OurTime

I joined this app, hoping to make a friendship. I IBM corresponding with three men. I didn't got an email from our time slapping me on the wrist. Stating that I had sent questionable material to men. This was a lie. I closed on my account and will never use it again. Anyone thinking of coming to this app beware, they treat you like your toddlers. We are adults here and any conversations should be treated as such. There was nothing I ever sent these men ever. That was questionable in any way shape or form. Two men and I broke away from the app to start texting with our own phone numbers. Never once has anyone ever sent me an email such as this. I believe one of the men felt slighted. Or they monitor everything you say and make a judgment call. I'm embarrassed and angry. I will never ever use our time again. Think twice before you join.

I joined this site last nite. I posted a nice profile and legitimate recent pics, chatted with a few people, sent some likes, and paid for a six-month subscription. I tried to log on to my account, and it says you've been blocked from this account. I joined 13 hours ago, and I'm blocked for nothing. I sent an email as they have no phone number. I knew it was a waste of time, so I phoned my bank, and they deducted the money. I put a stop payment on it. The bank said they can remove money if they use a different name, so I have to keep checking my bank to ensure these scammers don't take my money. Please don't join this site. I'm done with online dating. Most are a scam.

UPDATE: OurTime blocked me for life after only 13 hours. I joined at night and woke up blocked. I've attached all the proof.

They provide almost no information about people and I guess you are supposed to select them based on photo alone. Which at this age, is misdirected! Also, there is no way to "take a break" and have your profile hidden for a while. People quit all the time and their profiles are still up there. So you think you have all these people/photos to choose from, and most are inactive. This is on the Match platform and doesn't even have those features. Needs work!

Catfish / Scammers. Thank you I did only one month trial subscription. Start chatting with one, widow, have a daughter... and next day he is traveling to Turkey and asked me for a gift card to send via email to his daughter. Beautiful pics of famous Indian Singer. Second one same thing... I'm widow... traveling to Dubai... have a son in New York and Asked me to buy a gift card of $... scratch it and send the info to his son. Please stay away... look like they are 18 years old young w / fake profile.

No customer Service 1. No helpful articles on their website to solve issues I am having. 2. Receive email from ourtime from someone on site and when I click on link it takes to the Ourtime site in the UK and France! Now my browser loves that site and I struggle to login on the US site. Now my browser says it's not secure!. 3. I have written forms when I am finally able to locate the correct website for US and that has not gotten my any response other than how to cancel my membership. So bottom line is they have your money so goodbye in my opinion. You will always be asked for money to every little thing, that free HOOK is jut to get your initial money then you are nothing but a dollar earned to them. Find a different dating service because this one does not benefit seniors in my opinion.

Ive always said you should try everything in life and im proud that even in my late fifties I could attempt something as alien as internet dating. And I really enjoy it! And its not just OurTime that Im learning to use but also another site called Primetimelove.com. They are both very different in terms of the way the site looks and works, but they have a lot of similarities too. Ive had dinner and high teas with gentlemen on both sites, so I dont think I could pick a winner. In fact the only winner here is me, as I have a life again!

This site is aimed at the over 50s market, presumably widowers & divorced people. I fall into neither category as Ive been a bachelor all my days and im now 61. Im not retired so I still have disposable income and ive been using online dating for a couple of years now, as a way to meet new friends and maybe even something more, if luck was to smile upon me. Ive had some great dates and I like this site a lot. Its not the only site ive used so I do have a good basis for comparison, ive tried a few others and would say this stands up to most, apart from perhaps Primetimelove.com which is a current personal favorite of mine. But generally, this site is ideal for your needs as there are plenty of users and the site has clearly been designed in a way that makes everything simple for us golden oldies.

I found my account hacked right away. People were sending messages from my account to someone else without me noticing it

I was a long time member of Ourtime. What a mistake! So many of the profiles were expired or non- existent. Communication was difficult at best when a contact was made. After contact was made, the contact " ghosted" me. I'm convinced I was talking to a computer. Truthfully, Ourtime is a total waste of time and money. Simply stated, Ourtime is a scam.

These filthy bastards stole money off my account, ourtime are goddamn crooks, has no customer service, don't screw with this goddamn app.

I joined this site a few months ago and was initially sceptical. After a few notifications of likes and messages I decided to log in and respond. The first man I chatted to told me he was wearing a nappy, and persistently asked to meet me. The second man I spoke to asked how much I charge for a number of different sexual services. I won't be using this site, and don't trust it at all.

Every other review place had nothing but great things to say about the site and I'm really trying to figure out how that is given my minimal experience. I signed up for three months and within a day wanted to cancel. The app is incredibly challenging to use, The restrictions and "dealbreakers" I selected were not respected and I was even mildly harassed by one user. Very few quality men at least in my area but also since I was getting "seen" or reached out to by people from various states outside of the 75 mile radius I had set. For all these reasons, after spending hours trying to delete things from my account so that I didn't have more people seeing it, and trying to cancel the subscription (very unclear) and no customer service number as others have mentioned, I received an email response from a "rep" who told me that since I had "emailed" people that they couldn't give me a refund. I have no idea what they're taking about. I emailed the company with screenshots of the guy who was harassing me, I guess that's not good enough to take responsibility/accountability for a very unsatisfied customer. They'd rather get a terrible review. I admit I'm new to online dating and maybe being overly cautious but this certainly will affect going forward with any site.

Edit: i've repeatedly requested a refund and they just keep telling me that it's not allowed but that they have canceled my subscription, which I already was able to finally figure out on my own but after reading more of the reviews and concerned if that's actually the case. I think I will do like others have and call my credit card and see if I can get this reversed. This is such a disappointing scam.

This site is full of scammers and when reported nothing is done. They send 6 to 8 notifications a day about your 30 matches to view even when you viewed them. They pay no attention to the age brackets you pick and send whatever including the same sex as you. When asked to cancel subscription and a refund they refused. They use old profiles to send with matches as I had several that said the were getting off 4 years before. The last week of my subscription I started having 58,47, or 28 views per day when normally less than 10. Very disheartened with my first experience of a dating site.

I am a 58 year widow. I was married for 35 years. I decided to check out an online dating site. I figured I would be semi safe with site dedicated to older people. Boy was I wrong. I got several emails and likes. But, the profiles I received were definitely not what I was expecting. The first red flag was that 95% of the response was from men that did not meet my profile at all! The next major issue was men basically looking for sex and describing the sex they. Example a swinger lifestyle. An extreme Christian, Pro - Life supporter looking for a Christian woman into kinky sex. After that profile, I said NOPE! I'll take my chances in the real world. I just wanted a casual friendship. I wanted to throw up.

Our Time posts profiles that are gorgeous, handsome, beautiful, and perfect people that sends you "likes" and "messages". Cannot message back unless you subscribe at a cost of $. BEWARE if it's too good to be true.

There are some members on this site who are under 50. Ran across a few in their 30s. This site promotes for members 50 and over. Need to filter out the ones who don't meet age requirements.

A lot of Profiles are fake, made by people who get paid to create profiles.
All they do is take your money and offer you other apps they say to help you be more successful but it's so they can get more money out of you.
There are real people on here.
But a lot of them live in another state.
And the real ones that are on there
I'm not really too interested in. They don't have a good selection
If I were you I would stay with the top five rated take a chance with them instead

This site is a scam. I have watched over the months how I will be bombarded with messages until I enroll and then all of a sudden the messages stop. I have also seen profile pictures continually change. I had one profile picture that was supposedly a "match" transform from an African American male to a white male. Whoever is orchestrating this site to rip people off should be reported.