I disagree with any reviews suggesting that it's not working, Yes it works but you really need to be honest,No lies, No Old photos, No untrue personal details. It's natural for a site full of ( not every member but yes there are members otherwise no one would have left a review) 50 plus females who are assuming they are God's gift and all the male members are Creeps and Weirdos. Unfortunately if this is how you see people of the opposite sex then you are doomed to fail. There are admittedly Creeps Unsuitable and Not Genuine males making so many unethical suggestions to female users which is nasty and unfair on a genuine Person which makes life very hard for the genuine males. How people are matching is another issue,Instead of looking at a person's Profile for likes dislikes and matching criteria if you are just look at a Photo that's left from 1999 when the Member was in her or his late 30s then you are also wrong because you are not looking for a partner and you are stuck in a Time Warp. I VISIT ALMOST ALL DATING SITES WITH A REAL PROFILE AND A GENUINE PHOTO to Review them online to help the others. I received almost 60 likes 3000 reviews and CHATTED AT LEAST 10 on a Video Call and Dated 3 very pleasant Ladies. I made up excuses and didn't carry on despite I could have had a proper connection with every single one of them. So no reason anyone else shouldn't. PEOPLE ARE NOT HONEST WITH THEIR PROFILES,YES THE MEMBERSHIP FEE IS WAY TOO EXPENSIVE and Unfortunately Members make mistakes while cancelling their subscriptions. Follow the HELP option and yes you can cancel and no one can claim anymore money. REMOVE THE SUBSCRIPTION 14 days into the membership and no issues.

In terms of Members firstly yes plenty of Fake Profiles just like all Dating sites but majority are real people MISREPRESENT themselves. The trend is Putting a 10 yrs old Photo and Big yourself up like MY FRIENDS TELL ME...Then when go on a date and both feel cheated. Be Honest Be Real.

Admin are terrible by the way,Female members are receiving inundated inappropriate messages and no filtering whatsoever to protect Members. AS A MALE I had contact from Females asking if my Male Parts are still working.

But all in all its full of People who assume they are still gorgeous and Brad Pitt or George Clooney will be amongst the male members and Disappointment is inevitable. And STOP POSTING all fancy stuff,Walking alone on a beach, stop accusing males with being a Creep.YOU WERE LIVING WITH A CREEP FOR 30 YEARS AND HAD CHILDREN FROM HIM...My Hidden Talent is Attracting Weirdos,Sorry but if you keep attracting those it's about time that you checked the mirror.

Personally,It works if you make it work but no Admin control,No filtering, No protection of Members and NOT CHEAP.

Avoid...

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Ive signed up on or around January 2018. I thought this is a legimate dating site for mature folks, but turned out that after a couple of months it turned out to be a hacker network. The first month, I talked to a few guys and met with two but did seem to have a strong connection, so I decided to continue on my search sometime in mid March 2018. I exchanged my information with a couple of guys (I call them guys because they dont deserve a title of man). They asked me to exchange like pictures, phone numbers and email because I thought it was a legitimate connection because they send me pictures of their family with them in it. I assumed they hacked it some where. I wasted my entire month with one dude who gave me a sad story about how how his wife had passed due to cancer and he is a single dad. We exchanged 8-10 emails for two weeks and he expressed how he is so in love with me because I have a good heart. He told me he is a government contractor etc... However as time passed by, I detected that his image, his career and story did not matched. So I asked him to call me, at first he let me talk to a child with an accent of a Caucasian voice, but when he talked to me, he had an UK African accent, yet he told me he was a Caucasian European race. After I confronted him, the next day I received another message from another user with similar story. I thought maybe I had one bad experience with one guy so i moved on and gave it another chance. Again, I exchanged phone and email with him. At first he sounded sweet and legit, then when I received an email from him, I notice the stories was similar to the other guy and the verbiage was identical. Plus the story dont match what he had told me initially, so I blocked him from my phone and email. I contacted ourtime customer service and told him about the events. I told them that their website is not secured and Im concerned because now they may use my pictures to harm other innocent users, but they didnt care much. They told me all they can do is help me change my username and place it in a security setting or hide my profile. So, I thought changed my username may stop the previous scammers to contact me. Well, it didnt stop, because situation got worse. I came across one decent man and as we exchanged conversation and about to talk over the phone; he contacted me and said I created a fake profile and that I should not waste my time contacting him again. I felt so humiliated and decided to sent him a message to warn him about the situation, but I guess he blocked me. Im done with Ourtime and call it quit. Do not get on Ourtime and waste your money, time and emotional turmoil dealing with these scammers and unnecessary stress. This dating site should be investigated.

OurTime is NO different than any other "dating" site. Fact is, it's owned by the same bunch of crooks who own Match!

I'm a decent-looking 70 yr old man who lives about 110 miles West of Chicago. Along with the usual bs that goes along with dating websites: Not allowing you to select a race, weight group, or distance, the site continually sends you profiles of your same gender, (which are obviously hacked profiles). But the most annoying thing about the site is that you can't select particular ages and can only select from ONE group of ages.

