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Germany
1 review
29 helpful votes
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Total fake
November 8, 2019

Test: normal profile filled. Over 100 messages. Then profile changed - image and even name. Picture now of a supposedly registered lady. This did not even notice, although she wrote to me further. Answers seem to be created automatically, because the "dirty" name would be taken with... anyone can try;-)

Date of experience: November 8, 2019
New York
1 review
38 helpful votes
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I definitely recommend this site, it's sets apart from many others. This is one of the few sites that actually supply what they promise. There are still some scammers, but you come across them very rarely, and they get removed quickly. Use your common sense and don't send your money to anyone. The majority of their women are real, they don't put off meeting you face-to-face, which happens very often on many other dating sites. I had a few dates with j4l women in Kiev, they were all pretty, sweet and interested.

Date of experience: January 20, 2020
Netherlands
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Things turned around for me when I signed up. Lots of beautiful women to hit up who make me feel giddy inside! Well, it had happened before on the other sites, but I had always encountered the same problem: they never wanted to move forward, leave the site, talk on skype, etc. I had been going round and round in circles - just a continuous money drain.
I must give credit to this site, because things are quite different here for some reason: so far I have got contact information of 4 women and they ALL keep in contact with me via free messengers, three of them are really willing to meet, neither of them has asked me for money or gifts. So I am seriously thinking of making a trip to Ukraine for St Valentine's!

Date of experience: February 10, 2020
North Carolina
1 review
3 helpful votes
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An invaluable tool when you want to have a romantic time and a loving relationship. I love ladies from this site! J4L moderators are good at filtering off scammers. So you can be 100% sure that the ladies you see on this site are real. I confirm it since I've had six dates in Ukraine (Kiev and Nikolaev) with 6 women. All of them were genuine and very sweet. You can go ahead and try it out for yourself.

Date of experience: August 11, 2021
New York
1 review
16 helpful votes
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Maybe it's not a 100% ideal site but I met my girlfriend there, and it didn't take me too long. What sets them apart from the other dating sites I had tried before is banning scammers in an instant, as soon as you report them, also they do refund their members in multiple situations. I met a few women through them, all of them were nice and acted friendly and natural, whereas two women I had previously met through Anastasiadate were very cold and shopping-oriented.

Date of experience: December 4, 2019
Georgia
1 review
10 helpful votes
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More than 95/98% of ladies are fake in profile or scammer translators. None of successful stories here ever. Even you meet some ladies in real after pumping hundreds of thousands dollars, all of them are money diggers! Either they want you pay much higher than market interpreter or want something related with money. Never pay their interpretations service! Stay away this site!

Date of experience: January 21, 2022
Indonesia
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Fake
May 20, 2022

At first I thought this website was genuine, it turned out to be full of engineering and fraud. They deliberately hired those women to spend our money. I warn you not to use the j4l site because it is full of fakes. I am a victim of that scam.

Date of experience: May 20, 2022
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Pretty good
September 14, 2019

Keep in mind, when you are using this site and getting closer with women, no matter how close you seem, don't send them money! There are too many scammers ( alongside with real honest ladies)
It's a common problem on all dating sites how to avoid scammers and fakes. It's safe to use this dating site only if you google their ladies, try to find them on facebook and make sure they are real.

Date of experience: September 12, 2019
Spain
1 review
8 helpful votes
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A scammer page
August 29, 2022

Let me write to you what a girl explained to me, and then evaluate yourself if you are on front of a Digger money or not.
The site administration contacted me and offered a contract so that I would transfer my page to the manager who would conduct a dialogue instead of me. I was offered 10% of what one of the men will spend on communicating "supposedly" with me

Date of experience: August 29, 2022
GB
1 review
35 helpful votes
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Fraud!
November 28, 2019

I was reading the comments via this site and I believe that the people who posted on here are employees or the Owner(s). The pictures that show you have a lot of individuals in the area you reside are actually of the same individuals. Meaning, you look at one profile and they may have 5 or 6 pictures. They use those same pictures and they are represented as other individuals. I must admit that was very smart; yet, when you are forced to pay as much and find out that you only have 5 people in your region and they show up in other regions as well with another name. That tells the story right there. I requested to have my account closed and to be refunded. As it was only 1.5 days and I got close to 50 emails of the same individuals or the system telling me they want to hook up. Yeah, I'm in USA and they are in UK. Same person contacting me is in UK, Mexico, and USA. It's a SCAM!

