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South Africa
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This is not a miracle story kind of review, only the truth. I am in my late 20s & I have tried every possible healing modality that exists, to heal from narcissistic abuse as well as childhood wounds which is where it all starts. Anything effective, only provided temporary relief. Melanie's NARP program is one of the few healing modalities that target the subconscious mind in order to provide healing at the deepest level, therefore providing a solution for permanent healing at its core. I am 6 months in and I honestly feel like I'm not even the same person anymore, I look back in horror on the person I used to be, I barely recognize her. My most recent long-term narcisstic relationship, barely has a hold on me anymore. My toxic exes are not even my type anymore! That's how you know you're winning! I am well aware of childhood and past life wounding that needs healing & I'm actively working at it. I can more easily identify & let go of unhealthy people & relationships, without the paralyzing pain. It still isn't a completely easy, pain-free detachment, but it's not even close to what it once was. I read every self-help book there is, and I have found that the information shared by Melanie is incomparable, it has taken my knowledge, awareness and growth to another level. For anyone looking for an effective and permanent platform to heal from the pain and hurt, and transform your life for good, I strongly recommend the NARP program.

Date of experience: August 20, 2018
GB
1 review
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After ten years of suffering from narcissistic abuse-physical and mental -followed by the trauma and grief and loss-someone who KNOWS! The relief at finding not just one person - but others who know and understand what happened is immense.no one around me, friends, family, medical professionals understood at all. Leaving me cut off and alone - isolated for the last three years of hell-physical damage poverty fear grief blame and deeply traumatised-plus the knock on effect. Now at last having watched the webinar and had the dailyemail support I am beginning to feel sanity and safety return. There is help, hope and strength to carry on.not only am I feeling better already but it's having a knock on effect in my life by creating a small but strong energy shift-which is affecting how people and situations react with me. For all those who have suffered narcissistic/psychpathic/alcoholic abuse I hope you find this and find initially peace and understanding and know you are no longer standing alone-and hopefully a complete transformation to joy and love for life in time-not to mention self worth -feeling of value in life and getting back on your own true souls life path.to all those suffering ptsd... we are not alone anymore! Yaaay... and hi to everyone in the group and on this path! Anna... (and little Gus who was also abused)

Date of experience: July 4, 2017
GB
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I have been working with Melanie through her videos, YouTube, instagram and NARP course and it is giving me the light I never thought I could find again. Trapped in an endless cycle of narcissistic I couldn't escape and I didnt understand. Melanie has given me the tools & knowledge I needed to free myself. Narcissistic abuse is hard to free yourself from and you need support, it's not impossible to free yourself and find yourself and your light again if you follow Melanie's advice and courses. THANK YOU MELANIE FOR ALL YOU DO.

Date of experience: August 28, 2019
Texas
2 reviews
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A gift from heaven
November 5, 2016

I am new to NARP. Just discovered her website a couple of weeks ago and I am trying to end my almost 6 year relationship with an extreme narcissist... the love I will always have in my heart. I say that now, but I am New and have only skimmed the surface. When I stumbled on her website the question I. Googled was "is there hope for and can this be treated with success" I am a very empathetic person, 3 failed marriages and countless failed relationships. I am. 55 and my narc is 43. I couldn't stop reading every article & watched numerous videos for about 10 hours. I was so excited that I finally understood why I keep going back to him and a lot of my questions were answered That day thanks to Melanie! I have oftentimes wondered if I was losing MY mind (She mentions this too)... the next day I was a little depressed/sad. So much info to digest all at once. But it also hit me... did I even know him? Did he ever love me? Was everything the last 6 years just a bunch of lies? I got a little paranoid. I did NOT read anything for 2 days. The 3rd day I was in denial actually. Then... he shows up unannounced, and the weird accusations & cut downs start and I ask him to please leave. This goes on for 3 days. But- after he left I immediately got on her website and was determine to STOP THE MADNESS ONCE AND FOR ALL! Thank you Melanie. You gave me hope and strength of knowledge.

Date of experience: November 4, 2016
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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You saved my life.
January 19, 2018

Dear Mel
I am a 55 yr old lady and apparently I have been living with narcissistic abuse since I was 3. Always thought the punishments and berated talks were my fault. I was never perfect enough. Until this past summer of 2017 after being again gaslight by not only my abuser but by the judge I was at the weakest moments of my life again. He tried to kil me twice. And got away with it twice and those two times I be had him charged were nothing compared to the mental abuse you go through with these soulless people. I came across your site by accident on Facebook and I couldn't believe you actually got it 100 percent of the trauma these people inflict. You touched on every plain of my pain. 3 therapists later and her you are so kind and at peace with such knowledge of this pain and how to relate to it on. A cellular level I can actually breathe! The term you use so within so without was lost on me until Christmas Eve. I was watching your videos and I actually got it! Greatest Christmas gift of all time. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul. I was an indendee at your 3 key workshop Tuesday night. I cried for the first time in forever with the healthy tears. 15 years ago a therapist told me I married my mother twice. I thought he was a bit off. It he's right. I did. I get it! And without you I would not understand why I have been looping all my life with narcissistic people. Thank you for sharing your healing with others that we too can turn our lives around. Blesss and love you
Karlie

Date of experience: January 18, 2018
Canada
1 review
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This really works!
June 21, 2020

I just began the NARP program and I cannot believe how much better I am feeling. It really does work and It is better and more powerful than I ever could have imagined. Thank you so much Melanie!

