eHarmonyReviews 1,177

Matches ya right this site should be removed, it just takes your money no option to cancel. This is a get rich for this company; you cant freely speak to anyone and the matches they choose are so left of my right. Match you up because you like dogs or worse because only if you say you dont drink they force you find a drinker because that makes you more attractive ya maybe if I drank a gallon of alcohol would I find this site worth it. Please dont blow your money on eharmony!

I spent two months on the service only to find zero matches because there were no matches that shared with my views on not drinking alcohol. I contacted them and told them I was receiving no matches and was not receiving any value for the money I was spending and asked for them to cancel the six month contract. They refused. What a scam. Any conscious business would graciously agree to cancel a contract for something someone had found no value in their service.

Eharmony doesn't work like other sites where it shows you only a few matches every few days which can be a good thing, makes you think it was a well thought out process. I have to say that a lot of times I wonder why they consider a person a match like if you both like dogs, as another reviewer wrote, doesn't necessarily mean you have the chops to make it as a couple. I did meet (online) more normal good people on this site than on plenty of fish or okay cupid. So I would say yes, the filtration process for creeps is much better still not a very successful way to meet someone I believe. The consumer service is super crappy as "per terms and agreements" seems to be their only response to any dissatisfied customer. You can pay for a membership but can never opt out until your time runs out. Super crappy. So I'm thinking, well a year is a long time, so if I have a boyfriend, I'm meant to just stay on this site until the time runs out? That's just a fight waiting to happen but hey, maybe that's what they want, just to keep you on eharmony forever *shudder*. It doesn't seem like they really care about the users on the site actually finding love. It feels like they just want your money and put more focus into how they can keep a continuous income from people than actually helping people find a love match they can grow a relationship with. It feels much more catered to the first steps of dating than actually establishing something. Also, some profiles seem to be created by the company to entice you to stay on. Sounds like a heavy accusation but honestly, I wouldn't be surprised. Eharmony is that frenemy you don't need in your life that says they want you to succeed but will do anything to keep you where they want you to be. Well, if anything, it's good practice for getting yourself out there and having those epiphanies that help you move to the next real thing. Thanks for the life lessons, eharmony. Definitely looking forward to deleting my account and not looking back. Also, be aware of the automatic subscriptions! If you don't actually go turn this off, they will keep automatically charging you and you won't be able to ever get out. Hotel freaking California, man. Proceed cautiously.

I read the reviews here and agree with those with one star. EHarmony IS a scam. I subscribed for 3 months, but hardly received any matches; 2 matches in a month! I live in a city of 750,000 people, yet they could not find me enough number of matches. I asked for refund, since they didn't provide the service I paid for, but they refused. Wasted lots of money and time. They should NOT be doing business if they don't have enough members in this city.

Unlike other sites, Eharmony delivers the matches to you, and you choose from that, it does a great job at matching common interests and character traits, but does a HORRIBLE job on appearance, it leaves appearance out of the equation, delivering woman who are WAY overweight and very UN-Attractive. I'm 57,140, slim and I take care of myself, the few ladies I find that are physically similar, most don't reply, they don't even view my profile, leaving me to believe that many members are NOT active, And EHarmony conveniently leaves out the time stamp when a member is last active, most dates have this!, but not EHarmony!

I signed up for eharmony in April 2017. Since then I have received very few "matches." The site keeps saying I need to expand the distance parameters. I live in Albuquerque, a city of 500,00 and can't believe that the site cannot find me someone close to home. Santa Fe is 45 minutes away and some men I have contacted are not interested in traveling that far. In every case but one, I have had to make the initial contact. I have since gone to Ourtime.com and met a wonderful man within the first month. And that site resulted in many dates, all of whom made the initial contact. I posted the same profile and pictures on both eharmony and ourtime by the way. I have kept the eharmony open out of curiosity to see if I receive any response and so far there has been only a few new matches with no communication from any of them.

The matches sent were extemely lll-suited. As a woman, they skew toward older men. I live in the center of a large metropolitan area, and virtually everyone they sent was on the outskirts, with virtually no one being in actual city where I live. MANY if not most of the matches were not active and had probably joined on a free weekend. I have spoken to others (female friends and men I have met through this and other sites) and everyone seems to have the same experience. It is also insanely expensive for the one ridiculous match they send you every two days or so. Don't do it. Choose another site.

Residing in a heavily populated Singles (Divorced, Widowed, Never Married) Westside area of Los Angeles, eHarmony fails to supply "Matches" for 2 straight days, and when producing "matches", we didn't share a lifestyle, nor are the majority of Matches" even in Los Angeles.

EHarmony recommended that I modify my criteria, as if they are paying me to fit into their database. Then, eHARMONY UNILATERALLY CHANGED MY PROFILE CRITERIA to produce "matches", which did not match the type of person that I am seeking. It was obvious that eHarmony changed my profile... so I changed my profile preferences back to my criteria... YOU CAN NOT TRUST eHarmony.

Also, some of the matches that eHarmony produced in West Los Angeles weren't even Current Subscribers of eHarmony (because I am in contact with them on other sites), which proves that eHarmony is running a SCAM.

EHarmony claims to be a "relationship" site that uses psychological information to match it's subscribers. I have researched over 25 dating/relationship sites, and have not found ONE person who had anything positive or neutral to say about eHarmony.

Since eHarmony produces matches that don't fit your criteria, it is an excellent dating site for casual and serial dating, don't expect to get your time and money's worth on eHarmony.