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Delaware
1 review
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Put your doubts aside
October 5, 2022

If you have any doubts regarding joining this site – put them aside! I assure you, it's very trusted and reliable. All the women are genuine. It's all about Ukrainian dating (you won't find ladies from South America or Asia, etc), but absolutely all the girls you get to meet on this site have been triple verified, this is what the site says and it's true. There are real and their intentions are serious. I met bunch of girls there, and I confirm that they are all genuine.

Date of experience: October 5, 2022
Germany
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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This is the site for those who are ready to cut straight to the chase. What I like about it is that most of the users are clear about their intentions and there are many down-to-anything girls, so I easily found what I wanted. You should still watch out for scammers, but there are not too many of them. The site gets rid of them pretty quickly. Another good thing is total absence of bots and none of those one-line nonsense messages I was constantly getting on the other dating sites.

Date of experience: June 15, 2022
Germany
2 reviews
25 helpful votes
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The women are genuine
December 18, 2021

They are not exploiting the pandemic, so they don't bump up prices or use bots and fake profiles. The women are genuine. I met a few of them in real and one of them gave me the experience of a lifetime. The other 2 women were nice and sweet as well, but there was no chemistry. I hope to continue relationship with the first woman.

Date of experience: December 18, 2021
Portugal
2 reviews
36 helpful votes
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It's an established site. It has grown a lot since its release. I used it 3 years ago and I was not impressed. Then I tried it again 3 months ago and I met quite many good matches. One woman is in my country now. So we met for dinner and fell in love. I hope our feelings and relationship grow. They definitely have many genuine women on this site now

Date of experience: April 25, 2022
Canada
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Scam site
December 1, 2021

They just want to keep you on the site as that is how they make their money. They may promise to meet but when the time comes they have an excuse and set another date so they can keep you talking and taking your money.
Stay away.
Russ

Date of experience: December 1, 2021
Netherlands
1 review
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No way to just hook up a girl. If you want to set a paid date, it's not the right place. You have to invest your time here. But if you want more or less serious thing, it will work.

Date of experience: July 31, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
14 helpful votes
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It met my expectations
September 5, 2019

I don't think it's as bad as it is described below. There are some positive features as well, moderate prices, plenty of girls, and it's just convenient and technically easy to use. I haven't encountered any scam yet

Date of experience: September 5, 2019
Missouri
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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It's more than a simple chat service. They really did a great job at gathering beautiful Ukrainian girls – all genuine girls, no catfishers and no gold-diggers among them. They do a background check of every woman profile to exclude scammers. I'm focusing on the women who are in Western Europe now. Also, I used "languages" filter to pick up ladies who can speak English.

Date of experience: June 23, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Overall they have "quality women". 90%-95% of true quality women. Sorry for this expression, but it really describes them best. Some of these women seem a bit dodgy, but I can't say for sure.
I had hideous experience on the other sites, so once bitten twice shy. I'll be very careful and smart now.
I only chat with the women I can see in live video chat.
That's what I recommend doing to stay away from bulls/*t and to avoid getting scammed.

Date of experience: August 18, 2021
Switzerland
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Most dating sites are geared to rip gullible people off. But this one used to give me the experiences of a lifetime when I traveled to Ukraine! All the ladies I set up dates with showed up and spent quality time with me. It was not just "one and done" (which had been the absolute maximum I ever got on the other sites – Anastasiadate, Charmdate, etc). We went to restaurants, SPA, art galleries. Ladies showed me around. Neither of them asked me to buy anything expensive. There is just one thing I regret: I wasn't ready for long-term relationship back then. Now I'm longing for it, I want to make family, but because of this damn pandemic I have to stay home and wait for the time they allow us to travel again.

Date of experience: January 3, 2022
Ukraine
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Recommend this site
July 26, 2017

I can definitely recommend this site. Although I didnt find my love here, I found my best friend. Some will say there cant be friendship between a man and a woman. I say it can be if two people feel that platonic chemistry between each other. Anna is like my sister. We share the same values, we both are interested in Russian literature, so we can talk non-stop about it. She helps me improve my Russian and even invited me to come to her city. I accepted her offer and it was an amazing trip to Moscow. My friends believe this friendship can turn into something romantic. I dont know but I want to see where it will go.

