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Overview

J4L has a rating of 3.36 stars from 130 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with J4L most frequently mention beautiful women, long term, and video chat. J4L ranks 49th among Russian Dating sites.

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    15
  • Value
    15
  • Quality
    14
Positive reviews (last 12 months): 63.6%
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  • Yes, some of these ladies look amazing in video chat and in their professionally touched up photos.
  • Or any of these paying dating sites 95% of the girls are scammimg us.
How would you rate J4L?
Top Positive Review

“Let your story be as happy as mine”

Peter A.
12/9/23

I decided to write a review about J4L before Christmas. Better late than never. The coming Christmas reminded me whom I need to thank for the happy year that I had. Believe it or not but it's this site! I am one of the guys who met their wives on J4L. I was brave enough to take a trip to Ukraine and I went back home to USA with the most amazing woman in the world. We got married and we are very happy together. I'm writing this review 2 days before our wedding anniversary. I hope your story will be as inspiring and happy as mine.

Top Critical Review

“FBI SCAM”

Nick M.
2/23/24

It's an international FBI communists corrupt ring of people in ukraine and Russia, do not spend, go to the bar instead.

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Thumbnail of user petera1400
1 review
0 helpful votes
December 9th, 2023

I decided to write a review about J4L before Christmas. Better late than never. The coming Christmas reminded me whom I need to thank for the happy year that I had. Believe it or not but it's this site! I am one of the guys who met their wives on J4L. I was brave enough to take a trip to Ukraine and I went back home to USA with the most amazing woman in the world. We got married and we are very happy together. I'm writing this review 2 days before our wedding anniversary. I hope your story will be as inspiring and happy as mine.

Thumbnail of user bertq6
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
December 26th, 2023

Quick shoutout to J4L – where I scored my awesome girlfriend! No BS, just real people, real connections. Their ID check thing is a game-changer—no fakes, just legit matches.
And can we talk about the vibe? It's like the anti-awkwardness zone. Smooth sailing from chatting to actually meeting up. No pressure, just good vibes. So, if you're tired of swiping left and right, give it a spin. Worked for me!

Thumbnail of user willu136
1 review
0 helpful votes
October 15th, 2023

I met my girlfriend through this platform, and our relationship has flourished. They have diverse female user base. I appreciated the genuine connections I encountered. If you're looking for a practical and effective online dating experience, I recommend this site. It cuts through the noise and allows you to focus on genuine connections. I hope your experience with J4L will be was notably positive, just like mine.

Thumbnail of user georgew1644
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
September 15th, 2023

I appreciate the safety measures in place to protect users' privacy and security. It's evident that the platform takes safety seriously, which is essential in online dating.
I've had the pleasure of interacting with a supportive and positive community of users. It's refreshing to be part of a platform where people generally treat each other with kindness.

Thumbnail of user patricksj35
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
July 29th, 2023

They only have Ukrainian women, no boys. The site is only for straight men and women. This is kinda weird in the 21st century. Support team was not friendly when I suggested that they should include different options and equal possibilities for everyone. I'm leaving this site.

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Thumbnail of user prepnick4
1 review
0 helpful votes
February 23rd, 2024

It's an international FBI communists corrupt ring of people in ukraine and Russia, do not spend, go to the bar instead.

Thumbnail of user kylei131
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 31st, 2023

They emphasize security and privacy. You can put your mind at ease knowing that your personal and financial information is protected, and you can engage with potential matches without any worry. It's not about chatting online for weeks and months. The site facilitates smooth transition to real-life connections.
I was fortunate to meet an amazing person from a different country who complements me perfectly. I guess our meeting and happy relationship would have been improbable without this platform.

Thumbnail of user petel269
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 31st, 2023

What amazed me the most was the level of sincerity and honesty I found in the conversations and intentions of all the women I met there. Unlike some other dating platforms, this site seemed to attract individuals genuinely seeking relationship and companionship. The absence of game-playing and dishonesty makes things so much easier! Every interaction is authentic and refreshing.

