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Illinois
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Age Requirements
August 27, 2024

There are some members on this site who are under 50. Ran across a few in their 30s. This site promotes for members 50 and over. Need to filter out the ones who don't meet age requirements.

Date of experience: August 27, 2024
New York
1 review
22 helpful votes
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A lot of Profiles are fake, made by people who get paid to create profiles.
All they do is take your money and offer you other apps they say to help you be more successful but it's so they can get more money out of you.
There are real people on here.
But a lot of them live in another state.
And the real ones that are on there
I'm not really too interested in. They don't have a good selection
If I were you I would stay with the top five rated take a chance with them instead

Date of experience: March 5, 2021
New Jersey
1 review
8 helpful votes
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This Site is pure scam!
September 25, 2021

This site is a scam. I have watched over the months how I will be bombarded with messages until I enroll and then all of a sudden the messages stop. I have also seen profile pictures continually change. I had one profile picture that was supposedly a "match" transform from an African American male to a white male. Whoever is orchestrating this site to rip people off should be reported.

Date of experience: September 25, 2021
South Dakota
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I have been a member for 3 days and still can't get a password. They sure are fast at taking your first payment though. My question is how does the Better Business Bureau allow these rip-offs to stay in business?

Date of experience: October 11, 2023
GB
1 review
14 helpful votes
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A waste of time
May 21, 2022

Many fake profiles, and the ones that are not rarely respond. Why? Ourtime try to rope you in with extra expenses like they can make your profile more visible if you pay them extra, which I'm sure is illegal because they dont tell you this feature BEFORE you sign up. Total waste of time.

Date of experience: May 21, 2022
Rhode Island
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Worst site ever!
May 7, 2016

This is the worst site ever, so much advertising and scripts running. Its worse than the free sites. Changing screens feels like you have dial up. If you use your phone it constantly crashes. Constant interruptions for upgrades, more premium services, it just SUCKS, horrible!

Date of experience: May 7, 2016
Nevada
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Total scam
December 19, 2021

You believe your signing up for one month and when you look at your bank statement OurTime has taken out a six month subscription fee…good luck getting it back. More fake profiles than real ones. I found a friend's profile that was canceled three years ago. Stay clear of Our Time.

Date of experience: December 19, 2021
Sweden
2 reviews
29 helpful votes
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Daily shuffle
February 1, 2020

As a subscriber Ourtime.com you get 100 profile suggestions/day.
- I daily discover so called scammer/misused pictures
- Over manipulated pictures with fake backgrounds, oversized upper arms, enlarged hands. Too obvious
- Pictures with under aged children
- Too many profiles have no picture, visiting your profile even sends a like to you
- For an additional fee you can browse other profiles incognito
On their web site is says: "Verified profiles"!

In the end of the day I wonder I pay for. All my contact with their customer service has worked well.

Date of experience: February 1, 2020
Massachusetts
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Horrible site
January 29, 2016

Joined in January. Most of the profiles don; t have pictures and/pr profiles written. I have got "interest " for no one local, have gotten inappropriate messages. Is nothing like what the commercials represent. Wish I had seen reviews prior to joining. Would NOT recommend this site to anyone- it's absolutely horrible. And they do not give refunds if you cancel your subscription - again wish I had looked into that.

Date of experience: January 29, 2016
New York
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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I tried to check out Hinge and was automatically directed to this site I guess because of my age. I remembered not having a good experience once before, but decided to try it again. Nothing has changed! I've tried many x's to "delete selected" people I'm not interested in and they won't go away - do I really need to block them? Unsophisticated filter options. Limited profile information - where is there age and where they live when they message you? If you click on their message and then click on "profile," you cannot get back to the message without completely exiting out and starting over. Seem to be a lot of spambot profiles. I only signed up for one mo b/c of my bad experience last time and I won't be signing up again.

Date of experience: December 31, 2022
Virginia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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SCAMMERS
November 8, 2021

Beware - this site is loaded with scammers. I don't see that they do anything to verify members are real. Look out for those with heavy accents, fall madly in love with you quickly, say they travel internationally, never meet and of course eventually ask for money. I've had 3 send me to their fake "I own this company" website. I will not be extending my membership. Customer service didn't respond to my emails asking what they do to verify the member is real.

