I think this is the most active bdsm social networking/dating site.
If you are a girl, you will get plenty of messages even if you don't have a picture.
People actually read your profile. I rarely get messages from people who don't match my ''looking for'' description.
Most of the users are from America. If you live elsewhere, it might be hard to find a partner. Unless you are interested in online relations.
Joined. Over the first 24-48 hours 'met' 6 women. 4 were immediately identifiable as frauds right on their site. One with clearly fake photos taken off the Internet. Found the first with a simple Google Image search.
The 5th chatted with on Google chat. She quickly revealed herself as some kind of problem. Attempting a google voice call and video meeting her number and account were marked Spam by Google. Blocked her. She tried to contact me again on Fetster with a different account. Blocked her both places. When I tried to log back into to Fetster discovered they had blocked my account. Guess the scammer had me blocked.
They sent me an email demanding I provide multiple photos of my self holding up a sign. Ridiculous, that does not prove I am real, and came across to me as an identity scam. Of course they provide no other way to contact them.
The 6th? Turned out to be a sex chat worker trying to drum up business.
Apparently the site is completely US-centric; my "IP was not recognised," so these clowns wanted me to send two personally identifying photos to somehow prove that I am "real".
If you clowns are THAT scared of someone finding out what you're doing, you may well need to find something else to get into.
Absolute trash site.
Fetster once was a decent place to go, but unfortunately is now the bastion of scammers trying to get into your wallet and men posting endless dic pics. The solo admin of the site will delete your profile if you even think anything negative about the site, as he runs the site as his personal playground for BDSM contacts. It is quite apparent by the scammers he lets on the site that there is some sort of behind the scenes agreement going on. Seeing as the site is free and NOT adware supported, how else does he pay for the bandwidth?
In the little time that I've been on the site, I've met some interesting persons that share the same values and ideas as I do and I hope to come across more.