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ChnLove Reviews Summary

ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 7th among International Dating sites.

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Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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So far a happy experience with ChnLove. I have chatted with two ladies online, Kylie and Sarah. We talk about the good things in daily life, share different cultures and traditions. I haven’t seen them yet nor invited them for a video chat, but I really need someone to listen to my loneliness. I do want to talk offline, but it seems that it’s not allowed to exchange contact informations without application. I know most pictures of the ladies are photoshopped but I could understand since the situation happens on most dating websites. I would not tie up with any girl before meeting up. At the very beginning, I just selected some of my styles, contact them and know about them. Once I narrow down my choices to the only one, I will fly to meet her to express my love and confirm she’s real or not. You might disagree with my behavior, but it’s the online dating style. - Personal view from a regular online dater, James.

Date of experience: May 19, 2014
Georgia
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I agree with Steven H. There are loads of fake profiles but there are also $#*! loads of real ones. The bottom line is you have to be wise. Im talking to around ten at the moment, but four of them sound dodgy. Theyre like too lovey dovey too soon, so must be careful. Also, regarding these fake profiles, I dont think its ChnLove who should take the blame but the agencies. Its the agencies who help and have control of the ladies. These agencies cooperate with ChnLove and the ladies sign up through these agencies. ChnLove only provides the platform for these ladies and for us. But if, like Steven H says, therell be a new video verification service, then I think this wont be a problem any more, hopefully.

Date of experience: May 18, 2014
Saudi Arabia
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I dunno about all y’all but I’m doing good on this ChnLove site. I’ve got a proper relationship going with a fine woman who I’ve seen two times already in the past six months. Just cos y’all got scammed doesn’t mean ChnLove is a scam. And just cos y’all read quite a lot of negative reviews and there are quite a lot of poor ratings don’t mean $#*!. As we all know, those who post reviews are normally those who ain’t satisfied with the service, and those who are satisfied normally don’t bother to post reviews. So of course there gonna be more negative reviews than positive ones innit. I know I may sound a little pissed but that’s cos I hate people who make assumptions.

Date of experience: May 16, 2014
Australia
1 review
24 helpful votes
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HAHAHAHAHA well as soon as I posted this review one of the clowns from CHINLOVEFAKE-must have seen my review because I don't get any EMF on the site anymore
WELL DONE CHINFAKELOVE-you have confirmed my suspicions about this SCAM site
Well ive just been on the site for a few days-it looks pretty suspicious but I sent a few email replies to a couple of woman there that sent me EMFs using my bonus points and they responded to my emails immediately Of course I cant read there replies-I have to pay to see them-I almost paid up but checked out some reviews and thanks to the poor ratings of CHNLOVE on this and other sites I wont be giving them a cent-they can scam some other sucker-HAHAHAHAHA

Thanks a lot guys- you saved me money by helping me avoid this SCAM

Date of experience: May 14, 2014
California
1 review
7 helpful votes
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I am not a person who follows the herd and we shouldn’t stereotype people. I know that there are a hell of a lot of fake profiles, but I think there are more real ones than fake. Within the real ones I think I found my girl. In fact, I’ve just come back from a Cupid Date in China. She’s called WenWen. We spent three days together in Hunan. She took me sightseeing, we talked for ages. She’s the real deal – she was exactly the girl in the profile photo and I even asked her things she mentioned in her EMFs and Live Chat and $#*!, and I thought it was pretty consistent. I’m planning on going back next month to talk to her parents about marrying her. And if everything goes smoothly, I’m gonna bring her back to the UK. So my advice is, you gotta be careful – there are some fake profiles but if you take care – don’t fall for those girls who are overly affectionate, ask her for some every-day life photos etc. Also, apparently ChnLove are introducing a new video verification service which will be a video with the lady holding her ID/passport and a piece of paper stating her profile ID, and she will give an oral statement or something.

Date of experience: May 12, 2014
Washington
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I signed up ChnLove last year. If youre rich enough and want to search beautiful ladies just for fun and chat, I think this is a good platform to join in because there are so many beautiful women online. Its said that ChnLove is reconfirming the lady profiles. Each lady has to add a video verification together with the profile, so as to ensure the realness of them. No matter its useful or not, its better than doing nothing. Regarding the effectiveness, we will see.

