I only paid for one week but even $1.00 to this site is too much. Never again.

We went through Zillow and it has been one long nightmare from June until September 2019. How they even receive three stars, I will never know.

Make sure you read their return policy. If you use their shipping label to return an item it will cost you, (not a problem for me), but you may want to ask how much they charge in handling costs upfront if you decide to return an item. Most sites will tell you 10 or 15 percent handling (restocking) fee. This is not the case with this company. It just states $6.95 for shipping label and handling will be deducted from your refund. This is where it seems suspect. Helpful advice, ask about that handling fee before ordering.

I ordered from a vendor Bodycon4u on June 9. It is July 6 and I still have not received this item. I have ordered several items from China in the past and the longest I had to wait was 2 1/2 weeks. If you want a summer time clothing item from this vendor, don't wait until June. You may want to place your order in April. Don't bother trying to post your experience on Amazon.com. Tried twice and they refused to post.

I had to file a complaint with the Better Business Bureau because Ashley Stewart is not adhering to their own policy of returning items to the customer after the 30 days period. It clearly states on the back of their shipping receipt, "Returns after 30 days not accepted and will be sent back to you. Truth be told, I think they restocked my items and sold them because they still had the tags on them, never been worn, excellent condition. Every time I ask customer service about the status of my return, they don't respond or they say we will send you the tracking number once your items are shipped. This has been going on close to a month now. I am very doubtful that I will see these items again.

"Total scam". Prior to becoming a paid member you are sent all these flirts every day. Once I became a paid member, the views, flirts and messages stopped immediately. As someone stated people that are monitoring this site (Administrators) are sending flirts to the new members (never actual messages, so watch for that) in an attempt to get you to sign-up. When it was close to renewal it picked back up again. One of the flirts was sent by the site Administrator and the user name was "Lisinopril". Guess they were running out of creative user names.

I ordered an item from this site and to make a long story short I paid for the cost of shipping to receive the item, no problem. When I returned the item I had to pay to return the item, still no problem. When I received my refund and it was minus the shipping cost, I got a little confused. Their explanation is that they pay DHL in advance and this cost is passed along to the customer (okay, fine upon the initial order), but their explanation made no sense in regards to why an additional shipping charge was deducted from my refund after I paid to return the item. Bringing the total to 3x in shipping cost alone. Also there is a $20.00 restocking fee; however this appears under "How can I Cancel my Order", and not under "What is your return Policy". They sent me an email stating they were going to rewrite the policy to inform the customer about the shipping, but I am not sure if this has been done because I have not been back on their website. Their merchandise is expensive, so ask a boatload of questions before ordering. Other than that, the quality of the hair and the construction is very good.

I returned an item to this company and then received a bill in the mail for $38.00. Confused, I contacted the company, they broke down what the charges were for and ask for payment immediately. I refused and contacted them again in writing so that I could have written documentation as I was about to escalate the matter to BBB. When I started digging deeper for information on why I am being charged, they responded a few days later removing all the charges. Interesting.

This is the worse site ever. I always wait a week or so before becoming a paid member on any dating site and this was no exception. It did not seem normal to me that I had "300" notifications in my in-box in under a week. I noticed that under the "My View" tab, it had several pages of men that I supposedly view. That was not the case.

When you try to leave an honest review on their website, they will not post it. Well there is more than one way to skin a cat and that is what this wig looks like, a dishelved mangy cat sitting on top of my head. Don't and I mean don't order a wig from this place. I ordered the Short Side Bang Straight Flip Feathered Bob Synthetic Wig - Black and it looked nothing and I mean nothing like the picture posted on their website. No feathered layers, just straight and blah and it sheds like like crazy. I refuse to be dishonest and leave a favorable review when that is not the case.

Update: 12/28/2017
After they reached out to me on December 21st regarding my review and offered to see if they could fix the problem, I have yet to hear back from them after they asked for my order number and I sent it to them. My conclusion, the company is full of it. They know they can't back up their offer because they don't have that exact style wig that is on their site, so instead of being forthcoming, they ignore you. It's okay, lesson learned. My friendly advice, if you decide to order a wig from this company, watch a few youtubers give their review on their wigs and merchandise.

Update: Fast Forward to May 2018
This place has got to be kidding me. Almost six months after this crap (I already moved on), this company had the audacity to send me an email asking me to review this crappy wig they sent me on their website? Stop, just stop!

I will be the first to admit that I can't stand this dating site, but to read some of the comments here that state this is racist site and how would people feel if they had a site called whitepeoplemeet.com, they do have a site as such. I will not name it, but they have a commercial on every channel every 30 seconds, 365 days a year so get over it. One person commented, what about white history month? Let me clue you in, every day is your day, wake up. Stop whining because they dedicated a month which by the way only has 28 days (29 days if it is leap year), to celebrate our heritage. I am so sick of people whining about race. Now about this site, run, don't walk away from BlackPeopleMeet. One of my meet and greet did not look like the picture he posted, and got mad when I questioned him about his dishonesty. One I met for dinner, conversation was good, we laughed, nice looking guy seemed cool, then here comes the question " so when was the last time I (you know). Then he proceeded to share too much information about himself, I got disgusted, offered to not only pay for my own dinner, but tip also and ended the date. I mean really?