MelanieToniaEvans

I purchased the Narp program, paying monthly instalments.My bank card was compromised so the 3rd psyment didnt ho through. I was finding it very difficult accessing the programme i sent an email asking for help or if I could have my money returned. Fair I thought? The responses I got were shocking! I was told that I was given direction on how to access the program, then I was sent and email saying my access had been cancelled? Then I was receiving emails on how to log in to access the program - even though they had cancelled my access?. All these came from the same person! Then I was told that they are a business and not willing to give me a refund and she ( the emailer) became personal towards me saying that it was my fault I couldn't access the program and made me feel stupud! In the end I blocked them from emailing me any further. The little access I did manage helped ( I got through half of step 1) from then on I have been reading the book. So as I say. Melanie's work helped but her customer support was dreadful.

I was thrown off a group by Melanie Tonia Evans when I did not sign up to her program, on the pretext that I had been too insulting - about narcissists (!) In my opinion MTE is herself a narcissist. I have no problem with narcissists making a living out of warning others about their condition, but tell the truth. Wouldnt touch her therapy with a ten foot barge pole. Went elsewhere and recovered.

I joined this abuse recovery program with the greatest expectations. I am an idealist at heart and still believe there are altruistic people and programs in the world. NARP, unfortunately, is not one of them. Melanie----much like all cult leaders----holds out this incredible healing message which, whether intended or not, seems to prey upon people who have already been abused. I was following her and her program which has a forum component with the greatest confidence. As a Gold member, which means you pay over two hundred dollars for her online material that you can research and find for yourself for free, you get to discuss your experience in posts (to a VERY limited and guarded degree) as a way of giving and receiving support. But do NOT think for yourself, whatever you do! I was a member of this cult for less than a month. When I realized how much "monitoring" is done and the very real fact that you CANNOT speak freely, are censored if you dispute what the "gods" say in any way, my red flag went up and I left! In a post, I tried to warn other members by writing of my experience. When I returned to the site to make a copy of my post, it was gone----in less than 15 minutes! This was the second incident in which I attempted to speak out in a non-inflammatory but upfront way and had my post banned! Needless to say, I've been banned from the forum. Good riddance to the Melanie Tonia Evans "cult"!

It's possible that people have been helped by this woman who has no credentials or even formal education to speak of yet declares herself an expert just because she's a former narcissistic abuse victim who's been touched by "Divine Intervention". But tread lightly here. There have been many cult-like leaders like her who have proven themselves to be very dangerous. I know for a fact that people are "encouraged" to write favorable reviews about her program. So if you sign on with her program, keep your eyes and ears open. But if you think for yourself---lookout. You'll be banned!

I was asked to write a review before receiving the product subsequently, I only received part of it. My personal information was also compromised by their website without any compensation on the support team's part. The integrity is seriously challenged with this business. I have never had to leave a negative review for any business ever before.

This program does nothing and the forum is toxic. Please don't waste your money. Melanie offers an example shift for free on her youtube channel. Just use that. The extortionately priced narp program forum is not a help, it is w toxic hotbed of victim shaming. Please don't give this a penny.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program equivocates just like a narcissist.

While on the one hand Melanie asserts (thru her articles on narcissism) that it is not the victims fault for being a victim of narcissistic bullying since faulty programming was put into the victim's head. On the other hand her support team members, (Clarie Scott was the one who answered my e-mail questions) blames the victim for being a victim of narcissistic bullying because the victim attracts NARCS to him or her.

The victim does not attract NARC bullying behavior to him or her. There is so much bullying in the world it is bound to bounce into the victims orbit by sheer happenstance. Melanie herself says, NARC bullying is a worldwide epidemic (see page four, second paragraph in the introduction section of her eBook entitled, Narcissistic Abuse the Truth). Aside from that, NARC Bullying is the NARC bullys choice to do or not to do regardless of what the victim does or does not do. The victim has no control over the NARC bullys actions only how the victim chooses to react to it.

Also on the one hand Melanie asserts (thru her articles on narcissism) that it is the victims responsibility to stop being a victim. Yet On the other hand she blames the victim for being a victim by labeling the victim a co-dependent (CODA) by implying that the victim is enabling the NARC to sabotage him or her by getting involved in helping the NARC. I will admit I spent many years trying to do what I believed was helping my husband. But it was not because I am a CODA. I was being a wife who was looking out for her family. Now that I know that my spouse is a NARC I have stopped among other things trying to get him to change his NARC behavior. And I am now focused on the realization that I have to help myself instead.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program is inhumane just like a narcissist.

It does not allow victims of NARCS to share their pain. It is a human condition that all humane beings (at least once) not just NARC victims must be able to voice their trauma in order to be validated and/or know they are not alone. Her reasoning is that if people keep talking about the NARC bully who victimized them they will never heal. The following are some FREE recommendations for that: The first has to do with learning the Serenity Prayer, which goes like this "God grant me the courage to change the things I can change. The serenity to ACCEPT the things I can't change. And the wisdom to know the difference". In other words mere acceptance of your condition will give you inner peace. Acceptance is without judgment and it means it is not your fault but there is nothing you can do about it except let it go and move on. Sometimes we have limitations and that is okay. We cannot control others only ourselves. The second has to do with getting in touch with God or whatever your higher power is to you. Build a relationship with It by praying to It for guidance and unconditional love such as letting It be your cosmic parent. The one you always wanted and needed and never had. It will override your bad programming by replacing it with good programming.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program promises you false hope just like a narcissist.

