Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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Michigan
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The best factor about Secretbenefits.com is the active member base. These date sites are usually a waste of my time but at least this site has dudes that respond and most have been able to hold a convo and know what they are doing if they get lucky.

Date of experience: December 22, 2020
Florida
9 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Glad this exists
July 9, 2018

No, I'm not an escort and the guys on this site have never treated me like one. I've been on several dates and I have NOT slept with all the guys I've dated. The great thing is that everything is out on the table, the guy knows that if we hit it off and want to date more I'm going to need to be $ maintained.

Date of experience: July 6, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for the review Lisa, sounds like you're getting exactly what you want out of your relationships on Secret Benefits - congrats!

Ohio
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Ohhhh, the timing
March 31, 2020

I can't believe how my timing in life can be. I joined this website to find me a real man. All good, dated some decent guys, but didn't find the one. Finally went through verifying my profile, got a whole bunch of attention, hitting it off, and now everyone is stuck at their. Cmon, my timing! Can't fault Nyone but I really am ready to make things happen!

Date of experience: March 30, 2020
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear. I'm glad you decided to verify your profile and that it paid off. Verifying is a great way of letting others know you are serious and mean business!

New Hampshire
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Not a bad choice
December 15, 2018

As far as dating sites go, I would say I feel it's good. Not as many attractive guys to choose from in my area as I would like, but I'm getting enough bites for now. I also don't live in the best of areas either. I've gone out with several nice guys, but not as often as I would like to, so I would say the site is 4 out of 5 stars for me.

Date of experience: December 13, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

I'm glad you've enjoyed your experience. The site is growing rapidly and thousands of new members sign up every day so please update your review in the future if you find the number of compatible men has increased.

New York
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Good fishin hole
August 30, 2019

First off, you not gonna find a bunch of beauties waitin on the site. Ya gotta sift through to find a Cinderella between a pack of her ugly stepsisters. With some luck and playing my cards right I have made off well from using this service. At least the gals here are real. Some have crazy ideas and expectations but just set em straight from the get go and they usually play along just fine.

Date of experience: August 27, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed the fishing trip and hope you catch the big one soon. Thanks for sharing your experience.

California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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No way to get out!
September 28, 2018

First, I unsubscribed from emails--not once, not twice, but THREE times. I kept getting emails. Then, I went onto the site to deactivate my account. I saw no way to do that. This is like getting trapped in a bad relationship with no way out! How do I break up with secret benefits?

Date of experience: September 26, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Hi Allan,
I looked into your account as soon as the review came in. We have a few different unsubscribe options when you click on the "unsubscribe" link, and it appears you didn't select the "unsubscribe ALL' option. You've now been unsubscribed, and we are sorry that the differences were too great for us to make the relationship work. Sometimes relationships take work, if you'd like to give ours another try please hit me up with a private message and we'll see what we can do.

Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I have to write this review for secretbenefits.com because I've contacted this site's support a few times and they've always responded promptly and professionally which stands out to me compared to a few other dating sites I've tried where their support is either a void or bot response. Hope they keep it up!

Date of experience: July 12, 2022
Maryland
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Nicely done
October 2, 2018

Everything you pretty much expect from a good dating site can be found on SB. I really appreciate that the site is super fast, and the design is modern. I've been on other sugar daddy sites, and most of them just feel kinda sleazy and dated. I don't think Secret Benefits has as many profiles as SA does, but I also noticed this site doesn't have as many bots and weirdos. Of couse, it's great that's it's totally free for sugar babies, and I have reached out to the support on the site, and they did get back to me farily quickly. All around solid sugar daddy dating site. I hope they keep up the good work.

Date of experience: October 1, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for the great review Alnika, I'm really glad to hear you're enjoying Secret Benefits. We put a lot of hard work into the site so it's great to hear from our users that it's worth the time and effort.

GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Recommended
May 5, 2021

I felt like writing a review of the dating site, SecretBenefits.com. I've been on the site since last summer. I've been casually dating fairly regularly, and I'm starting to see a very kind and generous man consistently on weekends.
The site is well organized and very easy to search and chat with men. It's also great that they don't charge women to use the site. Who doesn't love things for free? Haha. Anyways, I've found using Secret Benefits an enjoyable experience that has produced many successful dates for me. I have also recommended this site to a couple of my close friends, and they said they're having fun as well.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Picking up some steam
November 19, 2018

Just gotta say that I was not finding enough men in my area when I signed up like 2 years ago. I honestly just forgot my profile and I didn't really use the email I signed up with either, so anyways, long story short, I opened up the email to check something else and I noticed a bunch of emails from secretbenefits.com. I went back on I guess out of curiosity and whoa, they have some dudes in my area now! Haha I've gone out with a couple of pretty hot guys lately I met through the site. Just fun stuff. Might be worth checking out nowadays even if you're living in a smaller city area.

