The overall reputation of Roommates.com is mixed, with a significant divide in customer experiences. Positive feedback highlights the platform's effectiveness in matching users with quality roommates, particularly for those who have utilized the service over the years. However, numerous complaints emphasize persistent issues with spam and scams, leading to frustration over unread messages and poor customer support. Many users express disappointment with the site's matching algorithm and the perceived lack of genuine interactions, suggesting a need for improved moderation and communication features to enhance user experience and trust.
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I have used this site (paying member) for one month, I received only 3 inquiries, my emails never got any answers back. So it looks they want all inquirers to pay, others wise they will not transfer their inquiries even to paying members. It is close to a scam.
I roomed with a Sarah Brown, 29, of the Holland, MI/Allendale area, worst experience ever! Do NOT room with her or even rent to her. She won't pay her rent and people are over every night like they live there.
Hello,
I am very sorry to hear about the experience you have had with this roommate situation. Hopefully things will get better soon.
As a bulletin board service there will be all types of people looking for a room. We strongly recommend that everyone utilize a background checking service as we are unable to do so. If you feel your safety is being compromised please contact authorities to report this person to keep yourself safe.
If you have any further questions, please don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com. We wish you all the best moving forward.
Roommates.com Support
I, actually, used the site for just one month (During The Month of March 2019), and was helping other individuals find decent, affordable places to both reside and share (together).
The site was very user friendly, and the Roommates.com customer service is just absolutely incredible (A+++). I definitely recommend the site to anyone needing to find good roommates for a shared residential situation.
Bogus. Got the same 3 matches over and over again. Tried to contact and that is not possible. Site used to be good not anymore. Calling State Atty. Office about this. Asking for my pic is VERY interesting and the why makes no sense.
Hello,
It's unfortunate that you haven't had any luck with your matches. You have the option to adjust your preferences any time to try and get more matches. Some areas have more interest than others. Most members won't respond unless they can see photos of the person they will be rooming with or at least photos of the room they will be renting.
You can always click the Contact Us tab on the site for customer service assistance or send an email to support@roommates.com.
Hope you have better luck soon on finding a roommate.
Roommates.com Support
I roomed with Richard Leiser and he was the worst roommate ever. He is renting a room in his house in Aurora, CO. I roomed with him for ~4.5 months. He would go on tantrums weekly, he never cleaned up after himself, constantly complaining, and I really think he is bipolar. I would STRONGLY suggest to avoid this person at all cost. It is not worth the hassle to live with this person.
Hello,
I am very sorry to hear about the experience you have had with this roommate situation. We wish you all the best moving forward and that you find a safe, comfortable and convenient living situation.
If you have any further questions, please don't hesitate to contact us.
Roommates.com Support
There are other sites that do really connect and are FREE. Here, you pay $16/mo or $30/60 days, to see the messages, but there' another catch: the other part has to pay too! No real matching, you just get any city in the area, although you specify what city you're interested in.
Hello,
Your matches will be within the radius that you chose around your main city, so depending on how big of a radius you chose there may be additional cities within your radius. Paying for a membership does allow you to read incoming messages from other members, but you can send messages to other members for free and include your contact information if you would like, so at least one of you would need to pay for a membership in order to communicate outside of the website.
Hopefully you are having some luck finding a roommate. If you have additional questions please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
I was looking to rent a room in my place so I registered with roomates.com
Come to find out that I cant read messages if I don't have a membership. So I buy the two months membership only to wait weeks with no response. I have reached to 200 people and I got only two responses that they weren't interested. I believe most of the people don't reply because they don't have a membership. So I emailed them and asked to connect me to VIP members to the one that can communicate/answer my messages. They said they couldn't do that... so here I am wasting hours reaching out to people that don't have a paid membership. It's a waste of time.
Hello,
Paying for a membership does allow you to read incoming messages from other members, but you can send messages to other members for free and include your contact information if you would like, so at least one of you would need to pay for a membership in order to communicate outside of the website.
We know it can be frustrating if you aren't getting responses, but Roommates.com is a bulletin board service and some areas have more prospects than others.
We hope you have better luck finding a roommate soon.
If you would like additional tips on how to utilize your profile to the fullest you can contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
Even after adding my preferences, I'm getting matches in different cities. And they expect me to pay to read some of the messages.
Hello,
Your matches will be within the radius that you chose around your main city, so depending on how big of a radius you chose there may be additional cities within your radius. Paying for a membership does allow you to read incoming messages from other members, but you can send messages to other members for free and include your contact information if you would like, so at least one of you would need to pay for a membership in order to communicate outside of the website.
Hopefully you are having some luck finding a roommate. If you have additional questions please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
This website is a total scam! Complete garbage... I've sent out so many emails to most of the candidates and I have ZERO response! I don't believe the information this website provided is legitimate! I see the same names re-filtered back to me claiming to be new people looking for a room to rent! This website is FAKE!
Thank you for contacting us. Roommates.com is not a fake website. We have assisted countless people in finding roommates. We are a bulletin board self-service website so we cannot guarantee the members posting are legitimate or that they will contact, but we do our best to weed out the duds.
