Secret Benefits

I utilized the dating website, secretbenefits.com, two times now. I met a someone on the site a year ago and maintained a win-win relationship for 10 months but eventually didn't see eye to eye.
My profile to my surprise was still up as I forgot to close it but was happy I had many messages from gentlemen waiting on me. I recently met someone nee on the site and we've enjoyed each other's company.

Hello, I'm a 41 year old single Indian-American. I would like to share that I started a profile on Secretbenefits and like my experience using the website so far. It's good that you can have a public profile for others to see and be able to search freely before needing to buy the credits to open chats. It gives you a good look before to make a decision if there are good options for you.

I clicked through on one of their ads, and thought it looked interesting. I signed-up since it seemed easy compared to other sites I've tried in the past where you have to answer a bunch of questions, blah, blah, bunch of hoops. This site took me only a couple of minutes to get started. There are some decent women in my area. I noticed some of them are verified profiles, and others are not, so that's something interesting to look out for. I purchased some credits to chat up a couple of hotties. Not expensive. I've gone out with a nice girl a couple of times now. She isn't a bombshell, but she has a great personality. Happy with everything so far.

I would like to give credit where credit is due.

I've dated women off of dating websites for near 20 years. The ones that worked out have all kind of peaked and dropped off as far as maintaining quality women on their sites.

For the past 2 years, I've been using Secretbenefits.com and aside from being stood up once and caught in a long back and forth with another that led no where, the other women I've met have been outstanding.

It's also wonderful that I can find someone to date and if it doesn't work out for whatever reason I can go back to the website and know I wasn't paying for a monthly fee and my profile I worked so hard on is still up, credits still in my account, and there are even more women to choose from.

I hope they are able to keep it up and wholeheartedly give them 2 thumbs up for my good experience thus far with this service.

I can see why some people would have a hard time with the site especially if you are a guy without the ability to support a relationship or if you are a woman that may not be that attractive. Not to say you got to be rich or a super model, but this is not like Match or POF. Totally different kind of dating, but super fun and fulfilling if you are looking for something more direct and exciting.

I don't know why some people feel like they have to excuse or explain why they are looking for a good guy on SB? Personally, it's not an issue for me. I don't feel guilty or weird about how I prefer to date men. Anyways, secretbenefits.com, to me, is a great venue that has allowed and even encouraged me to go for exactly what I want in dating and even relationships. Not recommended for judgmental or coy peeps. I would say it's worth trying for those of you interested in going for what you really want with a partner.

I am happy that I found this dating site. Really fair pricing to start chats with real beauties. Not all have worked out but on average I am doing alright with finding dates when I want to.
Cheers
Karo

Most of the reviews on here are too Rosey and smell like total B.S.to me.
I signed up and bought the 100 credit package even though I was a bit skeptical.
The girls on here are mostly very attractive and they will message you first and then you have to buy "credits " from the website to "unlock" the message and be able to read it. Once a message is unlocked all future correspondence in the future with that girl is free and unlimited.
It ends up costing $6 or $7 to unlock a message and so far only 1 of the girls has responded back to me. So it's pretty obvious that the website owner pays people to sit behind a computer and post new profiles of hot girls & then has the "hot girls" reach out to all the guys by picqing their curiosity with a message from them. Meanwhile the guy's credit balance is lowered by 10 credits each time ( about $6 or $7)

I joined SB with the goal in mind to meet a really good guy that would want to spend Christmas and New Years with me and make this holiday really special for me. I was alone last year during this time and I knew I did not want that experience again. So long story short is that I didn't Timothy, 12 years older but looks great for his age, and he's a real charmer and kind man. We are going to Mexico together for the holidays, leaving tomorrow, and I couldn't be happier!

I met my beautiful princess on secretbenefits.com 6 months ago, and I asked for her hand recently and she said yes! A heartfelt thanks for helping me meet my match.

I understand I'm not Prince Charming, at least not in the looks dept., but after being on the site for over a month, I have only had one date. I kind of have the approach of waiting for them to come to me, but rarely do I get a message first and when I do it doesn't pan out. I was hoping to scoop up a hottie that would otherwise be out of my league, but I'm not having the best of luck so far. The one date I did have was with a nice good looking girl but we couldn't come to terms. I'm not sure if this is normal on this site, or if I just don't personally have any game, so I will give 3 stars for now.

I originally joined SecretBenefits a couple years ago and I did meet someone that I ended up dating for about a year. I cam back to the site after being single again, but I ended up meeting a very beautiful woman on another site. Unfortunately, she ended up being a total nut job so that didn't last long. I ended up going back online to cautiously look for a match again and after going out with several women from a couple different sites including this one, I actually met a woman that I would say is the most beautiful and most compatible woman I've ever been with. We just hit the 3 month marker and I really couldn't be happier with her. I'm very thankful for this website helping bring us together and would like to share my thanks here for this fine service.