MelanieToniaEvans

I never heard of narcissism before until I came across Melanie's work. It was like a wake-up call for me! She opened my eyes on the narcissistic abuse that's been going on in my life since I was a child!

All those years & being married to a Narcissist made me hit rock bottom. I felt helpless, hopeless, afraid of the unknown, I had a constant lack of joy, felt numb, broken, miserable & lost. Friends & family did not understand what I was going through. And neither did I. I couldn't rationalize all those crazy-like, insane constant fights I had with my NH, nor the toxic atmosphere that he was constantly creating that made me feel like suffocating.

Melanie helped me understand all what was happening to me! In two words! "Narcissitic abuse" The most insidious forms of abuse are the emotional, psychological & mental forms simply because they cannot be seen like the physical abuse. And Narcissitic abuse is by far the most horrific form since it combines all 3!

I am so grateful that I have this awareness now thanx to Melanie! I really hope that one day narcissism will be known on a much higher scale on a global level. And that people will be able to recognize it just like any other disease like STD.

I really recommend Melanie's work it's a real breakthrough I would say in History!
Thank u so much Mel! You really changed my life!

I can't say enough about Melanie Evan! She and her webinar along with her several YouTube videos, have sent me in a direction of finally feeling like I can truley recover from the narcissist abuse! I've been in several abusive narcissistic relationships over the past 30 years. My ex-husband along with several boyfriends after that. I've been through conventional therapy for many years to help with my very mixed up past and to understand why I continue to get in toxic relationships with these type of men! It was not until recently that I finally broke away from the narcissist boyfriend and that lead me to research this very type of person and try to understand the crazy making mess of my life- When researching I came across Melanie's YouTube video on Narcissist Abuse. She was also hosting a free webinar on the subject. This couldn't have come at a better time! I've been so grateful for the clarity and understanding and most of all, I'm NOT alone or isolated with how this abuse can make me feel. I'm looking forward to healing the wounded child in me and getting my life back! I'm so blessed! Thank you Melanie! Christine K, USA

I was a little unsure what to expect in the beginning but I do know that I felt some relief with the first free workshop that I attended online to my own amazement. I didn't quite understand all the terminology at first but I did know I felt so much better. I thought to myself, I wasn't really prepared for the workshop, got in late, and didn't print out my materials but WOW I feel so much better! I am still learning the terminology and healing techniques and how they work but I am doing the modules and they are working. I am no laymen to therapy, psychology, psychology of narc and co-dependent and borderline criteria and the causes and the horror stories. I like that Melanie Tonia addresses the emotions, subconscious in ourselves, and by working on those we are able to move on. I think it was a god-send at the perfect time for me. If I give myself positive affirmations but if I don't address the core belief in me that contradicts that they will not have any effect on me. I keep listening, doing the modules and keep feeling better and better and I thought that was never going to happen. After years of therapy, I have had more success with Melanie online less than 2.5 weeks, than all those 15 plus years combined.

I've read so much about narcissistic abuse I thought I was over it and its devastating effects on my life. But I was not thriving, merely surviving, and that's what led me to search further and find Melanie's program. I am really impressed and already it is having positive effects in my life. I am learning to identify the inner wounds that still attract narcissists to me and me to narcissists, and as they heal, I see and feel my life changing for the better. I would like to say something to those who say that Melanie's program blames victims for their abuse. It doesn't. Think of a government minister who is said to be "responsible for unemployment". Does that mean s/he CAUSED it? Of course not, it simply means that s/he is the person in a position to do something about making it better. It is the same with any victim of abuse - s/he is never to blame for the abuse, but s/he is the only person in a position to do something to make its continuing effects in his/her life better. To those who say this is not fair - I agree! It's not fair, but it is true. And that is why I am so grateful for the materials Melanie has already sent me, the workshops, the webinar and the program.