Date of experience: November 28, 2019
Ukraine
4 reviews
6 helpful votes
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This dating site j4date publish slander about other sites. Stop to do it! It is not fair, so choose another method of searching clients.

Date of experience: May 9, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
5 helpful votes
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5 times a scam and this company, they call there self's a communication platform and are not responsible for any actions from the women. They pay the women to scam and write as many letters as possible.

Date of experience: July 7, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Awesome and unique platform! I didn't know it was possible to gather so many beautiful girls at one place. Some of these women could be models. I am not kidding. And they are all easily accessible. Well what can I add? The site is not cheap, but such high quality is worth it. Instead of wasting money each month on membership-based sites that don't work at all, it's better to use this service. It produces the outcome, i. E. meetings and dates.

Date of experience: August 1, 2022
RU
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Let's be realistic guys: there are bad people in this world as well as good ones. No dating site can give you 100% guarantee that you won't come across a scammer. Another thing is that plenty of dating sites are originally using different phony schemes. As for j4l, I won't call it a phony site, because they indeed have plenty of real and verified profiles, but even if they verify a woman's id and her marital status, there is no way they can guarantee that this woman will make a good, honest and faithful wife. It's relatively easy to identify a scammer, guys: she instantly "falls in love" with you, rarely talks about herself and her family, tends to have romantic non sense conversations with you all the time, and sooner or later she asks you for money. Just stay away from such women, no matter what site you're using!

Date of experience: January 17, 2020
Luxembourg
3 reviews
10 helpful votes
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Number One
July 8, 2022

I joined quite a few dating sites. I just wanted to put multiple hooks out into the water to increase my chances of meeting a woman for a long-term relationship. My ultimate goal is marriage. So far this site has been given the best results. I would rank it number One. I know it is the international run company. When you sign up you see members with active accounts without having to pull out your purse. If you like someone you can contact her and you only pay if she writes back to you. You can meet someone who lives across the globe. Also you can meet Ukrainian ladies locally - his is what I prefer. So to cut it short you can have unlimited communication with beautiful women for quite an affordable price. It is not a rip-off. It's the real thing.

Date of experience: July 8, 2022
Austria
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I was lucky!
March 5, 2020

I think this site is efficient, I'm one of those who found a partner through them. Yes, it required couple of trips to Ukraine, but I didn't have to spend years chatting, I knew she was serious from the moment she agreed to leave the site and communicate outside of it (I've never gone as far as this on the other dating sites). So I was lucky on j4l and my search progressed quickly. I can definitely recommend it. Never lose your mind though (on any site that you're using), it's easy to identify a scammer, if someone starts asking you for money - report her, it will be very helpful to the site and its users.

Date of experience: March 5, 2020
Ukraine
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Thanks for it)
August 1, 2017

To start with, I should mention that Ive been using online dating services for a year or so. During this time I changed 5 or 6 websites, mostly because of poor service, safety issues, and lack of profiles to choose from. Some girls just cant shut up about how hard it is to live in their country. So finally, I decided to stop wasting my time on online dating. But a couple of months later, one guy on Facebook advised me to try J4l, and this is just what I needed all this time. Theres a great choice of girls, and most of them speak English good enough to keep a conversation going.

Date of experience: August 1, 2017
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I would say this site can be used with some caution. In general it can be trusted. It is way better and way more honest than many other dating sites. And yes, it's a dating site indeed, it's not a rip off. Female accounts are real. Women match their photos. But make sure you have a look at their live video. Don't hesitate to ask them to turn their cameras on. If a woman refuses to do it – just skip her and go to the next one. Fortunately, there is a great choice of them!

Date of experience: January 13, 2022
Austria
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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You can feel that the site values its customers. They do a lot to prevent scam and indeed, you don't come across scammers too often. At least, less often comparing to other dating sites. It's good only for long-term relationship in my opinion. Don't try to get a casual encounters there! Some users are less serious but the majority of the female users have serious intentions. I met lots of sexy-looking beautiful women.

Date of experience: July 24, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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J4L has always been the most serious and reputable of all Ukrainian dating sites. I used it more than a year ago and I met my girlfriend from Odessa there. The site is still keeping the great work, guys. I found out that they are helping Ukrainian army a lot. They send thousands of bulletproof vests and helmets to Ukrainian soldiers. They don't just care about making profit. The site is run by honest people. You can trust it and its ladies.

Date of experience: April 27, 2023

Overview

J4L has a rating of 2.2 stars from 131 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

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