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Pennsylvania
26 reviews
74 helpful votes
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Ok site for the number of contacts, but got fed up with the pop up banner adds that return every time you change pages.
I pay to join. Why the ads like a free site?

Date of experience: February 8, 2014
Virginia
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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Typical Dating Site
February 18, 2022

Fake profiles, poor profiles, however many are good for a chuckle if nothing else. I did get a date and it did turn into a short relationship. But that doesn't seem to be the norm.

Date of experience: February 18, 2022
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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OurTime dating: Out of 5 stars: "0000" DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY! They fill your feed with people who have already quit the site. Delete this crap and, oh look, the site puts them back into your feed again! Many, many scammers be careful here, keep your wits about you and your wallet safe! They fill your feed you with people what live no where near your location when searching their client base, completely ignoring your preferences. Always chiseling for more money with fees for "Highlighting," your profile or fees for actually allowing someone to see your posts and this after I payed for a full subscription. I would have had the same benefits if I'd utilized a free account.
Copyright infringement: My images were used on Match without my permission! I registered only on OurTime and stipulated that my photos are NOT to be used else where. This was also disregarded and I received spam from Match, chiseling for more money to see who "liked" me. BUNCH OF SCAMMERS! DON'T SUBSCRIBE!

Date of experience: March 4, 2023
New Jersey
1 review
17 helpful votes
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STole my money!
December 1, 2015

When you PAY them to be a member, and if you dont you cant talk to ANYONE, you automatically get billed EVERY MONTH. I immediately changed the "auto pay" pay setting and it caused a popup to block my screen and keep me from using the site unless I turned back on "Autopay."

I called and was told to switch computers and or operating systems... anything but correct the problem o their end. When it came to refunding my money, the rude children running OUR TIME told me they could not do it and to cancel the payment through my credit card company.

The sad thing was that I was talking to quite a few potential matches... I just refuse to deal with an unscrupulous entity, I would rather pay MORE and deal with a "morally correct" company. For this reason, I would only recommend them to people that I really dislike.

Date of experience: December 1, 2015
Oklahoma
1 review
26 helpful votes
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This is hands down the most disgusting Dating Service! I am female and was "matched" with other women! The dating service sent lots of photos of men that looked like they were living under a bridge. Two guys with their tongues sticking out so you could see how long their tongues are, one guy in a hospital bed with what looked like oxygen, Several old guys with their shirts off, many awful selfies obviously taken in a bathroom mirror, several selfies of top half of heads... Awful. Don't let them trick you with " it is high traffic time would you like to be promoted?" then a 200 charge shows up on your cc! Be alert to the grammar in their profiles... obviously not coming from an American although they say they are from someplace in use... Be alert to all the guys that say they are engineers and traveling and only available to text... NEVER talk to anyone without a picture. I finally hit the wall and wanted to cancel immediately and as soon as I typed in that I wanted to cancel I was blocked from the account information to achieve this. No number to call. On line I went to their Web site and as soon as I clicked onto cancel, there was an instant " system down try later!" Near impossible to get away from these folks. Just called my cc! Please try another reputable site... You will be so sorry if you do this. So many profiles are dummy, so many profiles are just the poor people who wanted to try for free and are no longer on site... RUN

Date of experience: April 11, 2016
France
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Lots of Loonies
May 4, 2016

Dont like this website. Too many strange men with bad spelling and worse manners. Prefer primetimelove.com as an alternative because there are slightly less mad men and slightly more gentlemen!

Date of experience: May 4, 2016
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I'm not at all happy with Ourtime.com. They have continued to take money from my account despite cancelling my membership. They are not giving any reasonable explanation nor a refund.

Date of experience: May 3, 2022
California
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I found that this website gave me an upset stomach.

I have seen the following women on my site (some I deleted out of disgust): stylzbyKat, SweetTeresaBaby, MSDIANA200.

The woman with a username of MSDIANA200 contacted me. I find this very disturbing.

Apparently, this website needs strong maintenance service. I found that 99% of my matches were men. However, the remaining percentage was women.

Date of experience: July 2, 2016
Pennsylvania
1 review
12 helpful votes
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They charged me twice
October 18, 2016

I asked for a refund the hour after I signed up. Still have not gotten a response. It looked like $7 a week, and you charged me twice. I will be contacting my bank

Date of experience: October 18, 2016
California
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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TERRIBLE site, no control over members. I've been receiving messages from people 40 years younger and 18 years older than myself.
Most responses asked for an email or phone number and had their address in user name and phone number scrawled across their picture. Messages from 50-3,000 miles distance.
THIS IS AN OVER 50 SITE THAT ALLOWS ANYONE TO JOIN.
Now it gets worse. When contacting them you reach "non-English speaking" English language c/s reps in the Phillipines who refuse to address any concerns and offer no assistance (I tried 3 times and hit a brick wall each time).
It's terrible that companies/people spend so much time devising deceitful schemes.
STAY AWAY, BUY A COUPLE NICE STEAKS.