Melanie says that immediately within days, weeks, months people get healed from Quantum healing. True, if ones leg is broken it will heal in about six months. False, if ones leg is severed it will take many years to get over the phantom pain. For the more chronic deeper the wound the longer it takes to heal. And it may never fully heal due to scarring. Emotional abuse leaves scars. This explains why victims of domestic violence may never get all the way over it. But if one learns to embrace the power of acceptance that it is okay that one cannot fix a broken heart and have faith and trust in ones own ability to heal oneself and the powers that be there is a great chance one will fully heal.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program is hypocritical just like a narcissist.

Melanie Tonia Evans talks about how Quantum Healing will help you create your own reality. Yet, while she declares that it is her lifes calling to help others, she charges people money in order for them to get her wonderful healing experience! What about people who can't afford her blessed saint's help? I get that other healing practitioners have to make a living by charging for their services for they are not Quantum Healers. But if Melanie is so enlightened that she is able to control her own destiny then why doesn't she do something else for a living so she can help people free of charge?

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program uses fear tactics to intimidate and manipulate you just like a narcissist.

Melanies articles are very informative and know what narcissism is sincerely all about. And her resources are extremely helpful for giving a comprehensive definition of what narcissism truly is. However, Melanies articles on narcissism also disturb me. I joined the News Letter list and read a lot of them. They read like a scare tactic commercial that gets you hooked on its advertisement in order to sell you something. They tell you the NARC is subhuman, a vampire, or the devil. Ex-lax for diarrhea much! Havent we victims been traumatized enough already? After all we are the ones living the nightmare. The truth can be told without all of the drama, which only serves to immobilize us with its exaggeration instead of setting us free with its facts.

Speaking of facts, Melanies are not all there. She asserts that her Quantum Healing operates in theta brainwave rhythm. Not so! Theta brainwave activity occurs during light lucid (pre-conscious) sleep state (she tells you to refrain from falling asleep during her webinar), and before and/or after beta REM dream (subconscious) sleeps state. Her Quantum Healing occurs during alert awake (conscious) beta or relaxed awake (semi-conscious) alpha brainwave activity. She also mentions that Delta brainwave patters occur while one is asleep. The last time I checked, Delta brainwave activity was the result of its host being in a coma (unconscious) state.

Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program is deceptive just like a narcissist.

What she and her support team fail to tell you is, how does Quantum Healing help you heal from narcissistic battering? Regarding how the program works, all I got was a bunch of rhetoric - hole in a doughnut talk. Her description of her program was a lot of words that did not say anything complicated generalizations versus simple specifics.

Quantum is just a fancy word for important. I did the free Quantum Healing webinar. What I got out of it was to tune into my body's physical pain, which is a result of my inner child's unhealed emotional injuries, give my inner child my unconditional love, and merge myself into the divine light of God the all loving deity. Well I can do this without paying US $150.00 for it. All I have to do is meditate, do self-hypnosis, or pray to God.

The bottom line is getting away from NARCS has nothing to do with the childhood wounds that were inflicted upon us against our will but everything to do with knowledge is power and once you have it you can see the red flags and make the choice to move on.

Another thing, she and her support team succeed in doing is vilifying your mind so that you will stop thinking and just blind, deaf, and dumb go along with her program. Melanies support team, Clarie Scott, via e-mail said the following: What you don't want to do is try to "figure" all of this out by "thinking" about it. That is all the ego/ logical mind trying to qualify and quantify everythingInstead of trying to "figure it out" which really doesn't work because of the fear.

Yet another thing, I find interesting is that Melanie does not have any physical anomalies or bodily wear and tear to go along with the anorexia she claimed to have been suffering from as well as such psychological NARC abuse issues as post traumatic stress disorder and a psychotic breakdown she claims to have experienced (according to her articles). Instead she looks like a pretty people model whose had a perfect little life with loving parents and friends who like her (according to her online photos), and is making money being the poster child of recovery. When I got married I had robust health, an athletic build, weighed 120 pounds, and wore a size 6 dress. Now I weigh 200 pounds, wear a size 18 dress, lost a necessary permanent tooth, contracted a degenerating lower disk which is collapsing into my tailbone, have rising blood pressure, developed vitreous floaters in my eyes, got irritable bowel syndrome in my colon, acquired spider veins in my face, and possess double frown wrinkles around my mouth for all of my undeserved NARC troubles, which I did not cause or affect or effect.

Two days ago I got on this consumer review of Melanie Tonia Evans and saw the latest negative review of her, which was dated 3/18/16. Today, 3/20/16 I got on to post my own review shockingly to see 20 positive reviews suddenly here. And they are criticizing the negative reviewers. How interesting! Apparently it is okay to do so, and evidently the terms and conditions for posting such a review allow it. That being said, I will input my educated common sense. If you are considering investing in Melanie Tonia Evans Quantum Healing program read the authentic negative reviews and ignore the fabricated positive reviews before you make your decision. Besides that, my recommendation is to read her free articles to get over your confusion about your NARC relationship(s) but prevent wallet NARC abuse by refraining from purchasing any of her Quantum Healing literature.

Readers Note: I write reviews for educational purposes. I do NOT read other posts about my reviews.

I found melanie tonia evans when I was searching how to cope with a narcissist. My mother was dating a narcissist. I had always been interested in everything new agey and this seemed like a delight. It made me feel like "oh, I have the power allmighty in me"

Yes Melanie tonia evans tells a LOT of facts about narcissists. And yes if you are into meditation this can really work for you, but please, dont buy in to the magical thinking that melanie's program is something that will "heal" you from your childhood wounds. It does not.