Date of experience: November 15, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear, we really have come a long way in the last two years so I'm glad you decided to come back and have another look around.

Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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It's a pain to navigate online dating sites and separating the good from the bad, but after using SB for months now, I've determined it really is a high quality social platform to meet real and relatively mature and successful men.

Date of experience: July 22, 2022
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Success on SB
July 7, 2021

I met Marta on Secret Benefits a few months ago and she's exactly the type of woman I wanted to meet.
I have been dating SB ladies off and on for a couple of years but I want to make this work long term with Marta so I'm deciding to take down my profile.
SB is a great dating website. Thanks, Michael.

Date of experience: July 6, 2021
Kenya
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Hottie's found here
December 29, 2018

There are plenty of hotties in my area. Site has been running smoothly. I was happy that it was left up to me as far as what personal info I wanted to share about myself and I wasn't required to go through a lengthy sign-up process. I've been seeing a couple of young ladies on the regular on a very casual basis. I also get contacted by women every week which allows me to be picky and select the best of the bunch. Would recommend.

Date of experience: December 26, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and have found what you were looking for. Thanks for sharing your experience.

New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Decent
February 18, 2021

Lots of guys, who, in general are polite and willing to put their money where their mouth is. Not sure what else to write here... I have met several guys, two of them have become more of a regular thing but I wouldn't take them home to meet the parents.

Date of experience: August 3, 2018
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Entertaining
November 24, 2019

Feel for those having a tough time. Online dating can be rough sometimes.

Since signing up on Secret Benefits a couple years ago, I've been ghosted twice, dumped once, and I think catfished at least once but I cut those lines once I get that feeling.

On the other hand, also have dated some of the most diverse and beautiful women I've ever met off of one dating site.

Main thing is you play your cards right, write a nice profile, be upfront, load some good photos showing off the best of you, and be polite. Don't be trying to get in her pants or trade nudes right off the bat. If you wouldn't do it in person, don't do it online.

Not everyone will be a match, and not every hot chick you got your eyes on is going to respond to you. Gotta imagine how many dudes are hitting them up. But I think as long as you are not a creep, you can score here. Peace.

Date of experience: November 22, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and great advice.

Missouri
4 reviews
15 helpful votes
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I enrolled on SB, wrote a profile with my preferences such as women between 50-65, non-smoker, etc. Not one of the responses was from a supposed woman in this age group (almost all were in their 20s-30s -- I'm not interested in a woman young enough to be my daughter or granddaughter), about half or more were smokers, etc. It was as if the responders didn't read what I had written or were bots automatically responding to every new man on the site. I got off the site quickly, spent nothing, and was glad.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: January 18, 2024
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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SB is my new fave
June 7, 2023

I was wasting a lot of my time on Tinder on guys that really had nothing to offer.
At least the dudes on SB are happy to pay for the date and can bring something to the table and not just promises of a good time.

Date of experience: June 7, 2023
Texas
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Decent odds
January 21, 2020

If you've tried online dating sites as much as I have you quickly realize how much of a competitive sausagefest most of these sites are. Secretbenefits.com has done alright by me. I would say out of every 10 ladies I contact 7 write me back and about half agree to meeting. Not all of those I meet are home runs but you could say I'm satisfied with my odds here.

Date of experience: January 21, 2020
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear Dave, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. Sounds like the odds are playing in your favor.

South Carolina
1 review
8 helpful votes
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It works somewhat.
May 17, 2017

Sometimes I will get a message from a woman and l respond, occasionally within minutes, and they are not even read by the woman. Ever.
I have met four women from this site, but I think a couple of times the site made the first move. Not the woman or me.
I think they trick you into spending more credits than needed. All four women are nice people and l don't think they are professionals.

Date of experience: May 17, 2017
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

I'm glad you were able to meet some nice women on the site. SecretBenefits attracts more and more members every day, making response rates much higher as well.

California
1 review
36 helpful votes
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If you like spending money to receive teaser emails from bots and scammers, this is the place for you. "Women" (possibly bots) will contact you. You will spend money to read their message. You will reply. You will get no response. Repeat this cycle until your money is gone. This is how the site works. Or, you may be one of the blessed ones who gets a real woman to contact you. She will ask you to send her money via PayPal so that she never actually has to meet you in person. This site is a fantastic place to realize what a fool you are.

Date of experience: June 10, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Hi Fred, sorry you didn't have a good experience on the site. Please send us a message here or to our customer support and we'll be happy to look into this. Like any dating site, nothing is guaranteed but we try our best to make sure everyone has a great experience.