Date of experience: July 25, 2017
Luxembourg
1 review
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They do take security seriously and they filter off scammers. You still need to be smart with your decisions and actions, but overall you can trust this platform. At least they're making it sort of better than other websites. They don't have any online entertainment girls I mean shills for the site who are used to attract users. It was a typical problem on all other platforms I have tried - I never knew who was who. So I'm happy to admit that J4L girls are genuine enough. Also they are open about their intentions. They don't trap you to stay on and talk. You can quickly take things off the site.

Date of experience: September 9, 2022
Singapore
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It all began when I decided to give online dating a try. With hopes high and skepticism in check, I created a profile on J4L. As days turned into weeks, I exchanged messages with various people, but nothing truly remarkable seemed to be in sight.
Then, one fateful evening, I received a message from a captivating woman named Katya. Her messages exuded warmth and charm. She always made our conversations effortless and engaging. Seeing her in real-time only intensified my feelings for her. She was not just beautiful but also incredibly intelligent, compassionate, and adventurous.
Our connection had evolved from a chance encounter on a dating site into a profound relationship. Katya's decision to move to the USA had been the catalyst for our meeting, and I couldn't be more grateful for that twist of fate.
Fast forward to today, Katya and I are happily married and living our own American dream. Our story began with a simple message on a dating site, has grown into a beautiful life. It takes a little courage to embark on a journey that can lead to the most wonderful surprises.

Date of experience: September 25, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
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So far so good
October 10, 2022

This site must be the best in the business. It's not cheap though. But how can a high quality service be cheap? You can always find someone to chat with and you can always find someone to meet, depending on what you are looking for. One more point that I want to mention: the women are focused mostly on building a long-term relationship - so the site fits you best if you are quite serious in your search.

Date of experience: October 10, 2022
Wyoming
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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What I really like about this site is it's very discreet. You can remain fully anonymous. No scammers found there yet. No blackmailing (this is something I had to deal with on some other casual dating sites). What I don't like is that functionality is not very simple and it takes some time to figure out how it works and to find necessary filters.

Date of experience: June 24, 2022
Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Unexpected relationship
September 5, 2019

I've heard that this site had lots of hot ladies who didn't mind sharing fantasies or doing a strip dance or going even further. To be honest, that was what I came there for and I indeed had a lot of fun. But unexpectedly fun turned into relationship and I got more serious with one girl. I couldn't resist falling in love with her, as a result we live together now :) So I guess you can find both on this site: fun and sex or love and marriage, depending on what you want, or what is inevitable to find for you!

Date of experience: September 3, 2019
Austria
1 review
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If you're looking for a sugar baby - trust me - it won't take long to meet her there. They have tons of young, sexy wild ladies! You can literally find everyone and everything there, especially if you take time filling in your profile and making it look nice and somehow stand out from the crowd. When you contact the girls the reply rate is quite high. Some girls do the first step and contact you themselves. Well keep your wits about you and know that there are some scammers, just like anywhere on the net. Do you know how to recognize them? It's simple: they give you the links to dodgy sites, they want you to invest in cryptocurrency and they ask you for money or gift cards. So just avoid this kind of people and you'll be safe. But you will encounter them very rarely on this site because they do the utmost to not let them in.

Date of experience: August 29, 2022
Canada
1 review
45 helpful votes
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How about a site where you write in "About myself" 'I am 5 feet tall, fat, plenty of zits, and bad teeth. And in the "About my partner" 'I am told that only scammers are on this site. Can anyone proves me wrong?' Now, not only no one even attempted to prove me wrong, many wrote that they loved my profile and that they had so much in common with mine. Really? Of course, the fact that I brought in a picture that only a mother could love, I received over 200 letters within 6 hours being online by models.

Come on people, this is ridiculous! CLEARLY, this site is managed by crooks.

Date of experience: March 5, 2020
RU
1 review
12 helpful votes
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OMG!
November 11, 2019

OMG! J4L is simply overflowing with Beautiful Women. A word of warning though, you can get carried away chatting with all these beautiful ladies, so know what you are looking for before you splash the cash trying to whittle down to one girl. I ended up with three Anna's Haha but now I am down to one and she is amazing! Thank you Jump4Love!

Date of experience: November 10, 2019
Netherlands
1 review
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The site owners must be very gifted at keeping the site reputation high and at clearing out scam. Maybe they are just honest enough. Anyway, I was able to find what I was looking for in no time. I've been dating a woman who takes me to cloud nine. Despite some language difficulties we see eye to eye. I'm very thankful to this site for giving me the opportunity to meet her and for arranging her trip to me.

Date of experience: November 9, 2022

Overview

J4L has a rating of 2.2 stars from 131 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

service
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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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