I signed up for eharmony in April 2017. Since then I have received very few "matches." The site keeps saying I need to expand the distance parameters. I live in Albuquerque, a city of 500,00 and can't believe that the site cannot find me someone close to home. Santa Fe is 45 minutes away and some men I have contacted are not interested in traveling that far. In every case but one, I have had to make the initial contact. I have since gone to Ourtime.com and met a wonderful man within the first month. And that site resulted in many dates, all of whom made the initial contact. I posted the same profile and pictures on both eharmony and ourtime by the way. I have kept the eharmony open out of curiosity to see if I receive any response and so far there has been only a few new matches with no communication from any of them.