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Netherlands
1 review
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J4L has always been the most serious and reputable of all Ukrainian dating sites. I used it more than a year ago and I met my girlfriend from Odessa there. The site is still keeping the great work, guys. I found out that they are helping Ukrainian army a lot. They send thousands of bulletproof vests and helmets to Ukrainian soldiers. They don't just care about making profit. The site is run by honest people. You can trust it and its ladies.

Date of experience: April 27, 2023
Luxembourg
1 review
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I have been using quite many dating sites: some of them turned out to be outright scam, others were more or less genuine. But this time I was trying to find a more chill alternative. So I gave this site a try.
Well I was quite impressed. It has a very decent-sized user base. If you use search engine in the right way I guarantee you will arrange a date within a few weeks of joining if you know your manners of course and if you can choose a good picture of yourself.

Date of experience: December 7, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
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I wish it was cheaper but if you're looking to open up the opportunity for a more serious relationship I'm sure you will like this site. The majority of the women pursue a serious relationship and they are ready to work towards it. What I like is they don't beat around the bush. So if you're looking for real results be sure to give it a try because they do produce real results. It may take a bit longer than you think but in any case it's easier and faster than on the other sites I tried previously. Although I get many chat requests I usually stick to emails and it works pretty well. Exchanging messages is not that expensive so I don't have to spend a lot.

Date of experience: August 25, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I finally met someone compatible on this site. Maybe it's too early to say yet but for now I'm very happy with her. I haven't met her offline yet, but hopefully I will do it pretty soon. We keep in everyday contact on WhatsApp and Skype. I confirm that you can meet many real girls on this site. It may look a little archaic and old-fashioned but the content is great and the quality is high especially if you support traditional family values

Date of experience: September 29, 2022
Netherlands
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Good idea, great concept and brilliant execution! I'm pretty familiar with many dating sites and I know for a fact this is one of the best ones as far as genuineness and actuality of profiles are concerned. Not all of the women are absolutely serious. There is no guarantee that you can just go online, pick up any girl and make her your g/f or wife, you still have to be a gentleman and you still have to court her and win her heart. But they are so beautiful, stunning and sexy that all these efforts will be rewarded. All Ukrainian women are family-oriented, it's in their culture and their upbringing.

Date of experience: December 27, 2021
Netherlands
1 review
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I met my perfect woman
September 8, 2022

I must say I'm very picky. It took me quite a while but I found what I call my perfect woman. The main advantage of this site is you can really be selective here. If your standards are high and you have some spare time you will surely find what you're looking for. Just don't be in a rush and don't settle for less. The site is well-designed, easy-to-use and it is not too expensive, so take your time, meet girls, make sure you see their live video, insist on talking on phone so you can hear her voice and make sure her English is good because it is something that is crucially important.

Date of experience: September 8, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
32 helpful votes
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The naughtiest site!
January 18, 2020

It's quite specific. I've tried many dating sites and this one is definitely the naughtiest! I mean their ladies are naughty, very hot and they often want to have a sex chat, do a strip dance and so on. It may be great for many men and maybe it's just what you're looking for, however I want to find a woman for serious relationship. Although I can't deny the beauty and high sex appeal of these women!

Date of experience: January 17, 2020
Poland
1 review
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If you are ok with the fact that you will be contacted by great many women, definitely join this site. Be ready to spend some cash for it, as it is a paid service. But the women are real, there are no bots or outdated profiles like you get to see on American dating apps all the time. But it's difficult to choose: all ladies are beautiful, smart, fit and sexy!

Date of experience: December 18, 2022
Texas
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It's a promising site. I love Ukrainian women! I have always wanted to have young blonde Ukrainian girlfriend. My dream is coming true! I met so many beautiful women - it was difficult to make a choice. But finally I made it and the woman I chose made me the happiest man. We've been keeping in every day contact by Whatsapp and we have just had out first date. I have 12 more days in her country and it looks like I'm gonna have the time of my life here!

Date of experience: January 4, 2022
Germany
1 review
6 helpful votes
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A Cool Website
January 11, 2018

What a good source! I cannot believe that I have come across it only a month ago. I used only the social networks before. You know, nobody writes a completely true information out there. This dating service, however, is secured. I like the honesty of everyone. Women are not only sincere, but are eager to share the thoughts with men. In addition, I like the notifications of the birthdays. You always know when to congratulate the favorites even having such problems with memory as I do.

