This site is a scam. They ask you to buy credits to do things which is fine BUT then they flood you with bogus email to try and get you to use these credits. AVOID at all cost.
I have never been so disappointed in this world... As I sit and read all these reviews hoping for just one person to step out and take a stand, all I see is a bunch of people complaining about what a rip off ashleymaddison is or how it's all a scam... You should all be ashamed of yourselves! I mean, you were on the site in the first place. Has everyone in this God forsaken hell hole lost all site of right and wrong? My parents marriage was torn in half by an affair. As meaningless as it was said to be, it still changed our lives forever. Is it possible that at the young age of 6months old, I knew more about love and marriage than all of you...? I lay awake at night now that I'm grown just wondering. What is wrong with this place? What kind of examples are we setting for our kids? I know most of you will probably just laugh at this review. Some might even comment back saying things like I don't know what it's like. To that I have no argument. But I do know that deep down, those reading this review know I'm right, and that cuts deeper than any insult or stab I could take at any of you. The world knows it's going to $#*!, the problem is that no one will stand up for a change. This site is disgusting! Come on people, quit being so selfish! Think of the world we are leaving behind for the next generations. It makes me sick
PS: I had to rate this site to submit a review... This site does not even deserve a rating.
Brandon Overlin
I agree some of you, it's half scam, half real. I am 40 year old female who
Have been using this site for 3 years. I have two account on this site, and the profiles are not completely accurate, but I always give whoever I talk long enough with accurate information about me.
I have had a chat with hundreds of guys, with most of them, just once or twice, with many, more than few times, and I have met about 15 guys. I have had sex with 4, but it has lasted very long time (more than 2 years) only with one of them. We lasted long because I was so extremely attracted to the hansome gentleman who accepted who I was and also always consistent with no clinginess or desperation.
I have encountered a total jerk, player, the ones who use pics from 10 years ago lol etc, but majority of them seem honest, nice people. They just don't know how to attract women or don't have a luck.
My aadvice Many women want to be heard of and validated their hurt feelings. Don't be too agressive but be seductive and sexy!
They will rip you off from start to finish. The only responses will be from creeps pretending to be hotties but are just pimps for brothels and porn scams
Why do you not interview women before placing theme on your site.
I Had a 9 month "relationship" with a woman on Anastasia Date that presumably was searching for her ' soul mate". Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Yulia Babaytseva # ******* is indeed a beautiful woman who lures men to Karkov, Ukraine in hopes of their having a romantic interlude with the woman of their dreams and may have the intent of marrying. Unfortunately, Yulia forgets to tell them she is a *** and that will never happen. She talks men out of getting a hotel and has them use a chosen apartment she has set up for them where they can be alone. But she is never alone with you.
Constantly at her side is an interpreter ( even though you may speak intermediate Russian as I do) or her realtor.The apartment is 4 stories up in an old building with no elevator and she charges you probably nine times the going rate. She makes her money off the unfortunate men by skimming off the apartment, taxis ( she never uses her car) restaurants (she has a deal with) and gets a cut off the interpreter. She refuses to be touched, even hold hands, and is constantly wrapped up like a mummy.
Beware of this woman. You easily catch her in lies and you fly back out of town like I did after only the second day.
I joined and wasted alot of time, no real person on this site, if there is she is talking to the other thousands of other guys on this site ratio I guess is 1 girl to 5000 guys or a robot fooled you into talking to them BIG SCAM
Please do not pay the money! Had many girls asking me to message them so I gave in, paid tge money and havent got a like or message since lmao! DONT DO IT
I spent about $250 to join AM. I set up a spread sheet to track my activity and outcomes because the site retains sent messages for 10 days only. It becomes very difficult to see who has been contacted.
Over the course of roughly 6 weeks I reached out to 62 women with personalized messages. Some received multiple notes. The woman were within 10 years of my age, that is to say they were all over 40.
The results after sending notes to 62 profiles:
- 29 women looked at my profile. I sent a note to most of the 29 who viewed me.
