I've been on a few similar sites to sb and this is definitely one of the best ones. A site like this is only good if there are a lot of active guys on it and honestly this is one of only two sites where you aren't scraping the bottom of the barrel just to get a response from someone. In general the guys I've messaged with have been polite. I'm pretty busy with work so I've only had one date so far but it went really well.
Excellent, glad to hear your date went well and that you are enjoying Secret Benefits.