After coming across the Melanie's Thriver introductory webinar that was offered for free, I was truly surprised and impressed, by; a) how she was able to filter through the non-sense of classical DSM style diagnosis and bring this into a real inter-personal/spiritual awareness to better comprehend how much victimization can cause you to create so much self doubt within your own world -it really validated and created clarity as to who is really responsible and how to take your power back; b) her insights and further her ability to allow and create a feeling of safety, even though it was non-interactive directly to her, she brought about my own willingness to dig deeper and look where I had not looked before to cause a real shift in my perception and overall sense of well-being! I am so grateful for her work as she shared from the first-person perspective which then allowed me to connect with her energy and inspiration as to how to get on the path of recovery. I so look forward to the next step in Melanies process to achieve a greater sense of well-being, and to shut down those who have to abuse. Melanie really brought about clarity in which I had never been able to find with other therapists! Melanie is a real inspiration and I wish whole-heartedly for anyone going through the abuse of a narcissist to tap into her incredible and simple processes. With gratitude and love, I am now recovering after 26 years of abuse, thank you Melanie. Hugs :). g-j.

Among the djungle of self-help and coaching programs on the internet this is truly outstanding, developed by an outstanding person. I had breakthroughs from the first moment which helped me to get life back into my hands in a noticable way right away, for example stepping out of my victim mode, numbness and depression to be able to take on an additional job to prevent the worst being in a financial crisis due to my overall situation with only one session.

Melanie`s work is more then dedicated, her way to see and explain things multidimensional, including a spiritual level, still keeping the feet right down to the ground. The insights she gives are eloquent, holistic, highly intelligent. The tools she offers are made to become more and more independent, starting a healing process that is way faster and deeper then a common psychotherapy and give the ability to heal long term and finally for good. The program is intense, but hits exactly the points, in an astonishing fitting way to the individual processes that i go through.

I am very glad and deeply thankful to have found her, it helped me not only to survive a major crisis and depression with ptsd symptoms but to heal in a much deeper way; the results speak for themselfs. I usually am not too much into this "market" but this is truly an exception, absolutely worth it, right in and ahead of our time.

Melanie has helped me focus on myself again and I don't mean that she has made me a selfish person, but she has reminded me of the importance of self-love. In my relationship of 3 years, I focused most of my energy to finding a way to have us as a couple to work together in a business. He resisted. Then I sought to have him help me with something that I wanted to do, he resisted. I really couldn't understand all the resistance and due to all the nice things that he did for me, I couldn't imagine calling him a Narcissist, it didn't seem fair; however Melanie has really fleshed out the concept. I was punished many times by him leaving me, he didn't like my enthusiasm or the way in which I presented things, so he would leave (of course I can improve on how I present things, but there was no need to leave). Melanie and this course has helped to open my eyes that he is not a secure person but needs the constant reassurance from the outside world and can really only focus on his goals. I am doing my best with her help to try and find a way to forgive myself, heal and undersand this type of personality and not take things so personally. I am thankful to have support as often times those closest to us, just can't really listen anymore.

There were days that I thought my pain and suffering were permanent and unsurvivable. Then I found Melanie Tonia Evans and her programs. I have listening to and watched them every single day for months, its like she created them just for me. I now know I don't need to suffer, I just need to put on one of her programs and listen. She makes me feel like i have all the support, guidance, wisdom, healing and hope that i desperately need. I'd never even heard of narcissistic abuse, even when in the worst of it, I just thought I was crazy and everything was my fault. My life fell apart. I lost my job, my friends, my health, my dignity and gave up on life when I was discarded by my NPD partner. I found myself in the worst situation life could bring. Then I found Melanie and she is literally saving my life. Having her unconditional support, encouragement, knowledge, wisdom and healing will honestly bring you immediate relief from the pain you feel and give you exactly what you need to survive and thrive. Melanie's programs are nothing short of a miracle. I cannot imagine what my life would have been like without her. This is one thing that seems too good to be true and I assure you that you cannot afford to wait another. Allow your healing to begin with the help and support of Melanie's NARP, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I will be grateful for the rest of my life.

I am eternally grateful to have discovered Melanie Tonia Evans' work.

I grew up in a narcissistic and abusive family, and have since lived my life ashamed for my very existence, mired in addiction and other means of self-avoidance, and repeatedly drawn and enslaved to invalidating and abusive relationships.

During the last year of my most recent relationship, I found Mel's podcasts and webinars. There were stretches where I would turn to her work daily like one would turn to a trusted friend. It's no exaggeration to say her work has helped to save my life, shifting the way I view myself and the world around me.

I found Mel's insights to be heartbreakingly profound yet so compassionate. She has helped me find the courage to turn inward so I can heal the wounds left long ago, and break the patterns caused by a lack of self-partnering.

