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Kentucky
1 review
2 helpful votes
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They discriminate, if you don't date the way they want you to you will get banned. They don't like interracial dating and if you don't follow their rules to the letter they ban you and don't give you the opportunity to fix the problem first. They will approve your profile at first but if they don't like the type of dating you are doing they will ban you. Terrible site I would stay away.

Date of experience: October 13, 2021
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Lack of Customer Service
November 23, 2016

Received suggestion for POF Account upgrade, upgraded and been locked out since, my username and password longer works, POF states that my email address is not registered to an account (when I am 100% certain it is) and there is some other dude using my scree-name. Tried contacting Customer Service, but there is none, have sent emails and received only automated responses which were useless. This is so unfortunate because I am actually a paying continued customer of more than 1 year.

Date of experience: November 23, 2016
Florida
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Plenty of Problems
November 19, 2017

I had posted some risque photos on my profile (not of me and not X-Rated). PoF removed them. Fine. Then soon after they removed all of my (perfectly presentable and clothed face shots) photos. I have not been able to upload any photos since (about two weeks ago). I paid for a three-month membership ($51) and essentially have been ripped off since the site is basically useless to me unless women can see my face photos.

I sent several emails to their "Help" department with no reply whatsoever. Now I am posting as many negative reviews as possible and taking this up with the suitable consumer fraud government agencies.

STAY AWAY FROM PLENTY OF FISH!

Date of experience: November 19, 2017
California
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I was on the site for 24 hours before I canceled. Before that, I gave 3 guys my private email address. Dated one briefly, interesting and fun guy but not for me. One of the other men was a perfect match for me and we are very happy!

Date of experience: July 25, 2015
Florida
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Of all the dating sites online, this one takes the cake for being hands down WORST. First, the site does not allow you to date within the criteria you choose. They are going to dictate to you which women at which age group you are going to date. You have -0- say. Run as fast as you can. So if i am 57, why are they sending me women that are 77 and OLDER? Because they don't give a $#*!. They only want your money. This is the lowest quality site out there, don't waste your money, go buy a pizza instead.

The women are the ugliest. Compare them to tinder and bumble and hinge, 100x better. Not sure why, but that's how it rolls. Don't waste your time and money on this $#*!ty site.

Date of experience: July 23, 2023
Wisconsin
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Somewhat deceptive
November 2, 2023

I wasn't expecting POF to be at the same level as Match or eHarmony -- you get what you pay for. But I do not like the fact that a lot of the recommended matches are people who haven't logged in to POF for months or in one case almost a year. Had I known this, I wouldn't have paid for it. This is deceptive and fraudulent.

Date of experience: November 2, 2023
South Carolina
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Zero!
May 12, 2023

I am a Veteran widow. I was harassed and stalked by scammers on this site and then I was blocked from the site by POF. I am insulted and disgusted by the way I have been treated. Not only by all the scammers but by the way I was treated by whoever manages this site.

Date of experience: May 12, 2023
Switzerland
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Plentyoffish is a reasonable site. The people seem real (no bots and no fake profiles; many abandoned profiles) and everything is free.

However, compared to okcupid.com (which I like better), I have not managed to convince the women to chat/email with me.

Overall, I like okcupid.com better (OKC is also free, except for some advanced extras that I have not missed so far)

Date of experience: July 24, 2011
Texas
3 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Seems ok
January 3, 2017

After I've been moving to a new city I joined bunch of online dating sites to meet new people. POF seems to be one of the largest dating sites and I've found many members from my new home town so in my opinion it is really worth joining. However, I did not meet anyone using POF. In the meantime, I've met several people using Mingle2day and eHarmony so compared to those two dating sites I'd give POF 3 out 5 stars. But as mentioned it seems to be large so it is always worth a try.

Date of experience: January 3, 2017
Illinois
1 review
42 helpful votes
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Beware of POF!
August 8, 2015

I created a profile on POF one week ago after it was recommended by a friend. Today I opened the app and was surprised to see that I needed to login. I was even more surprised to find that I was unable to login because I was told that my email address wasn't "real" I tried the helps but I have to login to to get help! This has been a circle of frustration! The site is closed to me and with no way of addressing the problem I can either create an entirely new profile or delete the site altogether. I deleted the app! Too much trouble!

Date of experience: August 8, 2015
Washington
3 reviews
6 helpful votes
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Every single "meet me" invite and private message was a HIDEOUS women. I mean 50+ lbs on me and just not very pretty at all. Very few profiles take the time and effort to fill out the fields (which admittedly is not pof.com's problem). I am not too shallow but I tend to pull 8-9's in real life but ONLY get messages from 3-5's on POF. I am so pissed off that I have am seeking out review websites to complain about POF. Good set up, great ideas and such but just HORRIBLE results.

Date of experience: February 5, 2015
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Why woulnd't you like PlentyOfFish? Free to use and many users. Browse the internet and you will find hundreds of dating sites which don't even have 10% of the members PlentyOfFish has. No doubt about it: Before I discovered Mingle2day PlentyOfFish was my number one online dating source. Highly recommended!