The amount of money I was willing to throw down melanie's throat. Her 1on1's cost 999$ and her program really did not take even 20$ to create. If I was the one who would find the 'secret' for all healing I would not ask any money from anyone. Melanie's life story does not seem legit. She makes you feel like you are lesser than her and she fills you up with all sorts of beliefs that you are sooo wounded and sick almost. She makes you feel like you need her and her program and if you dont buy it and work with the modules, you will be on a path of full destruction. She wants you to believe this. Come on!

I was doing FINE in life and with myself before I found this program. It made me doubt myself. And because I never felt anything good with the modules I started believing I had these "blocks" in me. Then I tried and tried and tried over a year to make the modules work for me, and I completely fell to the belief that my life is over, because I cant make this module me. I started having health anxiety, because the modules werent working for me and because of the scare tactics melanie was using. She talks how childhood wounds cause cancer and mental ilness and destruct your life. Girl please.

I started unconciously convincing myself that I have some sort of cancer, alzheimers, a heart attac or something. I started adding to my already existing stress. Because the modules werent "healing me" I felt as if now I will die. Then I looked at more melanies story and started convincing myself I will have a psychotic breakdown if these modules do not work for me.

And with health anxiety, comes the symptoms. I have been to hell and back this past month. Melanie is SUCH a big part of it. She made me believe that my own mind has no control of my life. And that things could only get worse as time goes on, IF I'm not succesful with her program. $#*! you melanie, $#*! YOU.

I am very young and very healhty, and when I found your program I was as well. But now after your program, I am not left with all the things you promised, but health anxiety, generalised anxiety, the phobia of mental and physiological illness, and full blown OCD.

You have succesfully made me $#*! up my life, for believing in your insanity. Your program is dangerous for people who have ocd. In the long run you will cause so much problems for people.

Thank god, I have now found a way to heal for real and guess what? THERE IS NO MONEY INVOLVED. There is no mumbojumbo. Only reality. My reality.

Because of melanie's program, my selfdoubt started controlling my life and my thoughts. I lost my identity and my personality. Now I'm gaining it back. And by far the hardest thing is training my mind out of beliving the $#*! melanie made me believe. That is the only traumatic thing here.

No more meditation or melanie's bull$#*! for me.
I'm done with all the new age things. In the future I will be strong enough to believe in something bigger than me. But right now with the rollercoaster of hell I have had with melanie's program, I am not in the right state of mind to begin to believe in something bigger than me. I am changing the way I think.

Do not buy this program.

With firsthand experience I confirm Melanie Tonia Evans is affluent in the knowledge of narcissists due to the fact she is one. Her self narcissistic knowledge is what she uses to drag you in. She continually seeks association with fresh people able to repetitively spruik promotion of her unlicensed methods of counselling, on her behalf. For years she has been the equivalent of listening to lengthy broken record played over and over again. Do not fall for her self blame model which includes "you attracted this to heal your inner wounds, or you attracted this because of your souls failings in past lives". The plain fact is, you go to school to learn the basic skills in life. Schools don't provide teachings on the psychology and tactics of narcissism and this is the only thing you personally need to learn to protect yourself and strengthen. Humans can only tangibly concentrate on this life, not fix any unknown ideology of past lives.
IMPORTANT, PLEASE NOTE: For a long period, she has received benefits for services rendered from being in contact with the narcissist/narcissists of some of her victim clientele, to emotionally abuse them further on the narcissist's behalf.
BEWARE, the more information you give MTE about your personal situation, the more means she has to research you, to obtain personal reward from your perpetrating narcissist! Melanie pretends to want to help heal others. Her methodology originated not from her sole epiphany as she claims, but from studying pre-existing therapists/mentors, with which she adapted to her brand. Research this fact on the internet and you will see for yourself. She thrives, knowing you paid to consume weeks/months of your time listening to her lengthy repetitive modules which have nothing more factually to add than her free sample. She and her trained moderators disguise their words numerous ways, but the essence always is "If you don't emotionally heal from her modules, you are the problem and don't question us or you're out". This is standard cult like group scapegoat abuse 101, in the narcissistic hand book to protect the business model and make the victim feel further isolated for speaking the truth. Some MTE moderators are enabling MTE and should take a hard look at their scripted training. Moderators, please wake up! Think for yourself, have mindful moral decency, self-respect and respect for others. Some moderators have woken up and silently left MTE, many haven't.
ADVICE: complaining directly to MTE is rarely successful. Best proven practice is to:
1. Write/email your honest dot pointed complaint simply, without malice and request a delivery receipt from MTE.
2. Keep records of all correspondence, their response and their actions taken.
3. Instantly disassociate from Melanie and her brand if their response is bland, inappropriate or traumatising. Be very careful not to get dragged into their confusing spiral back and forth, latent with innuendo to provoke an emotional reaction from you. They know exactly which emotional buttons to push.
NEXT STEP: Together, stand up, collate your abusive experiences with MTE, speak up and present them to authorities to have her debunked and removed publicly! Many have not had the strength remaining to do so, after MTE's underhanded emotional attacks. If this is you, know you are not alone! INSTEAD, NOW, TAKE YOUR POWER BACK! Do not allow MTE to kick you again while you are already down. Many countries have a Code of Conduct for unregistered health care workers who's governing bodies you can make a formal complaint. If you are from another country, please also make a complaint in Australia. Write a letter to the Editor of the State newspaper in Victoria and Queensland and write a letter to televised news services such as "A Current Affair" in Australia. Plus, report your experience on sites such as this. Collectively this MTE unscrupulous behaviour can be stopped to protect the emotional wellbeing of current and future victims that may be negatively affected by her controlling methodology.