Date of experience: May 12, 2014
Australia
1 review
19 helpful votes
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I give chnlove zero stars

Hey Chnlove Customer Support Team scammers-look at the rating for asianfriendfinder and asiandating just to the right -
Both are very dodgy but both have MUCH higher ratings than you-hahahahaha
The ONLY reason you have ANY rating at all is because you HAVE to rate a minimum of 1 star and that is all you have gotten and your replies to others on this site are absolutely pathetic
Do you get the message?-people know your site is garbage
YOU HAVE SERIOUS CREDIBILITY PROBLEMS

Its a total scam like most things chinese are-you people need to realise this is very common for chigooks-they have no integrity whatsoever
Some advise for everyone else-go to the Japanese dating sites
Beautiful HONEST and I say it again HONEST and trustworthy
I have travelled to Japan numerous times now and I have to say I give the Japanese one of the highest INTEGRITY ratings of any country I have been to
Japanese are WAAAAAAYYYYYYYY better than the chinese as a race
Here is just one story-I once left my brand new iphone in a restaurant in Sapporro in the north of Japan and when I went back the next day as soon as I walked in the door the girl behind the counter looked at me, recognised me straight away and without me saying a word she reached up to a shelf behind her grabbed my iphone and gave it to me with a wonderful smile
For this reason and others, I hold the Japanese people in the highest regard but for Chinese people I have no regard-they are crooks

Date of experience: May 9, 2014
Georgia
4 reviews
13 helpful votes
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I am reading all these bad reviews but i do not understand. What i did was bought a platinum membership for one year and i chat with many girls, I have sent my e-mail to several and most send mail back to me. Does not sound like i would would ever want to pay for each mail and i do not remember seeing anything about that. Over all i can spend hours conversing with the people, never been asked for money from any. One thing i did notice was i got an identical letter one time from two different girls. But really if you stay away from the ones with the studio photos, it seems to me i am talking to real Chinese girls. There were a few who tried to get me to go to gaga or such but i learned quickly that costs to translate so i did not do it. Anyway i sure i talk to lots of real girls but so far have not met one in person, also i have never been to China. Lol

Date of experience: April 28, 2014
GB
1 review
18 helpful votes
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It a total scam, for all foreign suckers. I have been scammed by a few ladies over the 5+years and lost over a couple of thousand, you cannot meet them and you are usually talking to the translator, you can't contact them even if your buy their info, its all fake contact details. You find out its all a scam by trying to meet them, even the cupid date is crap, the girls cancel and they makes excuses when trying to arrange a meet. Etc. Completely ignore your meeting up questions, busy with work, family, boss is away, going on holiday.

There are some geniune girls there but you are mostly like going to get conned 7/10 times. Usually it the women over 30+, the young ones never want to move abroad. Stay away from Hunan agencies and nantong romantic business. If you do go to china, they either don't show up, or they make excuses like their sick, or family problems or pull the switch and bait, where it a different girl.

The girls are hired girls or models. They say they are a platform for love. But all of them are in the act of scamming, the girls, the agency and most of all chnlove. They are the ones that are giving the orders to the agencies from top down, to milk the guys credits even if they not interested or not.

The customer service didn't give a crap, they give a basic reply, 'saying the are a platform of love etc'. They just blame the agency or the girl. But its BS. As long as they keep draining your cash, they don't give a $#*!. I have tried to tell them I have been scammed every time and it says there a antiscam policy in their site. But they don't give a rats $#*!. They all put a clause in their site saying you can't sue them and it at their own risk.

If you have any sense, stay away from these crooks.

Date of experience: April 25, 2014
Customer S. ChnLove Rep
over a year old

Dear Roger,

Thanks for the report.

Firstly, we feel regretful about the unhappy experience you had with the ladies in our site. We also feel sorry that you might have contacted our Customer Support Team, but we did not provide you efficient assistance.

Just now we have checked our database carefully. It’s regretful we did not find related record of your complaint. We will be grateful you could advise your member ID and provide us more details. Then we could have a double check and try our best to help you. Your patience and understanding is very appreciated.

