Luckily I only paid $40 for a 6 month subscription, but that was still $40 too much. They don't allow you to read your messages unless you subscribe. They don't screen their members because I received message from men in their 20s and scammers. This dating site is for 50+ singles. My account was hacked, so I called customer service. I asked for a partial refund and they don't give refunds if you used their site. They corrected my photos and profile. Currently the photos are accurate, but the profile is back to what the hacker wrote. DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY ON ourtime.com!
Every time they get a chance to up sell you they do! Send you so much junk email. Endless. So don't give them the chance!
Bad, awful & just the perfect place to find some one that 1000 miles to 4000 away!
The teasers show fairly attractive people. I had no idea that the majority of the users are far short of even being the slightest bit attractive. And some people are so inept they cant even post a picture correctly. Oh, thats a nice picture of your forehead, I think Ill contact you. And then the people that contact you - for Gods sake, have some self respect; take a shower, wash your hair. Do you really think a decent person is going to respond to you?
My advice, if you want to take a shot, is to sign up for a month, be active and see if you like it. The site continues to survive, despite low membership, because seniors like me are generally are not very savvy!
This is the most crooked site I've ever seen they steal your information and your pictures have the people on here are not even on hear any more this site is nothing but highway robbery do not use this site
I have tried other dating sites and went on a few dates that were ok. When I signed up on OurTime I ended meeting the most wonderful, caring and loving man! We have been together almost 2 years now! We travel together we have fun together and I feel I have met my soulmate! We both have older children and they are also happy for us! I have never been treated better and he feels the same! Our 6 word love story is "Met online and fell in love" Thank you OurTime for helping us find true love
This is the worse site ever. I always wait a week or so before becoming a paid member on any dating site and this was no exception. It did not seem normal to me that I had "300" notifications in my in-box in under a week. I noticed that under the "My View" tab, it had several pages of men that I supposedly view. That was not the case.
Don't bother; numerous scammers and uninterested women. I do well in real life but thought I would try this as I had done it back in the dot.com days with some success. Zero results and if I had not been careful, scammed would have been the final result. Terrible to be a widower and to come back to this.
I should have read the reviews first before I joined for one month because I wasted my money. Most of the messages are "FAKE"--And the women that are on there will not communicate at all. I'm a good looking guy and well off. Any woman that is worth looking at will not communicate. They just post their profile and sit and wait for guys to contact them. And most will never reply back. I didn't pay right away but when I saw I got 12 messages I thought I better pay to read them. What a joke, they were all fake come on messages to get you to join.---DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY!
First of all- you pay a minimum fee per month for 3 months. This is automatically renewed unless you notify them. NEXT- if you even want a person to "message" you- you have to pay over an extra $20 per month. There are not many real (as opposed to imaginary) men on the site. Many supposed people have a made up name, without any profile information whatsoever. An example of a name on the site was "gonnaget it". So, how could they even allow that name to register as a user with "no" information? Big dissapointment. Many people with just a name- no picture or information! I've attached a picture. Don't waste your money.
Maybe its my age but im still one of these people that are a bit sceptical and reluctant to hand my credit card details out on the internet. Unfortunately online dating is pretty much a non starter if you dont do this, so I read a lot of reviews and do a lot of checking before I choose an online dating site. So far the only sites that have passed my test are this one (ourtime) and primetimelove.com (ive done some reviews on that site before you should be able to find, its 9/10 in my book, really has everything you need). For this one I had no concerns about paying for the 6 months as its a well known brand with a lot of reviews and even if there are quite a lot of negative points, having your money pinched is not one of them. Its a good site, not the best ive tried but ive met some nice people on the site and even gone on a date. For me its 8/10 and worth a try if youre looking for a site you can pay for that you wont lose sleep over.
Let me start by saying I'm so glad I only signed for one month, I don't think I could stand another 2 months of looking any anymore ugly, old and overweight women, what's laughable is reading their expectations, 5-2" tall, a few extra pounds, hairdresser seeks tall, handsome, physically fit, successful guy who likes to help out around the house, cooking and giving massages, really? If a guy was ALL of that, do you think he would want someone like you? Look in the mirror when you ask yourself that question OK?.
Maybe its my age but im still one of these people that are a bit sceptical and reluctant to hand my credit card details out on the internet. Unfortunately online dating is pretty much a non starter if you dont do this, so I read a lot of reviews and do a lot of checking before I choose an online dating site. So far the only sites that have passed my test are this one (ourtime) and primetimelove.com (ive done some reviews on that site before you should be able to find, its 9/10 in my book, really has everything you need). For this one I had no concerns about paying for the 6 months as its a well known brand with a lot of reviews and even if there are quite a lot of negative points, having your money pinched is not one of them. Its a good site, not the best ive tried but ive met some nice people on the site and even gone on a date. For me its 8/10 and worth a try if youre looking for a site you can pay for that you wont lose sleep over.
OurTime is a complete "waste of Time". Its logarithm pays NO ATTENTION to your preferences so don't bother... not age, nor distance, or any other important exclusion. You can not get rid of individuals even if you block them.
This site is stupid and a waste of money when your subscription is about to expire you will see local adds but they are not current with paying members once you sign paid or not they will continue to shop your profile but in some cases those profile are of people that are dead
Despite my initial skepticism, this online dating malarkey isnt so bad. I use this site and also primetimelove and must say its living up to the (considerable) hype so far. Worth a bash, after all why should the kids have all the fun?
I have been very happy with Ourtime, and it's older sister site - SeniorPeopleMeet. I have tried most all of the prominent sites, and have found this one to be in the top 3 or 4. It is a paid site, so you cheapskates who just want to troll for free won't like it. But I have met some very nice women on this site. And you can join one of them and get access to both - two for the price of one. Now that's a deal.
I have a profile that has two sentences about me, no photo and no subscription. I've clicked on a few profiles and "flirted" with a few. Now I have 37 incoming flirts, 3 incoming favorites and 152 incoming messages. How can this possibly be?
This *looks* like a site that's putting fake messages, fake flirts and fake favorites on my profile in order to try to tempt me to spend money with them.
I'd like to get one of those throwaway visa cards in order to join for a month to see what's going on but $30-$40 is way too expensive for a site that should be free.
I have zero confidence in this site and will not be spending money on it.
I paid for OurTime in February. With four months left, I was hacked three times. My picture was removed and replaced with the picture of another, my password was changed and I fear my credit card information was stolen. I tried calling, e-mailing and writing to no avail. I was on the phone this week for over 8 hours, and finally gave up and cancelled my account with no reimbursement.
OurTime has terrible internet security, and does not protect your identity. This is a truly terrible company. Do not trust your personal information with OurTime.
Another site where you have to pay. You can't read any messages you receive unless you pay $19.99 a month. You can see who viewed you and view their profile and pics but can't message them without paying. It's annoying that every time you click 'view who flirted with you' it goes to the payment page.
Answer: Not sure what you mean by the shaded areas. But never mind, I agree with Alex H, don't get involved with them, they are just after your money. The reply rate is extremely low and the site is full of fake profiles. You will just lose your time with it ( like I did and I regret it). It's important to find a legit site, the site that should suit you best and I found mine: https://j4l.com/402007 It's 100% legit and valid and they don't resort to bots and fakes. I met my girlfriend through them so I know it's a working site!
Answer: They are charging me and I cannot get on this site, I want a refund as I have not been able to use this site,
OurTime has a rating of 1.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.