Date of experience: June 20, 2020
California
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The Amazing Journey
June 25, 2016

"To support me in dealing with my Narcissistic/Sociopathic sister, I learned all I thought I needed to know to not ever attract another one of these sick souls into my inner circle. Well, apparently not! Four months ago, I befriended a woman I met at one of my yoga classes. Boy, was I taken in... and lightning-fast! We were so resonant that I thought I'd met the sister I never really had... until, she launched her fault-finding campaign. A mutual friend reported she was getting the same treatment from her. In retrospect, I (drowned out that still small voice with intellect chatter) ignored the numerous red flags, and kept the "friendship" going. To make a long story stop, she insinuated that I may have done something that, of course, I would never do (during a phone conversation) and when I suggested that she might be projecting on me, she hung up on me. And, that was the least of it! Fast forward, that was the last straw on the back of our "friendship."

The next day, I Googled "How to recover from a Narcissistic relationship" and up popped Melanie Tonia Evans' website. This was two weeks ago, and I've been watching her videos and reading her blogs most every day since. I have had so many revelations from listening and taking in what she so intelligently, eloquently, lovingly and compassionately teaches. I am so looking forward to participating fully in Melanie's Narcissistic Recovery from Abuse Program. The "Universe" guided me to her website at just the right moment. I am so grateful. She embodies and expresses a great depth of heart and soul as well. Thank you, Melanie and everyone who help her put forth these beautiful, life-affirming and deeply evolutionary tools. You have and will continue to help me and countless others to recover from Narcissistic abuse -- to truly love and partner themselves. May all who are reading this be even more inspired to continue on this amazing journey, back to self with Melanie!"

With love,
Linda

Date of experience: June 25, 2016
Kenya
1 review
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Liberating!
September 27, 2017

Of all the resources i have read on the internet. I would say that Mels work, her articles, and tv episodes have had a profound transformation on me, her articles are spot on, well articulated and the content in them does work for real.
Unlike previously when i have been stuck in pain, resentment, anger, bitterness, since stumbling on her article one morning almost three months ago, after many weeks of continous endless reserch on narcissistic abuse and therapy, it didnt feel like all those negative emotions were going away. Until that article about the only way to heal being to release the pain. That I started feeling relief and started focusing on my healing.

My narc told me yesterday how lately i have become so detached and he feels that the bond and emotional connection that held us together for over ten years is now broken and he feels that he has lost me.

That to me is proof that am healing despite being under the same roof with the narc. I look forward to complete healing.

Am grateful to Mel, for the marvelous work she is doing, may God continue to abundantly bless you.

Much love.

Date of experience: September 27, 2017
GB
1 review
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NARP saved my life!
June 21, 2018

I can't praise melanies work enough. After being discarded numerous times I was always left like an addict clinging to the narcissist for dear life. I had no idea what narcissim was untill I came across MTE. Finally it just clicked, it wasn't me that was crazy. This man had picked me apart bit by bit untill I couldn't function anymore and wished I was dead. This site has made has been the answer to my prayers, yes I have alot of work to do on myself but reading everyones thriver stories has given me faith that I can have a healthy, happy and let go of all the trauma that has suffocated me for years. I will thrive, for me!

Date of experience: June 21, 2018
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Thank you so much
January 24, 2019

I have started my journey to recovery thanks to Melanie and NARP.
I never thought there would be anyone who would understand and be able to help me
So thank you again.

Date of experience: November 16, 2018
Canada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Hope at last!
January 6, 2017

After 4 years with a narcissist there was nothing left of me. Physically and mentally there was nothing left of me I recognized. I didn't even feel like my thoughts were my own. I only wanted the pain to end, which made me highly suicidal as I could not see a way out. Narcissism was a term I came across accidentally which eventually led me to Melanie. I watched her you tubes and I couldn't believe what I was hearing. There was other woman who understood! And finally I did not feel so alone. Finally I could see a light. Trying to explain to someone on the outside what was happening in my home, in my relationship was useless... words could never properly explain the depth of my pain and confusion. I was not functioning any longer. I felt like being in love was a terminal disease for me, without a cure. But luckily I was discarded. Thrown away by the man I nearly died to love. And healing slowly began when I started to read Melanies emails. Listened to her you tubes and heard the other eirily similar stories. For the first time in years I am getting glimpses of my true self. And I know that I will be better than before. I never thought after years of wishing my life would end... that I would feel this sense of joy. Though I still have a ways to go, I know thru Melanies teachings I will find my way. And having hope is the greatest thing I could ever feel. As I know what absolute hopelessness feels like. And it's brutal.
This is my miracle. Finally I and many others can heal from what no one understands but the ones who have felt it.
Thank you Melanie.

