Seeking ArrangementsReviews 391

Have been on this site for over 7 months. While i have met 3 decent women who honored their side of the arrangement. Most of the women are escorts or just plain scammers. So far the bad outweighs the good. The site WILL NOT clean up the profiles after one reports them as scammers or fake. So far i have met

One girl that turned out to have a criminal record for fraud. She had served 6 months for shoplifting and fraud under 600.00

One woman that just left prison for stabbing her mother to death. She is on parole after 16 years in state prison.

Even after you report this to the site, they wont take the profile down. Even after i contacted the owner of the site who takes "pride" in being ethical. A simple reverse image search of the pics in the profile will at times show you that their profiles have stolen pics or different names on it.

Stay away guys, seriously.

Fake profiles by seeking Arrangement to make guys think there are more girls on there than actually are. Then you got the hookers posing as sugar babies, then just fake profiles to scam nice guys out of money. Let's see then you got the entitled girls on there that have the Golden P syndrome and think guys just wanna pay them to hang with you. Lol! Then you have tons of underage girls on there that SA doesn't close their profiles down. Overall I hope Branden Wage gets shut down and busted and stripped of all his assets.

Have tried this site several times and my experience has always been disappointing.

Yes there are photos and profiles of many beautiful girls. But they don't respond. My response rate was very low (1 response for 20 initial emails) and those women who did respond are either scam artists or hookers, and not very good ones.

The site may work for a tall wealthy handsome man in his 30's or 40's willing and able to spend $3000-$10,000 per month.

For the average guy in his 50's or 60's looking for companionship its a waste of time and money.

If you're still going to try it despite my advice, at least don't pay in advance for the girls and don't agree to pay travel expenses without seeing the woman in person-many of the photos are outdated.

As a Sugar baby this website helped me to complete college without student loans. I am very grateful to be a sugar baby of over four years now.

I am a Sugar Daddy on this website. The amount of women that respond to you without you even contacting them is astonishing. I currently have three Sugar Babies thanks to this amazing website. I have been a loyal customer of SeekingArrangement.com for over three years now.

I moved to Los Angeles from Australia to work in my own business, i didn't know anyone so decided to give the site a go for fun after seeing it on Dr Phil. I am 32 and male. I started on the site when i was 27. I have meet great girls and had 3 long term arrangements and a few dates that didn't go much further than a few dinners. My last arrangement turned into a girlfriend and we are now engaged after 3 years. So i recommend the site, i met so many great girls, and i hope more people give it a go. I am writing the review because i was recommending it to a friend who has his own business and has no time to date. I am shocked at some of the statements by girls on this review. I understand that some have been scammed, i am sure that there are plenty of guys who are broke and pretending to pay. What shocked me was that they assumed most of the girls are hookers or escorts. Firstly there is no way to know that if you log on as a baby and not a daddy/mamma. Secondly out of the hundreds if not thousands of girls i spoke to, maybe 3 were after a hourly rate!. I never felt like a john ever. In my experience most of the girls were college girls looking for a little help, girls who were sick of dating guys with no ambition, drive or were plain broke. Or girls that were attracted to older mature men. I recommend it to anyone and everyone. Had nothing but great experiences and think everyone should give it a go.

Waste of time, not real rich man on this site. A bunch of old married man looking for free sex! 98% are fat, old and married living in a difficult relationship! They waste your time, take your number but can't pay for your cab! Mostly fake profile and the owner is a Filipino man with criminal past. Keep away from an Asian guy that smells like garlic called "MR ENTREPRENEUR", he is rude, fat, a liar and ugly smelly creature.He lies about his income and he is not rich, I went out to meet him and he was so smelly that I couldn't handle a conversation with him because his breath is terrible.He define himself as being tall, 1.80 and athletic but he is fat and his face is so big and chubby that looks weird, he said he lives in Clapham Common which is a poor area and he sad he is 29 but he is almost 40!. He's rude and have no money so don't meet him. His number is *******8096. For who wants to see his photo here is his link. I will post his real name so people be careful with this freak.

I met this man named giver man 00 located in Potomac Maryland is name is Bryan and drives a black truck. He kept telling me how he was going to give me a weekly allowance of 1000. I should have known something was off. I'm 5'3 about 125 pounds this man is at least 6 feet and about 250 if not more. This man raped me and took videos and pics. I contacted the site and he still has a profile. Lady's please avoid this man at all cost I've gone to the police please be careful

Message sent also to Mr. Brandon Wade, CEO of seekingarrangement.com

I am also writing here because I've had no luck through the common communication channels of the website seekingarrangement.com and its CEO.
I've purchased a premium 1-month membership and after only a few days my account has been deleted without any notification. Upon contacting customer support, the only answer I received was that they had detected fraudulent activity from my account so it has been deleted and that they couldn't and weren't going to give me any explanation.
This is unacceptable. The normal way of dealing with any suspicion of fraudulent activity would be to contact the customer and try to find out what the problem is. The money was taken from my account without problems through 2buysafe.com. I've double checked that with my bank.
The only problem I can think of is that I'm connecting to the Internet through various VPNs, because of my work and my company's policies, which will not allow me to connect to the Internet via direct channels. So, there may have been a discrepancy between my country of residence, and my IPs, which may be from different countries. Apart from this, I cannot think of any other reason.
Some of this website's clients should very important people, to whom privacy matters more than anything. I took for granted that this company relied on such clients and that their needs were more than obvious to them, but obviously I was wrong.
I find the manner in which seekingarrangement.com has managed this incident very poor and disrespectful towards a paying customer, and I have requested either immediate re-activation of my account or a full refund. No answer yet. This is not the way to deal with clients. You cannot take someone's money and then deny them the service they've paid for, or at least an explanation!
So, avoid them at all costs!

