Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

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The membership fee is $30. Background check is $25
It states on their log in that Escorts and prostitutes should not use this site.
Well Guess what?
That's the only effen way it works!
The members don't want anything substantial. They are ALL Male Chauvinist Swine. Who only think with their small head.
They are not interested in anything but getting off. You'd b better off escorting or prostituting. At least you'd both get what u want straight up.
Trust me.
They don't give refunds and customer service is just as bad as every Tom, $#*! and Harry on there, that only thinks of you as a PIECE OF $#*!.
Liars, cheats and disgusting specimens of human beings.
Proceed with caution...

There's someone in the San Jose, Ca area that goes by Flora & Cats, she's actually a cam girl that also goes by flora, and her main reason for being on SA seems to be to get people to go to her cam site (myfreecam). She scammed/defrauded me out of $1500 by making a LOT of promises, always having a sad story where she needed money fast, being super sweet and super sexy, but always having some issue where she couldn't see me when next week came around, then the next week, then the one after... until months had gone by. She told me once that it was her job to 'trick men into believing she liked them' and she's good at it. That's how she makes money on the cam site, and that's how she makes it off of idiots like myself on SA. You live and you learn I guess.

Well iv been on this site for a couple of years now. Its decent. Im African american and i have had 2 guys off this site and it was actually okay. I dont get upset because some want white or Latino. Would you be mad if u payed for chicken and u got tuna. If there not interested there not. It took a while for me to get someone but it was worth it. I had some who offered right up and i said no. Its that simple. Stop getting upset that someone doesnt want u. I like it.

I've been on and off the site as a SB for a few years now. Mostly off of the site. There is probably 5-10% of real sugar daddies on there. Now there aren't many. The guys on there are pigs not gentlemen, they lie, and only think about themselves. People actually need help and they treat people like crap. Every guy on there is cheap and the new guys don't know what they're doing or are looking for a prostitute. Lots of creepy, crazy, strange, weird guys on there. I was almost raped about 2 weeks ago. Site management does not take action on any sugar daddies and there are a lot of fakes and horrible guys on there.

I've had a few good arrangements in the past but they never lasted that long. Also the site management and customer support is very slow and they always deny photos because they think the photo isn't you. I always had my real photos up there and they keep denying my photos saying they're not real. How can I provide them authenticity? It's ridiculous. It's not a great website. I don't want people knowing I'm on there, even the people that work there. They're only focused on social media marketing.

It's pretty obvious when you smell the bs or smell money. I screen quickly when I'm interested and I have had pretty good success. I don't usually get less than 100 to have coffee with someone while meeting for the first time. I've only had a few arrangements but all lasting a few months. My first was 6 months at 4k a month. I reject pay for play. I do get lots of messages that are cheap and distasteful but I don't expect everything to be roses. Just have to be smart. Been sent money online just for having a friendly Skype chat. And I do mean completely pg. Some of the men are nice family men who need some excitement in their life. Others are real aholes. I learned quickly how to find and get what I want and in one year I had received over 50k. Lucky me! Thank you daddies! I've made real friendships and they really did help me out. I'm not a shopper. I applied the money towards investments and becoming debt free. Now that I knocked that out of the way I am going to school. The boost I got in life from SA took me 5-10 years ahead of where I would have been from working my but off. Only thing I wish is that all sd members were required to be diamond verified so that less fakes could waste others time.
Guess it works for some

This site is a dream for the Johns or Tricks. They say they don't want escorts because escorts charge hundreds per hour sex or not. I hope this site gets shut down. I found two men I knew were lying on profile. One was my cousins married husband and one was a neighbor. Both were far from millionaires. They want coeds or non pro only bc they know a pro will charge per hour. They are all very very cheap. I made very little money here and I am educated and beautiful. They try to manipulate women into doing stuff for very little in return bc they fall into trap that the guy is prince charming.

A lot of fake guys and guys who would normally have zero chance finding a girl. Being on a date with these guys made me feel cheap as if I lowered my standards. Girls be true to yourself and dont believe these men, even when they claim to be millionaires, generous or attractive. They're not. They're just want to mess with you and hoping you will fall for their BS. There is this guy username Peter R in the London erea with houses around the world, who still lives with his wive but lies about it, he's too cheap to buy his wife a house and complains about girls on that site who want money, isnt that what the site is about? A big liar who happened to be into politics. Non of these men are serious about investing in a girl. Most of the time you get the worse deal as a girl, meaning you get an ugly guy (yes you Patrick), who smells like alcohol even at noon. With a horrible persona, small penis, stingy, who has nothing to offer than wasting your time. If you read the dude's profile he makes it seem like he will give you the world but dont be fooled. They want the best deal for themselves and lie and cheat whenever they can to make you believe that you should be happy with what you are getting. Dont fall for mister Robertson in London/ Bahamas. He's an ugly old liar. Full of scumbags

There's a lot of "noise" on this site, it is true: fake profiles, escorts, girls who aren't really serious, and ladies who demand $5000/month and think they're going to get it LOL. The trick here is just be patient! It's a numbers game. I took time to write a good profile and post appealing photos, and message only the most attractive ladies who are "negotiable" on price or at most want $3000/month. In seven weeks, I've met numerous women and had a lot of fun. Since I still have kids at home half the time, I explain up front that a monthly allowance isn't practical, so with a little coaxing, most of the girls accept a per-visit payment. $500 per visit seems to be the going rate. This is much better than an escort, because for $500 you will only get an hour with the hottest escorts and at most two hours with average looking escorts. But on SA, $500 will give you an entire day or a half day including overnight. That's not what I'm really after, ultimately - I'm looking for a steady sugar baby with real affection and intimacy developing. But in time, I will find such a girl. And along the way, I'll keep having barrels of fun! For a 56 year old divorced man, this is paradise.