On the other hand, Roger, regarding the problems you mentioned about the young ladies, we once had the same concern as you. Are these young and beautiful girls really looking for a serious relationship in our site? There are some parts of China, like you mentioned, Hunan and Jiangsu (Nantong is a city of Jiangsu). These two provinces are well-known for their large numbers of beauties.

With the same question like you, we have observed these young and beautiful girls. Like the other ladies, they have all submitted ID card, detailed personal Application Form and went through SMS verification to post their profiles on our site. Also, they have provided videos to express their sincerity to look for a partner in our site. You may take some time to have a look.

Dating online there are cases about ladies or gentlemen not show up, or cancel the meeting at last minute. This problem could happen to both parties. We have noticed and guess these ladies or gentlemen might have several or many options at the same time. For the ladies it’s easy if they are young and beautiful. They would like to keep more choices, but may not arrange meeting for each date.

Anyway, there are all kinds of situations, and we welcome our members to contact us with supporting details when they have concern. Chnlove has Terms of Use for ladies and gentlemen. We also have rules and policies for the agencies. If your case was proved within the refundable circumstances, we will get back to you for your most benefits. Please rest assured.

Again, thanks for your time and support to our service. Wish you luck and may things work out for you. Anything, feel free to contact us by submitting a ticket:
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php

ChnLove Customer Service Team

Colorado
7 reviews
37 helpful votes
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Update Aug 2015.
I have been to Beijing twice since writing this review. Gone out a few times there to clubs and bars. There are NO ladies in Beijing that look like the ladies on CHNLOVE. Maybe all the beauties are hiding and never clubbing or going out? In a week I see maybe less than 5 girls that are cute or stunning. Definitely no women with curves. Now off course, looks is not everything. But that's what CHNLOVE is selling and using to bait us stupid men (sorry guys). Tried Chnlove for a few months now, kind of knowing it was a scam site to begin with. Yes I know, stupid. I was curious. But I only spent maybe $100 or so. I contacted a few ladies, all amazingly beautiful. I have been to China a few times and NEVER seen many good looking women. And above all, most women have no curvy figures... But the women on Chnlove often have large breast and great bodies. Well they are photoshopped. I used to do that for a living as a photographer. Must say they are very good at it...
The ladies keep writing same old stuff, and telling me how much the love me or miss me. After a few emails. Now that's just silly. They send same old (but sexy) pictures. I believe most of them do not exist and see this whole operation and website as a foreign aid operation. We pay money, it goes to the wrong people, and we get nothing in return. Stay away!

Date of experience: March 16, 2014
Customer S. ChnLove Rep
over a year old

Dear Chris, firstly, thanks for your attention and support to our site.

We have noticed that you are a photographer. So you understood more about the professional photos. Right? As you may also agree, ladies care more about their image. And they like to show their best to gentlemen, especially when looking for a partner. That’s why they spend time and possibly a sum of money to take the photos.

Our site did notice that there could be some difference between professional and life photos. Therefore, we advise the ladies to submit their videos. So our gentlemen can have better understanding about them and decide which lady would be their ideal choice. You may take a look at our video profiles at the following page.
http://www.chnlove.com/videoshow/video_show_list.php?ssort=BCFD

Chris, we notice that you just started to use the service and contact the ladies. If you had any confusion during your communication with the ladies, you are welcome to contact our Customer Support Team, we will be glad to help you. Also, you can leave your comment through the EMF Mail Satisfaction Rate. The agencies are requested to get back to you with solution. We will follow up the status as well and make sure our gentlemen’s concerns are answered.

Hope the above info could be helpful. Again, thanks for your time and understanding. Have a nice day!

ChnLove Customer Service Team

Wisconsin
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I, ve read the complaints and think the negative guys are chauvinists and kinda stupid. Of course the pics are photo shopped. They charge for their service and adherence to IMBRA., so what's the problem? Me, I have to say "thank you" to chnlove for introducing me to my wonderful wife. I couldn't be happier.

