I am a 54 year old female. I've been on and off this site for a few years. Here is a list of what is on this site 1. Men that do not have current pics up. 2. Older than what they posted. 3. Shorter than what they posted. 4.Men who can not structure a sentence. I think they should repeat second grade up. 5. Lots of bad or missing teeth. 6. Men who STILL live at home with their parents. The standard reason for this is that they are taking care of them. Yea! More like they are broke and lazy and parents enable this. 7. Men who do not have a license and or car. 8. Men who do not have a job. 9. Men who constantly talk about themselves and or their ex. 10. Men who whip out their phone and take calls, texts and or start to bore me with pictures of their kids, grand kids and other boring images that I am so not interested in. For crying out loud this is our first meet. 11. Of course the men who just want to have a ping pong e mail relationship and have no intention of ever meeting. And 12. Men who just want SEX. Please go to a sex site or get a pro! I know other sites have the same quality of men too but why pay to be lied to. That's the conclusion with ALL sites. It is so easy to lie. Just keep your radar up and don't take this stuff seriously. Ladies, just a heads up. If you meet a guy who acts like he is your boyfriend too soon, or is sooooo into you right away, beware, he is a player. There are lots of these guys out there. The dating sites are a breeding ground for sociopaths/players and what I mentioned above. Guys, I'm sure you run into unstable women too. If so, please post your own review. Thank You. Update. I have deleted my POF account about 1 month ago. Enough of this nonsense. It isn't getting any better with the caliber of men. I know that a lot of them are on paid sites too. So, I'll just see if I can meet someone IRL.