ChnLove

For the folks who got lucky and found someone who was real on that site, consider yourself lucky.Not all of these girls are real, I don't care what you say. For one thing, go to other Russian dating sites and see how many girls in their 20's are really looking for someone up to age 70 like on charmdate, good luck. I found a way to get my contact info to two of the girls from chnlove and sent it three times and all they could say is I didn't see it. Also, why would a girl send an exact duplicate email to me that she sent before, word for word.It was like she was introducing herself all over again.It was BS. I will give the benefit of the doubt that some of these girls are real, but good luck finding them without spending hundred's of dollars or more. I sent a question, twice, to the site itself and did not get a straight answer from them. All they did was refer me to the section that referred to my question on their site, but what I wanted to know is not there, which I knew before I sent my question.
So, for the guys that made a hit on these site's, congratulation's, you may not know how lucky you were.And also for you, don't criticize the folks who actually did get scammed here, cause it did happen. You don't know everything that is happening here.In my opinion, these site's are preying on guys who are lonely, though I am not, by posting fantastic professional photo's of all their women. Take off the make up and look again.And if they really do look as good as this site makes them look, why would they even need this site to find a husband. Girls in their 20's, looking for anyone up to 70.Don't make me laugh!

Its only been a few days since I joined Chnlove. The site is quite easy to use and the girls look amazing. I am hoping to get a sexy girlfriend soon.

Seriously ignore the positive reviews for this site... they're as fake as the women on the site itself. I was an idiot and bought 96 dollars of credit -- it was the only way possible to read the messages I received. That should have been a red flag to me of course. I used about 3 or 4 credits before my senses came back. I created a stupid profile, with no photos and I kept getting mail and chat requests every minute. It's just really stupid.

I started a claim against them on PayPal. ChnLove responded to that (not via the PayPal system but using their own messaging system), telling me that I had used credits, could not get a refund and asked me to stop my PP claim. I refused to drop the claim. They sent me numerous emails telling me that they were just a portal for the agencies that provide the women, that they are strictly verified, blah blah blah. I told them that even if the women were genuine (which they certainly are not) that ChnLove's site is still set up in such a way in which it exploits its members out of as much cash as it possibly can. They refused to go along with this, insisting that they were doing no wrong and continued to insult my intelligence with very well crafted messages insisting that I should stay with the site. I persisted in telling them that I had no interest and that I believed that their site was fraudulent. The final straw was when they agreed to refund me but not through PayPal. They sent a form for me to fill in with my bank details, an agreement to keep it confidential and to drop the PayPal claim before they refund. Of course, I'm not stupid and declined... the way this business operates, it's likely that they would rescind their refund offer if I dropped the PayPal claim. It did not make any sense to me why they would circumvent the PayPal refund and do it in such a way as they offered. Eventually I got my money back via PayPal and ChnLove banned me from the site.

Now, check this photo out:

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Does it look familiar to you? Yes, it's the original image that chnlove superimposed a Chinese woman's face on to.

I am a ok looking guy in early 40, s. Tried this place just for fun. I first had a serious profile with good pictures and intentions. I had like 800 so called admire the first 3 days from mail from the 4 sites Latam date, charmdate, asiandate and chinesedate. I would say around 200 where really really good looking. Models...?
Already there the warningsigns start to ticking. I only paid like 7 bucks. Then they tried to get you into false chat and emails and cams really expensive. Fortunately i am to experienced and thinking so i never paid more than that 7 bucks but the worst part is this.
I changed my profile searched for the ugliest person on google. Put that picture on my profile. Wrote that my weght was over 300 pounds and was 150 cm tall with a 3 cm $#*! And i was a heavily drinker and drug addict and homeless with no money... hahahah Lol
Guess what the same beautiful ladies sent same mail and told me how nice my pictures and profile was. I laughs so i almost peed in my pants. This is so stupid and patetic. How can anyone get fooled by this scammers. At least they should prevent me from changing profile and have same payed models there. Its just crazy. Someone needs to stop this kind of behavior. Its hard but Interpol should stop things like this. How can people be so stupid. I have hard of people tha put 1000 of dollars there. I am amazed. Off course. They are lonely and hope this extremely beatiful ladies want them. Shame on the people behind this... Biggest scam ever. Forward this to anyone you know...
Regards Lars

FIRST, this 18, 22, 25, 30, 35, 30, 35, 40 or 50 year old PlayBoy CHINESE BEAUTY
Is madly in LOVE with YOU from the very Beginning E-mail, WOW
Are you CRAZY OR just INSANELY IGNORANT?