Date of experience: January 11, 2018
Luxembourg
2 reviews
35 helpful votes
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It has worked out for me!
January 17, 2020
Updated review

Few months ago I wrote that I liked this site. Now I want to update my review: I love it! I met my love there! Now that I've had two trips to Ukraine and she has received her tourist visa to visit me next month, I can confirm that the site is working! It's not just about taking your money, but they actually have plenty of real and sincere girls, like my love Ludmila. I don't know where the negative reviews come from, maybe these guys have just had some bad luck, I can't guarantee that absolutely every woman is 100% sincere, but I'm sure that if it has worked out so great for me, it will work out the same way for others.

Date of experience: January 15, 2020

No regrets
October 21, 2019
Previous review

I had read some negative reviews before signing up but I do not regret my decision one bit. Sometimes you get caught up by all the stuff said that you just have to take a chance... and that's what I did!
Since becoming a member, I have been overwhelmed by the amount of emails received, but knowing what I was looking for, it didn't take me long to filter through them all and find the girl of my dreams. I must admit, even I was surprised at how good and easy this site is... Regrets? None whatsoever!

Date of experience: October 19, 2019
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This is a Ukrainian dating site. Most of the girls are from Ukraine and some are from Moldova. Nothing is wrong with it, moreover, it's quite reliable and legit. The women are genuine. I chatted with a few of them, exchanged contact details in a little while and we switched to social media. I have not been asked for money or gifts. I met one of them in NYC. She is very beautiful and our first date went great.

Date of experience: August 26, 2022
Netherlands
2 reviews
42 helpful votes
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No harassing of foreigners. No nagging, no requests for money. The women are independent and smart. Most of them are financially stable so they don't expect you to solve any of their money problems. This was a big issue on other sites and apps where I've been asked of cash countless times. The site has no ads and no junk and it works properly – just like a good site must work.

Date of experience: July 19, 2022
Norway
1 review
0 helpful votes
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How did they manage to get so many beautiful girls to join it? Even though I was a bit suspicious I signed up for it. Well, it's all for real! I have been using it for 4 months and I have already met three girls for real. But the main point is this site will suit you if you are able to travel (mostly within Europe). Don't expect these girls to travel overseas to see you. Some may take a trip, but not everyone.

Date of experience: October 8, 2022
Sweden
1 review
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If you're ever going to Ukraine, check out this site. For me this was the quickest way to meet girls when I was in their country. Other sites did not work this way: girls wanted to chat, get to know each other and all that stuff, they didn't want to go on a date. That was when I tried out J4L for the first time and I got great and quick results. I met several girls and dated one of them for a while but we broke up 2 months ago so I'm back to the dating world.

Date of experience: January 9, 2022
Sweden
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Thanks!
October 8, 2019

I was little skeptical about the online dating, but decided to try and registered on J4L more than a year ago. I was a little nervous at first and worrying about things like language. But I am happy now with their services, interpreter services, customer service and most important I have found the Love of my life. I have no regrets when it comes to the money I've spent looking for my Love. Just be patient and good luck!

Date of experience: October 7, 2019
Netherlands
4 reviews
6 helpful votes
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Even though they have some features that I don't like, I will admit that this site really stands out. The reason for this is simple - less small talk, more action. The women get ready for the next step pretty quickly. No problem with swapping numbers. No problem with talking on phone (despite of the accent sometimes). No problem meeting up. The site itself is financially safe. You can trust it.

Date of experience: June 22, 2022
Netherlands
2 reviews
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Safe and secure site with real honest women. Every female profile is triple verified so you can't have women stalking you, exposing your pictures, ruining your reputation or blackmailing you. I was mostly looking for a sugar baby and I think this site is excellent for this purpose - because I easily found her. Well they have many young beautiful ladies who are up for a real thing. Highly recommended service!

Date of experience: August 28, 2022
GB
2 reviews
22 helpful votes
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Maybe it is not the best site, but it obviously has the best price—quality ratio and it's good enough to be worth a try. I tried it, I liked it, I spent 5 months on it and I met quite many ladies. I exchanged contact details with 4 women who lived in Poland. Then I went to Poland. I visited 2 cities and met all 4 of these girls. Now I have a very difficult decision to make since all of them were nice, good-looking, sexy and amazingly charming.

Date of experience: July 3, 2022
Texas
1 review
20 helpful votes
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I often have a great time there chatting with girls. It's not a secret, mostly it's about sex, lol but it's plenty of fun and girls are great. Maybe if you take it too seriously, you can be disappointed. I am not sure if it's 100% suitable for those looking for a wife, I met a few women who seemed to be very serious. Most women are in the playful mood usually, I like it and it fits me best. Girls are real and beautiful, this is what matters!

Date of experience: February 2, 2020

Overview

J4L has a rating of 2.2 stars from 131 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

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