J4L

It's an international FBI communists corrupt ring of people in ukraine and Russia, do not spend, go to the bar instead.

Hi guys,

Contact your credit card company and ask for refund. Inform them that J4L is a fraud site. I got my money back, hope you too.

Cheers

The only thing you will meet with, is your own disgust.

To think people can say something good about a site so fraudulent, is to say the very same people saying good about it are just as enveloped in the fraud.

YOU ARE TALKING TO A BOT WITH AN IMAGE OF A GIRL 100 % OF THE TIME.

Do you really think receiving 2000 messages in two days is at all possible without the help of BOTS?

Go sign up free at no cost, pick some favorites, and see what happens in a matter of days!

You will be sent plenty of robo emails from supposed profiles as the letters are so generic and filled with the fuzziest gibberish a pair of eyes could ever read.

The women of these images have NOT the Slightest clue about you, believe me, even if you are foolish enough to buy credits when you message the profile there images are associated with. In other words,

YOU ARE TALKING TO A BOT WITH AN IMAGE OF A GIRL 100 % OF THE TIME.

You might as well post an image of your favorite model on your desktop and talk to it at no cost.

Ok, here is the test, create a profile, and upload a picture of the most hideous old man you can find, as you write about yourself in your profile of being infected with every STD a man could contract, and that you are also a deadbeat, rapist, and AXE murderer, and guess what, you will yet have no trouble at all receiving a torrential overflow of robo love messages from hundreds to thousands of profiles.

Oh and please J4L, spare me your BS apologies, because that is what they exactly are, and beware people are going to go to the length to get you shut down if they can.

I enjoy posting reviews on those scammers. J4L.com is just another site that exists with one thing in mind... robbing you and doing it legally. Like many other sites, they openly admit in their "term of use" that they do not verify the women on the site and that they allow a "Service" company to supply pictures and information about the women AND they are allowed to write you as well. The women on this site are just tools for sites to make money... nothing more. Just yesterday, I tested them using the same pictures I used on another site which is serviced by the same supplier. The only difference is that I used a different first name. I have been on another site for about 6 weeks and left the computer on 24 hours a day while logged in on that site. Literally thousands of letters from models which of course proves at that point that it is only a scamming site. I was logged on J4L and another site at the same time looking for the same women and sure enough, they were on both sites. The same women were writing me and both letters were the exact same ones. In fact, those are pre-written letters with the "insert name" in them. Yes, they make mistakes from time to time and forget to put your name in the "insert name" area.

Let me make it easy for you guys. ANY SITE where once registered, you received tons of letters from women more than half your age are scamming sites! If you have a face that only a mother can love and have models constantly trying to get you to write back, it's a scamming site. Simple, isn't?

Those in here stating that the site is ok, good or great, are either working for them or so easily fooled.

Listen, there are a few free Russian dating sites and one that you pay for the service available to all. If you join them, you will quickly notice that NO ONE will write you and if one will, she will not be a beauty.

If you send money to this site after reading this, you deserve to be scammed.

I have been on this site since April and had a variety of experiences, although none of them positive beyond some enjoyable conversations. This site is designed to generate revenue. And it is not alone in that. I suggest that you capture profile images from any of the women and reverse image them using the website pimeyes.com. You will see the identical profile photos in several sites, so the they are casting a wide net here. I have been helping a young woman claiming to be in Ukraine with her work situation. When I scanned her photos in Yandex, I discovered the images were taken from a social media site and the imaged person is actually in another country at the moment and not responsible for the content on j4l. Thus this profile is the front for a catfish. Now, why read the Risk Notice? 1. the site states that you may not be talking with the person who you think you are, that is the person in the profile. They use the excuse of translators, but that is just a cover. 2. while the site offers camera content of the women in chat mode, the site states that it is possible that the videos are pre-recorded, something they claim they cannot control or discern. That being the case then, it is also possible that during chat time, you are still communicating with someone other than the person in the profile. And 3. Most important is the site's admission that revenue sharing is provided as an incentive to generate more income for the site. Thus it is in the women's best interest to keep conversations going. For some, it took several weeks for them to stop writing to me after I had dropped them from my letters. Since I have been deceived already by more than one woman on this site, it is impossible to believe that any of them are sincere. They persist in their requests for real meetings, but I have found that most will not share their contact information, and if they do, they seem unable to communicate with you for one reason or another using any apps such as Telegram or WhatsApp. And of course, the phone number provided is never already part of an account on any of these apps. Still, I feel sad for the women on the site. I think for many it may be their only source of income during the war, since many are unemployed at the moment. So if you enjoy having pleasant chats with someone who may or may not be the person in the profile, go ahead and support the Ukraine economy.