Date of experience: January 5, 2017
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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At last - hope.
September 15, 2018

I have been on my healing journey for a while, stalled a few times because of having to move house again and again. It is 15 years since it started after a lifetime of bad relationships without understanding why but now I feel I am getting to the bottom of it and the way out of it. I only found the videos by Melanie very recently but some of the things she said have resonated with me and make her stand out from others who counsel damaged people. I am seeing a Christian counsellor who has said to me 'forget that which is past' which is in the Bible yes, but is the main reason why I think that help is not being found in churches because it is a misrepresentation of what the true meaning is. You cannot move on from a weeping wound, you have to deal with it so that healing can begin. It has to be cleaned and bound up. Love does this but where is the love in the churches today? I did not find any as I am a divorced woman so on the margins. Even though it was a case of devalue and dismiss. So this program of developing the love we need ourselves, is the way forward I think and I have that precious thing hope in my heart. Thank-you. I did have to stop and think about the bad reviews when I read through them, but I reasoned that some people are just not in the right place and ready for healing and they will have a negative reaction when told to take responsibility for it themselves. The same thing happens with diet. I began a whole food plant based diet no oil salt and sugar 6 months ago and some people react badly when you talk about it because they are still addicted to the bad foods. I wonder if the same thing is happening with them - they are addicted to the negative thinking that keeps them down. Breaking my addictions to food has helped me enormously on my healing journey. I recommend anyone to research the diet and watch Forks over Knives to help with Melanie's program.

Date of experience: September 15, 2018
South Africa
1 review
3 helpful votes
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LIFELINE
February 14, 2017

I had reached rock bottom, my life was in pieces being involved with a narc at the age of 62, I knew something wasn't right so I left, my life and dreams shattered but thank God I found Melanie ToniaEvans, I started reading her website and I could relate to her as everything she had been through was exactly what I had been through, I couldn't wait for her next email to come through. I did the Quantum Healing and I felt as if the world was lifted from my shoulders, I am so glad to be following her and will continue for as long as I can and I have already recommended her to so many people that I know who are going through the same thing.

Date of experience: February 14, 2017
Germany
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Just start to heal
March 29, 2018

I lived with an abusive narcissist husband and father of my two children for 15 years. I honestly did not believe that anyone understood what I was going through. I was again searching the internet for anything that might help me cope and came across the Thriver TV videos on the net. Finding Melanie Tonia Evans and her recovery story has had such a profound effect on me. For the first time in five years since my divorce, I felt that I was not (yet again) just testing the water in my desperate search for help. I have just started looking into the NARP program and took part in the free 3 Keys Webinar which I highly recommend. It soothed my initial pain and provided me with hope. I KNOW that I have finally found a way out, that I can heal and I so much want to heal, through using the NARP program. I am tired explaining over and over how broken I am. Expressing such emotions to a stranger in therapy trying to explain to or convince someone that the mess I was in, was due to the abuse I had encountered. They just dont get it. With the NARP program you dont waste time justifying your needs, it has all been said, you just start your healing. I felt broken and hurt. This is where it starts to get better. Thank you Melanie, for believing in yourself and your program.

Date of experience: March 28, 2018
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Hope
July 11, 2016

There is hope with Melanie. Feeling there was no where to turn and no one could understand me. But this program has turned things around

Date of experience: July 11, 2016
Canada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I realize my one sentence statement around Melanie Tonia Evans sounds extreme and exaggerated but Im afraid I havent exaggerated enough. I know she saved my life. I came across Melanie online when I felt like ending my life 2 months ago. I began the no contact after leaving my narcissist ex. There were times I had a hard time breathing. Lets just say I didnt think I could go on. The content was remarkable. The way it was presented was easy to understand and her intent was what impacted me the most. I felt like Melanie was next to me on the couch speaking to me in person. I felt empathy, professionalism, hopeful and most of all - I began to realize that Im not the only one going through this pain. Her ability to connect with people is extraordinary. Im crying as i write this because until you have exprienced this pain, you dont have the slightest clue. Im also crying as I write this because Melanies work is not only about thriving after narcissistic abuse; but it is also about finding self -love, Self love is the catalyst for everything we are and everything we do- I want to tell the world that I have never felt so appreciative and grateful - blessed and hopeful. Im still in the process of getting to full actualization but I would not have been where I am today if it wasnt for Melanie and her work. Thank you!

