Sorry to say but im not that taken by eHarmony. So far ive tried it, wejustfit.com and tinder (yuk) and eHarmony wouldnt take the top slot at this point. Maybe it will get better with time but its been a while already and even though two dates arent bad (the ladies were lovely and we're going to stay friends) im just not taken by it all. Keep your options open, that's my advice folks:-)