Plenty of Fish

You can leave pof come back 1 year later the same men still there and they only keep viewing you creepy, not serious at all.one man wanted me to let him visit me with his 5 year old daughter from newyork and I'm in South Carolina he never even meet me, some dad to have your child visit you having not know who I am, that's scary poor parent.RUN RUN. Another man said he did lawn care buy actually broke looking for a free ride no real job, one showed up on our date but, had another man in the car who gave him a ride lol. I mean really RUN! Go else where.

I used to be able to send a couple of dozen messages over a weekend, using an effective opening message I've developed which explains who I am and what I'm looking for. Now POF blocks them after the first few, saying copy and paste messages are not allowed.

This defies all logic; a standard greeting makes perfect sense because we know almost nothing about each other. And besides, they probably won't write back anyway so it's not fair to expect guys to invest a lot of time on a personalized opening message. The opener really needs to be standard, with the recipient's name added at the beginning if they provide one in their profile. Then the second message can be personalized sure if they show any interest.

The 14 year rule was bad enough, but now they won't even let me say what I want to say? Jeez, enough is enough. Time to look for alternatives, whether it be Tinder or a paid dating site. POF used to be good but they went too far with all their restrictions.

Fake men wrote to me from all over the country -some so good-looking and manufactured that they were too good to be true. They'd write the simplest one liners, such as "Do you value family?" or "Are you creative?" or just "Hey, handsome." If I replied, I'd never hear from them again -not one of them, not ever. None of them actually looked at my profile, and half of them described themselves in their own profiles as "interested in females." I'm not a female, nor do I look like one. I'd also receive random messages from women... although my profile is clearly that of a gay man. There is nothing real about this site. It's just a scam that preys upon people looking for love etc. Someone spends their time pinging customers in the hopes of keeping them hooked into the site. The pinger doesn't even try really hard to make it seem real. What a crock.

Get ready to see "can't see likes " as headline for virtually every female profile on there. It's just really unoriginal & a terrible first impression but they don't seem to care about that

Large numbers of truly undesirable and unpleasant females lacking social skills on their phones demanding that only the hottest guys message them.

Profiles are either full of ridiculous demands or blank and say "ask" or in "fill in later".

The only good thing was the log out button.

Dreadful website

The same women seem to be on there forever with the photos that never age

Every profile is full of demands 'Make me laugh' "messages only saying hi will be deleted" "make an effort in your message" which is laughable because their profile is usually empty and also no way they're hot enough to dare be that picky about what they want. Since when do unattractive women get to call the shots?

I can honestly say I've never seen a site with so many rude aggressive misfits in my life. Doesn't take Einstein to see why they're single

Not free after a few weeks, no messages can be sent or received without payment, before that... I got numerous responses all from fake accounts... some fishing for money... the account in site come up in same city, after conversation... then exchange phone number, has foreign area code... their statement saying oh I'm in another state trying to get to your city... soliciting money... more than once... for me the website is a total b. S...