R

Date of experience: February 27, 2014
New York
28 reviews
224 helpful votes
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An office of one of the chnlove.com family 'agencies' was raided in the last few days in Cebu, Philippines.
The chinese national owner, and a pinoy manager are in custody.
Prosecution is pending for fraud, pornography, and prostitution due to activities from this 'agent' of a chnlove.com site.
If you really want to get scammed, use one of these 'pay per message' sites.
The few dollars you spend per message add up quickly, and some person in a poorer country is happy to make a living, getting stupid men to pay for messages from 'fake' ladies.

Date of experience: February 5, 2014
Australia
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Just stay away from chnlove.com website, its just a waste of time, money and energy. They edit/photoshops their pictures and look really beautiful but when you met them in reality, they look horrible and some of them look like 3rd class prostitutes. Believe me or not, this is my real life experience.

Date of experience: February 2, 2014
Oregon
1 review
19 helpful votes
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I have absolute proof that the site is, for the most part, a scam. The proof is a collection of letters from Translators (5 in all) saying essentially the same thing. Most of the women (Chinese, Vietnamese and Ukrainian) are paid models. According to the translators, the member NEVER communicates in any way with the selected lady. For the record, the Pilipino women are actually more real and if you know how, can be contacted directly with little trouble. I am thinking about how to use the letters and information from the translators. I do not want them to get in trouble. I have a hint that the translators are young women that are using the job as a means to practice and improve their language skills. I started on CHN in a sincere attempt to contact ladies in China. I actually made contact with a lady and was encouraged in my contact by facilitation by a translator who set up video conferences between myself and the lady. I was later told by that translator that she was leaving and that the lady I was interested in had become "fearful" about the direct contact. That got me thinking and, after leaving the site for a while, I came back with the intent of deciding for myself what the game was. I have satisfied myself that the site is a scam. I am sure that there are ladies on the site that are sincere but it is very difficult to determine who they are and to get in direct contact with them. Basically, the CHN sites are to be avoided. They are expensive and the results promised are very unlikely to happen. A side note- I found a "success" story on the Chinese site and managed to find some independent information on the people involved. This information led me to a porn site!. The lady and the guy were actors on the porn site. I am sure that this is not a usual occurrence but it was sort of amusing. I have also found a number of the younger ladies on the Chinese and Ukrainian sites that are also featured in softcore porn readily available on the net. I will not share this information as I do not think this is a good use of the net, but it is interesting.

Date of experience: January 26, 2014
Customer S. ChnLove Rep
over a year old

Hi Craig,

How are you? This is Chnlove Customer Support Team. Firstly, we would like to thank you for sharing your concern with us about our site.

From your comment, we notice that you are a member, or once a member of our site. You have actually contacted a lady and had video conferences with her. But it seems the relationship did not work out later. We feel regretful about the result but hope you are now ready to move on, we will be glad to provide you utmost assistance to find your ideal mate.

About the proof you mentioned that you received from 5 translators, for now we do not know the real situation. Chnlove offers a platform for communication between ladies and gentlemen. We cooperates with the local agencies and request them to provide AS-IS services. Having worked with different types of agencies, we also realize there are times when services are not perfect. We are willing to spend time and see what it takes to get the most of the solution.

In whatever case, gentlemen’s interest and proper rights are our first priority. If the agencies did not provide honest service, or the ladies were not sincere in using the service, we are also victims of gentlemen’s complaint and dissatisfaction. And no doubt we will take actions to stop such behavior.

For your case, we are hoping that you could contact our Customer Support Team via the following link with more details. We will then look into the case and verify the situation. Craig, you are an honest and respectable gentleman. We are hoping to have your kind cooperation. Then we can have a chance to investigate and rectify the possible problem that may exist inside the agencies.
http://www.chnlove.com/my/support/submit_ticket.php

Also, if the translators you mentioned were trying to help our gentlemen out of kindness and honesty, we believe that they will be glad to help us avoid such problem from happening to other gentlemen in future. Thus, we welcome them to contact us with related info. Once the situation is confirmed, our related department will adopt immediate measures to rectify the problem. This please set your heart at rest.

By the way, about the "success" story that led you to a porn site, we will also be grateful you could send us the link. Then we can have a check and find out the problem as soon as possible.