To the people who are happy with MTE services, that's great, her victims would be glad you feel you have not been affected in this way, but please know there are many of her other clients that have been severely traumatised! Please do not protect or speak publicly for MTE in these cases that you personally do not have the factual information about and risk your own integrity by becoming an MTE enabler. Please be thankful you were not personally affected and let MTE fight her own battles and take personal responsibility and accountability for her self and her trained teams actions on these factual accounts.

I posted some reviews and got a response from Melanie and didn't read it. If I wasn't good enough to respond to years ago when the program wasn't working fast enough for me, then I don't need to hear from her now. I bought her program and used it for a long time. It helped where nothing to date had. But it was very slow. I asked mel for help and to join the support group and she blocked me from it, she removed me from her mailing list and questions to her email where answered by her son who just didn't awnser the questions. Prior to this, I tried every thing I could. Other abuse victims said I made a lot of progress and that I was advanced their stages of recovery. I was happy, but if I was around abuse, it would regress. The healings healed my emotions, but it was very slow. When mel was not helpful, I felt so brusied. I've never been able to ask for help and get it from anyone. Mel would say that is my issue. What was my issue was that I felt so bruised I didn't call the Australian better business bureau. I learned what she was doing. Part of it is theta healing. Theta healing is a mediation where you ascend to heaven and give your pain to god. Mel is in a theta state when she does the MP3s. They are a meditation where you give your pain to God. So, it is a form of prayer. Mel creates an ethic violation because she claims she is the one who does the healing. You'd have better luck learning theta healing (there are books you can get) and healing yourself.

Old news & methods, cult-like jargon, wounded followers of a self-proclaimed "author & expert"

The good. The articles and videos, if you can tolerate reading through redundant, repetitive, unedited SELF PUBLISHED writing, do contain useful information about narcissistic abuse and healing. There's tons of free stuff from her so just search and you'll find it on the internet. I recommend you find another Source of information.

The Bad: She is a self-proclaimed author and expert and has no legitimately published books or articles other than on other peoples blogs. She has no formal education. She doesn't claim to but it sure seems like she wants you to believe she's an expert. She's not. She's good at selling her products and gathering a following of wounded minions who regard her as a God and quote her incessantly on her forum.

I started reading her articles and watching her videos and really wanted to like and respect her. However, upon getting the "program" and sifting through the materials and playing some of the MP3s and trying some of the exercises, I have changed my review.

The entire program is links you have to download (took me half an hour with a decent internet speed) so you'll be paying for about a GB of data. Be warned.

This is a lot of smoke and mirrors, and new-age fluff with little to no basis in scientific fact. "Members" of her program are asked at the beginning of MP3's to "Allow Melanie" into "their space" (as if she is coming out of nowhere, in pure vapor form, from Australia to your house), and then to go and find the pieces of themselves they lost as a child, (she gives you 10-15 seconds to go and find those pieces and reintegrate them into yourself, that's enough time right?). White lights, becoming a child again, blah, blah, blah. Yes you have to feel it to heal it but she did NOT DISCOVER ANYTHING NEW! SHE REPACKEGED AND REENAMED RESEARCH AND HARD WORK DONE BY DEDICATED PROs in the past. These techniques have been around for years. The Silva method, Binaural Beats, Louise Hay (God bless her soul), and hundreds of others. YOU CAN FIND INFO YOU NEED, WAY BETTER THAN THIS, FOR FREE. KEEP SEARCHING!

I know she must care on some level but she is blindly dangerous calling herself an expert. PTSD demands professional help and that's what youre dealing with, among other things, if you are or were involved with a narcissist. Shell make you feel alright. Then shell maybe talk you down a bit but youll have ripped open a wound thats way above your current capabilities to deal with. She helped me dissociate from reality and I had to call the crisis centre and the womens shelter over the next two days to get real-time help.

She boasts about how much you get in her 1000s of pages of modules. But the reason her "modules" are so long is because she cannot employ brevity to save her life. She repeats, rambles, and tries way to hard to show you how qualified and experienced she is as she talks on her recordings and writes her articles and e-books without an editor or producer in sight.

She a VERY poor writer, as I may be, but I don't claim to be an author. Self publishing does not make you one an author. Her articles are nothing more than "advertorials," tools to sell her long winded, poorly written materials and so called 'books" which are nothing more than PDF's that could have been cut down by half had her ego not blocked her from hiring an editor. To me it seems she has created her own little world, with her small group of followers in which she is praised and held in the same highly regarded position as that of any other Cult leader. Does she have any one else she suggests.? Yes, one: Sam Vaknin. (Lots of great, well researched YouTube videos). He's got the credentials to back it up and has written several published books including, Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited. HES ALSO A NARC by diagnosis and has a lovely video on how he stays married to his wife after all these years!

I can go on with the negatives but... you get the idea.

I'd go for the Professionals here. A voice on a recorded MP3, poorly written self published e-books isn't the only way to go. YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST CARE! Please find a Psychotherapist, join a group with a facilitator who has been to school, read a book by someone who had dedicated their life through educational means to help sufferers of trauma and abuse. Get support from other people sure but there is no guarantee and no quick fix. DO NOT BUY MELEANIE TONIA EVANS PROGRAM OR EBOOKS. She doesn't even have anything on Amazon for goodness sakes except people trying to resell the mistake they bought from her

Sorry to take all the jam out of your donut. Good luck but keep searching.

She doesn't want you to discuss the abuse; she believes in codependency; she has no license and be sure you ask about her 'money back' guarantee.

She's in business with Sandra Brown - another scammer.

Preying on desperate victims is despicable.

