Here’s what consumers have asked with answers from J4L staff and previous consumers.
I met many real girls on https://j4l.com/402007 And I had personal meetings as well. So chances are high that your ladies are sincere. I think in general J4L is not bad. The best way to know is to have a video chat with your women and watch them closely.
It's most likely a scam, given the tactics they use. For instance, they have hundreds of fake accounts here on SiteJabber, and use them to post rave reviews about J4L, while also posting 1-star ratings on the competition (together with referral links to J4L, as a "recommended alternative"). They also have several "review" sites on the internet where they rate themselves very highly. I explain all on my review to this site. Just look for reviews posted around January 16th with my name on it. It's a LONG review.
No one will prove it because it never happened. All positive reviews, and positive answers to the Q&A, are from fake profiles, created by the site owners/workers. This is how they make money, so they abuse SiteJabber (and similar sites) to appear more legit. Only very gullible people believe them. Even if it happened ONCE in a blue moon, that still wouldn't prove anything. The fact remains that hundreds of dumb men join this site, spend their money, and will never get anything in return.