Thumbnail of user ethanl262
1 review
0 helpful votes
April 27th, 2023

J4L has always been the most serious and reputable of all Ukrainian dating sites. I used it more than a year ago and I met my girlfriend from Odessa there. The site is still keeping the great work, guys. I found out that they are helping Ukrainian army a lot. They send thousands of bulletproof vests and helmets to Ukrainian soldiers. They don't just care about making profit. The site is run by honest people. You can trust it and its ladies.

Thumbnail of user wayneu146
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
September 15th, 2023

I had an incredible experience on this dating site when I met Olga. She was like a perfect match that fulfilled all my search criteria. It felt like destiny had brought us together. We started chatting, and our conversations flowed effortlessly. It was as if we had known each other for ages. As we got to know each other better, I realized that Olga not only matched my criteria but exceeded them in many ways. She was genuinely looking for a meaningful connection, just like I was. We were on the same wavelength, and it wasn't long before we decided to meet in person.
Our first meeting was nothing short of magical. It was as if all the stars had aligned to bring us together. She was even more amazing in person, and our connection deepened as we spent more time together.
I couldn't be happier that I found Olga on this dating site. Let it be a testament to the effectiveness of this platform in bringing like-minded people together, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to have met someone as special as Olga.

Thumbnail of user lesk50
1 review
2 helpful votes
September 29th, 2022

I finally met someone compatible on this site. Maybe it's too early to say yet but for now I'm very happy with her. I haven't met her offline yet, but hopefully I will do it pretty soon. We keep in everyday contact on WhatsApp and Skype. I confirm that you can meet many real girls on this site. It may look a little archaic and old-fashioned but the content is great and the quality is high especially if you support traditional family values

Thumbnail of user timl812
1 review
0 helpful votes
August 1st, 2023

J4L is an amazing dating site! It's affordable and the matches are spot-on. I love the two-way video chat feature and the focus on genuine connections for real. Plus, they care about safety. Highly recommend! Found someone special!

Thumbnail of user terryp559
1 review
8 helpful votes
January 21st, 2022

More than 95/98% of ladies are fake in profile or scammer translators. None of successful stories here ever. Even you meet some ladies in real after pumping hundreds of thousands dollars, all of them are money diggers! Either they want you pay much higher than market interpreter or want something related with money. Never pay their interpretations service! Stay away this site!

Thumbnail of user williamh1738
4 reviews
5 helpful votes
May 9th, 2023

This dating site j4date publish slander about other sites. Stop to do it! It is not fair, so choose another method of searching clients.

Thumbnail of user theor50
1 review
1 helpful vote
August 26th, 2022

This is a Ukrainian dating site. Most of the girls are from Ukraine and some are from Moldova. Nothing is wrong with it, moreover, it's quite reliable and legit. The women are genuine. I chatted with a few of them, exchanged contact details in a little while and we switched to social media. I have not been asked for money or gifts. I met one of them in NYC. She is very beautiful and our first date went great.

Thumbnail of user brentu13
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
August 28th, 2022

Safe and secure site with real honest women. Every female profile is triple verified so you can't have women stalking you, exposing your pictures, ruining your reputation or blackmailing you. I was mostly looking for a sugar baby and I think this site is excellent for this purpose - because I easily found her. Well they have many young beautiful ladies who are up for a real thing. Highly recommended service!

Thumbnail of user peterl1878
1 review
1 helpful vote
September 25th, 2023

It all began when I decided to give online dating a try. With hopes high and skepticism in check, I created a profile on J4L. As days turned into weeks, I exchanged messages with various people, but nothing truly remarkable seemed to be in sight.
Then, one fateful evening, I received a message from a captivating woman named Katya. Her messages exuded warmth and charm. She always made our conversations effortless and engaging. Seeing her in real-time only intensified my feelings for her. She was not just beautiful but also incredibly intelligent, compassionate, and adventurous.
Our connection had evolved from a chance encounter on a dating site into a profound relationship. Katya's decision to move to the USA had been the catalyst for our meeting, and I couldn't be more grateful for that twist of fate.
Fast forward to today, Katya and I are happily married and living our own American dream. Our story began with a simple message on a dating site, has grown into a beautiful life. It takes a little courage to embark on a journey that can lead to the most wonderful surprises.