2. Have YOU ever seen a regular Picture or
Are they ALL Profession Studio Pictures
Even outdoors the Dress, Pose and background is Perfect.

3. You are always talking and writing to a TRANSLATOR
NEVER the woman you chose, SHE HAS NEVER GOTTEN YOUR E-MAILS!

4. The Pictures are several years old, just ask for a "SELFIE... STUPID"
It will take you several e-mails and THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS to figure it out!

YOU WILL NEVER GET A SELFIE
OR A PICTURE OF THEIR DAUGHTER OR SON

5. IF SOMETHING IS TOOO GOOD TO BE TRUE
IT IS NOT PROBABLY A SCAM, IT IS AN
ABSOLUTE RIP OFF

6. Chnlove.com is a BILLION DOLLAR CORP. just read the 5-Star Reviews... can you not
See they are fake, not by Americans?
A. It's very difficult to get a Visa and Passport out of China for a Chinese Woman and takes months to get each one
B. These "Review Men" NEVER talk about their trip to China or where the Woman is locate in which Province
C. Each Review is ALL PRAISE never any of the hassles or airport problems or anything about the Woman's family or Friends or where HE TRAVELED in China
D. Then, for a Chinese Woman to come to AMERICA there would be many problems she would have to overcome like driving and shopping and language there is NEVER anything like these in the Positive Reviews
USE YOU HEAD AND NOT YOUR HEART

7. The average LOSER spends $400-$500 a WEEK on this site

GO AND BET ON THE HORSES AND KEEP THE MONEY IN THE U.S.A.

I met my wife (and daughter) about 6 years ago on anther Asian dating website. They came over about 5 years ago on a K3 visa and we have been happily married ever since.

There are several things you need to be aware of before spending any money for any website or Asian women.

If you are not prepared to purchase a plane ticket sometime in the next eight months to go meet and visit her in her country then you are only playing games with yourself. If you are not serious then don't waste your or their time.

Other than the fee of the 3 or 6 month website fee to join you should not spend any money! A serious and honest women will not be asking you for money for anything before you visit her for the first time. When you are there you will be expected to pay ALL expenses but again she should not be asking you for personal money.

Paying for translation? Please, there all kinds of translators on the internet and I'm sure they can find someone somewhere to do the translation for them. My wife did not know a word of English when we first met on the web but she made a friend who helped her along the way.

I have met several men who are so arrogant and openly stated that they where not going to learn any of their wife's language and expect the woman to bear all responsibility in assimilating to a new country. Leave you Ahole ego at the doorstep, this is a very difficult process - it takes two. Again if your not willing don't waste your or their time.

If your not prepared to wait 6-12 months and go through the "complete" visa process, (getting her here is only the first step and you don't need to pay a lawyer, do your homework) then again don't waste your or their time.

There are a lot of players out their - on both ends of the web, It's not always easy to find your way through them all, but you can start by being realistic, get educated about the "entire" process, being willing to except their culture, foods, and ways. If your not then don't waste your or their time.

But - I can tell you from my own personal experience that if you are willing to do all things (and many more) you can find happiness like I have.

Got to go, the wife just got home from her driving lesson - yep another Asian women driver on the road!

Good Luck!

I have been using Chnlove for 4 years and there is a clear pattern when communicating with ladies on Chnlove. Try criticising Chnlove or their agency to your lady and see what response you get from them. They will defend their agency and tell you how wonderful their agency and Chnlove are.
Try convincing them to use your private email address to communicate with them and see what their response is. They will tell you they could not use your private email or the email address did not work.
My email address is used by people all over the world daily without any problems but no Chnlove woman has used my private email address to communicate with me. Please ask yourself why?
I believe like I have read on this website that the women have a contract with Chnlove to attract men and keep them using Chnlove to communicate with them. Another explanation is they work for the agency or Chnlove and are not who they say they are.