From those dark days of first discovering the concept of narcissism and its parasitic force on my life, to slowly accepting that I am not the endlessly co-dependent victim of my own conditioning that I believed myself to be, I am ready to cross the bridge to inner healing through the NARP program.

Thank you Mel, for your life-changing work.

I found Melanie Tonia Evans thrivergroup and been listening to her knowledge about narcissists and I tell you, this has helped me not only following my path to be narcissisticfree but also to work with my inner wounds from my childhood. I have always knewn these wounds have a deep impact on my but what I now understand is how really deeply wounded I really am and how much these traumas have affected me my whole life.

I really recommend Melanie and NARP!

I discovered Melanie's programme whilst I was in hospital being treated for PTSD and Severe Depression as a result of narcissistic abuse. I wasn't able to watch any videos or listen to her radio show (no wifi!), so I read her articles daily and what she had to say about healing from abuse just made perfect sense to me. I have been attracting narcissists all me life -- my own mother is one! And the only way to break that cycle is to fix what it broken within myself. Her writings alone contributed to me starting to feel hope for the future--something I had lost completely... I was suicidal--and for the last few weeks of my hospitalisation, I couldn't wait to be discharged so I could investigate more of what she is teaching. I've only been out of hospital for 3 weeks and already, thanks to Melanie, I am feeling major positive shifts in my inner being and I know that it's only a matter of time before I am completely free of the wounds that have caused me to get caught in such horrendous relationships. I'm telling everyone I know about Melanie's programme, I feel so filled with love and gratitude for it's mere existence... and I truly believe that energetic healing of the subconscious is the only way to change our thinking... I've tried all my life to change my thinking by thinking and it never works! The subconscious is where it's at. Thank you Melanie, I owe you my life!

After being told I was probably the victim of Narcissistic Abuse, I sought help through psychiatry. With several different therapists, I tried cognitive talk therapy, EMDR, and other forms of therapy. None were really helping me. My main "symptoms" were severe depression, anxiety, and terrible self-esteem issues, caused mainly by my involvement with a narcissist for 8 long horrible years. Then I discovered Ms. Evans NARP and Quanta Healing program. I read many of the articles on her website, read her two free ebooks, and was invited to attend her 3-hour long Webinar, in which she goes into detail about how the program works. After the webinar, I knew then, that this was going to be the key to my healing, and eventual freedom from the pain I had lived with for so long, as a result of being emotionally, physically, and financially traumatized. I am looking forward to becoming fully immersed in this program and this community, and becoming a completely healed individual again. Thank you Ms. Evans, God bless you for offering this wonderful program to survivors of Narcissistic Abuse!

I have done a lot of work trying to heal myself & deal with emotional narcissistic abuse over the years. Nothing has affected & improved me so immediately before as MelanieToniaEvans has.
I have in the past felt misunderstood & sometimes extremely upset from attempts Ive made to speak with counsellors &/or abuse forums, which had caused me to isolate myself even further & made me very hesitant to reach out for help.
When I discovered Melanie & her work I immediately felt she understood clearly what I have & still am going through & trying to deal with, specific issues that arise due to narcissistic abuse, & also what is required for my full recovery & a step-by-step programme for me to follow to achieve that. After trialling her free 16day introductory course & watching all her videos on YouTube, I am certain that I have had immediate improvements with everything Ive worked on with her guidance. Her precise advice & guidance on dealing firsthand with these people in my life, has proven to be very affective & has given me immediate relief. Its helped me to understand narcissistic behahaviour clearer & what is needed for my complete healing. I feel she has truely saved me from insanity! I am excited to be joining her NARP programme & looking forward to working towards my full recovery. I recommend her to absolutely everyone I come across that is being affected by narcissistic abuse. So grateful I discovered her, I cannot praise her work enough!

I have been reading Melanie's work for well over a year and have been so thankful for her. She saved my life essentially and I was able to begin understanding the true impact of narcissistic abuse and the C-PTSD I have lived with for so many years. It took a very long time for me, many years of therapy and support programs, to barely begin to escape the vicious, debilitating, excruciating cycle. I am thankful that I was guided to her site and able to benefit from all of her articles, blogs, and you tube videos. The chance to truly work the NARP program has been calling me for a long time, and I gave already experienced a sense of restoration, as I work the first module. I will take this process very slowly and trust it as it unfolds. I understand the need for subconscious healing and Melanie's work accomplishes that. Deep trauma is so fraught with pitfalls, triggers, paralyzing fear, debilitating reliving, traumatic expressions generationally, having a path through to a life filled with love, hope, safety and peace is a priceless gift that words cannot express adequately.

