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Texas
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Spent a long time completing all of their forms/tests. Was told at the end "Not everyone has a match." Perhaps true, but also cruel.

Date of experience: May 21, 2017
New Mexico
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Eharmony is a scam
March 23, 2017

They closed my account for no reason, and can't be reached for comment. Refused to refund any funds. Very shady company do not deal with them.

Date of experience: March 23, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Just got off phone with an E-HARMONY verified representative who stated that. They only have ONE person in Tech support and he is not in all day every day, LIKE TODAY.
What a scam

Date of experience: August 1, 2019
Carlos R. eHarmony Rep
over a year old

Dear Garrett,

Thank you for reaching out and I'm sorry to hear you've had any trouble with your account. We actually do have a technical support team, of more than one person. I apologize for any misinformation. If you still need assistance, please email us at membercare@eharmony.com from the email address on your account. Please be sure to thoroughly describe the technical issue you are experiencing and we will be happy to investigate and hopefully resolve it for you.

Arizona
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Scam
November 14, 2017

No service. Provided 4 matches in month versus daily elsewhere. By time you find out can't cancel. Very rude. Don't waste your time or money.

Date of experience: November 14, 2017
Carlos R. eHarmony Rep
over a year old

Hi Joan - four matches a month seems very low. I'd like to look into your account to maker sure there are no issues. Can you please contact me at membercare@eharmony.com? - Stephen

Arizona
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Member for over a year. Not one woman was interested in me near or far away. Save your money go somewhere close to home but not eharmony.

Date of experience: March 11, 2023
Australia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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If I could I would give it 0. Mostly scammers. Bad customer service. Lack of transparency. Terrible be careful to subscription tricks by the company

Date of experience: May 15, 2021
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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BE CAREFUL
December 8, 2020

Read there cancellation policy thru very well, was on for 4 days and they still wanted to charge me $400.00 for the service

Date of experience: December 8, 2020
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Never will I refer a friend. Lot's of scammers, and jut plain rude. Do they look in the mirror? Very, very disappointed.

Date of experience: August 29, 2022
Louisiana
1 review
8 helpful votes
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This by far is the worst dating site. They set me up on automatic renewal with out my consent and will not refund the money or even close my account.

Date of experience: November 7, 2014
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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They refused to cancel my membership when l saw the matches they sent even after extending filters! A scam! Horrible experience

Date of experience: August 14, 2021
New Jersey
1 review
2 helpful votes
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More like NO-HARMONY
January 8, 2023

Don't waste your time or money. Too many phony women who play games, and really don't want to meet. E-harmony sucks.

Date of experience: January 8, 2023
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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It's a scam
May 14, 2022

This company is a real rip off the same picture are showing over and over. Once they have your money what can you do. So don't do it..

Date of experience: May 14, 2022
Wisconsin
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Avoid eharmony
August 6, 2015

I will start by saying that I've never completed a review or complaint against any product or service I've ever used. Generally, even if customer service doesn't give me a satisfactory answer, they do it in an acceptable way and I've never been pushed to the point of needing to warn others against something. Until eharmony.
First, the website is difficult and cumbersome to navigate. Not user friendly at all.
Second, they force you to choose an impossible geographic distance. It's simply not practical to meet people who are outside of your community, unless you have the ability to relocate. I don't believe that's an option for most people, yet they encourage, and I'd even say force you to choose impossible distances. The customer service rep told me that, at a minimum, I should be looking for matches 120 miles away. Ludicrous!
Third, I've never experienced such outright rude customer service. I believe they've scripted messages because they know people will be unhappy with the service and want to cancel. The customer service agent actually told me "tough luck!" And he seemed to enjoy being able to do so. He was humiliating, condescending, and it was shocking to be spoken to that way.
Fourth, The subscription policy is a trap. You have three days to cancel your subscription or you are accountable for the full amount. You can't cancel or change after three days. However, you can't fully set up your account and get to know the site within 3 days, because they put you through endless questions. You'll be trapped in the "contract" before you've even had a chance to see that you're not satisfied. I believe they've set the system up purposely. Even if you are successful in meeting someone, you can't cancel your subscription.
Lastly, after reading the other reviews, I'm now afraid they will continue to charge me even after my subscription is up. This is a disreputable company in ever sense of the word. They know they've got you, and I honestly believe they're happy to have ripped you off.
Please avoid this company and tell all your single friends to do the same.