Tell the woman to ring you on your private telephone number and they will tell you the telephone number did not work or the number was incorrect. My telephone number works for everyone else in the world.

But they will tell you how wonderful you are, how much they miss you and want to be with you but expect them to make time to visit you in your country and they will tell you they do not have time. The women will tell you they will come and then postpone their trip due to a sick daughter, mother, or father. Here seem t be a lot of sick relatives in China. They will write to you for a year but cancel their trip because their family do not want them to go to your country. If their family were not happy with them moving to your country they should not be on Chnlove.
The bottom line is Chnlove women are not sincere and possibly are working for Chnlove or their agencies.
The women are certified as correct identities but who checks Chnlove or their agencies are truly checking the women documents. Money matters to Chnlove not sincere service or fair charges. Money matters! The truth does not.

My experience on Chnlove was exactly the same as the other one star reviews on this site -- correspond with a girl for a long time, then say you're going to get a visa and travel to China, and then suddenly there is a reason for you not to come. There's always a reason. I did get a couple of girls on this site to write me directly by personal email, but after one or two exchanges I heard no more. The chnlove site seems to be about suckering guys into paying them money to write to girls that don't exist.

Notice that Chnlove has replicated their business model across several sites, including Charmdate.com, iDateAsia.com, and LatAmDate.com. Their main competition seems to be AsianDate.com, which has also replicated their business model and runs AnastasiaDate.com, AmoLatina.com, and ArabianDate.com. I once got a girl talking on AsianDate.com and she admitted straight up that she got paid for chatting online. If you pay for these chatting services, it's damned expensive because a cut goes to the girl and a bigger cut goes to the site.

Given the proliferation of these sites, one can only conclude that it's very profitable and that there are many men who are willing to pay. If you can regard this as exclusively of entertainment value, you'll be OK, although you'll also be poor. If you allow yourself to believe that any of this is real, you might get hurt. So beware. Caveat emptor. You have been warned.

If it weren't for a steady stream of planted rave reviews, everyone would be warned away, so I would like to encourage everyone reading this to post their real experiences so there will be plenty of counterbalancing testimony.

Come on people doesn't anybody know there is woman shortage in china of 50 million!
Look at the photo's, all professional.

I have been on the site many times. I was suspicious from the first, primarily because of the consistency of the stories and the fact that I found several of the ladies on other sites, sometimes adult sites. My thoughts were confirmed when I carried on a correspondence via private email (addresses were exchanged by means I will not reveal but have worked several times) with a lady that is one of the people hired to answer letters from men. This lady was the correspondent for 10 of the models represented on the site. She was hired because of her facility with English and her ability to keep her stories straight. She also wrote many of the personal descriptions used. The lady told me, and provided evidence to back up her claim, that virtually all the girls shown in the highest level of representation were second or third tier professional models. They have no direct contact with men looking for ladies and did not want any contact. The first and most direct indication of false represntation is on the seeking men bar. Guys- 20 year old women HAVE NO INTEREST IN 50-70 YEAR OLD MEN!. It is true in Asia and as it is true everywhere else. If you are rich, your best bet is to go to your country of choice and BUY a 20 year old for a year or so. Believe me, there are plenty of ladies that will engage your fantasies for enough money in all of the countries. But they are not on the site- period. I have since been in contact with several other hired ladies that write for CHN- most in China but also in VN and the PI. Do not waste your money on this site. Use it for amusement as I do but do not buy credits and especially do not assume you are going to find the love of your life. Just as a side note, I had an affair with a lady from Shanghai. She was (and is still) beautiful and sexy- as well as being the most self absorbed, venal, shallow and materialistic person I have ever known. One sample does not make a judgement, but I have many friends who go to China on business regularly and their experiences with Chinese women are much the same as mine. You have been warned

Be very careful or you will waste a lot of money. I have visited China for business on several occasion and there are some beautiful woman. These photos are not natural! I discovered on this site the profile pictures have been digitally altered to reflect beautiful women. I travel to China to meet four different women and not one looked like their photo. I was shocked and knew I had been scammed after writing for several months and paying a high price to have my letters translated. If I had known what these women looked liked I would not have wasted my money. They were average or below average in looks.