What is so powerful about this work is that it is based on not only Melanies experiences and healings but the input and validation by so many others who have been through heartbreaking circumstances. I found this work after trawling the net to try to understand, with my mind, what was happening and how to get relief and understanding. Thank god i found Narp because not only could i listen to all this wealth of experience which gave me so many YES momenst that i couldnt get anyone else to understand, eg why we stay etc, but also i got to work with the body and get out of the mind and trying to find a solution to what was outside of me. Thanks goodness this is out there for us to access and it is true, if you use your experience to deeper your understanding of yourself and understand that what you have to offer is worth it, then you will thrive... You can't tread on glass and eggshells trying to get someone to get your perspective, you just have to to stop the madness and do your inner work. Boundaries really are the key and by melanie focusing on inner work boundaries together, it is a recipe for success.

I was lost, confused, at my 'rock bottom', felt hopeless, powerless and thought I would never 'find myself' again. A dear friend, just happened to send me a link of one of Melanie's blog articles and I was hooked. I thought to myself, is she talking to me? The answer was yes.
I was at a point in my life that I did not have any ownership, I was subconsciously blaming everyone, including my ex N for where I was in my life. And was turning to anyone and everyone who would listen and not once did I listen or now how to listen to myself.
Melanie's NARP program, blog, tune in radio program, webinar, youtube videos are soooo positively influential in the process of not surviving N abuse, it is so much more, it is about reclaiming who you are without needing anyone else's approval. You truly learn what it means to look within and self partner.
I can not say enough about how this community has changed me. I think a lot of people fear the word change... but change has to be one of the most powerful verbs in our vocabulary. If you want different. Do different and change!

Melanie you are a life saver to the world your work is full of joy and happiness... I didn't have the courage to leave my narc when if I have already know about the narc traits over 6 months of searching. But the day I found you in yutube my heart says this is the right person to walk with and now I am free and I have found the courage to leave my narc after 3 years of abusive you are the best I sigh into her free 3keys of thriving and her 16 days free trial now on the narp I can say I am on this journey but the truth is I am not going back as I was doing the back and fouth I am moving forward with confidence bec of the work of melanie she is a blessing to us an angel fall from heaven to save us from this pple thank you so much melanie god bless you in many ways

Melanie Tonia Evans has completely changed my life for the better. Her website and the NARP program gave me answers to questions that I've been searching for, for years. It makes sense, it clicks with me and I know down to my inner most being that this is the truth. For the first time ever, I have hope that I CAN move forward and be freed from narcissistic abuse and the addiction to him. I have true peace about my situation and what I need to do to move forward. The NARP program doesn't just focus on the narcissist but helps you reach down and find the root of the problem in your own self, and then teaches you how to heal myself. In turn, it helps to reduce and eliminate your pain and attachment to the narcissist. This is huge for anyone that has felt like their life would be over if they tried to separate from a narcissist. Most importantly, Melanie bases everything on a being a "Thriver" instead of a survivor. Her outlook and perspective is one of victory and creating the new life that you deserve.

I feel like my eyes have been opened in a whole new way and I am finally seeing things for what they are. And I'm not alone because I have the support from Melanie and the community. Melanie is there for each of us, and takes the time to personally respond to comments and questions. I am so grateful to have found this, and I'm ready to THRIVE!

I happened upon Melanie Tonia Evan's Narcistic Abuse Recovery Program on line when I was googling narcism after not knowing where to turn while leaving a relationship that just about destroyed me. I felt completely broken, confused and almost convinced that I was crazy by the person I was told loved me. The insanity of it all led me to feel that there was no hope. I have used Melanie Tonia Evan's program for three years now and it has changed my life. The support has been incredible and any time I have had questions, response time has been quick and timely. I truly recommend to any and all persons who are looking for guidance, support and the tools to recover fully and completely from Narcisist Abuse in any type of relationship. My life today is completely different from 3 years ago and my recovery began within days of starting her program and staying in contact with other survivors on line both on FB and through the website. Truly incredible stuff here and I am forever and more, grateful that she turned her own experience in to healing for us all.