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North Carolina
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I have been at this site several times. This latest attempt at meeting and dating women at this site will be my last. I have received numerous likes from women there, but virtually all from women a long way from me. How is it that only women from 50-100 plus miles find me attractive? That smacks of bots. Scrolling through the array of pictures I can find none of women withing drivable distance. Again, this reeks of fake profiles. I gave the site aa 1, and that is being kind.

Date of experience: January 31, 2025
Virginia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It's a scam site.
February 14, 2025

All the site is good for is hoovering your money from your wallet. Once you stop spending money, they find a reason to delete your profile with some trumped up issue.

Date of experience: February 14, 2025
California
2 reviews
20 helpful votes
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Another Match rip off
December 5, 2024

Match group owns several dating sites all with the same purpose, no not to find you your 'Soul Mate' but to get your credit card number. I signed up for free and in 25 hours got 303 views, 17 likes and 7 messages. Cool right? Wrong, you can't see who unless you pay. They're fakes sent to get you to bite. I'm sure it would turn into an empty abyss with crickets chirping once they got you. Screw Match!

Date of experience: December 5, 2024
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I had an account on Ourtime. I hid my profile. The next day, I noticed it was unhidden. I hid it again. The next day, I notice activity on my account. I find another man's picture on my account. Some of my pictures were still there and my profile summary was there. The person was texting with women. I texted one woman and said the person texting her was a fraud. (Did it on my phone). When I got home, I was going to text the other women he was in contact with. However, my account was locked. I sent an email to Customer-Care. They told me I was banned because I violated the Terms and Conditions. I responded as to how I violated the terms when I'm the one who was violated. They said the judgement was final. Apparently, the security for the site isn't very good. Because MatchGroup owns both Ourtime and Match, my Match account has also been locked.

Date of experience: December 17, 2024
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Buyer beware! I am 5'9" as a woman that's pretty tall and so I like to date men who are at least my height. I'm also 55 but a young 55 so I don't wanna date somebody over 60. Someone suggested this website OurTime and ourtime tells me that if I pay for a subscription I can filter the things I want and don't want in a mate and that the things I mark as "deal breakers" like they have to be over 6 foot tall, live within 50 mile radius of myself and can't be over 60 years old won't show up in my feed. Well I'm here to tell you I fell for it and I paid a hefty subscription price and guess what folks… All I get is men who are shorter than men that live 4-5 hours away from me and are 65 years old! It's the exact opposite of what I wanted. Matter fact I've had no matches or seen any man in my feed that's over 6 feet tall and lives close to me under the age of 60 this is the biggest scam ever and right after I write this review I'm going to PayPal to try to get my money refunded. Do not fall for this website and if you do, do not pay any type of subscription thinking that you're gonna have better choices by paying and being allowed to use filter filters they don't work it's a scam, and you don't get the man!

Date of experience: December 9, 2024
Massachusetts
3 reviews
2 helpful votes
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A week after I signed up, I couldn't log in anymore, their customer service is useless, they end up transferring you to a "tech" that wants $85:00 to start. Tinder is just as bad (already deleted my account) Plenty of fish is a scam also. The only site I had luck with was match

Date of experience: November 24, 2024
Colorado
6 reviews
17 helpful votes
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I was blocked from their site 1 day after creating an account. All i did was log in and looked at several ladies profiles. I "liked" a few of them but git busy doing other things. I tried to get on the next day and they had blocked me. They said for confidential reasons they would not tell me why.
I'm sure glad I didnt subscribe.

Date of experience: October 18, 2024
Iowa
2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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I joined because of a special they were promoting, needless to say it was just another venue to fleece someone's pocket book, if you send someone a message they cannot respond unless they are a full paying member or you have to pay to enable them to respond to your message, A lot of views received appeared to be fake as they were from areas outside of search parameters, Profiles typically only showed 1 photo which seems odd if your trying to present yourself post more then just a headshot!
Would not recommend to use unless you like throwing money down the drain!

Date of experience: October 23, 2024
Turkey
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I'm more impressed with MyUkrLady.com
I've already got a few dates there even though I have only been a member for 3 weeks. As for Ourtime, they are only busy with ripping money out of poor 50+ year old suckers, who believe that a 20-year-old girl can fall for them. I know it sounds harsh but the bitterest truth is better than the sweetest lies. So I just want to spare you a disappointment. Don't get hurt emotionally and financially by Ourtime scammers.

