J4L

When you add more credits. All of a sudden you get hundreds of new emails. Well. A LOT. Like they want you to add credits. And the women send emails as soon as you add money to the site... think about this.? What is going on? Women who won't give you their personal email or info... they say it is not possible to get a free email... what is this

They know the psychology of males, so they designed the site to lure males. All the profiles are fraud and fake. They are looting males. Ladies write you many letters and you are offered to discount price but once you start purchasing the credits all the discounts vanish and they charge you double.

I wrote here now nearly 3 years and lost a lot of money for tricky girls and sitesupport. A lot of invitations for chats and tricks to generate income for this site by a lot of girls. I meet 2 girls last year in Kyiw and invited them for dinner and also did not get there phonenumber, or number was not reachable, phone broken (happened many times with some girls) or other tricky reasons.
I meet some local people in Kyiw and they explained me that this happened often with this site.
I also meet a girl there without this site,
This site is generating money by tricks of the girls and also there support.
Better go to other, more serious sites.

I had been talking for a year with a woman whom I considered my girlfriend on the other site until I found her profile on J4L, and she didn't know who I was. What was my surprise when I saw her on video on J4L! I have never seen her on camera on Anastasiadate. It turned out that I had been chatting with a fake there, the real person turned out to be on j4l, now I trust j4l, because they make sure their ladies are available for video chat - this helps to prevent scam.

So I spent enough money to get a girls contact info ~280$ over 3 weeks of chatting. During this time there was a few red flags. She did not want to video chat cuz she had no makeup on, she didn't have any pics of her parents and her, in one of her letters she stated she knew I was off work one day when I was not and never told her I was, finally she told me to call her so I did call her on the phone she did answer and I asked if it was her she said yes but she couldn't talk at the moment. I asked why. She said she can't right now. No real answer. I asked again why can't u talk she replied I already explained it. I then replied really? She said yes. I said ok goodbye. I then texted her and she has not replied. So she tells me to call her over the website then when she answers she can't talk. Lol wth! All those steamy letters and I love you. Well at least I only blew 280 dollars and not thousands. I'm out and I will never do that again. If I decide to try again I will use a reputable matchmaking service.

Guys be warned its a total scam...
The positive reviews here are written by agents of J4L.
These woman are getting payed to rip us off in chat and letters.
I, m going to provide you with a woman who, s a total scammer:
Khrystyna 21 Lviv User ID *******.
She, s on every dating site possible.
On 1-love-for-you and sister sites her User ID *******...
On some sites she, s a nurse on other a economist... she is a professional scammer.
Talked to her for a few months loads of promisses... never lived up to any.
Be carefull don, t even open her chat invite or letter.
Operates 2 mobile numbers.

Women on site are very loyal to the site... they get commission from the activity they create! In a couple of days you will get at least 500 women writing to you repeatedly even if you just ignore them.
For Gods sake run a google search on the pictures and know who they are before you chat with them... use facebook and social media to locate them via the google search and while chating ask some questions on the facts you have found out... Do a reality check!
Now that said... some of the models are actually real... they have no intension of ever meeting you... they are just having a nice second income working for J4L.com.
Be carefull out there!

Chat to a girl back and forth for ten minutes, cost you 30 Euro! No actual place on site to find out what you are being charged. Cant find schedule of fees. Then it claims it is better than a monthly membership as you are only charged for what you use. Bahahahahahaha. A monthly fee wouldnt be as expesnive as 30 Euro to chat to a super model for 10 minutes. Then you look at how to get contact details to chat off site. It actually says it patrols chats to make sure contact info is not being exchanged. To protect the girl. Oh hahahahaha. To protect the sites profits more like. There is a button to ask for girls contact details, that costs you 20 credits! And then they say they will scan your messages to make sure you are not a scammer before they provide you the details. Sounds like garbage, they are not going to allow you to chat off site. This site is daylight robbery, only ugly billionaires should use it - daylight robbery!

Designed to disappoint! As a battle-scared, 3 year participant, I have become wiser ( and poorer). There are 2 methods to obtain the lady's email address and leave these vultures - send an overpriced gift to which you can attach your email, or send 15 relatively expensive letters ( about $100 - depending on your level of "investment") But the letter route does not get you her email - you only receive her mailing address ( who needs it?), and her phone number. You call the number multiple times and never connect - even to an answering machine. You complain to Support but they say they don't have her email - only the local office where she first registered does. They offer to send your email to that office for the lady to pick up but I have never had success with this. Question - after spending over $100, why can't J4L have her address on file and cut the BS? They have raised their prices twice this year which makes them one of the most expensive online services. And recently, it became impossible to send the cheaper, 1 minute message to the ladies I had already sent the 15 letters to, so that the only way to continue was with the more expensive letter at $6-7 each. I have spent hundreds, and have nothing to show for it! The Support feature used to be very good but has declined in the past year, IMO.

