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J4L Reviews Summary

J4L has a rating of 2.5 stars from 135 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with J4L most frequently mention and total scam. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

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returns
9
quality
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Illinois
1 review
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Disappointed
August 17, 2025

The site looks nice and is easy to sign up for, but I was disappointed with the overall experience. A lot if the profiles didn't seem very active, and it felt hard to make genuine connections. I also noticed that some features cost extra, which made it less enjoyable. Definitely not what I was hoping for.

Date of experience: August 15, 2025
Helen T. J4L Rep
4 weeks ago

Hello John,
Thank you for sharing your feedback—we genuinely appreciate it.
We're sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet expectations. We’re always working to improve the quality of connections on the platform and ensure a more active, engaging environment for all users.
Regarding paid features, they help us maintain a secure and high-quality service, but we understand the importance of transparency and value. Your input helps us do better, and we hope you’ll consider giving us another try in the future.
Sincerely,
Helen,
J4L Customer Care

Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I thought this website would bring me what I've been finding. But it's still the same with other sites.

Date of experience: August 9, 2025
Helen T. J4L Rep
1 month ago

Hello Jamie,
Thank you for sharing your feedback. We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. We’re constantly working to improve and offer something unique for our users. If you have specific suggestions or features you'd like to see, please feel free to share. We truly value your input and hope to provide you with a better experience in the future.
Best wishes,
Brian
J4L Team

California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This is a total scam. This site is run in Cyprus. Most ladies are from Ukraine and site recruits them for money and provide sexy clothing for the photographs. I asked many questions from a lady and she never answered one question. I even wished her a happy birthday and she never thanked me. Her profile says she has one child. In one letter she said it was a son living in another country and then in another letter she states that she has two daughters who live in Canada. This is a total scam. Ladies do get paid if the man buys her gifts but they never get the gift. They get money for the letters that men write and pay for.

Date of experience: August 7, 2025
Anna D. J4L Rep
1 month ago

Hello Marc,
Thank you for sharing your experience, and I’m sorry to hear about the frustration you’ve encountered. We take all feedback seriously and aim to provide clarity and support.

Our platform works to connect genuine people, and we understand your concerns about transparency and communication. If there has been any misunderstanding or miscommunication with the profile you're referring to, we sincerely apologize.

We also want to ensure that our users are treated with respect, and any kind of deceptive behavior is not acceptable. If you feel you’ve been misled, we encourage you to reach out to our customer support team so we can investigate further and take appropriate action.

Again, we appreciate your feedback and will do our best to improve the platform based on your concerns.

Best wishes,
Brian
J4L Customer Care

Canada
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Just got out of there, model girl, their profile stays open 24 hours a day, when they engage and you request them to sign engagement they skip away. PayPal button will not work; they give an email address to pay.

Date of experience: July 31, 2025
Helen T. J4L Rep
2 months ago

Dear Gat,
Thank you for your feedback. We apologize for the experience you had. We take all concerns seriously and are committed to improving our services.

Regarding the engagement request, we encourage the ladies to interact with users, and we'll look into this specific instance to ensure better communication moving forward. If you want to investigate any particular cases, please contact our Support Service for more information.

As for the PayPal issue, this is one of the alternative payment options, which is available to our clients.

Your feedback is invaluable to us, and we’re committed to providing a better experience for all of our users. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any further questions or concerns.

Thank you again for bringing this to our attention.
Sincerely,
Brian J4L Team

Belgium
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Arnaque
February 21, 2025

Toutes belles femmes qui n ont qu un but...vous faires dépenser un maximum pour toucher leur commissions. Car si pas de commission comment comprendre qu aucunes ne veux vous rencontrer sur un réseau social gratuit meme après échange des données... lesquelles sont fausses...je suis allé a kiyv,... poulettes pas au poulailler. Et avant cela le con envoi 2 bouquets de roses a adresses fournies...suivi du fleuriste... personne de ce nom a cette adresse.
Enfin chirurgien cardiaque qui devient comptable...tante cardiaque nécessitant opération urgente et coûteuse qui refuse venir se faire soigner en Belgique...prefere médecine ukrainienne...puis disparaît au bras d un plombier...s est du cirque et de petites histoires pour sortir votre argent de votre poche
Enfin ayant été a kiyv je peux vous dire qu il y a comme partout des belles et des laides...sur ce site les laides sont sûrement non grata.
Si vous voulez soutenir financièrement les femmes ukrainiennes et surtout le boss du site caché derrière une société écran a chypre...vous êtes a la bonne adresse

Date of experience: February 21, 2025
Helen T. J4L Rep
2 months ago

Dear Philippe,

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We're sorry to hear about your experience and take your concerns seriously. We continuously work to ensure transparency and authenticity on our platform, and we regret if your expectations were not met. Please feel free to contact us directly so we can look into the matter further.

