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OkCupid Reviews Summary

OkCupid has a rating of 1.9 stars from 646 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OkCupid most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and phone number. OkCupid ranks 651st among Dating sites.

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Washington
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Another Dating Site
November 16, 2017

Okcupid Sail70e29 is again another fake profile for Randy Sonnier rss70 on plenty of fish. Claims he's a Captain and sails all the time... part time carpenter that's unemployed for the winter with a broken down sailboat that he calls home, who's just looking for free room and board provided by some unexpecting woman. He's handsome and charming and a complete sociopath. On a Friday night he claims to be sailing. Reality is he's spent all week on line looking for a hookup. Ok cupid and plenty of fish are just a place these people go for a captive hunting ground.

Date of experience: November 16, 2017
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I used this site back in the day and decided to try it again with wejustfit (my cousin recommended WJF). I prefer WJF all things considered but Cupid still has some potential and so much depends on where you are and how many members these kind of sites have in your area. OkCupid used to be really busy where I am but its not what it was in terms of numbers anymore IMHO.

Date of experience: November 15, 2017
Serbia
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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Okay
November 8, 2017

Imo not bad but also not good enough. Been only using it for three weeks and did not really felt like I am getting nowhere with OKC. Pretty average, imo!

Date of experience: November 7, 2017
California
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Way more men than woman
November 3, 2017

I live in California, I look ok and I am a computer engineer so I was surprised to get almost no response from women I contacted, and no one contacted me. In the past I had good experience with other dating sites( that are not free).
So I decide to check what is going on. I created a fake profile of a 43 year old woman who looks above average. This profile got 220 messages in less than 24-hours that it was open.
So I think that the chances for a men to meet a woman in this site are quiet small, at least California.

Date of experience: November 3, 2017
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Amazing
November 1, 2017

I met the man I have been looking for my whole life on OK Cupid. We met 10 weeks ago and are getting married and planning on starting a family ASAP.

Date of experience: October 31, 2017
Arizona
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Too much time wasted on nonexistent people. Many cannot put together a grammatically correct sentence.

The app itself is easy to use but no evidence of scammer removal.

Date of experience: October 20, 2017
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I used to use this site down south and it was much better. I dont know if its not as effective for me for setting up dates because its generally worse overall or because I moved to Glasgow. I've started using wejustfit after I read an article about a couple that met on that site and its a case of so far, so good. Even if it doesn't end up my long term choice, it proves that theres no point in being loyal to OkCupid forever and thinking that nothing is better just because they spend lots on advertising. It always pays to stay on the ball. You wouldnt keep paying for your broadband service if it wasn't working for weeks at a time now would you?

Date of experience: October 18, 2017
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Generally good
October 18, 2017

Quite liking this dating site. Not sure it's as good as my all time fave wejustfit but it's not far off. Some really nice people on their and a good way to kill time, I just spend my commute to work firing out messages & doing searches then. By the time I get home I usually have a reply, although not always of course. Quite happy with it. B. McAuley, 27, Stirling

Date of experience: October 18, 2017
California
2 reviews
30 helpful votes
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Harassing People
October 15, 2017

Why does okCupid allow someone text me even if it's not a mutual like?
I blocked at least 50 people over the period of just 2 months if using it because of all the harassing messages. Guys are just indecent here.
They post pictures that are offensive, indecent. Okcupid doesn't do anything to filter them? I've reported at least 30 profiles.
You can't see who visited your profile anymore. So you don't know if there's a creepy stalker of yours...
And what's the deal with not providing an option to delete a profile? I can only disable my profile!?

Date of experience: October 15, 2017
Massachusetts
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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Sex oriented
October 13, 2017

It doesn't focus on the important things, education and occupation are optional and there are thousands of other irrelevant matching questions which the answers can be changed after 24 hours. Not possible for professionals to weed out the trash.

Date of experience: October 13, 2017
Virginia
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
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OkCupid is by far my favorite of all the sites Ive tried and Ive had the most success on it despite currently being single. It offers options other sites dont like narrowing down your search criteria to specific groups and types as well as giving a person the freedom to choose between a variety of sexual orientations and preferences. It may not seem like a big deal to most people, but other sites flat out exclude certain groups due to their lack of options. Im not poly or in an open relationship, but some people are and not all of them are swingers for god sake! If you are looking for a site thats not as vanilla as the mainstream dating sites and no where near as hardcore as some others, OkCupid might be a good choice for you.

Date of experience: October 3, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
1 helpful vote
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AVERAGE
September 18, 2017

Not sure I get all the gd reviews. Yes their are tunnes of people but the site isnt as fun as wejustfit.com or even tinder + ive not had as many dates as I thot I was gonna get.

Date of experience: September 18, 2017
New York
1 review
22 helpful votes
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If someone makes a false accusation against you, they don't ask for your side of the story - they want to make a "safe user experience" for the person who reported you, so they automatically ban you. Quality has gone way downhill in recent months - was seeing the same people over and over again. Total waste of time.

Date of experience: September 14, 2017
Nevada
6 reviews
35 helpful votes
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Hit or miss
September 11, 2017

Being a free dating site is nice. What is not nice is the thousands of assessment questions you have the opportunity to answer or not, but they are what the site uses to determine your "match percentage". Many of the questions are repetitive or just plain stupid. After getting an additional 200+ "likes" within two weeks of changing my profile picture so guys would know what I look like from the front, I concluded that the assessment questions were also irrelevant for a lot of users. I did go on dates with 7 different men from OKCupid, but didn't find Mr. Right, and didn't feel like wasting any more time on there.

Date of experience: September 11, 2017
Texas
2 reviews
27 helpful votes
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Heads up ladies
September 5, 2017

I met a guy in May and we started a relationship. Atleast we said it was. He uses his daughter as and excuse not to spend time together so he can dates multiple women. He disappeared alot. Clams he doesn't get your calls or text until the weekend is over. I'm not sure why he acts this way because he looks like a little troll. His name is Jesse Garrett and lives in Terrell tx.

Date of experience: September 5, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I aint tried many of these online dating websites but I cant say I'm all that blown away by OkCupid. It takes an awful lot longer to get up and running than the other site I liked (wejustfit.com) and im not sure im such a big believer in all the scientific hogwash. It's hella busy though, ill give it that. JF

Date of experience: September 4, 2017
California
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Not worth it
August 30, 2017

Not realistic because women will get more attention on here than in real life so it seems to give them an inflated ego. Most don't even respond to your messages and if they do it might be a word or two but hardly ever reply by asking a question back. And if you do actually meet up with someone, well most likely they will be fooling around on the site looking for attention and Mr. Perfect. I'm sure there are some good women on OKCupid but you have to dig really deep to find them. Oh yeah, women like to post their best pics which may not be current. Sadly enough I've met plenty of women who looked nothing like what they advertised.

Date of experience: August 30, 2017
New York
8 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Date of experience: August 29, 2017
Ukraine
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Did not help to me. Lot of people just hanging out without any will to find real relationships;-(

Date of experience: August 21, 2017
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
25 helpful votes
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They delete profiles
August 14, 2017

Don't waste your time. Women with baggage will report you for nothing and they will delete your account because a woman complained I guess

Date of experience: August 14, 2017

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Large online dating site with free basic membership.


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Founded in 2003
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