Obviously we would love to see everyone who uses Roommates.com be successful in their search for a roommate. However, we do realize that is not always the case as the process of finding a roommate can be difficult.
Finding the perfect roomie can be a tough game, and often takes some time. We recommend the tips below to help you find the best roomie in the least amount of time if you want to give us another try!
-Put as much detail into your profile as possible. This will make sure that the matches you receive are the most compatible. Also, don't forget pics! Profiles with good pictures tend to get more views and messages.
-Use the "Search" option to find additional matches that are a little broader, but might be a good fit as well.
-Message all of your matches! Getting in touch with as many good matches as possible is hands-down the best way to find a roomie quickly as they will be notified whenever a message lands in their inbox.
-Once you notice that you have some messages in your inbox, consider becoming a VIP member so you can unlock what potential matches are sending.
If you have additional question please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
5 years ago I used this site and it was great. This time this was my experience. One roommate changed his address told me he was on his way and never moved in, the other moved to Chicago, I had another try to play the let my boss send you a check cash it and you send me the balance scam and another person contact me trying to scam me for steam giftcards where the fbi got involved. I contacted roommates.com and they refused to provide me a phone number and said have the police email them. If you want to be targeted, stressed out and involve the authorities then by all means use this site. I deleted my account and will never use this site again, it's a nightmare.
Hello,
We are sorry you are not happy with the site and I am sorry to hear you did not receive more valid responses.
We have assisted countless members in finding the perfect roommate. We are doing all we can to stop the scammers. Additionally, we have implemented several new security features we believe will reduce the amount of scamming activity on the site.
Obviously we would love to see everyone who uses Roommates.com be successful in their search for a roommate. However, we do realize that is not always the case as the process of finding a roommate can be difficult.
If you are still looking and would be willing to give us another try, we would be happy to provide a free 3 day upgrade. We do have some tips to help you make the most out of Roommates.com and would like the opportunity to assist you in finding a roommate.
If you are interested in learning more about utilizing Roommates.com as well as receiving a free 3 day upgrade, please don't hesitate to contact me.
Thank you for giving us a try and we hope to hear from you soon!
Emails endlessly and repeatedly despite me renting out my plce. I can't stop them. Same ones over and over too. My email is drowning in their garbage. How do I get out?
Hello,
To turn off match notifications, just sign in and click the profile pic/avatar on the top right. Then click “Account” from the bottom of the notifications menu. On the next page, you can scroll down to turn on or off different notifications.
To deactivate your account, please follow these steps:
Click on your avatar or profile picture on the top right-hand corner of the page.
Choose "Account" from the drop-down.
Scroll to the bottom of the page and click on the "cancel your account?" link.
Choose your reason for canceling your account and provide any additional detail you think would be helpful for us to know (we appreciate the feedback).
Click on the "Deactivate My Account" button.
Sometimes, you may not need or want your profile to be available for matches but you know you will need it again in the future. You can accomplish this by hiding your profile.
To hide your profile, please follow these steps:
Click on your avatar or profile picture on the top right-hand corner of the page.
Choose "Profile" from the drop-down.
Click the "Hide Your Profile" option above your name.
Your profile should update and now indicate that your profile is hidden.
I hope this was helpful. If you have additional questions don't hesitate to ask. You can contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
Worthless. Don't waste your money. They have nobody looking for rooms. It's all BS. Three or four sketchy looking characters who were active on the site a month ago.
Hello,
Roommates.com is not a scam, it is an online bulletin board service much like answering an ad in a newspaper, so not all areas will have an abundance of members to choose from.
You always have the option to adjust your preferences to bring up more matches.
If you would like some additional tips on how to utilize the site please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
This is one of the worst websites I ever visited.
If you want to search for a roommates say in Boston, MA this website does not have this city added in their listing rather I would have to search by North Quincy, MA to search for roommates in Boston. Not even Quincy city is available in their search.
This is not over, once you submit search for North Quincy, MA it will display so many search results with historical listing of people who found their room mates but it is very difficult to find open listing which you are interested.
The search results does not is separate listing of who want place and who had place to rent everything is mixed up. I had to spend lot of time to figure it out if there is a listing posted some one looking for tenant.:-(, I gave 1 star as I there was no option to give less than that.
Hello,
It's unfortunate that you did not have a good experience on the site. I'm not sure why your search did not work at the time you tried to use it, but we did test it and Boston, MA came right up and you have the option to choose the Range (radius of how many miles from Boston), Members Who (Have a room or Need a room), Max Rent, and Move in date. We did not find any issues with the search option using your search criteria. Maybe there was a glitch?
We would love for you to give us another try if you would like.
If you have additional questions please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support.
I signed up to find a room and did not receive a single response from anyone having a room to rent. Instead all of responses were from people like myself that were looking for a room. I contacted customer support several times and got just lame excuses. I do not recommend using this Poor Service.