Date of experience: August 6, 2015
Ohio
8 reviews
87 helpful votes
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Their site SUCKS!
February 4, 2014

Their site SUCKS!
I'm expected to pay HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS for months-long memberships?
Why can't I pay a premium for a month-to-month, or even 3 month account?
Why is the minimum 6 months?
What happens if I meet someone? Do I get a refund?

And paying to be able to even see another member's PICTURES?
Why?
Oh, it's to help people maintain their 'privacy'?
THEN WHY IN THE HELL WOULD THEY BE ON A DATING SITE?
I thought this was eHarmony, not "Adulterers.com"!

And the questions...? Oh, God!
EVERY possible response is at some extreme end of the spectrum!
For example: They asked how I'd feel about a date using a coupon.
The 3 possible responses they gave me were:
"Horrified"
"They're smart with money"
And "This is our last date"
What about those of us who wouldn't care one way or the other?
It went on for supposedly 1,200+ questions!
I answered 10, deleted 20, then gave up.

I canceled my account within an hour after signing up.
I refuse to give those scam artists a dime of my money.
CRAPPY SITE! Plain & simple!

-Slaughter

Date of experience: February 4, 2014
Tennessee
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Money scam
March 27, 2022

BEWARE! I canceled my auto renewal only to discover it was turned back on and I was charged hundreds! This site is a money hungry scam!

Date of experience: March 27, 2022
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
28 helpful votes
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Trash
October 25, 2016

This is the worst. Way over priced and the only matches in my area were after a sugar daddy. Dumb questions in there profile evaluation section.

Date of experience: October 25, 2016
Illinois
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Class Action Lawsuit
August 13, 2016

I REALL HOPE THAT SOMEONE SUES EHARMONY IN A CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT SO THAT WE ALL CAN GET OUR MONEY BACK. I JUST WENT TO THE "PLUS ONE" ON MY ACCOUNT AND IT WAS LITERALLY THE SAME GUY WITH A DIFFERENT NAME AND LOCATION. PUC AFTER PUC IT WAS THE SAME GUY WITH A DIFFERENT NAME AND LOCATION. THIS SCAMMING OLD BASTARD HAS MADE MILLIONS LYING TO PEOPLE WHO WANT TO MEET SOMEONE. I WOULD NOT BE SURPRISED IF SOME OF THESE PEOPLE DON'T WIRK FOR EHARMONY OR THEY ARE STEALING PICTURES OFF THE INTERNET AND CREATING FAKE PROFILES. THIS IS WHY NO ONE EVER RESPONDS TO YOUR PROFILE BECAUSE THESE PEOPLE DON'T EXHIST! THIS IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST SCAMS IN HISTORY. LET'S SUE HIS $#*!!

Date of experience: August 13, 2016
Florida
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Promises, promises
November 15, 2017

Same faces over the past ten months, the matches were not within my preference guidelines, waste of money..

Date of experience: November 15, 2017
Carlos R. eHarmony Rep
over a year old

Hi Brenda - you should definitely be getting new matches regularly. I'd like to look into that for you. Also, if you have received a match that is outside your current Match Preferences, this is most likely a Flex Match. Flex matches are created when anything other than “Very Important” is selected under your Importance setting.

Contact me at membercare@eharmony.com and we can look into this to make sure all is well with your account.- Stephen

Arizona
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Eharmony results
June 25, 2023

My parents met on eharmony… now they are divorced. Hopefully u r willing to pay for my weekly therapy sessions. My Venmo is tiffany gunn

Date of experience: June 25, 2023
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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A SCAM!
November 30, 2022

A total rip off full of lies and deceit! Don't waste your money! I wish I would have never spent a cent.

Date of experience: November 30, 2022

Overview

eHarmony has a rating of 1.2 stars from 1,176 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with eHarmony most frequently mention customer service, credit card and fake profiles. eHarmony ranks 653rd among Dating sites.

service
364
value
375
shipping
6
returns
12
quality
365
This company does not typically respond to reviews
+116