Date of experience: October 4, 2016
GB
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Rank bad women
September 9, 2018

Any decent woman shouldn't need to be on a dating site & from what I've seen there's very few decent woman on POF
There's something wrong with them all. Either the job rules their life, they're fat, they're rude, they're unpleasant, they're unintelligent, they have kids, they have poor jobs, they have no class, no morals & extremely picky. They're all looking for Mr Right but Mr Right wouldn't look twice at this loss

How can you be 38 years old and longest relationship be under 1 year long? It's full of this kind of females and this tells you there's something wrong with them if they can't keep a man?

Date of experience: September 9, 2018
GB
1 review
9 helpful votes
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0 stars
June 15, 2022

Its bad enough you have very low quality women on the site but what makes it worse is they all believe they are a hot commodity and are a 10/10 catch when they are more likely a 2/10/. Its full of deluded women and is pointless even signing up for

Most are too dumb/lazy to fill their bio out but if they do its full of silly demands and how they love tattoos and going out. IF on the off chance you do find someone okay you will find they have tons of kids they expect you to tolerate

Lets be honest you wont find a decent woman on here, why would they stay on here when they are being constantly bombarded with perv requests or simp men? All you have is a website full of women that nobody wants

Date of experience: June 15, 2022
California
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Awful waste of time.
November 6, 2021

I hate POF. Every woman I pick out, literally every single one... is FAKE. By fake I mean a fake pic
And not a legit profile. Whenever I do a search on Google image I find the pic is that of a porn star or a model or an ad for clothing or some other product. IMHO, nearly every attractive picture is a fake pic and fake profile. Big waste of time.

Date of experience: November 6, 2021
Michigan
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I had never previously used a dating service but upon seeing a commercial for POF decieded to give it a try. I went on a few dates with some very nice men however there was no real sparks for the first few months however in my third month of using the site I was lucky enough to meet my perfect match. I cant begin to express my graditute to POF for providing this free service and allowing me the opportunity to meet such a wonderful man. I definitely recommend this site.

Date of experience: November 27, 2015
Tennessee
1 review
17 helpful votes
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Plenty of Fakes, Part Two
December 26, 2022
Updated review

In the review I wrote a few months ago, I said that at least 5O% of profiles on POF are fake. I stand corrected: easily 80% are fake, many of which are scammers POF uses for marketing purposes.

As for the remaining 20% of profiles, good gawd. Downright depressing. POF search results are like a study of the drastic decline in the physical, mental, social, and economic well-being of men (and probably women) in the last 25 years or so. It's pretty bleak.

A tip for those on here complaining about profiles that have messaging deactivated: in all likelihood, those profiles are fake.

Date of experience: December 26, 2022

Plenty of Fakes
August 21, 2022
Previous review

I've tried 3 different dating sites, which were all bad, but POF is the worst. At least half of the profiles are fake, and, like another poster here, I'm convinced that most of the fakes are a marketing tool POF uses to attract users. I don't know how POF and other dating sites get away with their fraudulent business practices.

Funny that so many men on here complain about the quality of the women on POF, because the men are just as bad. POF has the homeliest, angriest, rudest, most socially inept men I've ever come across.

Why on Earth would I actually PAY for this? In short, flushing money down the toilet would be a wiser use of that money.

Date of experience: August 21, 2022
Canada
2 reviews
19 helpful votes
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Service none.
November 23, 2023

Can't send messages half the time it comes up with, "Error" and tells you to resend. Have to pay to use properly. Get free but all you can do is messages. That doesn't work half the time. Sometimes they won't even let you message. Says this person is looking for something else. Would not recommend to anyone. It used to be a good dating app about twenty years ago. Now got too big with no customer service. Can't even speak with an agent if you have a problem. Other reviews on here said someone spoke with someone from India. Long way from Canada. That person wasn't no help. Always read tge terms, I'm been on a couple of apps that actually say these are not really people and you'll never meet them. For entertainment purposes only. That's why I came to POF, there are real people but app sucks.

Date of experience: November 23, 2023
GB
1 review
7 helpful votes
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'POF' a waist of time.
January 29, 2017

I highly recommend people that if you are looking to sign up to a dating website, don't sign up to pof. I invested a lot of time and effort in writing a decent profile out finding decent upto date pictures of myself, but it led to nothing. I'm not the best looking guy in the world but I'm certainly not the worst. I am a normal decent guy with a s dddent career who is looking for a genuine relationship. Surely that's what most girls want?
You send a detailed message to a girl, she reads and doesn't respond. I can go days without a profile review. A lot of profiles seems to be fake and if they aren't, they just want attention. I thought this might be due to the fact I haven't payed to upgrade. I decided I was going to pay the money to do the upgrade but before, checked the reviews to see if it was worth it. Too my surprise, or shall I say 'no surprise' everyone has said it's not worth paying for the upgrade.

A waste of time and effort!

Date of experience: January 29, 2017
Canada
1 review
13 helpful votes
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The worst dating site ever. My profile was deleted four times in three days without any reason.
I tried to contact customer support - no response. Better read "Terms of service" before you will give away your credit card information. One star is too generous for this crap.

Date of experience: August 9, 2014

Overview

Plenty of Fish has a rating of 1.3 stars from 1,958 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Plenty of Fish most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and credit card. Plenty of Fish ranks 655th among Dating sites.

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