Hello,
That is happening because you clicked the option 'Find a Place Together'. If you decide that you just don't want to mess around with this feature anymore you can easily opt out of this by editing your profile and turning off the 'Find a Place Together?' option under the "Who" section of your profile.
Once that is corrected you should be able to find the matches you are looking for. If you have any other questions don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
I found a roommate from this site within a couple of weeks. I signed up for 30 day access. I really liked that the cost was reasonable and that I only needed to pay for a short period of time. I dislike sites that keep billing my credit card month after month. Also, the email feature protected my privacy. I feel the platform allows people to connect and share their requirements and photos with ease. I will use it again in the future if I need it again.
Have used service over the years for roommates search, past 2-3 years the paid site has proven worthless, have gotten roommates from truly free sites more easily... because they have free and paid option, (i paid), many just sign up without full info/details, then don't reply to interest emails because they can't receive/read them, and you don; t know if someone is paid or not- I have a record of at least 18 emails i sent to prospective roommates on the site, not one responded, probably because they were not paying members- what a waste of my time and money, arrgghh!
Hello,
It's unfortunate that you aren't getting as many responses as you would like. As a bulletin board service some areas may have more roommate potentials than others.
All members can send messages to other members for free, but it is up to each member whether they would like to respond to the member sending them a message.
We will have some new updates to the site coming very soon that will hopefully make your experience on our site more positive so keep an eye out for the new changes.
If you have additional questions on how to make the most out of your membership please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
Constant roommate match ups from the website and also direct emails from potential roommates kept me awash in options and I went to see many rooms. Also, the tiny paywall gave me piece or mind the other participants were serious. Took three weeks from the day I activated the roommates.com account to the day I gave a deposit. Just moved in.
Loved this site! Who cares if you have to pay a small $5 fee if you can go through a legit process to find the roommate that perfectly suits you! Successfully found an awesome roommate. We went through the whole process of looking for a place together, applying, and moving in. Thank you!
My place is in a middle-income suburb so my pool of potential roomies is quite small. Roommates.com makes that limitation much less of an obstacle, so I am consistently able to target those few applicants who really need to live in my area. I highly recommend this tool to anyone regardless of your location. It works great for all areas.
So I was sceptical at first, but after all was said and done I am happy with my experience here. It was easy to understand and they wont just keep charging you after what you pay for expires. Which is a huge plus for me, cause I get busy and forget.
Answer: Yeah, if you are looking for crazy drunk high on drugs kind of people and it doesn't matter if you are male or female, after a couple of weeks, if that, they also get this crazy idea that they own you and can control your every thought move and somehow make themselves believe they are not renting a room, but using the web site to find a wife or husband type without the vows! This is not just based on one incident, but an average of 8 years of using the site on both sides. First I was renting rooms and the same applies and then I needed to rent a room which the same description applies. But understand, it is an web site for others to use. The users are the problem, not the site. It is amazing what I have experienced with all of what I said. I would think of another solution if I were you unless you want to learn as I did and I don't think it is a good idea. I would not write this if I did not know it all to well to be 1000% TRUE! I do not understand what these type of people are doing? Maybe they are a little to lonely or because you are renting a room or you need to rent a room that you do not have your own life and therefore they can take advantage of your sanity. I'm not sure, but I sure have had enough of these people for the past eight years that I have moved on to other roommate sites. Guess What? The same thing! Sorry, wish I could give a thumbs up, but No Can Do! Good luck
Answer: Please contact our customer support team at support@roommates.com for assistance with your account.
Answer: Hello, We are an online bulletin board service. Please go to roommates.com website to fill out a profile to see who matches your preferences. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, Sorry you are having a hard time uploading your photos. Please go to https://help.roommates.com/article/31-upload-edit-photos for step-by-step instructions on how to upload your photos. If you still have trouble getting them to post, please contact our customer service at support@roommates.com and they will be happy to assist you. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Identity verification is $2.99 and is helpful for other members to know you are legitimate, but it is not required to use the site. If you have additional questions don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, The ID verification is optional. You can verify your email, phone number, facebook, and identity. Other members are able to see what you have verified and some members feel more comfortable with members that have verified their identity, but again the verifications are option except for your email. If you have additional questions about your account please contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, Please check your preferences to make sure your age limit for who you want to room with is correct. Also, if a member chooses the option of 'I prefer not to say' when it asks their age then it could still match them with you on your other preferences. If you need further assistance with this please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to help you with your account. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, If your account has been inactive for more than 30 days it will deactivate. You can choose to HIde your profile and make sure you login every 30 days to keep it active if you would like. If you have additional questions about your account please contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
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Hello,
It's unfortunate that you have not had good luck finding a roommate on our site. As a bulletin board service your responses will vary depending on who and where members are looking for roommates.
Sending messages is always free regardless of your membership level, You can see the name of the person that is messaging you, and you do have the option to put your contact information in the messages you send out. Eventually either you or the person that you are messaging will have to pay for a membership in order to connect outside of the website.
If you want tips on how to make the most out of your posting on the website don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support