AdultFriendFinder

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Washington
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Site is more cam watching and sex chat site than hookup site. I was looking for casual hookups from single females. Left messages and flirts with at least 30 different members. I can say almost positively that most of my views and all of my flirts came from cam models looking to direct me to their video sex chat rooms. If not there they were leading me to other websites. After two weeks I had not one promising connection. To find how to unsubscribe was a nightmare. Hidden from clear site with no directions on how to find. Navigating mobile app was terrible. This site seems to be for women trying to make a buck off tips. Or scammers trying to get your e mail address. Unless you just want to watch video porn this site is useless for serious hookups.

Date of experience: July 29, 2020
California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Have been using this site for about 3 months now. I did manage to meet two women, both I had sex with. It's really what u make out of it. In my opinion
One of the best hookup sites but keep in mind that the more sites u join the better ur chances. I would also check out casualdating4u or maybe benaughty

Date of experience: November 22, 2017
Germany
1 review
27 helpful votes
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AFF tries to rip you off at every opportunity: when they overcharge you or ban your profile for no reason right after you paid them, customer service gets non-existent. If you wanna watch naughty girls - there is always something better, cheaper and safer. It can also be used if you wanna get laid, I used to hook up with some chicks from there. But I have never gone on a real date through AFF, neither of their girls wanted a real thing, but they all wanted me to send them money right off the bat.

Date of experience: September 25, 2020
Ohio
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Cancelled Gold membership
December 17, 2016

I used a gift card to get 49 days of gold membership. After 5 days, my membership was cancelled. I have emailed so called customer service many times and get the exact same reply each time from a different named person. They owe me 44 more days and do nothing. It is a rip off. Don't use them

Date of experience: December 17, 2016
Czechia
42 reviews
536 helpful votes
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Fine
January 27, 2016

I enjoy my membership with AFF as much as I do it with couple other sites I use to have a guaranteed success (check out Hookuphangout.com for example). But guys, stop complaining that there are so many fake members on the site! Yes, dating industry is suffering from Nigerian scam and cam girls. Keep your mind clear and don't send any money to the members of the site. None of real members would ask money from you. And if hot looking girls inviting your to another site to have a private chat - report them straight away!

Date of experience: January 27, 2016
Netherlands
1 review
17 helpful votes
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Decent enough
March 23, 2016

Quite like AFF. Good search system and busy site. Its better than most sites and not having any problems with scammers so far. Descent enough value for money. I also recommend using other sites in addition to AFF to increase your chances. The other one I personally use is Flirtydater.com

Date of experience: March 23, 2016
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I was skeptical but decided to try it out. I was pleasantly surprised that this site is full of real women. Guys some advice - dont show pictures of your $#*! - act like a gentlemen, the same if some guy wanted to date your mother, sister or daughter, and you might be surprised at the responses. I hooked up with two very pretty and very nice ladies from my area that i still see. Other than this site others i have found seem to be all fake...

Date of experience: February 2, 2014
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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This is a very good example of how a dating site that helps married people find affairs should be like. It's not the fastest to work but if you have half a bloody brain then you know there is no such thing as a quick bang when your married. It takes time and effort to plan ahead and pick the right chicks to meet.

Date of experience: September 21, 2019
Netherlands
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Sex Site
June 29, 2016

I quite like AFF as its not expensive and every once in a while it helps me get lucky. Maybe not as much as hookuphangout.com has over the past few months, but still often enough that I decided to come here and write a good review on it! It deserves that at least! I do read some bad things but I would say try it yourself before going on what someone else says, people like to complain and some people expect miracles. There are no miracles here but there are girls and if you spend enough time and effort you might just screw one of them. I certainly have!

Date of experience: June 29, 2016
France
1 review
33 helpful votes
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Top site
March 13, 2016

Probably one of the best sex site going. A few mates said HookupHangout.com is getting them quite a few shags, but ive not bothered with it yet cos im doing fine with AFF. If its not broke dont fix it, thats what I say! Lol!

Date of experience: March 13, 2016
Arizona
1 review
3 helpful votes
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It sucks.
June 13, 2022

I am a paying member only because I got a yr for 25 bucks. But it's a total joke. Same women all the time one there if they are actually a woman. I live in the Los Angeles area. Should be an easy place to hook up. Yeah right. Most profiles are fake.