Like many of the negative reviews, I have also noticed Melanie has a very obnoxious, cruel side. I signed up for her services long before she blew up and had a few direct interactions with her (nowadays you can't even get her one-on-one unless you pay out your $#*!) so I know this of her directly. Cruel, petty comments. She's the most important person in the room, better not challenge her. If she's so "strong" from healing, she should put up with a little questioning. What she wants for herself, she doesn't even want for her clients. For example, if she's happy she's not afraid of speaking up anymore, shouldn't she want that for her clients? Except they ALL get gagged if she perceives them puttiing her down. It's too bad - Her ego seems to have gotten in her way. I even got an older negative review removed from here by them, God knows how. They're manipulative and don't like people speaking their truth about them if they aren't squeaky clean, which they aren't. I think she's gotten too big for her britches too. At the end of the day, I look at a person and how they treat me and others. And when I look at that, I don't see Melanie Tonia Evans as healed. I see that her unresolved trauma makes her think everyone who critisizes her (even constructively) is a narc and her unresolved trauma makes her mean. So I don't think she's worked it all out. At all. AAANd now her little mignions will be after me *sigh*

Unbelievable scam. They say you get your money back. I asked NUMEROUS times for them to tell me what the modules entailed before I bought it, they evaded the question. It is supposed to heal you of your wounds after dating narcissists. It is all this voodoo, "spin the hurt out of you" into the atmosphere crap. It is a SCAM. Do not buy it. Melanie Tonia Evans business is out to make money, NOT to help you

I've been in the Narp program for 5 years & it's been a fascinating journey. I met some lovely people & made friends, after trying so many other conventional & non conventional healing modalities at the time. The program gave me a temporary port & hope. It has some benefits, insightful videos & resources. Although these are very limited & you are viewing yourself through someone else's filter, who is unqualified. This has been recycled from many others peoples methods, clearly!
It helped when I needed it most, as I was so lost, yet vulnerable & impressionable.
I have had growing concerns the last few years & left today because of these. In the program & forums they discuss 'red flags' regarding narcissism, well I've seen these in narp & felt the urge to share my experience with this, of which I've listed below. I also agree with some of the many other low star reviews lefts here, also some good ones, it's clearly not black & white. I don't usually leave reviews but felt this to be important.

*Last year Melanie did a video series with Christiane Northrup who I had long admired. I was enthralled & excited until the topic of BPD came up. Apparently in their view, these people are as toxic as narcissist and to be avoided. I live in the UK & currently there is no diagnosis for complex-Ptsd, so those people usually become labeled with BPD. Including people close to me. These people are victimised & usually suicidal, especially in the teenage years, which is statistically rising! Therefore I found these statements extremely irresponsible, insensitive and very worrying. I was a little horrified especially coming from Cristiane who is a Dr. I politely pointed out my concerns to Melanie & asked her to pass this feedback onto Christiane Northrup. I was shut down with a vague answer regarding her previous labels that she overcame, this didn't address my concerns at all. I was then ignored & on with her agenda she went. This seems commonplace, taking no responsibility & shutting people down.
*I find Melanie approach is bias towards love interest & marriages. She has limited understanding as to what it like to grow up with a narcissistic family member/parent & extreme abuse. People with these wounds are extremely vulnerable, usually with little or no self esteem. Her approach is limited and does not provide a safety net, if the healing unearths frightening repressed traumas, which could be catastrophic. The forum was your only go to for comfort, these are full of other traumatised people & moderators, although most were very kind & the code of conduct was beneficial.
We are dealing with the full spectrum of abuse here. These healing need to be studied, tried & tested before being unleashed on the public.
* I also found the constant videos triggering. Melanie advices 'don't keep researching narcissistic' but yet, has an almost unbelievable amount of videos coming through the forum & social media. With catchy emotive titles & photos, recycling the same content & touting for new costomer.
*The healing promises the only rapid turn around with recovery, which I find worrying for those with c-ptsd as it has taken me lots of years & professional help also. Although I do agree rapid healing is possible, this cannot be promised by a so called professional. We are all unique & one approach does not fit all, gently gently does it. I found this also creates a feeling of failure within the In the program & forums if not achieved.
*Melanie is a self proclaimed number 1 (yes number 1) World leading expert on narcissistic recovery, with no credentials at all, apart from failed relationships with Narcissistics. I would presume even some academic bonafide experts, would not proclaim this.
*You pay extra (nearly double) for her new workshops to be a VIP guest, spend time with her at lunch and have photo & signings, wow there's my ticket out of narp!
*I don't want to be personal towards Melanie as I feel she has helped many, but I have deduced over these years (in my opinion) there is an strong element of ego & profit making at hand here, maybe unconscious, I am not sure. Although I feel her original intention may have been good, she's fallen firmly of a pedestal for me & many others.

I do have many other points but have listed the most relevant. There are lots of vulnerable people out there to be preyed upon. I was a believer for a time and feel it's beneficial in part, but very very limited.
There is recovery & many many roads to it similar to narp. Please don't ignore the red flags and place your most vulnerable parts into the hands of someone with no credentials, a big ego & following. The mind is complex & healing not straightforward, trust your own instincts & tread carefully.

Best wishes on your journey to recovery!

