A person that has purely taken advantage of many vunerable, desperate people. Falling for the sales pitch only makes you more damaged, angry and self hating. Buyer beware. Yes it's magic. A magic "trick".
I have not started the NARP program, but I have read the NARP book, which presents a powerful healing paradigm. I am an avid Abraham Hicks student, and am finding relief for my trauma (narc. parent, narc. lovers) using the Abraham concepts for raising vibration. But I needed more specified help, for preverbal childhood trauma, subconscious programming, and especially very troubling psychic phenomena. Abraham is very general, and Melanie provides specifics for my particular situation. I also want to say that it was a blog by Melanie titled, "Breaking the Psychic Binds of the Narcissist" and a youtube video by Melanie titled "How to Break the Psychic Connection with a Narcissist" that brought me to her work. (I even had my psychotherapist listen to that youtube video during a session with her, as it is so clarifying.) I was looking for someone with the "energetic" understanding, because I am an empath, psychic, and medium, and I am having major issues in the energetic realm, related to my narc. abuse, that I need help with. I'm so glad Melanie includes this level in her work. I'm looking forward to joining the online community and NARP program (I signed up today).
for years I was searching the internet of what was going on, I thought I was getting insane,until I stumbled on her youtube video's. I received e-mails and then I started to understand. I'm now following the quantum healing and I'm feeling so much better. I really think without her I would be in a mental hospital or the relationship, that triggered so much unhealed parts, would have killed me. I think she's an angel, thank you!
I am Algerian .I have been abused by my ex wife of the years. when i think of her or i see her face my blood pressure rises and i live in fear the anxiety the shame despite i divorced a year ago.i have used relaxation visualization hypnosis but I always had the same symptoms until I used melanie's methods. In a few days I felt hope in me. with all my heart thank you.
I have been suffering from depression and anxiety for a number of years, due to the up bringing I had from my mother. No amount of antidepressants have helped me, some made me even worse. I was at one of my lowest points when I accidently came across Melanie's work. To say I was amazed by her is a understatement! I watched one of her you tube videos on narcissistic mothers, and the penny dropped! I must admit, I burst out crying! I finally knew what was wrong with me, and why nothing else I'd tryed had worked. Melanie is so amazing. I now have the narp programme, and i cant wait to get started on it this weekend. I know deep down that this is the answer I've been looking for my whole adult life. Thank you so much Melanie for getting this information out there! Your a star!
I am so impressed with Melanie and her entire team. I have reached out to them multiple times in the last year. First, when i was still in my abusive relationship, and again when I was out of it, but still so down in the dumps after the devastation. I feel a bit more hopeful after listening to one of Melanie's latest webinars, and so I joined the NARP community. I already feel like I'm part of a group who understands me and what I've been through. I don't feel so alone! I am willing to do all the hard work it's going to take to heal from this horrible mess I got myself into, but for the first time, I truly believe I am not going to have to do it alone. Thank you so much Melanie and staff, for answering me every time I emailed, and offering me positivity and encouragement to go on. I'll never forget you all and this program. I know you all are helping so many people, and we're all so grateful! Thank you.
I am 44 years old my life up until now has been a struggle holding my family together with only intangible things to work with. Melanie has become a friend and not just the name. It is because of her understanding how energy works at a Quantum level and her desire to heal that she was able to help me to start my healing Journey which I never thought possible. Although this is the very beginning of a long journey I know I have lifelong friends to spend it with. Because Melanie not only offers her skills she offers all of her friendships to be yours also. I should go and get my driver's license replaced as this is my new birth date the day Melanie helped me to find myself. Please take time for yourself as I've taken time for myself... Love to all
I wish I had discovered Melanies work before!! Her aproach is amazing, she has whole lot of material about narcissistic abuse, but the important thing is her way is to help you heal yourself so you can get out of abuse, and get to have a new life. Lots of free material to read and videos too. She is very clear and easy to understand.
I have been reading Melanie's posts and watching her video blogs for many years now. But I hesitated to sign up to the program believing that I had all the tools I needed to complete my own recovery. Yet, I found myself, again and again getting hooked into my ex's patterns. There were times I could totally rise above his games, and I often felt confident I could protect my children, but any time I felt under-resourced, struggled financially, or things were going badly, I felt myself pulled back into his toxic field. This was especially degrading to me, in that I work in a field supporting women dealing with trauma.
My ex-partner is not the first narcissist in my life. My father was a narcissist and my mother had addiction issues. I fully agree with Melanie that childhood pain is leading me to replicate this pattern in my adult life. As such, I have carefully avoided romantic relationships for many years now as I seek emotional health. It was supposed to be a temporary solution to avoid attaching to another narcissist while I healed. Unfortunately, I have never felt solid enough to take that risk. This is not how I want to live my life, I want to heal.
