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New York
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Incredible experience
September 15, 2023

I had an incredible experience on this dating site when I met Olga. She was like a perfect match that fulfilled all my search criteria. It felt like destiny had brought us together. We started chatting, and our conversations flowed effortlessly. It was as if we had known each other for ages. As we got to know each other better, I realized that Olga not only matched my criteria but exceeded them in many ways. She was genuinely looking for a meaningful connection, just like I was. We were on the same wavelength, and it wasn't long before we decided to meet in person.
Our first meeting was nothing short of magical. It was as if all the stars had aligned to bring us together. She was even more amazing in person, and our connection deepened as we spent more time together.
I couldn't be happier that I found Olga on this dating site. Let it be a testament to the effectiveness of this platform in bringing like-minded people together, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to have met someone as special as Olga.

Date of experience: September 15, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Most of the women are very apealling on the eye. The company is quite serious - you can trust it.
I'm not sure if 100 % of the women are real but I can say for sure that I have never got a standard Canned response: they don't use artificial intelligence. Also you can cancel at any time they don't have any tricks in the fine print just to keep you hooked. It looks like the girls have gone through some background check. Overall it looks quite serious and reliable.

Date of experience: December 5, 2022
Netherlands
2 reviews
8 helpful votes
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I was not sure if dating Ukrainian women was a good idea because of the war and stuff but I decided to search for Polish women on this site and I found quite a few of them. Moreover, to my surprise I met many Ukrainians in Poland (alongside with meeting Polish girls). It looks like all Ukrainian girls are in Poland now. I don't mind at all cause they are very pretty and sexy.

Date of experience: July 18, 2022
Iceland
1 review
27 helpful votes
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Stay away!
August 19, 2019

The girls are not real, the fee are very expensive, it's just a scam site! Don't trust them at all, it just waste your money and time! If you want to meet a girl and date, find in your real life and real people around you will be much better.

Date of experience: August 19, 2019
Switzerland
4 reviews
62 helpful votes
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Girls here seldom have webcams so the door is open to total scam. You have no idea who you are talking to! But I would say in 99% of the cases you are chatting with a secretary or hired translator that has NOTHING to do with the profiles you chose that shows only beautiful women! 2 times the excuse was `my webcam is broken and I don't know when it will be fixed` and twice a video was shown but it was a pre recorded video! The height of fraud was when I asked one to walk around the chair. Then came a pause and you could see that another pre recorded film was being loaded where she walks around the chair! TOTAL SCAM! I reported it to the site and the girl has disappeared! Anyway stay away from this site - 99% fake chats! Good luck Harry

Date of experience: January 20, 2020
North Carolina
4 reviews
69 helpful votes
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This site has 95% fake profiles. The agencies are out there many nights looking
For ladies to chat with us fat, boring Americans. There is no way the site can monitor which agencies hire girls to chat. There are no checks and balances. Yes, some of these ladies look amazing in video chat and in their professionally touched up photos. But i can tell some of them are chatting with 50 guys at once. I also suspect some of these videos are pre-recorded and just run on a continuous loop. One girl i check on now and then in her video chat room is wearing the same outfit every day. Come on... At least make a few videos to throw us off.
I have a friend in Ukraine that worked for a few agencies and she said we have no Idea hwo bad these scams are. She was a translator and she wrote most of the letters.
Ciao for now,

Date of experience: October 16, 2019
Netherlands
3 reviews
4 helpful votes
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I'm not sure about the friendliness of the interface of this site, but the service is very good. You gonna enjoy the results of trying it out. The girls are very pretty. Many of them are super good-looking. I would say 50% of the women I talked to were ready for a meeting soon. The costs are pretty fair. You don't have to pay a large sum of money. You can use it for a small amount of money and still get the results.

Date of experience: July 22, 2022
Canada
1 review
15 helpful votes
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When I saw plenty of model-looking ladies messaging me I thought it was another con site using bots. For some reason I decided to still give it a try. I changed my opinion, when I requested contact details of one lady after exchanging some messages with her. To my greatest surprise, she talked to me on Viber and her English was more or less ok. We're still in close contact! After that I requested personal contacts of several more ladies and again, all of them but one are using free messengers now to talk to me, they didn't ghost me and they aren't glued to the site, which is the biggest problem on many Eastern-Europe dating sites.

Date of experience: January 22, 2020
Switzerland
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Way above other sites
December 6, 2022

It's head and shoulders above other sites. It's not like you have to scroll through fake profile after fake profile. You get quite a lot of messages here. You start correspondence with some ladies and then you find out that you have something in common with some of them. But not with all of them. They don't simulate a fake interest in you since they are genuinely looking for husband so they act naturally. This is what makes this site different from the other dating platforms that I have tried.

