AdultFriendFinderReviews 614

1.8
How would you rate AdultFriendFinder?
grey star
grey star
grey star
grey star
grey star

AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

This summary is generated by AI, based on text from customer reviews

service
112
value
113
shipping
33
returns
51
quality
98
This company does not typically respond to reviews
Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
Follow Jim L.
Unfollow Jim L.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Not impressed
July 7, 2025

It was hard to sift through what seemed like a lot of inactive or fake profiles. It felt more overwhelming than useful.
I've had a better experience on HookupHangout.net. It's more straightforward and the people seem more genuine. While no site is perfect, HookupHangout felt like a refreshing change of pace and was less of a headache to navigate for actual conversations.

Date of experience: July 7, 2025
Czechia
1 review
4 helpful votes
Follow Bobby F.
Unfollow Bobby F.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

The number of real genuine people on AdultFriendFinder is extremely low. The rest are fake or outdated profiles who are automatically shown online in order to attract new users. After having wasted some money on AdultFriendFinder I joined AFFlirts.com
And it was the right decision because there are so many gorgeous girls! Despite their model looks, they are real, trust me! I had many face-to-face meetings there. I wish I had spotted the plot on AdultFriendFinder earlier!

Date of experience: March 11, 2025
Indiana
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
Follow Tim M.
Unfollow Tim M.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Bad website
March 5, 2025

This website is more aggravating than it is useful in the beginning standard members used to have a little more freedom than they do nowadays. I've had points accumulated on this website to come back to visit to find that they have all disappeared. Contact the company they give you no explanation nor do they fix the issue when you try and contact them. All they do is give you the runaround without no resolution and the same goes with all of their other sister Websites

Date of experience: March 5, 2025
New Zealand
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
Follow Will F.
Unfollow Will F.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Waste your money and you are only out of money, but waste your time and you have lost a part of your life. All I got on AdultFriendFinder was chatting with con artists who were definitely paid by AFF for doing this. They just kept screwing me out of my money. I should have picked up on this sooner, but now I understand it inside and out and I want to warn everybody off this con site! What's essential is I found a legit alternative, I have already met women through them and now I know I'm on the right path.

Date of experience: February 19, 2025
Washington
5 reviews
10 helpful votes
Follow David K.
Unfollow David K.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Scam
February 25, 2025

Total scam. First they said they were charging me $15 and they charged more than double. Then I get a dozen messages from women thousands of miles away who say they just happen to be in my area. Then they suspend my account the same day I signed up.

Date of experience: February 20, 2025
New Jersey
1 review
2 helpful votes
Follow Jim P.
Unfollow Jim P.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Worthless
January 15, 2025

Something on the site is always not working. Too many things to mention. The IMs work half the time. The Live Models feature cannot be changed. The numbers on notifications are off. Some messages don't send or receive half the time. Etc. Etc.

Date of experience: January 15, 2025
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
Follow Rand W.
Unfollow Rand W.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Legitimacy?
January 6, 2025

I question there legitimacy, joined and paid a years membership, filled out a profile and a little over 3 weeks was locked out of my account for soliciting. I asked what they were talking about and they said I mentioned massage for pay and I advised them I and another member were talking about the cost for a massage in our area. They then said there was something in my profile page that got me blocked but they would not say what that was. Initially they said I was blocked and would not get any refund but I kept bumping up the chain advising I would use every social platform I could find to call them out which did get me a refund.

Date of experience: January 5, 2025
Massachusetts
1 review
2 helpful votes
Follow Giancarlo M.
Unfollow Giancarlo M.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

The girl pretend to work for a company from the Philippine so they always ask you to send Money to the philippine, by PayPal or wester union. This game will never stop and even if they say they are in the city you is a lie. So they always promise great sex and great time but you never going to meet or talk to any of them. It cost me a lot money, a complete scam. I hope nobady will go true what I did

Date of experience: December 9, 2024
Pennsylvania
1 review
2 helpful votes
Follow Robert S.
Unfollow Robert S.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

No messages
November 25, 2024

Despite all the naked photos I will very seldom receive a reply back and they don't care to meet you.The site seems to be taking money to see videos and live woman who make money from the site that you never meet either.