Thumbnail of user rayf513
1 review
0 helpful votes
September 17th, 2023

I was fortunate to meet some wonderful ladies through the site, and I eventually found someone truly special. We've been together for several months now, and I couldn't be happier. So it was a successful and transformative experience! I highly recommend it to anyone looking to expand their dating horizons.

Thumbnail of user guyd169
1 review
6 helpful votes
September 11th, 2023

It is a scam. I wrote to 2 different women and surprise they both said they live in my city. Both said thwy wer eager to meet so we set a date, time and place. They were sending me messages up until 5 minutes before we were to meet. Then crickets. Not until 3 or 4 hours later they send me a message like we had never met before. Scam

Thumbnail of user derekbellnersmith
1 review
5 helpful votes
September 26th, 2023

So I spent enough money to get a girls contact info ~280$ over 3 weeks of chatting. During this time there was a few red flags. She did not want to video chat cuz she had no makeup on, she didn't have any pics of her parents and her, in one of her letters she stated she knew I was off work one day when I was not and never told her I was, finally she told me to call her so I did call her on the phone she did answer and I asked if it was her she said yes but she couldn't talk at the moment. I asked why. She said she can't right now. No real answer. I asked again why can't u talk she replied I already explained it. I then replied really? She said yes. I said ok goodbye. I then texted her and she has not replied. So she tells me to call her over the website then when she answers she can't talk. Lol wth! All those steamy letters and I love you. Well at least I only blew 280 dollars and not thousands. I'm out and I will never do that again. If I decide to try again I will use a reputable matchmaking service.

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Thumbnail of user jeremyr327
1 review
0 helpful votes
January 13th, 2022

I would say this site can be used with some caution. In general it can be trusted. It is way better and way more honest than many other dating sites. And yes, it's a dating site indeed, it's not a rip off. Female accounts are real. Women match their photos. But make sure you have a look at their live video. Don't hesitate to ask them to turn their cameras on. If a woman refuses to do it – just skip her and go to the next one. Fortunately, there is a great choice of them!

Thumbnail of user mitchellc146
2 reviews
8 helpful votes
August 17th, 2023

The site is a scam. It even says in the terms and conditions that if you give out your details your profile will be deleted and that the girls profiles are not real.

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Thumbnail of user andrewm1770
1 review
4 helpful votes
August 18th, 2021

Overall they have "quality women". 90%-95% of true quality women. Sorry for this expression, but it really describes them best. Some of these women seem a bit dodgy, but I can't say for sure.
I had hideous experience on the other sites, so once bitten twice shy. I'll be very careful and smart now.
I only chat with the women I can see in live video chat.
That's what I recommend doing to stay away from bulls/*t and to avoid getting scammed.

Thumbnail of user buckm28
4 reviews
67 helpful votes
October 16th, 2019

This site has 95% fake profiles. The agencies are out there many nights looking
For ladies to chat with us fat, boring Americans. There is no way the site can monitor which agencies hire girls to chat. There are no checks and balances. Yes, some of these ladies look amazing in video chat and in their professionally touched up photos. But i can tell some of them are chatting with 50 guys at once. I also suspect some of these videos are pre-recorded and just run on a continuous loop. One girl i check on now and then in her video chat room is wearing the same outfit every day. Come on... At least make a few videos to throw us off.
I have a friend in Ukraine that worked for a few agencies and she said we have no Idea hwo bad these scams are. She was a translator and she wrote most of the letters.
Ciao for now,

Thumbnail of user maxd195
1 review
0 helpful votes
December 7th, 2022

I have been using quite many dating sites: some of them turned out to be outright scam, others were more or less genuine. But this time I was trying to find a more chill alternative. So I gave this site a try.
Well I was quite impressed. It has a very decent-sized user base. If you use search engine in the right way I guarantee you will arrange a date within a few weeks of joining if you know your manners of course and if you can choose a good picture of yourself.

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