The site allows you to send or receive one photo for free. Then they push private altered photos of the lady at a cost of one credit. They also have the women to push for flowers and candy to show your affection and celebrate American holidays, which aren't celebrated in China. If you are foolish enough to write these ladies every day or send gifts at 10 times the cost you will spend hundreds of dollars each month. If you decide to join this site do not write more than one lady and ask her to take a selfie. One lady was so nervous about her looks she sent me a an unaltered photo and told me she wanted to show me how she looked without make-up. Make-up or no make-up she looked nothing like the profile photo.

Do not waste your money unless you are serious and you plan to visit China after a few months. Some of these women only want to practice their English and writing skills and keep you writing. You will not be able to share contract information and must use their service for 90 days, then you can purchase the ladies contact information for a high price. This can be a very costly dating site. This was a learning experience, and I have no interest in Chinese products or women. I am sure there are success stories, I am only sharing my experience.

This website totally fake, all the women there are fake. They are most likely use by agency. They are trying to get your money from read email, write email view their pictures. I used this website for a month, pretty much spent around $200, ofcause most of them try to send you an email and say the same thing, want you to reply them (earn that reply money) I checked this website 1 year ago and most of them women from last year and still there, I just started use this from last month. I hope it's real and give it a try, but all fake there. I used all the different service and after all, the lady gave me a wrong phone number. I called that number, another lady pick it up and said someone post her number online or something, a lot of people call her from the USA or somewhere else. So it's all fake. You can't tell they are real at all, because you only see their pictures. When you spend all the money and time with them, you can't meet them at all, this is just a website for scam money. Don't even give it a try, $200 is not a lot, but totally wasted my time on this.

PS: I only spent the money on one woman, so I thought I go far enough to get her, but still all fake. I wrote her like 5 letters, and read 5 letters, and live chat with her, I told her this website is kinda weird and she wants me to give her a instant call for contact number. I thought she's real and nice on that time and I gave her a long call like 10-15 minutes. $7 each minute, so that's expensive, I got her number, i double check and I gave her my number, she said she call me but no body picks up. I call her and someone pick up said it's wrong number, I called my friend in china to call that number, same thing. It's fake. If she does the same thing to 10 people, then that's $2000, easy money. And this only happened like 15 days. Maybe you guys think that I am after those young girls, but you are wrong, she's 28 and Divorced. So still fake, image it, Whatever you do on this website, you need to pay, So even I contact that girl directly for a number and still fake, so this is just a fake scam website for money. 100% shouldn't give it a try. I am on another website now and a lot better than this.

I used the site for over 12 months before going to China for business; I find the site to be nothing more than a scam and not recognised or know of by some agencies I went to whilst I was there.
I paid a significant amount of money in replying to unsolicited mails; constant chat requests etc., which all seem to be people who are not actually replying or communicating for any other purpose than to get you to spend credits and make more deposits.
About 3 months into my use of the site I received 4 messages over 2 days from different women in parts of the country; each mail was a word perfect copy of the others; these messages were also an exact copy of a message I had received some time before from another person.
Additionally, I have also found multiple members of the site have identical information in the profiles; and that after receiving a message or two from the same woman each message, if unreplied to, will be a duplicate. On one occasion I have replied to a Lady who replied to me informing me that she hadn't messaged me in the first instance.
The site, also, randomly removes received messages from your inbox, whether you have had time to read/reply to them or not.
In my humble opinion, whilst there must be genuine women using the site, it is not worth the time or expense to wait until you find a real one. I have found more info about CHNLove network ~ is available at http://www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
For those who are seriously seeking, better to wait until you are able to visit the country and look up local agencies as there are many and the Ladies you meet there are real and will cost you a fraction of what a few messages would cost with CHNLove.
For anyone interested, I did meet someone there a few months back and not through a dating site either - the old fashioned way:)
Best to all in their search
A

I joined three and a half weeks ago, and so far got over 600 admirer emails. I soon realized that many are scammers, from the typical signs: they offer me sex, money and love that lasts forever, and they appear to require nothing for themselves. Too good to be true. But a few of them seemed to be serious women.