Date of experience: June 13, 2022
GB
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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Waste of time
February 1, 2017

Been on the site for 3 days been contacted by 3 women two of whom profiles say they are in the states just trying to get my email saying they're here on holiday. After giving in getting loads of boring rubbish emails about nothing as soon as the chat gets sexual they ask to meet and ask you to use a verification site which is free. You then get. Charged for verifying and the contact stops. Don't be fooled its a waste your money! Shame it was a good site about 10 years ago!

Date of experience: February 1, 2017
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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AFF - NOT MY FAVE
February 6, 2017

I cant really decide why but im just not sold on adult friend finder. I prefer hookuphangout or some of the other new sites that are using new technology and seem to be part of an evolved dating experience if that makes any sense. AFF was amazing back in the day but I dont get lucky with it as often as I used to. Still beats jacking off in front of the box of course.

Date of experience: February 6, 2017
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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All seek money
June 10, 2022

Everyone on this site will at some stage ask you for money it is the most criminal site I've ever visited the women are all false there locations also false and it's massive pile of $#*!
Stay away from this if you don't want to at least get hacked

Date of experience: June 10, 2022
Canada
1 review
6 helpful votes
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A.F.F. Blocks and bans accounts at random for no reason. This has happened to me five times in one month. And they wont tell you why, or what you are doing wrong. After a few days of registering, you'll get a msg. Saying your log in info doesn't match their record when it actually does. So don't purchase a gold membership. You'll be banned after 3 or 4 days and you wont get a refund.

Date of experience: March 26, 2023
Arizona
1 review
3 helpful votes
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No matter what the top ten internet hook up sites tell you this service is fake! At least it only cost me a $25.00 gift card to find out for 18 days. Profiles are fake and no one responds to you. 105 contacts made of women my age and in my scope of dating in the three major cities around me. I got 3 automatic replies of not checking emails at the moment. 2 replies, that I'm sure from fat guys from India somewhere with poor English acting like they were the women I reached out to asking me to connect with them with my personal email. However, admittedly, I did receive one message from a very polite woman that replied that she did not date guys from out of town. The odds were 1 in 105. All profiles are out of date and probably never removed to look like there are a lot of members. You also get 20-30 emails a day of supposedly women that are checking you out that are young and model material. Save your money!

Date of experience: March 6, 2023
Canada
1 review
9 helpful votes
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"This account is no longer active"
This is all you get after you spent an hour on your profile setup (totally nice text and a photo) and $40 on the upgrade. Got no chance even to do my first search. Total BS. Stay away.

Date of experience: February 20, 2018
Indonesia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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You won't get laid after clicking the 'JOIN' button and I think that's the biggest issue most guys have. You need to approach girls just like you do in your local bar or in a club and the average male user is simply lazy and should rather pay a visit to the nearest brothel. Aff rewards you if you are creative and patient. You may also want to consider to use more than one hookup site. Double your chances by using other good sites like Casualdating4U. Just don't do the most common mistake and treat women as 'fair game'. There are several women who don't mind but the average women using a hookup site or app prefers to be treated with respect.

Date of experience: February 2, 2017
Texas
1 review
12 helpful votes
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They are now inundated with escorts and massage whores since Backpage and Craigslist went down. The rest are scams. They have a few "real"ones in each area, but infested with std's. (My friend is a doc and can confirm for this)The fakes put up ads in all areas of the country and get paid a "bonus" for each time they get someone to respond to them. Almost every ad with just one photo is totally fake just to make you think they have many members. I won't even get into the deceptive billing practices.

Date of experience: April 25, 2018
Utah
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Good
April 17, 2016

Good site, easy to use and easy to search/ contact people. Had quite a few replies and met a girl a couple of weeks ago, which was encouraging. She wasnt Miss America, but any port in a storm is my motto! I still think it falls behind HookupHangout.com but that could just be because I got laid threw that site last night LOL! Good times!

Date of experience: April 17, 2016

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 613 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
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value
112
shipping
33
returns
50
quality
97
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