J4L is a complete fraud. The letters you receive are fake. I deleted all my photos and nearly all my profile information. I also changed other profile information like my age to 78 and weight to nearly 300 pounds at a fake 5'6" height and continued receive letters. What real lady writes letters to a profile like that with no photos? This fake money hungry site does with bots.
Lastly, I did a video chat with a woman who didn't look like her photos. She just sat looking into the screen while periodically fake smiling. She only looked down at the keyboard maybe twice during that 40 minute video chat. That means she posed for the camera as some guy or lady typed back and forth with me. That was the only video chat I ever did on the site. I was convinced then that the site was a money hungry fake site.
I have given you examples of why to stay away from that site J4L. You have been warned not to waste your time or money. They only got a small amount of money out of me before I quickly figured the fake site out.

J4L has a ton of profiles featuring lots of beautiful women. The instant you create a profile and purchase credits you will receive tons of letters. Sometimes 20 or 30 a day. In no time you will have over 1000 letters in your inbox. But the letters stop when you are out of credits. As soon as you buy more credits the letters come pouring in again. And all these girls claim that the only way to communicate is through this site (red flag). They will tell you that their computer is old or the wifi is bad or that they need a new phone and sim card to get you to stay on the site and keep feeding the meter, aka buying more credits. If you tell them that you can both use WhatsApp or Viber to communicate for free, they act like this technology is beyond their comprehension or they don't know how to download apps to their smartphone (red flag)
And this site relies on translators of your letters. And they review and delete content from your letters. If you try and give a girl your phone number or even an email address, the site will block or delete this content. And there's no way of knowing if the girl you're writing a letter to is the one that's writing you back. Since they use different translators, who get paid btw, you and a girl will be having a discussion in your letters to each other, but then the next day this same girl has no recollection of the previous conversation. It's like your speaking with two different people (red flag). This site is a money pit. Save yours and don't believe the hype

I have communicated with Lina Rudenko for two years and after I arrived in UKRAINE and being here more than a year she still sends me messages on the site, making promises off wanting to see me... It's all lies because I eventually met Lina in real life and she told me not to communicate on the site but personally as the site use translators which drain you for money... J4L and datingtomarriage belong to the same people. Stay away, I am living in UKRAINE and it's a big scam, both these sites... Jay..

Site with fake women profiles. You won't chat with real women on it, only with bots or with men who manage plenty of women accounts in the chat rooms. Be careful

Guys, guys, guys... How can anyone of us be so stupid to spend a sent on this site? Or any of these paying dating sites
95% of the girls are scammimg us. I think they are getting payed by these sites or by their agents to keep us chatting and writing letters. I maybe wrong but again I am 95% sure.
Be Aware for the following girls J4L I.D. ******* Liliya 27 years old from Dnepropetrovsk. She is all over the internet. Written hundreds of letters to her never could get any newly taken pic from her... neither any contact details.Her pictures are as old as 4 years. Seen one picture from her being on the internet since a few years back.
Another girl to watch out is. Daria 30 years old from Kiev a "Accountant" on J4L I. D *******. Devorced with a boy.On another site she, s a "Plastic surgeon", no children and living in Dnepropetrovsk...
Guys, save yourself a lot money and time... get a girl from your own town or country... Seems to me 95% of all Ukrainian girls are professional liars and scammers..

Like so many international video enabled dating sites it pays its girls to talk to you. If you get a good one you might even get a peep show. Why they do this, the amount of money they can make off of you. Here is their ad on VK to hire 'translators.' Easy enough to find if you have VK account, or just use a translation app if you do not know Russian. So you tell me if you still think that at 19, 20, 21 year old girl is hot and bothered for a 63 year old man, if you get my meaning. I have a few friends that work at these sites, most of them say the same thing, they would not touch or date a foreign man after their experiences working for these sites. The women are not fakes in the sense of a fat man at a computer somewhere. No most are college students. Most do not have children. And despite the easy of finding social media accounts, most that do have relationships are taught how to cover those up just in case her victim, err, date, is curious and starts looking for her online. They are also instructed not to talk to you outside of the site, or if you buy/earn her contact, to drag you back to the site. Her explanation is that she only has internet at the agency, her computer is on loan from the agency, she just does not have time right now - there are a few more that some of the ladies have mentioned. I personally have made friends from some of these ladies (most from networking on VK) and the stories they tell are disgusting, funny and scary. Note the money they make from the sites is enough to buy a computer in a short time. My favorite source does tell me that all the girls are paid at least a commission, at least for the company she works for.

This is one of the best dating websites I have ever tried. I had decided to give it a try after browsing around for a few minutes. I bought some credits to be able to chat, updated my profile, and uploaded my picture etc. Then within those few minutes of updating my profile I had found several really beautiful and sexy women and with the small confidence I had I started a chat with 1 of them. At first she was very friendly, as we started chatting we started getting along with each other. As more time had went by she had me thinking she is definitely the one for me, we had a lot of things in common and I had a really good time talking to her. She obviously was on the website doing the exact same thing as me and looking for boyfriend/husband. Now don't get me wrong there are a lot of beautiful and sexy girls on here and they are actually authentic based on the few conversations that I tried to have with various girls. Now compared to the other websites I had tried which were definitely scams compared to J4L which is definitely the opposite of a fake dating website. Best dating website in my scenario with so much to do. I highly recommend any new users who want to try to follow my advice and you will most likely have the same results as me. First of all you upload your picture, 2nd of all you update your profile, 3rd of all you find the girls that are online. I thank the creators of this website for helping me find my very beautiful girlfriend within a hour and also for the confidence boost :).