I met a guy on your site that seemed to be nice. He offered to send me $6000. 00 for my bills. Did I mention he wanted to give me $2000. 00 and send his mother $4000. 00? Yes his mother. He wanted me to give him my bank account number, credit card number mother's maiden name and her birthdate. Then he asked for my ssn. He said that was the only way he could get the money into my account. There's more to it but I just assume not. I wasn't about to give him any info. This site is a waste of any female's time. Men on this site just want to take you for a ride and I don't mean in the bedroom!

Met a guy name kevin from Washington D. C He claimed to have all of this BIG money yet 30 mins into out meeting he offered me $100 to have sex with me. Like I was some cheap prostitute. He is short, dark brown skin and his profile says he has big contracts. Its all a lie he will show up in a cheap suit trying to see you a dream stat away.
That sight is full of men looking for a cheap escort or women looking for a desperate man to scam. STAY AWAY FROM THAT SITE.

I joined recently and got conned by someone posing as a young girl from Kent, she was quick to arrange a meet, then asked money (for tickets and dress) to come into London, She also gave me her bank account with name 'Amy Hacksley', i paid an amount and she disappeared at once.
The website does not intervene unfortunately, so it was a harsh lesson for me.

Been on the site for 2 years not one successful relationship. These men want barbie, the hot blonde, the skinny white girl type its just the way it is. Unfortunately. I have seen some SB insta and most of the girls are not that attractive just slim and not in shape yet they are getting a 4000 a month allowance. All members knows the situation and difficulty for ethnic women, they write about it all the time. All the guys use the site too hook up lol they want to give you 300 dollars to sleep with them on the first meet. That is escorting smh the men are well aware of that yet they still do it. I send a 20 messages a day and get 2 replies from losers and the request to look at my private pics. They should make a site only for ethnic n exotic sugar babies just saying

I've been a member since last year and I haven't gotten anywhere at all! It would go as far as a message and then I would get a date and always get sent off like I don't get it I'm very fit, sexy, great personality and everything and haven't gotten not one sugar daddy from this dumb $#*! site. Dudes are really full of $#*! there shid if anyone knows of a better site I definitely would love to know... being on seeking arrangements will literally have you seeking forever and not get you any Damn where. It doesn't even deserve 1 star it deserves to get shut down for being such a send off for thinking you'll come up on a sugar daddy and no one came around and here it is a year later for me! $#*! you!

I met my gf on match.com. SA was the worst.The women in my area were absolutely disgusting. Yes, many saying "average" to "full size." Why are you on a site looking for sugar daddies when you are 5 foot 174 pounds and disgusting? The site completely discredits itself by allowing ANY woman despite physical beauty and weight issues, to post a profile. Why are you even allowed a profile on a sugar daddy site when you are clearly overweight and unattractive? Most men who are sugar daddies are not looking for fat and ugly. I am on the younger side, still handsome, and a classy guy, but the women I encountered were horrible. Many were fat, extremely unattractive, trashy, and uneducated. Seriously, go do a female search for Greensboro, North Carolina within 100 miles and see what you come up with.

Beware of the Romanian new scams:

I just fell for this one. Girl wants to marry you from the first email. She seems genuine and real. She says she doesnt want money, only love and security. She even sends you her id and skypes with you. Then you travel to see her, pay for everything, being dragged into shopping sprees. She will tell you about sick girls from her her home town, cry about her mother who cannot support her etc to milk cash from your soft spots. Suprisingly for a poor girl she sports the latest iphone and elegant clothes. There will be no sex as she has principles and she looks at you as her future husband. She told me so many lies, I knew something was wrong. She promised to come and live with me. After 5 days i found out i was conned and lied about everything and she asked me to shut up or she would tell the local police that I had raped her.

Thats a good one also but didnt fall for it. She has you book a full holiday (ticket, hotel, car) and the day before the trip she asks for cash by Western Union for taxi.

Also 100s of professionals or crazies asking for €500-5000 per day

You will get many kicks out of talking with lots of girls but be very careful. In 2 months no luck yet. I will give it another half a year and update you.

A waste of time this site is. My account has been suspended and I still have so-called sugar daddies contacting me to meet. The men won't believe your pictures are real && want validation. If you think these men value your time as money -- forget about it. Every man I met through this site either milked the $#*! out of my patience or was plain rude as $#*!. Just got strangled by a so called sugar daddy and was threaten to be arrested for assault! HAHAHA better have expectations!