Date of experience: November 25, 2024
Washington
1 review
8 helpful votes
Follow Mindy W.
Unfollow Mindy W.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

I was on the site for 2 years. Met 39 people. Of those, only 1 was a decent person. The rest fell under pedophiles, stalkers, creeps and perverts (in a bad way).

Now they charge u just to reply to someone...what a waste of time! Using a friend's login I actually calculated bots vs real people. For guys, you get 11 bots to every real person. For FREE you can get better odds on almost ANY other dating site.

Also I work in cyber security and my opinion of AFF from a security view...well they're at the bottom of the barrel. There's no way I'd put my credit card into their server! Or my private info if I wanted to keep it private!

Date of experience: September 17, 2024
Virginia
1 review
11 helpful votes
Follow James J.
Unfollow James J.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

I tried aff for 45 days.
1-Lots of bots to keep you interested
2- scammers
3- prostitutes
The only good thing about this site is you can pay via prepaid gift cards. That eliminates the site from automatically charging your credit card.

Date of experience: August 25, 2024
Canada
1 review
2 helpful votes
Follow Gina D.
Unfollow Gina D.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Have been a paying member for years and have numerous issues including sliding renewal fees through our Visa when we specifically stated "no auto renewal". Now the site is charging $45 per month for a renewal to enjoy the same befits previously enjoyed for $12/month however they don't disclose this on renewal. When you renew and attempt to view other member's profiles you are restricted to viewing their bio and one photo. The balance of photos are blurred out, you cannot initiate contact via email or inst mess, view videos, etc without purchasing further upgrades to your membership. To enjoy the benefits you previously enjoyed numerous additional upgrades are required totaling $45 per month. We have attached a copy of an email we received after numerous requests to specifically outline their new membership fee structure. There are numerous lifestyle sites online that we highly recommend you checkout that offer way more value than aff.
Dear Member,

Thank you for contacting us.

Below are the prices for the new subscription packages:

Voyeur
$14.99 per month

Interaction
$14.99 per month

Chat Plus
$9.99 per month

Advanced Search & Highlight
$4.99 per month

If you have any further billing related questions, feel free to contact the Billing Department directly at:

Telephone: *******364 or *******383
Email: *******@adultfriendfinder.com

Thank you,

Liezel D.
Email: *******@adultfriendfinder.com
Customer Service

Date of experience: July 6, 2024
North Carolina
5 reviews
14 helpful votes
Follow Jerry B.
Unfollow Jerry B.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Total scam and ripoff DO NOT SIGN UP
June 26, 2024
Updated review

Today is June 26th, 2024. In the morning I signed up for a year and by the afternoon realized there were no prospects near me. There was one, but never responded or received my message. Realized it was a scam and a ripoff because they kept asking for more money.
Hard to use site and I do not recommend. Stay away or your wasting money and time. If I could give a zero I would. Even after cancelation they still charged me over $184.00.

Date of experience: June 26, 2024

The site states "FREE". Wrong, it's not and the ladies are fake. A fake front to blackmail you. They threaten to post all your information on the web, but don't fall for it. They place very attractive pictures and a chart will start. You think you are taking to a lady but you are not. It's a scam. Do not send any photos of yourself.
Avoid this site at all cost. I canceled and deleted all my information within a half hour.

Date of experience: February 11, 2024
Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
Follow John R.
Unfollow John R.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

The site is now just one, big scam. It's dead, dead, dead. The majority of the profiles are inactive, yet are still there. Scam profiles are starting to populate the server as well.
The pay system is a HUGE joke. You get the nickel and dime process everywhere. Pay for a gold membership? All you can do is view the basic profile and send messages. BUT, unless they have a gold membership they can't even reply. You can't view any photos on the profile anymore, you can't hotlist, nothing. EVERYTHING now costs. Even though you pay for a full membership.
So, the site is just one huge scam now.

