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Belgium
1 review
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Arnaque
February 21, 2025

Toutes belles femmes qui n ont qu un but...vous faires dépenser un maximum pour toucher leur commissions. Car si pas de commission comment comprendre qu aucunes ne veux vous rencontrer sur un réseau social gratuit meme après échange des données... lesquelles sont fausses...je suis allé a kiyv,... poulettes pas au poulailler. Et avant cela le con envoi 2 bouquets de roses a adresses fournies...suivi du fleuriste... personne de ce nom a cette adresse.
Enfin chirurgien cardiaque qui devient comptable...tante cardiaque nécessitant opération urgente et coûteuse qui refuse venir se faire soigner en Belgique...prefere médecine ukrainienne...puis disparaît au bras d un plombier...s est du cirque et de petites histoires pour sortir votre argent de votre poche
Enfin ayant été a kiyv je peux vous dire qu il y a comme partout des belles et des laides...sur ce site les laides sont sûrement non grata.
Si vous voulez soutenir financièrement les femmes ukrainiennes et surtout le boss du site caché derrière une société écran a chypre...vous êtes a la bonne adresse

Date of experience: February 21, 2025
Netherlands
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I decided to write a review about J4L before Christmas. Better late than never. The coming Christmas reminded me whom I need to thank for the happy year that I had. Believe it or not but it's this site! I am one of the guys who met their wives on J4L. I was brave enough to take a trip to Ukraine and I went back home to USA with the most amazing woman in the world. We got married and we are very happy together. I'm writing this review 2 days before our wedding anniversary. I hope your story will be as inspiring and happy as mine.

Date of experience: December 9, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
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What amazed me the most was the level of sincerity and honesty I found in the conversations and intentions of all the women I met there. Unlike some other dating platforms, this site seemed to attract individuals genuinely seeking relationship and companionship. The absence of game-playing and dishonesty makes things so much easier! Every interaction is authentic and refreshing.

Date of experience: July 31, 2023
TT
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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I obtained contact info for one person...guess what! It never worked. I reached the requirements to obtain the contact for another person...guess what! Their account was mysteriously suspended. Guys do no waste your time and money on this website. Sometimes when talking to people they seem robotic. I remember once asking a woman if she had a kid...she said no...i pointed out on her profile that it says she does...all of a sudden i get a picture of her and her child...I mean who forgets they have an 8 year old child...really? I was talking to a person on another site for months...when I saw her here I decided to message her...and she had no idea she had ever spoken to me...so in all...a great many of scam profiles...and dont get me started on CS...they blatantly allow this $#*! no matter what they say.how they review all profiles.blah blah blah...waste of time website...with many people looking to scam you

Date of experience: May 22, 2024
Netherlands
1 review
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They emphasize security and privacy. You can put your mind at ease knowing that your personal and financial information is protected, and you can engage with potential matches without any worry. It's not about chatting online for weeks and months. The site facilitates smooth transition to real-life connections.
I was fortunate to meet an amazing person from a different country who complements me perfectly. I guess our meeting and happy relationship would have been improbable without this platform.

Date of experience: July 31, 2023
Luxembourg
1 review
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Found someone special
August 1, 2023

J4L is an amazing dating site! It's affordable and the matches are spot-on. I love the two-way video chat feature and the focus on genuine connections for real. Plus, they care about safety. Highly recommend! Found someone special!

Date of experience: August 1, 2023
Netherlands
3 reviews
3 helpful votes
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I was surprised to meet so many honest, open beautiful and smart ladies online in one day. I must admit I was a bit suspicious at first. But as I started to exchange messages with them I realized that the women were genuine. Every message is lengthy and meaningful. Every lady has her own different style. What really differs this site is you can't see one and the same lady online 24/7 which is another sign that the women are authentic. It's not like every woman falls in love with you immediately. You have to be courteous. You have to know your manners and win her heart. But trust me they are so beautiful and wonderful that the reward is definitely worth the effort!

Date of experience: August 21, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
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I met my girlfriend through this platform, and our relationship has flourished. They have diverse female user base. I appreciated the genuine connections I encountered. If you're looking for a practical and effective online dating experience, I recommend this site. It cuts through the noise and allows you to focus on genuine connections. I hope your experience with J4L will be was notably positive, just like mine.

Date of experience: October 15, 2023
Missouri
2 reviews
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I appreciate the safety measures in place to protect users' privacy and security. It's evident that the platform takes safety seriously, which is essential in online dating.
I've had the pleasure of interacting with a supportive and positive community of users. It's refreshing to be part of a platform where people generally treat each other with kindness.