Review update 5/11/19:

After leaving narp, I had an intense reaction, which shocked me. I felt like I was in full blown withdrawal, like a drug addict.
I'm fascinated with my reaction. I researched cults & tribal conditioning recently & have seen similar cases, hence why people can't leave or go back after leaving. Clearly I used narp as a crutch. People are sucked up with clever promises and tactics, your hooked like found sheep giving over your self & cash. At last you've found a saviour! If you read the posative reviews you can clearly see this again & again. We're human, wounded we need tribe & safety, I can I understand this first hand, the wounds are already in place and we are ripe for the pickings.
A good Healer/therapist should be teaching us to do this for ourselves, we shouldn't give anyone permission 'to come into our space' (this is actually is in the modules).
Although I do not regret doing this course, it has put me firmly & automonously in charge of my own healing journey. It was an AID (angel in disguise) for me.

I didn't answer Melanie's reply to my previous review, as she only answered one of my points, that would clearly effect her sales. Which was disappointing, as I see all the feedback on here as important. Hopefully for businesses to review their current service, especially when dealing with fragile people.

I also have it on good authority that she has tried to trump my review, unbelievable! And confirms the red flags I had seen!

I should have checked the negative reviews more thoroughly before I purchased. The issue with "programs" like NARP is that they are so shame based and predatory, focusing on one of the most hurt and traumatized populations--victims of chronic, often severe, abuse. Right away you realize that Melanie is not a licensed mental health professional (psychologist, psychotherapist, etc). I would equate her work to that of a "life coach". She does a good job with her marketing to make you believe she is an expert, and from here the connection is made that her program is world-leading authority on how to heal. She also markets this program as the only way to "heal for real". I admit, I was looking for help and allowed myself to be persuaded by this. The biggest issues with NARP are three:

1) Melanie and the Support Team are not licensed professionals, but their methods and advice are treated like a dogma that all "NARP Gold" forum members must follow, or else. Any diversion of opinion is sourly frowned upon and could get you attacked, ostracized, and subsequently banned. I've seen the way MTE responds to critical reviews, even telling someone's private information like their name or the comments they wrote on the supposedly safe, anonymous abuse recovery forum. I should have seen that behavior as a glaring red flag. No trusted, respected medical professional or compassionate coach publicizes private patient/client information on review sites as punishment when they receive criticism. I can only wonder what kind of backlash this review might conjure from MTE.

2) The premise of NARP is codependent and dangerous for abuse survivors to adopt: "So within, so without." The way MTE interprets this is that any abuse you face is because you are a match for abuse. Your inner being attracted abuse. Your unhealed parts are the source of abuse. If you heal yourself, abusers will disappear from your reality. So essentially, according to MTE, if you are abused by others or a collective society, it's your fault. If you are stalked and harassed, it's you who isn't taking responsibility to heal yourself enough to make stalkers and harassers disappear from reality from Earth itself. If someone can really do that they should receive a Nobel Prize in Physics and also World Peace. The reality is that adopting this mindset and blaming yourself for the actions and behaviors of abusers can cause psychological damage or worse.

You are not taking responsibility to heal yourself, they say, if you still encounter narcissists. Also if you use NARP and still experience abuse, you're "not going inward" enough, they say. You might think you're getting a "support form" with your gold package. Let me save you the money right now. Their answer to any and everything you post is this: "Go within. Are you still triggered, traumatized and experiencing abuse? You're not doing it right. You aren't evolved enough. Module again."

3) Anything you write in the forum is heavily moderated, which is understandable to a degree. However, you are not allowed to say what happened to you. You can only say how you feel. Yet, I experienced and saw "senior members" and/or moderators diagnosing people online as "codependent" or unhealed, without knowing anything about that person's background, story, demographic, or life experiences. You literally cannot share what happened to you. Yet, some "senior members" and moderators feel entitled to judge, criticize, and project their beliefs, traumas, and emotions onto you. They will deploy a course of "advice" that you must follow. If you disagree with their blind diagnoses and advices you will be called unhealed, unevolved, and resistant to growth. It's this lack of accountability that I find utterly troubling. Again, an unlicensed stranger online feels entitled to give diagnoses and projections without knowing anything about someone, without any openness to feedback, examination or criticism-- what does this remind you of?

In conclusion, I find that a lot of my issues with MTE, NARP are that it reminds me of narcissistic, group think or cult behaviors. Accepting dogmas and victim blaming theories is unhelpful at best and dangerous at worst. The MTE, NARP forum philosophy is potentially dangerous to your recovery and could set you back instead of propel you forward in healing.

ETA: Melanie Tonia Evans tried to get my review removed! She doesn't want to accept accountability for this "program" she's running. She wants strict control over the narrative of this "program". Avoid at all costs. Read the reviews on other websites as well. Go to a real, licensed therapist who takes accountability for their actions and who is held accountable by the law and society. Look carefully in the reviews on SiteJabber, Melanie actually shared private client information to retaliate against someone who gave a critical review. It's despicable, not legal for a real therapist to do.

To join I had to give Melanie a perfect rating saying how great and wonderful she is. Let me tell you the truth, I really adored, trusted and looked up to this woman more than anyone to be treated like crap. I haven't been able to login to NARP gold whatever it is. Not sure what happened but I sent many emails as well as communicated with Melanie via YouTube. Her reply back to me was smart mouth and she deleted it. She doesn't care about any of us she cares about herself, getting attention and money. I'm sorry but she is a narcissist herself. Thank God due to my circumstances I didn't pay for the program I was able to join free. Had I paid, I would be infuriated. I felt like I was her number fan if that's what you call it. I consistently followed her on YouTube and Pinterest. I talked about her to my friends struggling and even random people with similar stories. I will no longer promote her or her program. I will no longer say what a sweet caring person she is either. She never helped me get logged in, she was smart with me because I had to keep asking which wasn't my fault, and I believe the other things people say online that have experienced similar situations I have. When I would see awful reviews about her I would stick up for her. I considered her my friend and teacher, now I consider her a self absorbed mean witch. I'll be sharing my experience with her no doubt because all these "EXPERTS" LOL making big bucks are phony and fake. Don't give them a damn dime they don't deserve it. They are clueless. Go to meetings in your area and talk amongst people face to face and people that are the real experts over these groups. This online bullsh** is just that... bullsh**! Too many phonies fooling people like us. Just listen when they talk - it's always me, me, me, I, I, I. Well YOU YOU YOU need help!