Best regards,
Helen
Customer Care Team

TT
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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I obtained contact info for one person...guess what! It never worked. I reached the requirements to obtain the contact for another person...guess what! Their account was mysteriously suspended. Guys do no waste your time and money on this website. Sometimes when talking to people they seem robotic. I remember once asking a woman if she had a kid...she said no...i pointed out on her profile that it says she does...all of a sudden i get a picture of her and her child...I mean who forgets they have an 8 year old child...really? I was talking to a person on another site for months...when I saw her here I decided to message her...and she had no idea she had ever spoken to me...so in all...a great many of scam profiles...and dont get me started on CS...they blatantly allow this $#*! no matter what they say.how they review all profiles.blah blah blah...waste of time website...with many people looking to scam you

Date of experience: May 22, 2024
Helen T. J4L Rep
2 months ago

Dear NN,

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We're sorry to hear about your experience and understand your concerns. We take issues like profile authenticity and communication very seriously and are constantly working to improve our verification processes. Please feel free to contact our support team directly so we can investigate your case in more detail.

Best regards,
Helen
Customer Care Team

New York
1 review
3 helpful votes
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FBI SCAM
February 23, 2024

It's an international FBI communists corrupt ring of people in ukraine and Russia, do not spend, go to the bar instead.

Date of experience: February 23, 2024
Helen T. J4L Rep
2 months ago

Dear Nick,

We are always ready to assist you and provide any information needed, however making accusasions without any facts does not seem like you are ready to work over finding a resolution to your problem.

Best regards,
Helen
Customer Care Team

Seychelles
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Quick shoutout to J4L – where I scored my awesome girlfriend! No BS, just real people, real connections. Their ID check thing is a game-changer—no fakes, just legit matches.
And can we talk about the vibe? It's like the anti-awkwardness zone. Smooth sailing from chatting to actually meeting up. No pressure, just good vibes. So, if you're tired of swiping left and right, give it a spin. Worked for me!

Date of experience: December 26, 2023
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I decided to write a review about J4L before Christmas. Better late than never. The coming Christmas reminded me whom I need to thank for the happy year that I had. Believe it or not but it's this site! I am one of the guys who met their wives on J4L. I was brave enough to take a trip to Ukraine and I went back home to USA with the most amazing woman in the world. We got married and we are very happy together. I'm writing this review 2 days before our wedding anniversary. I hope your story will be as inspiring and happy as mine.

Date of experience: December 9, 2023
Missouri
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I met my girlfriend through this platform, and our relationship has flourished. They have diverse female user base. I appreciated the genuine connections I encountered. If you're looking for a practical and effective online dating experience, I recommend this site. It cuts through the noise and allows you to focus on genuine connections. I hope your experience with J4L will be was notably positive, just like mine.

Date of experience: October 15, 2023
Ohio
1 review
8 helpful votes
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So I spent enough money to get a girls contact info ~280$ over 3 weeks of chatting. During this time there was a few red flags. She did not want to video chat cuz she had no makeup on, she didn't have any pics of her parents and her, in one of her letters she stated she knew I was off work one day when I was not and never told her I was, finally she told me to call her so I did call her on the phone she did answer and I asked if it was her she said yes but she couldn't talk at the moment. I asked why. She said she can't right now. No real answer. I asked again why can't u talk she replied I already explained it. I then replied really? She said yes. I said ok goodbye. I then texted her and she has not replied. So she tells me to call her over the website then when she answers she can't talk. Lol wth! All those steamy letters and I love you. Well at least I only blew 280 dollars and not thousands. I'm out and I will never do that again. If I decide to try again I will use a reputable matchmaking service.

