Chris G.

So after spending the time to fill out a decent profile, letting my daughter review it etc. Let's make it easy, I got more messages when I forgot about the site then I did when I was active. Like the rest, they will send you fake messages if you haven't logged in for a while just to get you back on.

I'm not a handsome guy, but this was another instance of getting way to many messages in a short amount of time compared to when I was actually active. What's worse is I actually had to do some cheesing to get some matches. Careful how you answer their compatibility questions.

This thing says my credibility is low. So whatever.

Within seconds of creating an account I was getting messages telling me how cute or handsome I was and I hadn't even uploaded a picture. You will get the same 10 messages from every woman, eventually they start repeating the same messages. If you put ANYTHING in your profile that mentions fake, scam, etc your "about me", like I don't talk to fake people etc, it gets deleted. They HEAVILY moderate what you put in your profile, unless you say you want to have sex with 10 different guys at once or crap like that.

There MIGHT be real people on there. I've used a LOT of dating sites over the years, I'm not a handsome guy, so when I get 30 messages from 30 different women within my first 24 hours of joining when every other site I've ever used I might get 30 messages in a year, yeah this crap is fake.

So I've used the site/service off and on since probably 2015, maybe a bit longer. When I originally found it many of the services you now pay for you could use for free. Now they basically charge you for everything useful. I don't fault them for wanting to make money, but now it's just a shell of it's former self.
The moderators are monstrous hypocrites, it was my experience uploading pics that if I uploaded ANY pic other than face shots of myself they'd get deleted where as almost every woman I came across had pics of their cats, dogs etc up and those NEVER got deleted when reported, I'd actually favorited several profiles and check.
Next is the site is run by flaming liberals who will not tolerate any sort of free thinking. If you watch profiles most everyone who doesn't identify as "liberal" will put "other" because putting anything else will catch you a ban or shadow ban, if your account isn't outright banned you'll find yourself with no matches day in and day out.
My account was actually banned after 6 months of activity. As I said I've been using the service off and on for a number of years, use it for a few months then delete for lack of decent humans, fake profiles, gold diggers etc. I actually have met 3 women from the site and they were utter garbage humans, and chatted with many more that I caught in lie after lie, several made me think they were bots. Anyway after getting fed up with the crap and hypocrisy on womens profiles I put on my profile "Women's list of demands = preference, Men's list of demands = hate speech and misogyny." I was banned for that. I contacted okcupid because originally they didn't tell me why my account was banned. Email after email and all I got was an automated response that directed me to page saying my account violated their rules. I eventually got an email from a random yahoo email account from someone claiming they were a moderator for Okcupid and he or she explained they never tell anyone why they were banned and that I was banned for the above because one of the moderators is a flaming feminist and my comment literally hurt his feelings.