Can't heal without dealing with the source of your problem. Made me feel even more suicidal. Please beware

I signed up, and I now believe stupidly, for the gold level in the hope to get some relieve. I keep getting these pesky requests to join although I have already the downloads. Before I paid, the 'staff' responded, after I paid, 5 emails were completely ignored by the 'staff' of Melania Tonia Evans. I now believe this is just another clever outfit that cheats the most vulnerable. I am disgusted!

The NARP gold programme is fantastic and Melanie certainly knows what she's talking about. However, i think she has made a huge mistake in giving her moderators a false sense of superiority over other people on the healing journey. There is a forum that comes with the NARP gold package and the people running this forum blend into a dangerous collective mindset. They all use the same patronising theraputic language and have taken their small ammount of power too far. Whoever brings up an issue with the programme is accused of being in a state of victimhood and is then disregarded and blocked from giving feedback or communicating within the forum. This is a kind of cult mentality and the moderators have been very quick to take this collective mindset on as their sole identity. They repeat Melanies words like parrots and have developed a pretty limited way of seeing the world. You do not feel you are speaking to a human when communicating with Melanies team, you feel you are speaking to an inauthentic clone. This is unfortuantely very common within groups and it is dissappointing to see it happen here without any correction from Melanie. The moderators have put themselves in a very lofty position of perfection and superiority. Anyone who is not 100% happy and in agreement is disregarded as 'unhealed' and 'stuck'. The rating i have given is based solely on the forum and Melanies team. The actual programme is great but be prepared if you want to get involved with the NARP community.

Her "awesome" facebook help gatherings leading to a free webinar (infomercial) are closed a week after the webinar airs. These help groups do not allow sharing of pain or answers toward healing that do not involve her $195 NARP program - which you are told you do not have to purchase. Once the webinar airs the help page is closed leaving all those in pain who did not purchase her program hanging there with nothing to fall back on. Being a survivor with education under my belt - i see her as someone who wants to help only if she is paid handsomely for it. She and her moderators were rude to me personally and others who showed compassion or offered advice that did not contain her NARP program. Her healing your inner child spiritual journey may indeed work - but her tactics have all the hallmarks of a narcissistic manipulator - using the pain of others for her own gain.

EDIT: It is obvious by the number of people who have messaged me or disputed my review that Melanie supporters are not going to tolerate anyone who disagrees but instead will argue not with fact but by ripping apart the character of someone they don't know at all.

In response to what has been said about my own character here; My review was based on fact. I NEVER said Melanie was a narcissist nor did I say her work would not help others. I am not a troll. I have completed the preliminary Facebook help page and the 3+ hour webinar that followed. I know Melanie's website. I know her history. I know her work.

I also know Melanie can be far from nice to abuse victims - including myself - if they choose to talk about their pain or any other form of help outside of her program - like the need for legal avenues for instance.

Melanie is not a licensed therapist nor does she write, speak or freely give of her time without promoting her $195 program.

Perhaps before you rip apart the character of those who rate her business poorly you should honestly answer these three questions regarding the things we have expressed our displeasure with;

Have you been a part of Melanie's closed Facebook webinar pages (or NARP support pages) as an abuse victim and been belittled by an administrator or by Melanie herself?

Have you ever attempted to gain Melanie's program at a reduced or no cost rate because you could not afford to pay for it?

Have you ever attempted to return Melanie's program for your money back because it did not work for you?

If not, the fact is that you have nothing to say to those of us who have.

I did the three hour seminar. My review:

As for the experience of Quanta Freedom Healing:
You are told to set your goal to be connecting to your inner self.
Then you are asked to rate your current connection to your true self.
Then you are guided through a 'shift' where you will
1. Relax and breathe and let yourself feel your physical pain. Identify where it is in your body.
2. Identify at what age the pain is internally associated (from ancient past lives until the current moment).
3. Then you are asked to feel the pain and rate it.
4. Then you are instructed to imagine the pain been removed from each cell of your body (by spirits possibly) and a ball of white light then filling your cells.
5. You are than instructed to imagine that you have become a ball of white light and that you will go to your younger self remove their pain and then fill them with the white light as well.
6. Then you were instructed to envelop your younger self inside of your current white light ball self.
7. Then you were instructed to rate your level of pain again.
8. Then you were instructed to rate at the end of this "shift" your level of connection to your inner self.

I can imagine how such a process might be healing for some people. Good for them.
Unfortunately, for myself, I did not feel any healing effects during or after the Quanta Freedom Healing technique. I feel more Healing after spending a day by the river. A day by the river gives me more strength to stand up for myself with other people than the Quanta Freedom Healing exercise. Thank you for your sample, but I know myself and there is something else that works better for me.

And as for the scare tactics of "if you don't do QFH your suceptibility to Ns will remain and hurt you later when you fall prey to another narcissist" --- ha! Talk about a sales manipulation technique---so by that standard, it seems safe to assume that, since QFH hadn't been invented until recently, was everyone else who ever existed in the past Doomed to never being able to escape a narcissist? Gee that seems unlikely.

Anyway, I am not afraid of falling prey to narcissists again. I will be fine because I have harshly learnt the value of caution and boundaries. Anything that triggers my red flags in the future, like this program, I will feel comfortable saying no to.

