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Chris, Victor is right about everything he says. I've been on AM for about 7 years now, don't spend your hard earned money on anything except credits and even then be very careful who you spend them on. Flirts are free so send them out generously. Then when you receive a message from a gal first check to see that she even looked at your profile because if she didn't you're probably wasting your money to answer their message. Be sure to have a profile that sounds fun and interesting with current but flattering photos of yourself, your face not your $#*!. Be real. I think it's best to say you're looking for a "long-term relationship" even if you don't really care because believe it or not most women don't want a "one nighter." I've tried many sites and AM is the only one I've had any decent success with while being honest that I am married... other sites I get the cold shoulder or hate mail for being "married." Once you've made contact with a lady the rest of correspondence with that person is free so spark their interest, appeal to their mind and wit. These women get hundreds of hits daily so when you get a bite, tug gently, be patient, and don't even mention sex much until after you meet them in person. Be confident, warm, friendly, and flattering in a non-sexual way. And if they stop corresponding just leave them alone and don't harrass them, they may come back to you later when their ready. Just move on. A lot of these women are new at this and scared, feeling very guilty, and are afraid to make the first step. Your job is to ease their fears so they will eventually take the first step and meet with you in a public place of their choosing. And if you find someone you like stop fishing for other women, they will actually check on AM to see if you're still looking around. Almost every woman wants to be your one and only so assure them that they are. Hope this helps.

You can purchase whatever you'd like chris, they will tell you it moves you up, it's a scam. You will get a few flirts, maybe a email, but they are not real and never will be. Don't waste your money chris.

You would do better going on a cam site and getting to know one of the pretty performers on there. This site is a sham and you will do nothing but lose money and get nothing in return.

Correct, Ken. Any phony messages you receive -- they are few and far between -- will never be longer than a sentence or two and they will evade any questions you may have asked. You will NEVER, EVER get any of these girls to meet you for coffee. There are a small number of actual, real women, but they are not the attractive ones, and no matter how appealing your own profile is, they will not go out with you. That's because even an unattractive girl probably hears from hundreds of desperate guys.

Do not waste your money on this crappy site. Go to a bar or improve current situation.

The onus is on you as the man to initiate contact usually. Like other fellas have stated, the women our FAR outnumbered by the McThirsties... and you need to make yourself known. Occasionally I've gotten winks &/or direct messages, but my best successes have been a result of my reaching out. The chicks on this site, frankly, are overwhelmed many times and their slow/no response many times is a direct reflection of them being bombarded and distracted... and lazy, lol.

Do not pay to get your profile on page 1 or 2... It is a waste of money. Ashley Madison researched who initiates contact... It is the man 99.6% of the time.
The burden is on you to know how to initiate contact and grab women's attention. I have been fairly successful and landed one super smoking hot babe the likes of which I never bagged before. It is trial and error in initiating contact. You need to be interesting and not come off like a creep, fun and not a worrier--she don't want to get caught either, they don't want to be bothered with constant reminders you can't get caught. Good luck.