This week, when struggling to make a decision about how to deal with a particularly damaging lie told by my ex, I decided to sign up for one of Melanie's workshops.
The research she shared, reflects my own research and understanding of trauma. Particularly the limitations of talk therapy for patterns of behaviour that began in childhood.
After a useful meditation using her Quanta Freedom Healing method, Melanie went over her 10 modules in her healing program. These modules were laid out clearly and reflected back to me the different stages I had gotten stuck on in my own healing journey. I deliberated for a day and then reached out to start her process.
I am very optimistic and ready to take this important step to leaving narcissistic abuse behind.
I have started my journey to recovery thanks to Melanie and NARP.
I never thought there would be anyone who would understand and be able to help me
So thank you again.
Melanie you are a life saver to the world your work is full of joy and happiness...I didn't have the courage to leave my narc when if I have already know about the narc traits over 6 months of searching..but the day I found you in yutube my heart says this is the right person to walk with and now I am free and I have found the courage to leave my narc after 3 years of abusive you are the best I sigh into her free 3keys of thriving and her 16 days free trial now on the narp I can say I am on this journey but the truth is I am not going back as I was doing the back and fouth I am moving forward with confidence bec of the work of melanie she is a blessing to us an angel fall from heaven to save us from this pple thank you so much melanie god bless you in many ways
I came across Melanie's work after first waking to the realization I was married to a covert sociopath. To say this marriage almost killed me is an understatement. I have been affected physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially. Had I not learned about cluster b people, I believe I would have died. Like many survivors desperate to make sense of what happened to them, I consumed all the info on the subject. Validation is particularly life saving from such an experience especially in light of how NPD's work to twist the narrative. While there are many great resources available on the subject, I found Melanie's approach to healing to be the most promising and inspiring. I say this especially because my body tried to warn me from day one that my ex was dangerous through a myriad of health issues. However, I did not speak the language of the body....but I do now! I have learned that the body is the Divine intelligence and it is crucial to listen. I will NEVER ignore my gut again. When Melanie spoke of somatic healing to get to the primal wounds, my soul recognized this has an ancient truth. She is a brilliant woman with incredible wisdom. Her work allows us to turn this horrific, excruciating and confusing ordeal into the most profound healing opportunity. I don't say this lightly, but she opened me to the possibility that this experience was a gift and that possibly, nothing else could have awakened me to delve in as deep as one can for their ultimate liberation like narc abuse. Melanie is living proof of this and she inspires me so much.
I am so incredibly Grateful to have found Beautiful Mel and Her Heart~felt video's re Narky-Narcs + Narcissist Abuse online in You Tube!
I felt I was going crazy + was constantly energy drained due a Narky-Narc sucking My Life Force energy from Me!
It is a true blessing, I came across Beautiful Goddesses, discussing Narcissistic partners/traits etc within a Spiritual group I belonged to on Facebook! A light bulb went off inside My head, now knowing I had been in a relationship with a Man, who is not only a full-blown alcoholic, but an abusive narcissist too boot... for past 2 yrs.
I am normally very strong, however with Narky-Narc man, aka Jekyll + Hyde, I keep taking him back, after he has used + abused the sh*t Out of Me, over + over Again... like a broken record!
I now know, Thanks to Beautiful Mel, that I can not Heal him. He has to Heal himself. He says he wants to Heal, he will not abuse Me ever again... + the broken record continues to go round + round.....
Thanks to Beautiful Mel, I now understand why I keep taking him back, why I am addicted to him, etc
It is My turn Now!
Time too Put Me 1st... for 1st time Ever!
I Wish too Heal Me!
I Wish too be FREE!
I Wish too be living My Souls Purpose on Mother Earth!
I can't wait too start My NARP Healing!
I am so looking forward too meeting + supporting Beautiful Souls, in NARP!
Thank~You! Thank~You! Thank~You Mel, for All You have Done + Continue to Do... Loving, Guiding, Supporting Me + Beautiful Souls too Love Ourselves Unconditionally, too Heal, too have Fun, Healthy, Love~filled Relationships...
Let's Do This!
I am truly Grateful!
Starting my starting my journey and learning how to help myself. The program is educating me to hopefully help myself. I didn't know where to go and this was my starting point. I am grateful to know I'm not alone.
After watching the Live Webinar The 3 Keys to Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse.
I have learnt more about myself in the last 3 hours that I spent asking myself what's wrong with me, why and how could he do this to me in the last 14yrs in a verbal metal and physical NARC relationship that I recently ended.