Warmest regards
God bless,
Alex Rzepa

Date of experience: May 12, 2018
New York
1 review
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"FANTASTIC"
October 11, 2018

Good Morning Everyone;
My name is G. I was all bound up with Narc-Abuse big time with my Ex-husband for 10 years. This abuse indirectly still lingers in the air. We had 2 children a little female narc, and a boy. When I left him he nearly went crazy. I live with daughter Narc, and it is Not easy.
I didn't know why he treated me like this. I'm a nice person, I'm not perfect. I make mistakes like everyone. But I am certainly not cruel, nor do I mistreat people. I was searching the internet to see if I could find help to avoid Narc's in the future. This guy and his mother were very nice and helpful. Then the next week I discovered the most Beautiful three words:
"MELANIE TONIA EVANS"
I Really Feel That Mel Is Sent To Us From God Himself"! What a Beautiful Person! She Knows her stuff! She' been there Twice! Mel brings Peace, Knowledge, Compassion, She Really Genuinely Cares. She sincerely want to help as many people as she can. I HOPE GOD BLESSES HER SOCKS OFF! When Melanie had her workshop it made a difference in me. The next morning I (after I got out of bed) felt Taller, and my brain was clearer. It helped me tremendously. I am SOOOOO HAPPY That i found Melanie's website.

I am Forever Grateful that I found Melanie.
G.

Date of experience: October 11, 2018
Tennessee
1 review
25 helpful votes
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Worked but very slow
March 17, 2018

I posted some reviews and got a response from Melanie and didn't read it. If I wasn't good enough to respond to years ago when the program wasn't working fast enough for me, then I don't need to hear from her now. I bought her program and used it for a long time. It helped where nothing to date had. But it was very slow. I asked mel for help and to join the support group and she blocked me from it, she removed me from her mailing list and questions to her email where answered by her son who just didn't awnser the questions. Prior to this, I tried every thing I could. Other abuse victims said I made a lot of progress and that I was advanced their stages of recovery. I was happy, but if I was around abuse, it would regress. The healings healed my emotions, but it was very slow. When mel was not helpful, I felt so brusied. I've never been able to ask for help and get it from anyone. Mel would say that is my issue. What was my issue was that I felt so bruised I didn't call the Australian better business bureau. I learned what she was doing. Part of it is theta healing. Theta healing is a mediation where you ascend to heaven and give your pain to god. Mel is in a theta state when she does the MP3s. They are a meditation where you give your pain to God. So, it is a form of prayer. Mel creates an ethic violation because she claims she is the one who does the healing. You'd have better luck learning theta healing (there are books you can get) and healing yourself.

Date of experience: March 17, 2018
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Hi Crystal,

I am sorry that you feel you had that experience with MTE, as providing support to our members is very important to us. Are you willing to supply that information so that I can investigate? Please also know the basis of QFH is that it accesses a Higher Power to heal what we can't - it is Souce. There is no claim that this power is "me". I look forward to your reply and sifing through the support channels and your case to investigate if they have let you down. Regards Melanie

California
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Amazing and Easy!
October 30, 2023

I was already a Narp member but the new speedy shifts are quick and easy and you can fit them in your day very quickly.

Date of experience: October 30, 2023
Canada
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I am traditionally a skeptical person and if I hadn't been blindsided and facing a world of hurt I'd NEVER have gone for this type of seemingly self-help Woo Woo. But if I spoke to myself a year ago I would never have believed the situation I found myself in with my world seemingly falling apart. Conclusion: What do I know!

I signed up for the NARP Gold program a few weeks ago and did the first couple of modules of the course... I have already had major insights and made so much more progress than I would have any other way. The concepts are initially hard to grasp (cringeworthy if you take at face value) for someone like me who likes to think my way out of problems... but after months of anguish, turmoil and despair I was willing to consider that it wasn't working out for me. I had to fall back and open my mind to something that seemingly has me turning the ship around... real progress has been made and I think I'm going from WOO WOO to WOO HOO! Melanie is genuine and conducts herself with passion... this ain't about the money for her... you only have to go online to see all the free resources that she puts out there on the topic - the world needs more people like her.

The forum and resources give you the space to grow and bounce off ideas people that can relate to what you are going thorough on this crazy journey called life!

If you're on the fence and I could push you one way or the other, i'd say go for it, good luck and support does exist.

Date of experience: March 18, 2016

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MelanieToniaEvans has a rating of 4.2 stars from 678 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with MelanieToniaEvans most frequently mention narcissistic abuse, narp program and youtube videos. MelanieToniaEvans ranks 2nd among Self Help sites.

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