- 7 women sent notes after looking at my profile or responding to my 2nd message. 2 responses were to say they weren't interested
- of the remaining 5 who responded, 3 have been slow or did not reply to a follow-up
- 1 swapped notes and had potential to got to the next step. She shared a real photo of herself (profile photo's are often a shared image) and wasn't my type.
- 1 is still in contact and may have potential
I'm in my early 50's and am in very good physical shape. I'm not the elephant man.
Perhaps I'm just an $#*!. Whatever the reason, AM did not work for me. I've spent about two thirds of my credits and I'm bailing. It's been a waste of my time.
Fake profiles, fake wink messages, fake, Fake FAKE! It's all bull$#*!! Save your money and go out, have a few drinks, you will have better luck out in the real world, this site is PHONEY BALONEY! RUN from this scheister set up!
This is a joke and it's on you. Scammers set up fake profiles and send you messages to get you to buy credits and make you waste them on BS fake accountsl Don't do it. This should be illegal.
Ya know, I can deal with the fake profiles and all that. That's a pretty common practice. What I can't deal with is the trickery. These are some of the things they've done to trick me:
1) When I broke down to buy some credits, I clicked on the 100 Credits option. Well, when I checked out, the 500 Credit option is there (yes, I am sure I clicked the 100 credit option). You have to unselect it and rechoose the 100 option.
2) They automatically added a $19 charge for "Mobile Anytime". Whatever the hell that is. Bottom line, something I didn't want. But I caught it before I checked out.
3) After I sent my first email, I looked in sent items and noticed a flag under Priority Mail. I didn't think nothing of it, but come to find out, when you send an email, it automatically checks that Priority Mail, thus charging you double the credits to send the email.
4) Your credit history does not update as you use credits. I'm assuming this is so you don't loose track of how many credits you have.
5) I've heard a rumor that as soon as you're out of credits, it automatically renews on your card. Don't know if that's true, but buyer beware!
It's little double-cross/trickery stuff like this that will make me never visit this ridiculous site again.
Total fake and fraud site, they were hacked and it turns out 5.5 million female profiles were FAKE! Please read:
https://www.eteknix.com/99-women-profiles-ashley-madison-fake/
Fake profiles, fake profiles, and more fake profiles. Anyone giving this site a five-star rating is probably a fake reviewer hired by the company. Don't get suckered in, steer clear.
Lots of messages till you pay to upgrade and then you can't get any messages onless you pay pay pay stay away if you want sex go get a hooker be cheaper
I recommend all of you goto AM's facebook page and post your stories about how FAKE their site is. Help stop them from scamming more people.
https://www.facebook.com/AshleyMadison
The wife n me dnt have much time for sexy stuff these days. She went off sex after our joshy popped out. Since then ahve been chattin up wimen on twitter n that. Ma mate at work telt me to try ashley madison an its mental, all they wimen no happy in there marrage n wantin the boaby. Also tried that nostringsaffair.com and its even better, more wimen and sum of them are total slags. Just wot a need likes, no looking for new love at ma age!
I Tried very hard, this is just a money taker place, not saying there are better places, but this one DID NOT WORK as they said it will PERIOD. STAY OUT
As usually is the case, women play for free while men pay. I dropped nearly $400 and didn't talk to a single non-scammer female. Ashley is as bad as the rest, but their scammers are quite sophisticated. I'm considered handsome by 95% of women, very toned, muscular but not beefy cuz slender, 6 pack, hung. I'm 52 and end up taking home a hot 22 yo occasionally when I'm out at raves. I should have pulled some dates. Out of state women favorite you - profile says they travel extensively for work - you message them with a three paragraph, classy, well-written response inviting them to reach out if coming to the area. Get back a one word response, "ok". Ashley is spose to be halfway legitimate. It's not. See photos of 18 year old women, with stated age of 45. No, not old photos. Scam. You get winks and favorited...so you will spend credits messaging. Never a response - except from scammers. Here is a clue guys - any time you get a phone number to text offsite, Google the area code. It will usually be from another state far away from where the member is supposed to be. Ask if you can call because you love to hear a voice. They will deny you because they are men. Call the number anyway and let it ring. A voice message will say " this voice text subscriber is not available" - telling you this is not a cell phone. You are chatting with someone on a PC or laptop...likely in Nigeria. Stay away from Ashley. If I couldn't get anywhere, you won't either.