At the same time, I cannot imagine that it will deliver all that has been promised. The promise of self-actualization in a few weeks is a lofty one. Red flag #1. Promising it will work based on non-independently verifiable sources: Red flag #2. Sprinkling in enough vague future "bogeymen" type scare tactics: Red Flag #3. Urging the audience to not 'think' but 'feel': Red Flag #4 (this is a marketer's dream- why do you think sex sells? People certainly aren't thinking when they see a lady that's hot as hell. But Hey- they certainly are feeling it though. Sold.)

Of course, I have not done the full 10 modules. However, I do not need to for myself to know that it will not work for me- I am not a good fit for this program.

My review of this business model:

1. Don't trust a car sales person to inform you about the worth of a car.

Don't trust his competitor either.

Trust yourself,
Your research, clear head, and hard work.

2. The narcissistic abuse victim audience is a desperate and self-doubting one. Perfect prey for salesperson- in fact, a salesperson's dream.

Think about it.
Severe Codependents externalize their self-validation- and a freshly discarded/free codependent will be on the hunt for the next nearest codependency supply.

This Quanta Freedom Healing Program would be a lovely replacement for the narcissist we just kicked out of our lives- all promises of heaven (self-actualization) that we feel we NEED to believe, until later when we realize we just let ourselves get screwed over one more time.

In other words, this program seems to be "future faking". And will probably leave you high and dry after you trust and pay (a more subtle form of emotional rape).

When you buy into somebody else's advice on how to self-actualize, you are frankly still being codependent.

This is what I tell myself after finishing the seminar:

Do something for yourself that makes sense and is healing: LIVE healed NOW.

It's your life, it's all you got...

If that means you want to go and buy this program- do it.

But you know no program can 'show' me how to self-actualize. No one can sell me that. Logically speaking...

The erroneous assumption is that you aren't already self-actualized...
Make no mistake: You Are, Now.
And hopefully,
You choose to make it worth it to yourself,
Every moment,
Over and over again...
Only you know how to do that.
Because only you are you.
And You are enough.

Good luck.

Please take time if you can to read my response to Ms Evans continued vitriolic rage which immediately found its way onto Sitejabber following my placement of this review. Ms Evans threats toward myself continued in her response to my review. I responded accordingly and the response can be viewed at the end of the comments section.

To the very many thousands of those who have read my review, and to the many who've written me, I hope you've found healing through the videos of Louise Hay. Louise died in 2017 but her teaching and love through her teachings lives on, on YouTube - people are continuously uploading her work.

Original review:
Very vile, vitriolic woman when she perceives the slightest criticism.

If you want genuine healing then go to youtube and listen to Louise Hay affirmations and also her audio book "You Can Heal Your Life," and/or any of her material really. Louise has a very soothing voice when listening to her 40 minutes everyday to change your life meditation - you play this as your going to sleep and within a short time frame you notice you're waking feeling refreshed, different, better than you have in a long time.

I realised not so long ago after listening to Louises book that Melanie must have listened to Louise Hays work and simply taken the Louise Hays book; "You Can Heal Your Life," and morphed every chapter Louise wrote into her NARP Program. Have a listen for yourselves and get some genuine and loving healing and understanding while you do.

Please everyone, MEL is no spiritual guru, MEL has many many issues that involve exterior gain which is why she has spewed vitriol onto many of hopeful but disappointed clients and removes their posts.

MEL loves the attention but it must be positive in order to grow her business - remember lovelies, this pretentious woman is running a business. MEL also has given me cause to wonder at her CULT LEADER type attitude toward those whom view her in a less positive light. Any perceived slight is met with violent outrage or insidious demeaning comments, threats, and removal of posts. Followed by continued put downs in your email - sound familiar anybody?

MEL has most definitely presented a side of herself that's generally kept under wraps. When the mask falls... look out. She appears to be struck with the old NPD herself. I know she sits each day in front of all the blogs sussing and absorbing the wonderful things written because she wrote as much.

She wrote in response to a negative comment made on this site here but in her response there was no accountability for hurting one of her clients - none. She then got into blaming the client in a passive aggressive manner, and followed up with her third strike which was writing how she sits each day for hours responding to posts. Now right there she's given the game away... there's three clues as to who your dealing with, three red flags as to what she's all about. Responses she likes she soaks up, responds with a syrupy comment, then retains the responses that she likes. Now, does that sound like narcissistic supply to you?
Or,
When some writes a response she perceives as a slight then that response is responded to with cruel comments and the discard process begins, comments/posts are removed and the client treated with disdain and discarded like $#*! on her shoe. Anything sounding familiar here? Remember, we're talking about seriously hurt clients who have experienced a fairly torturous time in their lives and simply want to feel free. We are people who know abuse inside out and are highly vulnerable to people like MEL that offer hope and yet once again we have been met with vitriolic contempt by a very insidious abuser.

If I am incorrect then please enlighten me on why my emails from her and her support proves otherwise.

One email she sent to her head of support which was then forwarded on to me states and I quote; "For f%*ks sake... block her!"

This shameful woman owes me money, $1500 to be precise and yet she blocked my email from delivering my bank details for a transfer.

She's really quite a piece of work... I kid you not. I am having serious doubt as to who abused who in any of her relationships.

They say it takes one to know one and who better to know the mind of a Narcissist than a narcissist themselves.

Hope you are feeling informed and follow this advice; stay far away from this woman's program and do some research on Louise Hay instead... Louise Hay works and does so gently and so beautifully. She lived what she taught... true unconditional love.