Trust me sitting still and concentrating for 3 hrs would normally be impossible for me due to anxiety and panic attacks but this was enlightening and relevant to me that I had to keep focused.
During the webinar exercises I cried from the bottom of my heart so deep I honestly felt that I was releasing things that I have buried for many years. I am looking forward to learning more through Melanie's Programme and learning how to life my fullest life after narcissistic abuse!
Melanie's programs give fresh insight and hope to the hopeless. Just when I wanted to throw my arms in the air and say " I give up, nobody understands what my life is like". I googled "narcissism" and up popped Melanie Tonia Evans name. I was amazed at how her program works and that she knows how a narcissist operates and what torment and pain that they inflict on others. I would greatly encourage anybody to do the NARP program. You will not be sorry. Melanie's program is like a gift sent to help us in our desperate time of need.Thank you Melanie.
I had a release within the first hour of the free Webinar! Outstanding Presentation! I went into the webinar as a skeptic, and low and behold I had quite the experience. I was amazed that this was as powerful as it was. Totally blown away as I experienced a release. Thank you so much Melanie. I will spread the word.
Melanie came into my life at just the right time. I had split from my alcoholic partner of 23 years. I thought he displayed narssistic behaviours and whilst trawling through the internet trying to make sense of what had been happening to me, I chanced upon one of Melanie's articles. Suddenly everything made sense. I had been in a relationship with a narssist. It all started to make sense.
I started reading and listening to more and more of her wisdom. I knew that my childhood was disfunctional, but I had no idea that it was my inner childhood wounds were responsible for attracting and keeping the narssist in my life. I watch, listen or read one of Melanie's articles every day and because of this my recovery is moving forward every day. I am truly grateful.
i came across Melanie on google, i was looking for narcissitic abuse information so i could better understand what i was dealing with and also better understand myself, i signed up to her 16 day email subscriptions which had a 3 hour webinar:3 ways to thrive after narcissitic abuse, i had experience self partnering for the first time ever in my life as part of that webinar and instantly it created a shift, made me understand my inner child wounds and what was essentially making my inner chid suffer. THANK YOU MELANIE for beng there when i needed it the most xx
I have recently found Melanie Tonia Evans on You Tube and find her teachings fascinating. I felt like I was alone and thought I was losing my mind. I cannot wait to really get into this teaching and gain the confidence and clarirty to finally leave and learn to grow.
I accidentally stumbled upon Melanie's videos on Narcissistic Abuse on YouTube and realized I am not alone in this situation. Melanie's videos cover everything I have been going through in my most recent relationship and has given me hope that I can recover from this horrific emotional abuse. I am currently on day 10 of the 16 day free program and cannot wait to sign up for NARP program.
I watched a seminar with various speakers and one was Melanie Tonia Evans. Something about her thoughts I researched her some more. I was quite impressed with what she had been speaking of and signed up for a facebook live with her. During this event I was brought to tears because I know that with her teachings I can start the healing process of what I have been through this past year. Another reason I am drawn to her teaching is because she isn't just some therapist out to make money, unfortunately she has had to deal with some of the things I have and what better way to learn is from someone who has been through it as well. I am thankful for the first seminar that led me to Melanie.
Someone put a link to Melanie Tonia Evans on an Asperger's group I am part of. I was intrigued and immediately went to look. I attended her free seminar and began an amazing change in my understanding about my personal situation. I am so excited to begin the NARP program. Melanie is such a light and a blessing.
Hello, I'm a 33yo combat vet with ptsd and have been through even more horrible times following returning home. I was married to a man later removed from service due to his BPD diagnosis and behaviors. That made things spiral. He keeps my kids illegally against court order. My father, never diagnosed, had displayed behaviors and actions that so effect me even though we moved past that and healed together before he died. I found Melanie on youtube and my life has been forever changed. I've since discovered her website, NARP, and seminars. She's really put herself and her experience completely out there on the web with a true passion and desire for helping others through our darkness. I was recently very much dissociated and reached out for anyone in the comment section.. to my surprise she found me there and took the time to see if I'm ok, offer support, and introduce me to NARP. I haven't felt much of a spark or drive for much since enduring my ex husband's severe BPD abuse that led me down a very dark path of self injury, self medicating to numb and "just make it stop", and crawling so far into myself for safety that 8 years later I still don't know myself, what I like, or how to do&keep up with healthy daily activities as simple as grocery shopping. I didn't realize how deep all my combined trauma is, and is still effecting me even though I began healing years ago. I got a plateau and it went back downhill. But thankfully to Melanie, her team, and her multiple services and routes to reach and help us I'm now pulling myself back out of my safe home and staying to piece myself back together. I don't know what would have happened if she didn't reach out to me, and that's not her responsibility but her drive it seems, but I am eternally grateful to gett and everyone involved who allows this all to happen for so many of us!