Date of experience: September 26, 2023
Singapore
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It all began when I decided to give online dating a try. With hopes high and skepticism in check, I created a profile on J4L. As days turned into weeks, I exchanged messages with various people, but nothing truly remarkable seemed to be in sight.
Then, one fateful evening, I received a message from a captivating woman named Katya. Her messages exuded warmth and charm. She always made our conversations effortless and engaging. Seeing her in real-time only intensified my feelings for her. She was not just beautiful but also incredibly intelligent, compassionate, and adventurous.
Our connection had evolved from a chance encounter on a dating site into a profound relationship. Katya's decision to move to the USA had been the catalyst for our meeting, and I couldn't be more grateful for that twist of fate.
Fast forward to today, Katya and I are happily married and living our own American dream. Our story began with a simple message on a dating site, has grown into a beautiful life. It takes a little courage to embark on a journey that can lead to the most wonderful surprises.

Date of experience: September 25, 2023
Canada
1 review
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I was fortunate to meet some wonderful ladies through the site, and I eventually found someone truly special. We've been together for several months now, and I couldn't be happier. So it was a successful and transformative experience! I highly recommend it to anyone looking to expand their dating horizons.

Date of experience: September 17, 2023
New York
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Incredible experience
September 15, 2023

I had an incredible experience on this dating site when I met Olga. She was like a perfect match that fulfilled all my search criteria. It felt like destiny had brought us together. We started chatting, and our conversations flowed effortlessly. It was as if we had known each other for ages. As we got to know each other better, I realized that Olga not only matched my criteria but exceeded them in many ways. She was genuinely looking for a meaningful connection, just like I was. We were on the same wavelength, and it wasn't long before we decided to meet in person.
Our first meeting was nothing short of magical. It was as if all the stars had aligned to bring us together. She was even more amazing in person, and our connection deepened as we spent more time together.
I couldn't be happier that I found Olga on this dating site. Let it be a testament to the effectiveness of this platform in bringing like-minded people together, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to have met someone as special as Olga.

Date of experience: September 15, 2023
Texas
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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I appreciate the safety measures in place to protect users' privacy and security. It's evident that the platform takes safety seriously, which is essential in online dating.
I've had the pleasure of interacting with a supportive and positive community of users. It's refreshing to be part of a platform where people generally treat each other with kindness.

Date of experience: September 15, 2023
Florida
2 reviews
18 helpful votes
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September 11, 2023

It is a scam. I wrote to 2 different women and surprise they both said they live in my city. Both said thwy wer eager to meet so we set a date, time and place. They were sending me messages up until 5 minutes before we were to meet. Then crickets. Not until 3 or 4 hours later they send me a message like we had never met before. Scam

Date of experience: September 11, 2023
New York
3 reviews
3 helpful votes
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I was surprised to meet so many honest, open beautiful and smart ladies online in one day. I must admit I was a bit suspicious at first. But as I started to exchange messages with them I realized that the women were genuine. Every message is lengthy and meaningful. Every lady has her own different style. What really differs this site is you can't see one and the same lady online 24/7 which is another sign that the women are authentic. It's not like every woman falls in love with you immediately. You have to be courteous. You have to know your manners and win her heart. But trust me they are so beautiful and wonderful that the reward is definitely worth the effort!

Date of experience: August 21, 2023
Australia
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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The site is a scam
August 17, 2023

The site is a scam. It even says in the terms and conditions that if you give out your details your profile will be deleted and that the girls profiles are not real.

Date of experience: August 17, 2023
Helen T. J4L Rep
2 months ago

Dear Michael,

In our company we treat our Terms and Conditions seriously, they were created to protect our users, first of all.
It is definitely not written that there are any fake profiles on the website.
There are certain rules and regulation about contact information exchange on the website. Unfortunately your description of this process is not accurrate.
Any user can read about contact information exchange policies on the page with Terms of Use. If there are any questions left, you can always contact our Support Service on the website, they will be happy to help you.

Best regards,
Helen
Customer Care Team

Norway
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Absolute joy
August 1, 2023

It has been an absolute joy from the moment I created my profile. I have been quite an active user of this platform. They host exciting social events and meetups, so you can connect with ladies offline as well. I attended one of those events, and it was an unforgettable and very romantic experience.

Date of experience: August 1, 2023
Luxembourg
1 review
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Found someone special
August 1, 2023

J4L is an amazing dating site! It's affordable and the matches are spot-on. I love the two-way video chat feature and the focus on genuine connections for real. Plus, they care about safety. Highly recommend! Found someone special!

Date of experience: August 1, 2023

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