Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

Active4life invited me to meet and we met for a launch. He interviewed me and when he found out that I don't have a place to accommodate him for I was lying, I have a place to accommodate but I was just trying a guy if they are real. He ordered his food, I order my food, then after he ate, he went to bathroom, then he said he will go and didn't pay the food, left 10usd in the table. He never paid the food. For that matter, don't meet this guy. He lost all the opportunity for I dated a lot of guy like his age even without arrangement at all.

Terrible! May be works better in US but definitely not in UK and especially London. Full of fake accounts and kids starting from 20 yo... What they do in SA if they still live in parents house?! Many men don't want spend cash (their profile says) so what you search then for in SA?! One said can't dead message because us men have to pay to use SA! What an idiotic statement! So many ugly faces when you look at them you forget about all money you desire to receive for shopping etc. Many don't respond back. 21 yo youngster calling himself SugarMillionair and posting picture with his tongue out, how stupid! Nothing to catch in London, even for a decent chat and cup of coffee! It was a mistake that I signed up and payd! SugarDaddy website is much better

Ah... I'm a 22 year old female, I'm Latin, and in shape with no kids or anything. Very feminine.

First off if youre expecting to be paid hundreds of dollars to go out to eat with somebody, or cuddle on a couch, think again.

Now will they pay for your food? Yes. Some may even buy you a few extras. But cash in hand for something so platonic like that just does not exist here. About 90% of them expect sex. Most of them are mainly paying to sleep with you when it comes down to it. Use to your own discretion on that one. If you sleep with someone for "companionship" get your money FIRST. You have something to lose- they don't.

Stay away from anyone under 30-35. Seriously. No 22 year old "sugar daddy" is making anything more than 70k a year. It just doesn't work you graduate college and suddenly make 6 figures. Be logical. Also- many of the young SD's are vulgar as hell. They ask for tons of naked pictures, one actually kept face timing me. It felt like high school all over again. As unflattering as it might be for some- your real deal is with dudes in their 40's+. Stay

Stay away from African American men. This is coming from someone who grew up in the hood and I am colored myself. Black men just don't pay for these things- it's not in their nature. Now all gang banging and street boys are joining this website and it's a joke. You read their profile and they come off mad girls want money- and act like we all owe them something because they're black and attractive lol- next...

My advice-
Don't take checks, don't give your bank number to anyone, and ask for cash per meet until trust is built. Tell someone of a trusted source where you're going and let them know that's the plan. You wouldn't believe how much people disappear once you let them know you're being cautious.

Go figure.

My account has been deleted over seven times without reasoning without warning I haven't violated anything I wasn't prostituting and I am over 18 there's no reason why my profile should've gotten deleted over and over without warning or reasoning. There are sick perverts on the site that maybe paid for their account but are sick perverts and their accounts don't get deleted. I'm infuriated it's no reason why my count should've been deleted over seven $#*!ing times. Three in one week!

This site has rapists and sex offenders on it. I did a backround check on a few guys that sent me messages and they were listed in the sex offenders list.
It contacted the site to tell them, they did nothing these guys still have their profile on the site.
It's not a safe place to find a relationship.
Most guys there are not in good jobs and looking for a relationship. Most guys are escort rejects and treat the site as a hunting ground to find new victims.
Guys even have sites and blogs about how to "scam a girl out of sex on s. A" it horrible.

I have been on there over 2 years. Yes its expensive and requires time and work. Average guy in his late 40's. If you are cheap and do not want to pay for quality women, go elsewhere.
Price will vary by age/amenities/condition and your location. I average 1-2 young, fresh first timers and beginners per week. I also have 3 regulars I see every month. Don't hate. I am NOT forcing them to do this. I have sampled everything from a local HS cheerleader (yes legal age) to a teacher at my local high school. Typical price in my area (Midwest) is 100-400 per visit. Many are just offering arm candy and dinner dates. But the majority will do FWB if you are willing to pay a reasonable allowance. Be nice, be respectful and be willing to compensate them for their time. Currently there are over 4,000 members within a 50 mile radius of my zip. So cut that in half that joined and are inactive, then reduce it by 75% for whatever reason it wont work out. Most are 18-30 range (and yes some underage girls are on there, girls can join for free). The 15th and end of the month (bills are due, plus breaks from college) are the busiest. Its the typical needs, rent, phone bill, college or just fun money. Bottom line, it works for me.