I am very thankful to Melanie for all the information that she puts out there on Narcissistic Abuse. It was the best education I could ever have received. I learned so much about what was happening to me and why I was so addicted to my partner. I left him countless times. I could not understand myself and why I kept going back. I was a happy self confident woman when I met him, and was reduced to not knowing who I was anymore. I lost myself and didn't know why. I wanted so desperately to understand what went wrong and why he had changed from the man I was so in love with to a miserable, mean and controlling man who wanted his way in all things. When he didn't get it I was emotionally punished and verbally abused. Your videos finally made me realize what was wrong with him. They have given me hope that I can recover myself again. I am looking forward to the NARP program and healing myself from this addiction.
Thank you Melanie
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Hello Mary, the modules are a recorded healing session with Melanie that you listen to. They are designed to help you connect with your body, experience your emotions productively so that you can release them and through this, help to connect with your wound and vulnerabilities so that you can heal them and will not be so susceptible to manipulative personalities. It's very easy and it doesn't require that you believe in past lives. You don't have to have a particular set of beleifs to use NARP. It's very flexible.
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Hi Cecilia, it is 3 hours. Also, know that you can download the recording and watch it in chunks if necessary. I hope this helps. Mel x
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Hi Ed, all painful relationships with self, others and life can be traced back to the origins of trauma trapped in our bodies that can be tracked through to and released with the NARP Program. The only criteria necessary is that the person in question fully realises that they have inner trauma that can be attended to and is willing to do the work within NARP to achieve that. I hope that answers your question. Mel x
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A suggestion would be to constantly observe yourself and take note of your behavior and when things hurt you or upset you in your day to day life. Once you identify hurtful situations and/or words take some time to think on what happened or what was said. Has something similar ever happened before? When have you felt these same emotions before? Usually when something in our day-to-day life causes pain there is a link to another previous situation. It all boils down to our brains. Our brain is an amazingly complex computer. From a young age our brain starts forming pathways and certain connections in our brain and the more often certain situations and emotions happen the deeper those connections get in our brain. If you cannot come up with any specific situations be kind to yourself and give yourself time. Always keep your eyes open to watching yourself and your own behavior. If you still cannot think of any certain hurtful situations then it may be helpful to start researching how to reprogram and heal your brain. (This would be great to do either way). There are many great videos on YouTube. Binaural beats can help to reset and retrain your brain. Whatever you are thinking will greatly affect your mood. Positive loving thoughts vibrate at a high frequency. Things like jealousy and hate vibrate on a very low frequency. The higher you can raise your vibration the better you will feel in your day-to-day life. Best of luck to living a life of pure contentment, joy and total freedom!
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I don't know if this answer will help you. But here goes. The Soul is a person. The Spirit is the communication to God through his son Jesus christ, so when we send our thoughts, feelings in Prayer it goes to the highest power God. We are born in his image, ( in other words a part of him) so we have the power in us to change by a thought (Quantum physics) and believeing it will be so, taking opportunity's that present themselves to you, thenyou will soon come to see how good thoughts can change one's life. What Mel is doing is tapping into that power. (Quantum Physics)
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A: Hi Christine, I am so sorry your sister is suffering from this and it must be very painful, for you, as her sister watching it. The truth is yes the NARP Program can help anyone wanting to claim, release and heal their inner traumas. However, the problem with narcissistic individuals is usually, that is the thing they least want to do, meet their Inner Being. Often there are so many defences ... Your sister would have to want to and commit herself to working with the Modules in order to heal. And sadly we can't force people to do that - it has to be their choice. I hope this answers your question. Mel x
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Hi Tina, thank you for your question. Yes, you do download them to your PC, you don't need Facebook to access. Mel x
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Hi Sophie, I am so sorry you are going through this - and please know myself and other Thrivers would love to help you shift our the trauma of that and create space for change and healing to generate. That work takes place in the NARP Forum - whereby you receive extensive coaching, support and healing suggestions to help you with this (or anything else you require support with) - and this is all comes with your NARP Membership. You can come into the NARP Forum here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/member I hope this helps Mel xo
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Hi Jerry, they are digital downloads. The reason we deliver in MP3 files and PDFS is because our research revealed the necessity for security - the safest way for anyone dealing with Ns to receive files is to their nominated personal inbox. Mel x
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Hi Deborah, thank you for our question. There is no different verbal language in my healings other than what you will have seen on YouTube. The "different" language is that we learn to visualise / feel - because the subconscious deals better in pictures and emotions. That is all a part of the process of Quanta Freedom Healing. No "codes" or "mantras!" I hope this helps. Melanie x