And, like all women on these sites they all $#*! and whine about you being "too far away from them"! As far as they know you could own a Lear jet, but the answer is always the same - Gee, you're too far from me"! What they should be concerned about is that fact that most of them have 2 dogs, three cats and work either two jobs, or until 6pm at one job, so they couldn't go out with you if they wanted to!

Then they say in their profiles that they "miss the company of a man"! Yeah right!

Fact:
1. If you get blocked by a member, a search for her will NOT show he profile.
2. If you blocks her, her profile will not show up... until you go to your "account" and unblock her.
3. If her time/money runs out, a search for he profile will not show up.
4... and most importantly... Women on ALL dating sites are looking for ONE thing - a free meal. And don't you EVER forget it. Their mothers told them YEARS ago the value of that furry little thing between their legs, and don't you EVER forget that they see $$dollar$$ signs in every one of our photos! Love might be on YOUR mind but it's the "$$$" that they're looking at!

If you meet a woman over the Internet tell her that the 1st meal is "dutch". If all goes well, then it's up to you on bill payment, but don't ever forget that women now days (young AND old) are ALL determined to take your Almighty dollar! They didn't get that $400,000 pad in the 'burbs' by working their butts off - they got it by taking it away from their ex! The next time I have the inclination to send one of those gold diggers some roses I'm going to send her a photograph of them!

Yeah, yeah ladies, I know - this "truth" thing burns like a torch, doesn't it?

UPDATE! After being on OPurTime for 4 months and having one date that can only be called the date from hell, I had 9 days left when all of a sudden I was inundated with "matches" and emails from OurTime!. In the 4 moths I was on it MIGHT have gotten 2 or 3 responses a week, then as my time was running out I get barraged with 14-15 a DAY! Gee whiz, ya' suppose OurTime sends us phony profiles? Naww... it can; t be true, CAN it?!

Having know scuess trying to log on

After being single for the past 7 years (and now I know why) I decided to try Our Time, having heard some positive things about it. I got lots of interesting men responding but a man named Kirit (profile usrock1234) caught my eye and also initiated contact with me. He seemed genuinely nice so I gave him my cell phone. He began texting me and insisted that we meet this Sunday. I told him I was working all day, meaning a full 8 hour shift, but would finish 12:30 p.m. He said that's NOT all day and his ensuing messages were arguing about semantics. He said that I "should have" just said I finish 12:30 and that we could have avoided any problems. I'm a big girl and don't need anyone telling me what I should have done. I was raised to be eternally polite and gracious so I didn't respond. This is when his messages became ominous and taunting, borderline psychotic, so I blocked him on Our Time. He then inundated me with cell phone texts that inspired so much fear and apprehension that I had to change my phone number. I cannot endanger myself or my family by creeps and losers like this and I have informed Our Time about this ghastly, unfortunate (to put it mildly) experience. DO NOT APPROACH THIS MAN ON OUR TIME OR ANY OTHER WEBSITE, HE IS EVIL AND MENTALLY ILL. I sincerely believe Our Time and all reputable dating websites needs to have a vetting process in place. But I guess they wouldn't make any money then. An ironic footnote to all this is that there were other men interested in me, who could have been normal people but after my encounter with Kirit I deleted everyone so I'll never know. If this is what I have to go through, I will happily spend the rest of my life alone. Lesson learned.

Having seen a boatload of commercials for this dating website I assumed that it was for people that were more mature 40-50+. It has also become a place where the younger guys are here trying to pick up older women. I decided to give it a try and I wasnt impressed with a lot of the replies I've gotten some of the guys are looking for women they can be sexual with and many do not read the responses they give since some of them are grammatically incorrect and they sound immature. Some of the older men here are also seemingly shallow they want those very young girls just to see if they still got it going on. Some of them don't have it all together in terms of personality and mentality. The sad thing is that many of them don't show their photos, but will like your picture which doesnt help if you're trying to know who's the person on the other end of the computer. We also have to keep in mind that this is the internet and people will lie so be wary of men who come here because a lot of them are married and looking for dates. It doesnt help women who come here under the impression they're here to meet single and available men. Many women are often times rejected by not getting a reply if they've reached out and sent a message to a potential date. Our Time needs to revamp their site by allowing people to pick their preferences in terms of dates and also consider redirecting the 20s and 30s crowd to age appropriate dating websites since I am not interested in dating guys much younger than me. I would get a ton of messages from guys who were pretty unattractive and the attractive ones wouldn't even bother responding. Who has time for these lame $#*! games especially if you're 40+ and I keep thinking they're messing with people's profiles where it gives very little information about the person and you think you're meeting a nice and available person turns out to be a superficial and shallow jerk that does not even have the respectability to even send a reply back saying they're interested or not. It's hard enough to try and find a date without someone playing games or just acting like a complete $#*! towards someone especially since it seems the outside is more valued than the inside and moreover this site appeals to men more than women which makes it one giant matured meat market. I am better than some of these guys who come here looking for dates since I have more integrity and maturity than to deal with some man who's not really up to snuff and isnt ready for actual dating.

If you forget your password THERE IS NO WAY TO GET IN YOUR ACCOUNT!