I have met a few guys now; this guy named damiang on the website, real name ABHI who claims to be half Indian half Italian, is a SCAMMER. We agreed to an arrangement, met over coffee. He seemed lovely and harmless, 29 young. He asked me for the next meeting to meet him in a cafe where him and his friends would be, and pretend to give him my number out of the blue. So he could take me to a work party and they would think we met in a cafe. Before this; he RECORDED a online banking transfer of £4,200 sent out to my account. It didn't show; he said to wait a working day. Nothing. After all of that, he stopped communicating with me and basically did it all for some psychotic ego boost. I even took the video to a bank and they said it was LEGIT: this site is scary. Some weird weird men on here! BE careful girls. Always get money upfront, and before you do anything.!

This site is full of men who prey on young women who don't know their worth who are desperate to pay their bills

These are men in their 40-60's who know very well what an hour with a pretty escort will cost... but they prefer to try and spend AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE to $#*! some college aged student who is broke, for less then they would pay an escort. Its a game to them.
I talked to a millionaire today who offered me 300 for an entire evening.

An escort with my looks and brains would easily make $1000 for the same amount of time

He knows this, of course.

Avoid this site at all costs ladies. If you want to make money, real money, and you are ok with sex, become an escort. Thats real talk. But selling yourself to old grandpas who really just want to try and get the cheapest piece of $#*! they can find... thats just wrong.

All the marketing of this site is very clever. They know full well that some of their members have been members for 5,6 years. Those are the very same guys trying to $#*! as many young, naive and desperate for cash women as they can, and pay them a fraction of what they (used to) pay escorts.

Truly, it is the seediest site around. I have escorted for a couple years now. I have a few regular clients, who I have seen for years, who are young, attractive, care about me... who pay me top dollar ($1000 for two hours) and i couldnt be happier.

Real sugar daddies on that site are maybe 1 out of 50. Stay away

How are you all so butthurt?! I wish I could give a class on SA. I get the feeling that with a few minor adjustments and some simple techniques, most of you would be happy. You are totally missing the boat on how the site works... it's $#*!ing awesome and I have TOO MANY girls wanting to get together. I just did my taxes and I paid one girl 10,200.00 in 2016... divide by 200/meet. On top of that, I saw her approximately 20 times "off the books". After that, I started transferring money into her account. Win-win. Somebody needs to give a course for men and a course for women. Here's the deal. I will tutor anyone interested for a negotiated rate. I am in the LA area and have no problem sharing my techniques and helping you achieve your goals. There really is no secret but I think some of you could use some advice on strategy. I can help either side of the arrangement so ladies, don't be shy. Guys, you need help.

Both men and women should stay away from this site. Making contacts here puts you in real danger. Anything can happen. Many of the men are predators and many of the women are prostitutes. In fact, this site is sex trafficking. I wonder why the police don't investigate the real story here? Anyone on this site is vulnerable to predators, scams, gangs, and eventually the police. I regret I ever used the site. I was stupid. I'm off, done, gone. Everyone: be careful. You are one step from getting in big trouble.

Met a couple of real people early in the piece, but I was looking for something a bit more meaningful than on offer so stayed... and the longer I stayed, the more I was targeted by fakes. Finally I began to see the patterns. As soon as I reported them they disappeared, so I'm guessing that SA itself is behind the fakes. VERY disappointed. Won't be back, and as I found SA through a media article in my country I'll be reporting my experience on that same media article.

I've been on the site as SugarBaby for a month, and I've had many offers and meetings. Just like any online site, you'll find good people and you'll find your typical pervert or scammer. Since I am a college student, I got free access to the site by using my student email. I have met men that just want sex, and I have also met men that want to shower me with gifts and actually build a relationship with me. Men from the site have told me that there aren't many good women (prostitutes, escorts, professionals), so as a result, they feel lucky to have found me. My advice would be to post better pictures and make an intriguing profile to separate yourself from the rest. I'm not saying show off your body but be unique and compelling. It's worked for me, and it's paying my tuition.