One addition - the truly obese women might be legitimate. I didn't hit on them. 275 pound? One said 350. Ummmm...no.
I guess it wont surprise anyone to read that I was a bit wary about trying this site (as I am for any cheating site ive been using nostringsaffair.com for a while now too and felt the same nerves when I joined that), affairs are a risky business at the best of times but I guess thats part of the thrill the idea that youre after a taste of the forbidden fruit gives everything that extra edge. But when youre having an affair through a dating site you leave a trail and no matter how computer illiterate you think your wife is, youre one Cosmo article on how to catch your husband cheating online away from being found out! But overall, I must say Im glad I got over my concerns and gave it a shot. I like checking my phone after the wife and kids go upstairs for the night and I have a bit of me time. I like having filthy webcam chats on my lunch breaks at work (you can say anything you want to the women on these sites, things youd never dare say to your wife). Sure, I come across the odd fake profile and ive heard all the bad stuff but at the end of the day, it takes some common sense and caution, as long as you stick with that youll be fine. Dont go using your own name, dont tell people where you live (always hotel meets) and dont go sending money to stunning women who wont meet you but have fallen desperately for your charms. Be smart and be careful and you can get a kick out of these kind of sites. I know I do.
1. Guys, you WASTE your time and a LOT of MONEY on these SEX sites!
2. You are much better to just going to a PRO or PROSTITUE, because for the SAME money or LESS than you would SPEND on a DATE, you are garnuanteed SEX and will probably spend LESS on a PRO, than the MANY times you have too WINE and DINE someone for (MAYBE) a chance to get LAID!
Answer: Guys, it should not be so complicated to reach out to a girl for a hook up! You can find thousands of them on https://j4l.com/402007 They will contact you themselves, you don't have to put in any efforts if you want to have some fun time online. Or you just need to travel to them but it will be very rewarding, exciting and, what's essential, safe and SECRET experience!
Answer: Cops won't entrap you on AshleyMadison, they don't care. But you wife probably does. Often, she is worse than cops! Lol It's impossible to stay anonymous on AM - it's a well-known site. If you want to keep your affair secret, look for a safer platform, e.g. http://J4Love.net I had two affairs through their service. It was safe, private, unknown to the world and tremendously hot!
Answer: Kind of expensive because they charge by credits. There are cheaper solutions (vm, saphrina, some aff sites)...
Answer: Well, basically you purchase credits and you spend them every time you message someone...
Answer: This site is free for women, which i believe is a big problem. That is why many "professionals" join and try to make you join other sites, cam sites, etc. On sites like vm, saphrina, etc women usually pay as well which is good for the quality of the female profiles. But i guess if you are a woman you should rather join AM.
Answer: The question shouldn't be is it real, but is it worth it. If even one man/woman managed to have an actual affair through Ashley Madison, you could say that it's real. If for every 1 real affair/hookup there are 100's or 1000's of fake users to slog through all the while you're giving them your hard earned money... does that sound like it's worth it?
Answer: If it walks like a duck, and sounds like a duck what is it? Going to church has gotten people laid more than Ashley Madison.
Answer: Bill, this website is not owned by Ashley Madison. If you need to contact them you can call their toll free number 1-866-742-2218. Good luck!
The overall reputation of Ashley Madison is marred by significant customer dissatisfaction, primarily due to the prevalence of fake profiles and perceived scams. Many users express frustration over the high costs associated with the platform, which they feel exploit their desire for genuine connections. While some customers report occasional success in meeting partners, the overwhelming sentiment is negative, highlighting concerns about financial exploitation and inadequate customer support. Despite its established brand presence, the company struggles to address these critical issues, leading to a lack of trust and a recommendation to avoid the service.
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