Date of experience: September 15, 2023
Romania
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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They only have Ukrainian women, no boys. The site is only for straight men and women. This is kinda weird in the 21st century. Support team was not friendly when I suggested that they should include different options and equal possibilities for everyone. I'm leaving this site.

Date of experience: July 29, 2023
Seychelles
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Quick shoutout to J4L – where I scored my awesome girlfriend! No BS, just real people, real connections. Their ID check thing is a game-changer—no fakes, just legit matches.
And can we talk about the vibe? It's like the anti-awkwardness zone. Smooth sailing from chatting to actually meeting up. No pressure, just good vibes. So, if you're tired of swiping left and right, give it a spin. Worked for me!

Date of experience: December 26, 2023
Norway
1 review
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Absolute joy
August 1, 2023

It has been an absolute joy from the moment I created my profile. I have been quite an active user of this platform. They host exciting social events and meetups, so you can connect with ladies offline as well. I attended one of those events, and it was an unforgettable and very romantic experience.

Date of experience: August 1, 2023
Texas
1 review
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I was fortunate to meet some wonderful ladies through the site, and I eventually found someone truly special. We've been together for several months now, and I couldn't be happier. So it was a successful and transformative experience! I highly recommend it to anyone looking to expand their dating horizons.

Date of experience: September 17, 2023
Florida
2 reviews
15 helpful votes
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Scan
September 11, 2023

It is a scam. I wrote to 2 different women and surprise they both said they live in my city. Both said thwy wer eager to meet so we set a date, time and place. They were sending me messages up until 5 minutes before we were to meet. Then crickets. Not until 3 or 4 hours later they send me a message like we had never met before. Scam

Date of experience: September 11, 2023
Virginia
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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I didn't expect much from this site and I was quite skeptical about all this Russian dating idea when I joined it, but on the other hand I wanted to try it out because I saw many beautiful women online. As a result I went to Ukraine twice to meet three women. I spent time with all these three women. They all looked awesome and they were sweet. The first one was too career-oriented, not my type of woman. The second girl was very kind and friendly, but just too young for me. Finally, we really clicked with the third lady. We had very romantic time and we started dating. So I guess now I can say that this site was helpful, knock on wood. %

Date of experience: February 7, 2021
RU
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Thanks!
November 1, 2019

I have had nothing but positive result! Great customer service, everyone is friendly. I met my true love and wife to be in Kiev Ukraine.
Right now, working on K1 Fiance Visa. Thank you!
Take your chance!

Date of experience: October 31, 2019
Netherlands
1 review
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Worth joining!
October 5, 2022

Time-tested, reliable and affordable platform. Not so cheap, but much better than their competitors. Scammers get banned and removed pretty quickly. The pricing system is transparent and fair. They don't try to play any tricks on you. You always know how much you will pay for this or that feature. Worth joining!

Date of experience: October 5, 2022
Portugal
1 review
18 helpful votes
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As mentioned on another review below, literally all 4 and 5 star reviews here are written by fake accounts. You can tell by the fact that they use the exact same arguments that the site owners use on their web site. It's pure marketing. They also use these multiple accounts to "up vote" (clicking "Helpful") on their own reviews, but they never review anything else, or when they do, it's always a rival site which, of course, gets lambasted with 1 and 2 stars.

You'd have to be incredibly gullible to think any of the positive reviews are real. But if you're really that dumb, take notes of what the negative reviews point out, and then create your own account. Test everything and you'll notice that ALL criticisms are spot on.

Whatever you do, just DON'T spend your money. Scammers don't deserve to make a profit, especially when they abuse SiteJabber like this... shame.

Date of experience: August 24, 2020
Austria
3 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Good quality site
January 24, 2023

The price is affordable if you don't contact 50 girls at a time. In general it takes about a week to set up an offline date. There are very few scammers, who are easily identifiable. Just keep your wits about you. Customer support is ok, I had one issue but they sorted it out pretty quickly in my favor.

Date of experience: January 24, 2023
New York
1 review
11 helpful votes
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I came to this site after spending years on Tinder, Pof, MeetMe and others. There are at least two really great things about it: many beautiful women and their attitude is more positive, simpler and I would say, more family-oriented. Another positive moment is their helpful customer service, no bogus charges, no automatic subscription and other tricky schemes. There are some flaws as well: the majority of these women live far away, so you have to be ready to travel. You can still meet someone who wants to take your money one way or another, so don't be oblivious to this fact and use your common sense!

Date of experience: February 4, 2020

Overview

J4L has a rating of 2.2 stars from 131 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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