Again, thanks for your time and support. Your early reply will be highly appreciate and we wish you a Happy Chinese Horse Year of 2014!

ChnLove Customer Service Team

Italy
3 reviews
19 helpful votes
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This website is a total scam, all the ladies inside are part of the scam project...
They screwed me few hundred dollars, never accept a call from any of them as they charge You money and when I asked for the contact they disappear moreover I have been charged on my credit card twice the money disputing now...
Be away, just as far as You can.

Date of experience: January 22, 2014
Australia
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Chn love and idateasia is just a scam, read the lerrers closley Im sure you will find some are almost word for word, with in one or two letter the girls are declareing their love for you but they will not give out any personal contact details, all the photos are anything but real life, save your money DON'T go there its just a scam, I was there for two years and eventually meet a girl on phillipino cupid which I went and meet in real life and now we are very happy

Date of experience: January 10, 2014
Customer S. ChnLove Rep
over a year old

Hi Barry, how are you? Thanks for sharing your concern with us about our service. We are glad to hear that you have found your girl, though it’s regretful you did not meet her in our site. Hope things will be working out for you and happiness with you all the time.

From your comment, we notice that you have contacted ladies in our site, but received almost word for word letters, and you have concern about the ladies’ sincerity for not having their personal contact details. Right?

About the “word for word” letters, we welcome you to contact our Customer Support Team and let us have the lady’s member ID. We have noticed that sometimes the translators made mistake and messed up the letters when they were busy handling too many mails. This often caused confusion, and we did have received similar reports from other gentleman and we understand the concern.

For now we are not sure if the problem you met is this situation. To find out the situation and draw a fair conclusion, we encourage our gentlemen to contact Customer Support Team. Then we can have a chance to look into the case and also protect our gentlemen’s interest.

On the other hand, for your wish to obtain ladies’ personal contact info, our site offers Request Contact Info service. If you and the lady both agreed to contact directly, please take a look at this service and contact us if you have any question or need assistance.

Again, thanks for your time. We wish you luck and happiness in future. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.

ChnLove Customer Service

Australia
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Unless you wish to spend a fortune in money and waste your whole time writing letters for no results, join, write your letters and waste your dough.

I have spent over U$1,000 in less than 6 months and wasted all that time writing in hopes of bagging the woman I love but have discovered all the women are photo-shopped with their wrinkles and any skin blemishes removed and the message in my emails are never relayed to the ones I am supposed to write to.

The "translators" use words not intended by their principals to induce foreign men to keep writing their letters at US$7.00 a pop to read and to write back. You can exchange 1,000 letters and still not be able to get any contact details from your lady love unless you are willing to buy an unguaranteed contact number. And if you chat on their line, it will cost you $14.00 per minute.

If money is no object and you have lots of free time to waste, go ahead and join the throng. You have been warned.

Caveat emptor applies here.

Date of experience: December 31, 2013
California
1 review
14 helpful votes
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How about $8 for every email you sent or receive... yup that is right $16 (min) for one two way exchange. Or maybe you like a phone call if you find one that can muddle with some English, that is even more. Want to just call a lady... good luck with that... this time the minimum layout is $160, yup no kidding... you can rack up tens of thousands here and not get a doggone thing. When you have the lady's phone, etc... they just seem to disappear, loose their private email address and their phone just happened to break... SO... IF YOU WANT TO THROW YOUR MONEY AWAY ON NOTHING, I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING... THIS IS THE PLACE FOR YOU! Otherwise heed this warning from someone that went through all above, it just became a bad habit, hard to break.

Date of experience: December 17, 2013
Canada
1 review
15 helpful votes
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It is set up to steal your money, chat does not even have to happen and you are being charged. They will not give a refund of the credits even after you prove there was a mistake.

Date of experience: December 4, 2013
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I think our experience with Chnlove is not actually about the site itself, but with different agencies or translators. There are good and professional agencies, and there are black sheep. For me I am happy with my translator. She was great at what is expected from a person in the middle of a love connection. With her help and some advice from Chnlove customer care, I found the love of my life.

I am grateful for their help to myself and my wife. I could not be happier man as for now. Chnlove did change my life in a better way.

Date of experience: September 22, 2013

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Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.

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