Ashley Madison

95% fake profiles from Asia trying to scam you out of as much money as they get. The obvious fakes are the ones with no pictures.

It is a lot of work but hang in there. I do believe that AM places fake profiles online. A married women that places a public photo with a ridiculous mask over her face only to have a unique tattoo in the picture. Come on. Stay away from these types anyway. Either she is a fake or insanely dilutional. Stay away from single women too. Don't mess around with someone who has less to lose than you. Target the ones with no photos, public or private. They seem to respond better to messages probably because they don't get as many responses. You do have to make a girl smile when she reads your message. Figure out a good boiler plate message and fire bomb at least 10. If you are awkward with women, you will have a tougher time. Things are done backwards online. You have to communicate through messages, then hopefully text or phone call and if you pass that then you get to meet them. I have had good success with women once face to face. Getting to that point with AM is difficult. That's the trick here. Learn to effectively get them to meet you then you have a good chance. If you are not skilled at finessing that, either spend the money and learn from your mistakes and get better at it or keep the money in your pocket and hit the bars. If you aren't good at that either, you're dreaming either way.

I'm guessing Ashley Madison used to be a good and reliable site because I remember that whole controversy surrounding it when they discovered a bunch of political figures and high profile people using it for their affairs. That must have been during it's hey day, because as far as I can tell this site SUCKS. It's been a few weeks since I've joined now and I must have had only ONE actual conversation with a real person, and she lived all the way in the UK! On maybe two or three occasions I've spoken to someone only for them to ask me to pay for some type of chatting service so we can "talk" outside of AM. Every message that I get in my inbox is pretty much the same response with almost the exact same template. In addition, I'm a decent looking guy but I've had no more than about 6 views on my profile. Not trying to sound egotistical, but even if I was average you would think that people would at least check your profile out especially after you have viewed theirs. Hardly anyone has pictures and whatever images they do have are almost always blurred or "private only." Lastly, it states that this site has millions of members but I've been cycling through the same damn profiles over and over. Even when I change my preferences I still get pretty much the same exact results. DITCH THIS BULL$#*! AND DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY.

I put up my profile, bought my starter tokens and sent winks, messages and photos. I'm 60 and in great trim shape. I'm educated, traveled, "moneyed" and have lots of interests. I got VERY, VERY few responses. Most responses were canned comments suggesting I send a message (when I already had)! Of course sending messages cost yet more money. I was so frustrated, I created a fake 60 yo female profile, with no pictures, 150 pounds, "undecided" position, and no other specifics. I posted this fake profile. To my surprise, my fake profile git dozens if winks, messages and photos per week. Every time I logged on (in her name) shed gey bombarded with a deluge of winks, messages, photos and nude shots! Thos gives you some idea of the male to female ratio in the Philadelphia region. I'd have to say that based on my (multiple) experiments, the "AshleyMsdison Male/Female ratio is worse than 10:1. He'll, I'd rather spend the money on a very attractive professional escort than waste my time with the AM crap!
Also, one woman who I did actually meet told me that she got do many messages, photos etc, she couldn't go through them all!

AshleyMadison us a rip-off for guys! For women that are "giving it away" on AdhleyMadison, they can afford to be VERY, VERY, BERY selective!

Another comment, so many if the women are so over weight, they make my wife look good!

Don't of it! It's a rip-off!

Ok so when you buy some credits, which are wicked expensive the introductory level costs about $3 a pop to contact someone. Women don't need to buy any obviously men do all the contacting. For some reason AM has decided to make bogus bots and profiles wherein you get connections requests, collect emails, winks etc, constantly when you first sign up from young women with beautiful pictures. Bogus of course, but stupidly obvious as well and you'd have to be an idiot to fall for them. These lessen after a while when you don't fall for them. When you contact women in your area almost all of them will have no picture or have one hidden. There are real women on here, mostly middle aged women not getting any from their husbands. So if you pay the $59 you have 20 shots at contacting someone. Be warned however if your credits go to zero you can no longer communicate with anyone so really you have 19. Ok all this being said I have meet 2 women on here in the real world and one of them I've had a nice time with. The women on here who are real are looking for passion and romance that's missing from their lives, whereas most of the men seem to be wanting just sex. Understandable but there is a mid-ground. If you want my advice don't send naked pictures of yourself via AM, wait till your talking to the woman off of AM and only if she wants to see them, that doesn't work on here at all with most of the real women. So bottom line, expensive, they try to trick you into using credits with bogus profiles and requests, but... there are also a good number of lonely women on here if you take the time to suss them out. Also watch carefully when you sign up that you don't leave the default settings on for them to automatically top off your credits and charge extra for mobile devices. It would be nice if they were more honest they really don't need to try the trickery they'd do better without it, but I guess it is what it is. Women who contact you are almost certainly bogus.