I have changed my mind today. The women who seemed serious are also scammers. I got two EMF emails from two different women today, with this following content.

WOMAN 1 wrote this:
"On my way back, i nearly hit a cat, very dangerious. She is very cute, but very very thin. I took her back and give her some food and water, seems better now. I feel very happy. She is like a baby need my protection. In fact, i can understand that feeling.It makes me think of myself, althrough i am a strong woman, independent, but i can't deny that i need your protection and warm hugs. I feel that I just want to be a gentle and soft woman infront of you."

WOMAN 2 wrote this:
"on my way back today, i nearly hit a cat, very dangerious. She is very cute, but very very thin. I took her back and give her some food and water, seems better now. I feel very happy. She is like a baby need my protection. In fact, i can understand that feeling.It makes me think of myself, althrough i am a strong woman, independent, but i can't deny that i need your protection and warm hugs. I feel that I just want to be a gentle and soft woman infront of you. Same like this cute cat, she is now sleeping one my leg, smile."

Exactly the same words and spelling errors! The second woman just added a sentence at the end. Obviously, they are copying text from a common data base. After this first paragraph, the two emails have four other paragraphs that are also identical between the two senders.

How sad! It confirmed my worst fears. Real women do not sign up to ChnLove. All these gorgeous models are just a bunch of scammers who copy pre-written texts from a joint data base!

Stay away, stay away and stay away!

I have contested the money I spent supposedly talking to a Chinese woman. She may have been real, but is working for the company in some form, if not directly. She supplied information that I had not given her, but was in the application. The only way she would have had that information is if she had access to my file. My credit card company is in the process of checking out my claim, but since all if this has happened, my 6 daily admirer emails have stopped, which tells me they were generated by the company, and now the company refuses to honor their contract. They had offered to refund my remaining credits when they realized that I wasn't going away, but I refused, demanding all of the money returned that I was scammed out of. If you look at all of the positive reviews on this site, you will notice several things. One is that if you click on the reviewer, you will see that he usually has several reviews, and that they are normally Walmart, or Staples or business like that, and then the last one is a thumbs up for Chnlove.com. They are almost always all reviewed the same day, because they are too lazy to spread out the reviews. Also, if you see one positive review that day, you will generally find a second and third positive review, and they will all follow these same steps. Once they read this, they will probably change their style so that they can continue to post fake positive reviews, and continue to scam men out of their money. I would hope that SiteJabber will investigate this fraud on their site, and delete the phony profiles. Some of these profiles even supply photos from Chnlove.com. Not very smart of them. If this saves even one person from being scammed from these low lifes, my time here is justified. After posting this, I realized that it replaced my original, shortened review from 7/26/2015. I just wanted to make it clear that this is not my original review, but one written 8/30/2015

I have been on this site for over a year, a couple of times I bought some points to try to get something going through email. Not sure why since it has become increasingly obvious that the girls are not real.

They are all perfect, sometimes tho if you flip through their photos fast, you will notice on some of the series with same background just slightly different pose, that body parts change shape and size. Other photos have heads with skin tones that just do not match the bodies, and are not quite the right size either... other than the size being wrong its easy convince yourself its just the makeup that changes the skin tones. The photoshopping is pretty good in other words haha.

The chat requests is another clue that I am not dealing with a real person either. On Charmdate, I get 100+ chat requests within the first 20 seconds of being logged in. I find it hard to believe even one real person could successfully send a chat request to someone they just saw appear online within 20 seconds. Says automated to me, but there are other clues that it is automated as well. Often 2 or 3 of the requests in a row will have the exact same off the wall sentence and punctuation, and be from 3 different "ladies"... coincidence... rather doubt it. The number of requests skyrockets to 3 or 400 within the first minute. Perhaps I look like a sucker?

If you met your match through the Qpid network, well kudos to you, I rather doubt most men will, including myself. As I said I made a couple attempts, but nothing came of it... just rather ridiculous un-related responses to previous communication.

You have been warned at least if you have read this, wish you the best of luck.

Ryan