The same thing that had to Vanessa A. Happened to me. I signed up to the website and as soon as they had taken membership fees from me they suspended my account. The said they were investigating some sort of fraud alert but noone was ever able to tell me what the so called fraud was. Each time I emailed to ask what was going on they made an excuse. They were clearly lying and this website its a scam to get money from people. I asked for my money back but they refused to refund me. Please don't be fooled and waste your time, energy or money..

Don't online date. This website just solidified why I was against it in the first place, but I thought I'd give it a try since it's difficult for me to meet someone between work and school. Just hope to meet a good guy offline. The guys/men on there are either too old, cheap, alcoholics, show no integrity or honesty, are too young and still in the partying and player stage, young and "don't know know what they want" ( but want sex and to waste your time) or the classic "I'm not over my my EX, so I'm on the site looking for a rebound.

It's a scam. A lot of the guys on here are for one thing only, and are not willing to put in any effort or investment. Doesn't matter if you are a good girl/woman or not. I went one a couple dates with a young 31 year old good looking guy. Met me at a cheap restaurant and I felt silly in a dress and took 2 hours to get ready for. Should have seen that as a first red flag. I ended up getting him small gifts and tried SO hard to show him I was interested, and he admits that he doesn't know what he wants and he's not over his past relationship. So obviously to me he's just looking for sex, and to party, but he won't admit THAT. He was NOT willing to put forth an investment for it, just to waste my time, but not his, because he's only trying getting his selfish way. After this experience, I've had it. It's either waste your time, or if you need financial help, a 60 year old man will pay for sex. There is NO such thing as a decent looking guy, with a decent life situation that will invest in an attractive girl, only old ugly men will, because well what choice do they have, no offense to being older. Save your time and delete your profile. You won't find what you're looking for on there. It's a scam. All the guys are scam artists, and most, and pretty much all don't really have money. Or it they do, they keep it to themselves. I deleted my account.

Like most things in life you only get out of a website the effort that you put in. Yes, there are lots of escorts and scammers on this site and you have to be really careful not to meet one and then get ripped off. Never send money up front, and if you expecting sex don't hand money over at the first meeting ahead of the bedroom or you might find she disappears to the ladies room with your envelope and doesn't reappear. However read on...

I have been divorced for several years and how been on and off the site over past years for a month at a time now. I'm an attractive guy in his 50's who keeps fit and doesn't want a serious commitment but I do enjoy the company of beautiful ladies and it is easier to converse anonymously and discover those who genuinely enjoy the company of older men and the attendant likelihood if sex. I don't however want to pay through the nose and be bled financially and there are, like the scammers and prostitutes plenty of girls with a completely overrated view of what a man should pay. Conversely (and these are the gems) there are plenty of students and other girls on the site who are honest and open, need some help with rent and fees and want to have a good time with a man who treats them well, takes them to good restaurants and on holiday and who is willing to give them a reasonable monetary gift at each meeting.

I have met some lovely women through this site and had great fun ( and a few annoyances because one or two don't turn up when arranged). Some of those women have remained friends. As a guy, you should write a nice profile, don't send disgusting messages, expect to pick up the tab at all outings, pay what you can afford (a decent girl will discuss that face to face with you) and do meet her for lunch or coffee before moving on to a proper date (nice girls don't usually want to have sex unless they are comfortable with going out with you).

Seek with caution and ye shall find.

I found SA to be a good site, like every internet site you have to comb thru bs, but you do find good profiles, my only problem is the scam artists aka sugar babies that are on the site and after reporting them the administration didn't do anything.

So how not to get scammed:

Some girl might bring a friend and if you are not careful and don't check their ID's, they might scam you for money stating that they are under aged! Always check ID!

Some girls ask for the money upfront to get beautiful for a meeting and you will never see them.
Some girls are just to have a expensive dinner with you and you will never see them again.

I had been a member of SA since 2007 until today. I am NOT an escort, I have met many SD from here and had several successful relationships. I go to log on and my account is suspended, they claim one of my photo's was on an escort site, they refuse to give me link to that I can find the person who stole my photo's and refuse to restore my account. They claim no escorts however they are the biggest prostitution ring around and the only one's punished are the ones who play by the rules. The quality gentlemen don't go near this site, and as I'm finding out now, there are reasons the quality ladies won't go near it either. Don't waste your time and energy, you can contribute to the site, respond to blogs and use the site as it's intended and if you aren't a whore they remove you for unbiased accusations. If that is how they treat their longest clients I promise it's isn't worth becoming invested in for any reason.