Date of experience: August 11, 2017
California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Stay Away!
January 18, 2016

This dating site only promotes phoney interactions.
They are nothing but a spam, stay away!
Inaccurate messages posted to your views!
Charges are despective!

Date of experience: January 18, 2016
South Carolina
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Pathetic rating 0
September 11, 2016

Scam, filters for matches worthless lot of time wasted and further tries to get more $ for added features once you sign up, should be shut down. From someone that got suckered in.

Date of experience: September 11, 2016
Minnesota
3 reviews
15 helpful votes
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FAKERS
June 5, 2016

Almost every single "man" I dealt with either wanted s bikini pic of me or had absolutely no idea how to speak even though they had pictures posted that were clearly not them... TALK ABOUT A HUGEMONGOUS WASTE OF $$$$$$$$$ & I feel like an idiot. I'm just gonna put it all in Gods hands. If He sees fit for me to be single, then so shall it be. God bless y'all;-)

Date of experience: June 5, 2016
Indiana
1 review
6 helpful votes
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BELIEVE EVERYTHING BAD IN THE REVIEWS! IT IS ALL TRUE...!
You WILL be targeted by their fake and inactive profile software AND IT IS INFESTED WITH SCAMMERS I WAS SOLICITED FIR $800.00 PAYPAL WITH PROMISES OF ETERNAL LOVE SEX BABIES AN ATHEIST CLAIMING TO LOVE GOD PROFILE CINDETTA STAY WAY LIES FOR TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT FELONIOUS SOLICITATIONS OURTIME IS A WASTE OF TIME AND $$$
I have proofs of PURCHASES EVEN FOR REPLY FOR FREE... NONE OF IT WORKS TO CONTACT A REAL PERSON DOING TRUTH THE FEATURES ARE HORRIBLE AND DON'T WORK YOU WILL REGRET GOING THERE
I AM A CHRISTIAN FIT AND NOT UGLY AND OPEN FOR MOST KIND OF RESPECTABLE RELATIONSHIPS!
Have not met one real person in FOUR MO. AS OF 05 15 2020
WADE INTO THE OURTIME GARBAGE DUMP YOU MAY AS WELL BURN YOUR $$$

Date of experience: May 15, 2020
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Using False Profiles
November 28, 2023

I signed up, they removed my access with no reason whatsoever, and continued to keep my profile up for members to respond to. Customer Support does not exist, and the problem continues 3 days later. DO NOT USE THIS SITE - they are AI-driven fakes.

Date of experience: November 28, 2023
Wisconsin
3 reviews
4 helpful votes
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No stars!
July 7, 2022

I was duped into joining this site by switch and bait tactics! Although I had my reservations about giving them my credit card info I did anyway! What a mistake! They suckered me in by stating I had several messages waiting and of course the only way to read them is by subscribing! I held out until they offered me a one time deal of $44 for a years subscription! Which I'm sorry to say I fell for it! Not only were there not the number of messages waiting they claimed, the few that it did show never responded! And of course a week after giving my credit card information and subscribing to their service for their discounted price of a one time fee of $44, my card was charged another $64 without my consent! I have been trying to contact a representative this company, trust me they do not exist! All you get when you call the only number provided is ( All representatives are busy! Call back later!) And in the meantime I have had to cancel my credit cards and have new ones issued! This site needs to be shut down immediately!

Date of experience: July 7, 2022
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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It used to up to 2 weeks ago. Let you search by area see who is in there area you choose, now they are just like Tinder just give you a small selection. Don't waste your money!

Date of experience: May 6, 2023
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Garbage
May 19, 2021

I met what I thought was a nice lady on there. All she wanted what someone to pay her bills. Told a bunch of lies... don't waste you time on this stupid site.

Date of experience: May 19, 2021
GB
0 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Perfect match
June 27, 2022

Both me and my hubby matched on here, and compatibility is 110%
He was a suggestion and we matched, all im saying our future is bright
Never give up best site by far

Date of experience: June 27, 2022
Tennessee
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I received many flirts & messages right from the start, which seemed encouraging and fun! But after only 2-3 weeks I realized that there were (at least) 5 "scam" men writing to me. They were all saying the exact same words. I reported this to Ourtime. Several times my profile was "not allowed", for what reason I never knew, they couldn't explain why. They blamed it on the "computer" sensing inappropriate words. BUNK! So I had to create a new password each time. Twice my profile was GONE, so I had to rewrite it. After 3 months (and three dates with nice men) I finally QUIT even though I had 3 months left on my membership. I quit because someone was using my photo & profile and flirting/messaging men - these men responded to "my" message, but I had never sent them anything! When I got an upsetting pornographic message, I called to quit the site. They gave me a hard time, but I think I'm finally off this very flawed site. Their advertising is attractive, but actually being on the site is disappointing, frustrating, and time-consuming. DO NOT JOIN!

Date of experience: April 12, 2018

Overview

OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 441 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.

service
113
value
125
shipping
31
returns
42
quality
103