Date of experience: September 30, 2024
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Playing games
October 28, 2024
Updated review

I heard from then 5 days ago after seems like after a month of games. They would get me back on site and they were sorry. More games. Joining something else

Date of experience: October 28, 2024

FRAUD
October 18, 2024
Previous review

To end with OUR TIME AFTER 5 Days of telling me to rejoin decided to tell me they didnt want me because I violated terms of use. They never mentioned what I violated, and I have no idea what it could have been since I am courteous and polite to member, didn't lie in my profile. I wasn't let go until my credit card wouldn't pay protecting me from fraud then all of a sudden, I get kicked off. Maybe I had more than 1 profile. Our Time from what I hear has a reputation of keeping old profiles to make it look like they have more people so perhaps they use their own fraudulent practices against innocent people who have big mouths. Good Riddons.
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Date of experience: October 18, 2024
Indiana
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Our Time doesn't even come close to what they promised. I found all they want to do is sell you upgrades so you can be seen isn't that why we joined in the first place! Half of the responses seemed fake. One lady that I texted with for a while and things seemed ok. We were getting ready meet when she had to go out of town unexpectedly for business. She texted me and asked for me to send her some money so she could finish her business and she would repay me when she returned! Lol When I tried to cancel, they told me I could cancel anytime but no refund would be issued and i had paid for a one-year package.

Date of experience: June 16, 2024
Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Chubby Chaser Paradise
August 28, 2024

I am constantly getting messages from scammers. If the profile picture is that of a very attractive woman, it is almost certainly a scammer. I have never seen a higher percentage of homely and fat women on any dating website. What are these women thinking? Who wants to date a fat unhealthy woman? I just canceled my membership. Save your money.

Date of experience: August 28, 2024
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Don't do it
July 3, 2024

Yes there are some real people on the site but it is loaded with fake profiles, scammers and bots. Owned by MatchGroup, Unless you pay extra for "boosting" you get buried. More scammers than usual due to the higher vulnerable age group. It was a waste of $25

Date of experience: July 3, 2024
Texas
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Horrible Site, Don't Subscribe.
July 16, 2024

As others have mentioned, this site is horrible. They have fake profiles, there are women on there that are professional hookers, other women looking for Visas to the US, I had at least 10 women ask me for money and a place to live. Multiple women asked me for personal information. Many women on the site are still married. They AUTO charge your card for every mouse click and then it's $150 for a six month subscription and then women who don't pay CAN'T respond to your unless you PAY MORE. Horrible, horrible site.

Date of experience: July 16, 2024
Washington
1 review
4 helpful votes
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No customer service on the weekends
March 3, 2023

Sent my 6 digest code 4 times then was locked out. First day. They were very happy to take my money. And bang all gone. This site is a JOKE. If you're willing to hook up with people 9 states away. Have at it and hope you don't get locked out. Funny

Date of experience: March 3, 2023
North Carolina
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Disheartened
April 13, 2022

I'm not so sure it's the sight. People see. To just suck. I thought that age would mean maturity in depth. What it is was a bunch of old mean, covered in facial hair and attitude demanding pictures, poor conversational skills and no desire to know someone before getting it on. Creepy. Huge waste of time.

Date of experience: April 13, 2022
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Be wary of a site that is easy to join and difficult to cancel. On the eve of subscription expiration, suddenly you will get a rush of views and likes...beware...they have women who "bump" up these elements to entice foolish men to re-subscribe. Very cynical and dishonest. Their administration will pay lip service to one's concerns and then condescend.
Bitter taste still remains in my mouth.I give it minus 10 stars

Date of experience: November 30, 2023
Missouri
1 review
12 helpful votes
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I had a problem with resetting my password and the same error kept showing up on 3 different browsers after about 7 attempts on each. Ourtime.com insisted it was the browser's fault and that I needed to contact the browser companies. Well, if 3 browser don't work, then my bet is it's the ourtime web site issue. No problems like this with any other web site log ins or resetting password. They continue to blame the browsers. I asked for them to totally cancel my account and for a partial refund for 5 months that I won't be able to use and they REFUSED it. That is horrible customer service. Will NEVER use them again even if the problem gets resolved.

Date of experience: October 25, 2019
California
1 review
12 helpful votes
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I think I learned a lesson going on line dating. This site doesn't care about you. All the matches are not related to your profile. It's a waist of money and time. Thank God I only signed for a month.

Date of experience: March 10, 2017
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Treated like a toddler
January 16, 2024

I joined this app, hoping to make a friendship. I IBM corresponding with three men. I didn't got an email from our time slapping me on the wrist. Stating that I had sent questionable material to men. This was a lie. I closed on my account and will never use it again. Anyone thinking of coming to this app beware, they treat you like your toddlers. We are adults here and any conversations should be treated as such. There was nothing I ever sent these men ever. That was questionable in any way shape or form. Two men and I broke away from the app to start texting with our own phone numbers. Never once has anyone ever sent me an email such as this. I believe one of the men felt slighted. Or they monitor everything you say and make a judgment call. I'm embarrassed and angry. I will never ever use our time again. Think twice before you join.

Date of experience: January 16, 2024

Overview

OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 440 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.

service
113
value
125
shipping
31
returns
42
quality
103