Date of experience: June 22, 2024
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
Follow Michael F.
Unfollow Michael F.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Complete scam
June 22, 2024

If you feel like getting scammed or blackmailed, this is the site for you. But I guess if you have extra money to throw away...

Date of experience: June 22, 2024
Spain
1 review
2 helpful votes
Follow Watson N.
Unfollow Watson N.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Poor service! When I registered on Seek4Match
I started enoying the benefits of having a hot sugarbaby - that's a real thing with a slew of model-looking hotties who are genuine. The most difficult thing was just chosing my sugar baby among plenty of my stunning matches who were all ready for action.
The majority of AdultFriendFinder women aren't blessed with good looks, but they are pretentious and self-absorbed. My time with them was quite boring and quite pricey (they want too much money for that kind of poor service).The most complicated thing is to cancel your subscription, it is convoluted, they deliberately make it this way.

Date of experience: June 17, 2024
Connecticut
1 review
7 helpful votes
Follow Craig U.
Unfollow Craig U.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

Scam
May 11, 2024

Adult friendfinder is one of the biggest scams as far as dating sites out there.they charge you 35.00 for a gol d membership then you have to pay another 15.00 to be able to send winks,then another 15.oo to view photos.out of 30 women I talked with only 1 turned out to be legit.the rest want to continue talking but on a different platform such as signal,Google chat.whats app and adult friendfinder doesn't nothing to verify the member in the first place.i don't know how in the world its rated number 1 for best dating sites,it should be #1for best rip off sites I even think their in with the women to scam.my advice stay the $#*! away!

Date of experience: May 11, 2024
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
Follow John S.
Unfollow John S.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

I have frequented this site over the past 10 years as both a standard member (nonpaying) and occasionally as a paying gold member. So far I have encountered no one I would seriously consider meeting up with from the site. Do not give these folks your credit card number unless you plan on being a member for life, they will just keep charging /re-upping your membership indefinitely. There is an option to use gift card payments which is the only safe way to become a paying member. Even then you may not get the specific membership you requested/payed for. Ie I paid approximately $100 for 3 months gold membership with an add-on of 3 months of standard members being able to contact me. They gave me a 4.5 month membership without the add-on and refused to correct the problem. The site has some legitimate members actually looking to hook-up and an abundance of scammers, attention seekers, liars and phishers so keep you info close and use an anonymous e-mail address for any contacts. AdultFriendFinder and it's affiliates like Outpersonals, Alt.com, Big church and many others are just copies of this site. Enter these sites at your own risk and buyer beware.

Date of experience: May 10, 2024
California
3 reviews
6 helpful votes
Follow john j.
Unfollow john j.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

My membership with HEATED affairs as subsidiary of AFF expired and so I clicked on "renew membership". I got a confirmation number HOWEVER; I was now however, no longer able to see others, pictures, users names or any user information. I could not read their messages, flirt like or request friendships or even send messages to other members. When I selected "renew" there was no indications that any policies had changed. I contacted 6 customer service representatives immediately. I was polite and tried hard to clear up the issue. Three of the CS agents simply hung up on me. Three other CS agents said I needed to upgrade further in the amount of $14.99 per month to interact with others When I asked to speak to a customer service supervisor ALL said none were available nor would be for hours. Two of these agents then hung up on me. I would HIGHLY recommend anyone considering using AFF or its other companies to NOT ***UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES *** do any business with them and certainly do not renew if you have memberships currently. This is plain and simple bait and switch in my opinion A big company gone very corrupt!

Date of experience: May 7, 2024
Sweden
1 review
4 helpful votes
Follow Mel P.
Unfollow Mel P.
Send Message
Share Review
Report Review

AdultFriendFinder has become too hysterical and too political. Nevertheless they are pretty loyal to scammers, they allow them to do anything they want. If you decide to use AdultFriendFinder, please be very cautious with overcharges and automatic renewals - it's their favorite trick to get your money!

Date of experience: May 4, 2024