Date of experience: November 8, 2021
Illinois
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Rip off!
March 13, 2016

Rip off!
I cancelled my auto renewal and they decided to renew it anyway! Bull $#*! I say! They send all these fake likes right before and after your renewal date and when you cancel they then a window pops up for a cheaper rate. I hate getting ripped off! Used to be mush better. Also, there is about twenty of sites owned by the same media company!

Date of experience: March 13, 2016
Florida
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I have absolutely nothing nice to say - men don't use their real names in profile. Not a good start. Some seem desperate to meet right away and others just want to be pen pals. I had one conversation with a guy that was terrible! The majority of men on this site were nobody I would ever want to meet. Ugh! If they are semi-attractive, they want a woman 10 years younger. The site is useless! What you can write about what is limited, can't see the competition, and the matches sent to me were terrible. I said Bachelor Degree or higher and they sent High School for education. They need to have videos of people to see as well. Selection of single men impossible and mostly gross. They force you into a 3 month subscription when 30 days was way long enough to know I am never going to meet the kind of guy I am looking for on this site. My guess is there are no good dating sites out there. My dog is a much better dinner date so I shall go with that for now.

Date of experience: June 17, 2023
California
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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I was flagged for saying "No drug use" because I used the word "drug". Since I was flagged once, I'm no longer allowed to have a completed profile.
I have been emailing back and forth with CS (after 2 weeks of trying to get a live person) and after several emails, I still haven't been told how to correct this issue, only that I was in the wrong. Why would anyone pay over $100 for this aggravation?
Save your time, save your money, if you want to meet someone, join a meetup.com group! They're free, fun & have no cat fishers as you're actually meeting people in person with your same interests.

Date of experience: February 22, 2017
GB
1 review
10 helpful votes
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To cancel Ourtime payment phone fraud department at your bank explain your problems with site, financial not emotional, and ask them to block any further debits from Ourtime. This they will do. I signed for 1 month which is a contract in itself. They took another £9.99 no idea why and without my authority. I could never get online. Funny the cancellation website worked gir another £27. Get real. I deleted details and phoned my bank. They will scream but they can't get my money. If they sue I will fight it and make counter claim for breach of contract in site failure. My interaction should be recorded.

Date of experience: August 18, 2023
Texas
1 review
5 helpful votes
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FRAUD
December 1, 2022

I regularly get notification that someone "likes" me, only to discover they never contacted me! The first few times, I bought into it and replied with a statement or question, but none responded. Why would you "like" someone and not respond when they speak? This is FRAUD!

Date of experience: December 1, 2022
Massachusetts
2 reviews
20 helpful votes
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Every man on the site looks like they have just been released from a maximum security facility. Tons of fake profiles and men sending long messages to scam you at every turn. This site is horrid. So glad I only signed up for a month! I haven't met one decent man here yet. People should NOT be allowed to create a profile until they COMPLETE every section.If you go to the chat, it looks like a hundred men are on there but if you click on someone, it shows they haven't been on the site for awhile. So very strange! Bottom line, save your money. Going to try EHarmony. Expensive but likely more worth the time & effort!

Date of experience: June 26, 2019
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Waste of Money
July 1, 2019

Site is filled with fake profiles and guys pushing to get personal information. Also, filters don't work; keep getting smokers, women and people outside the age range I set.

Go to the Bar. It's more effective.

Date of experience: July 1, 2019
Oregon
4 reviews
35 helpful votes
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I joined Ourtime, but when my initial billing period was up, it was impossible for me to turn off the auto renew. I wrote to the company who has no human customer service reps, only bots. I challenged the billing from my bank, the bank dropped the charges 3 times. On the third time I re filled out my profile using rather vulgar and false information. They finally closed my account. So I now have no proof of purchase. This site is run by people with no business ethics, no integrity and quite simply put, crooks who only want your money and make it impossible for you to cancel.

Date of experience: August 19, 2022
Nevada
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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User friendly JOKE
January 13, 2016

Started a free subscription in May 2015 and then went inactive one week later following website rules. When I reapplied 8 months later for a paid subscription I found 50 + emails to me. At no time was I informed by the website of these contacts and this is very poor customer service and complete rudeness to all the parties involved. No phone number to contact OT. Don't waste your money on such a poorly run website for dating purposes.

Date of experience: January 13, 2016

Overview

OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 440 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.

service
113
value
125
shipping
31
returns
42
quality
103