Date of experience: December 6, 2022
Germany
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I've been using it with mixed success. It's hit and miss (I would say, mostly miss). Better than a lottery.
Apparently, some women have materialistic mindset and they want to leave their countries. But knowing what's happening in Ukraine I can't blame them.
However, it's possible to find good girls there :) I wouldn't say it's a super easy task, but it's apparently it's possible.

Date of experience: August 20, 2021
Delaware
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Acually I was surprised with this site. I have been a member of many dating sites. I can say that this one stands out in some ways: there are less fakes, the majority of women are available for video chat, they don't ignore you after you get their contacts and many of them speak good English on phone. Fact #1: So far I am still single. Fact #2: I don`t feel lonely anymore because I have couple of cute girlfirends who are always happy to spend time with me and make me feel happy.

Date of experience: August 25, 2019
Netherlands
5 reviews
19 helpful votes
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Right now I am on vacation to Dominican Republic with a girl I met on this site. The girl is gorgeous and we are enjoying our time together. Chemistry is definitely there! It took me a while to meet her on the site but she is absolutely worth it!

Date of experience: November 6, 2021
Germany
1 review
7 helpful votes
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The reason I am writing this review is because I am truly grateful to this site. I met the best lady in the world there. It happened a while ago. I meant to write this review a long time ago, and finally I have some free time now. I live with the woman I met on this site. She is from Belarus. We live together here in the US. We have been together for more than a year. She makes me the happiest man on earth. What else could I ask for? I know it is the matter of luck and listening to your common sense as well as your gut feeling but you in general you can trust this site.

Date of experience: July 28, 2022
Australia
2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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The site is a scam
August 17, 2023

The site is a scam. It even says in the terms and conditions that if you give out your details your profile will be deleted and that the girls profiles are not real.

Date of experience: August 17, 2023
RU
1 review
8 helpful votes
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It changed my life
October 8, 2019

I got introduced to J4L by a mutual friend. A bit unsure at first but I must say, I am enjoying the experience. I have been a member now for a few months and although early days, I have been chatting to one of the girls on a regular basis and we are planning to meet up soon. Sceptical at first but I am glad I signed up!

Date of experience: October 8, 2019
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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A high-quality platform
September 29, 2022

At first I thought this kind of dating site was not my cup of tea. But you never know until you try. The women are gorgeous and stunning. I was kind of re-entering the dating scene again and at first it wasn't easy. But you feel at ease with the women on this site. They are understanding, kind-hearted and intelligent. It's not the cheapest service but it's really a high-quality platform with a large pool of people. Beyond any doubt it is the best dating site that I have tried so far.

Date of experience: September 29, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Many profiles of gorgious girls, probably stolen from other dating sites. After spending approx 3.000$ not even 1 result. Many promises about meetings, contactdetails.
You have to pay by letter sending, so thousands of questions are send to you.
Like: how is your day? Do you miss me? What should i bring you when i travel to you? Do i need a vaccination? How much cash can i bring in to your country?
I changed my profile to a man of 122cm height, 99 years old and removed my photos. Even then (their robot probably) send you letters from women, like: you are my type, can we meet in real, i fell in love reading your profile and so on.
Guys, don't spend not even one $ to this $#*!.

William

Date of experience: May 4, 2023
Luxembourg
1 review
0 helpful votes
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What I like is they don't have long-term subscription. Another thing that I like is the amazing array of very beautiful women. And there is one thing that I don't like: the cost! The site is quite pricey. Is it worth the money? For now I would say YES. But I can tell for sure only after I take a trip to Ukraine and actually spend time with the woman I'm planning to meet.

Date of experience: August 9, 2021
Austria
2 reviews
19 helpful votes
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This is Ukrainian women dating service. Many of these ladies are desperate and frustrated now because of what's going on in Ukraine. I think it's our duty to support them. Please don't take advantage of their horrible circumstances. They are willing to meet, many of them are willing to travel to you but it doesn't mean that you can treat them like prostitutes. They are looking for love, they want to have husband and build a family. They are not guilty of anything. If you are looking for serious relationship - this is an appropriate site for you. If you are looking for a prostitute – this is not where you can find her.

Date of experience: July 29, 2022
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Now these pretty women really want to meet! I was surprised! I thought it was difficult to meet them for real, I thought I had to travel to their country, but now they are all over the world. Even though I feel sorry for them, but on the other hand things go quicker now with Ukrainian women. There are many of them in my country. I've had 3 dates already. I want to meet two more girls before I make my final choice. They are very beautiful!

Date of experience: March 26, 2022

Overview

J4L has a rating of 2.2 stars from 131 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. J4L ranks 46th among Russian Dating sites.

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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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