I am an American living in Kyiv. I moved here since I can work remotely, and to be with my Ukrainian girlfriend who I met on another site. But as soon as I moved here we broke up.

So I gave j4l a try. I was on the site for a month, and only communicated with women in the Kyiv area.
Despite many women saying how interested they were in me how much they wanted to meet me, absolutely ZERO of the women would actually commit to a meeting. They were sick, they wanted to go slow, their family was sick.

I would get passive aggressive letters that seemed to be written by different people. Some demanded immediate responses to letters, others then saying how much they wanted me. Like all these sites the women get a cut of the money you spend, so they have every incentive to lead you along and some letters may be written by their marriage agencies and others by the ladies (it is typical on many sites, I cannot say for sure this is the case with J4L but the tones of letters were very strange and inconsistent).

I seemingly almost had a date with a woman whose profile said she was a doctor, but then she got sick at the last minute. I did an image search of her, and found her profile on another site, which said she was a lawyer. I pointed this out to her, she said, "Did you consider I might have two degrees?"

I responded the sites said Doctor then Lawyer was your profession, and do you really have two degrees and what is your profession? She did not answer the question and stopped writing to me.

Note that not all dating sites have searchable images so just because they do not show up in an image search does not mean they are not on other sites.

I also did an image search on another lady and found her on 6 different sites. This is a job for many of them. Usually the cut is 10% of everything you spend on such sites. The business model encourages them to lead men on, and not actually date.

On the other hand, I have chatted for 5 minutes with ladies on Tinder and gotten dates within days. Last week I joined another site I had used in the US, I immediately found three women who wanted to meet on Valentines day. I met with the one woman who committed to a specific date first, and she was absolutely amazing. Smart, confident, sweet, gorgeous. Excellent English, she was impressed with me as I with her. And I have another date tomorrow with another lady from the same site but I am optimistic about the lady I met today.

How come on J4L I can't get a woman to meet with me after a month, but on other sites I get dates within days?

The woman nag for instant responses to letters, get petulant if you do not respond every day, do not answer direct questions, and constantly act passive aggressive.

I have asked my account to be deleted, I told a few of the "ladies" why I was leaving, I will be curious to see how long it takes to delete my account.

The site is for entertainment and draining your wallet value only.

I just want to point out, to anyone who finds this, that if you pay attention to all the 4 and 5 star reviews for this dating site, you'll spot a pattern. This is especially obvious with the profiles that have, exactly, "2 reviews". One of those reviews is for J4L, and how great it is (4 or 5 stars), and the second review is for Plenty of Fish (POF), or other rival dating site, and how horrible it is (1 or 2 stars).

It gets even more obvious when you actually read those 1-2 star reviews. They are literally the same arguments, just with slightly different words. It's all about how women on those sites are low quality and how men shouldn't waste their time there. Some of those reviews even go as far as to include referral links to J4L as "a much better alternative, where women who respect men and are far more beautiful can be found" (or some variation of these words). To be fair, when reported, moderators seem to delete those links, but somehow the massive amount of fake reviews continues, even though I'm pretty sure it's against the rules to do this type of thing. I'm going to assume SiteJabber is simply unable to prove these people are affiliated with J4L (use of VPN, maybe?).

Listen, I have no doubt that East European women are, on average, better looking, and better wives, than most others, but that's not the point. The point is that, apparently, people with a vested interest in this website (J4L) are using multiple accounts, and abusing SiteJabber permeable system, to boost their site's reputation while lowering the competition. That's just scummy behaviour.

I don't like POF (or any of the free sites out there), but if your site is really that good, why do you need to resort to dirty tactics? Why can't the "5-star" service speak for itself?

The rabbit hole gets deeper, though. For instance, they also create "review" sites where they rank themselves number 1 (or, at least, within top 5, together with sister sites that are run by the same people), in the hope that if you search for "J4L review" or "J4L scam", the sites that appear are theirs and, of course, they always reassure that these sites are legit. You'll recognise these sites by how they always have a recent date on the title (like "Updated January 2020"). This is, of course, to lure people who are looking for the freshest information.

Don't just take my word for it. Do your research and you should find out as much, if not more, about these people are really working. It's not just J4L either. Look at the dating sites "recommended" on those fake review sites to see the long list of scamming dating sites which are using this tactic.

Also, please don't be shy to post about this information on your own reviews because I'm sure they'll bury THIS review with dozens of "new" 5-star fake ones, so very few people will have the opportunity to read this.