eHarmonyReviews 1,177

This app/site is terrible. NEVER spend money for it! They lock you in and won't refund ever. It has made me broke and I regret even looking at the website. I had no luck the first week, had two matches and decided against having it. I asked them for help to either refund me or at least stop further payments. They made it impossible and would not help me. They simply told me to change/alter my beliefs to get more matches! Are you kidding? I am not comfortable dating someone from over 200+ km away or dating a 45 year old (20 years older than me). Some things I am just not willing to change. Very unhelpful and it has made me broke in the meantime. I regret full heartedly getting the app/account in the first place. I just want my money back...

I've been on this site three times in the last 5 years and never, ever had any luck, not even a decent number or decent array of men. I know it's not me because I went on black people meet and ok cupid during the very same time and have gotten over 200 messages from BPM and average 242 messages per week on OK Cupid (which seems to have a really good mix of different races). I looked into the racial makeup of eharmony and found that over 80% are white, so if you're white, then you'll have a much better chance because this site is not geared for any other races. Maybe the white men are more interested in white women (I wouldn't be surprised AT ALL if this was the case and probably neither are you... we all know how they can be). Go to OK Cupid... the guys are just as successful and a lot nicer and less stuck up (better looking, too). EHarmony kind of appears to attract a lot of old guys (40+). I'm more interested in younger, successful guys anyway, but it was really surprising that 4 years later, the same thing is still happening. When I called to canceled they kept me on the phone in customer care for like 30 minutes trying to negotiate a lower rate, so just know you don't have to pay those extraordinary prices either. AND out of all the sites I've been on, eHarmony is ridiculously high and definitely not worth signing up for--even for free because they'll just harass the crap out of you until you either sign up or delete your account. Anyway, why would you even want to sign up for free, you can't see people on there, only the few matches they send you and it took a week for me to get any at all--and that' s after spending all of that time filling out all of the information. Don't waste your time, there are many others that's a lot cheaper and have better options, and at the very least, if you want to do it free you still get a chance to see the choices you have to at least see if you want to sign up. You don't get that on eHarmony--only a few matches they send you, if any at all.

After seeing all the ads on TV it was eHarmony that 'sold' me on internet dating. Ironically when I went to give it a try I heard about wejustfit.com and ended up joining that instead (great option if youre new to online dating, met some lovely people). Its been suggested that having two or three memberships/ subscriptions at one time on different sites can really help keep you busy with dates each weekend so I finally joined eHarmony. It's a nice site inside, like the look of it and like the app. It's too early to say if it will be the best site ive used but im looking forward to (hopefully) things super busy the next few weeks with two sites on the go at once!

I purchased a yearly membership in December 2016 and I am not
Happy with the service I received. I am requested a refund
Is because I was not receiving responses back from my matches. I have
Written to many matches and I don't hear back. It was brought to my attention
That the reason I am not hearing back is because these people I am being
Matched with don't actually have paid membership with eHarmoney and thus
Can't see my email. To be frank that's very deceiving business practice to
Someone like myself who's paid for membership but yet, I am being matched
With people that are not paid members. And secondly, the people I am being
Matched with are not compatible with me. I put on my profile that I am a
Very physically active person and it is very important to me that my
Matches are also very physically active yet, the people I am being matched
With don't share my same sentiments regarding physical activity. I
Understand that you match people based on their "compatibility" and I have
Found that most of my matches are not compatible to myself.

I called and wrote to eHarmony requesting a refund for the 9 months of the yearly membership I did not utilize. They denied my refund stating that they don't grant refunds under any circumstances, 3 days the membership fee was paid. I promised a service I did not receive and thus requested a refund. I am very disappointed with eHarmony's business practices.

Kim S.

As a woman you will find out pretty soon that online dating sucks. Usually guys are not polite and aggressive. I won' even mention what kind of nasty pictures I received using several online dating sites during the last couple years. Once you find a normal or even good dating site such as eHarmony and Mingle2day you should stick with it!

I see why many guys are still complaining about those sites but it does not get any better.

I have been a member of this site for two years. The questionnaire is extensive which make you believe they are taking your preferences into consideration. However most of the matches offer are not within your preferences. Even change the range may not enhance the range of matches. You will not be permitted to give early notice of your intent to discontinue the services. If you miss the date you will remain in the "loop" since they have your credit card. Information. Your request to have no further matches sent to you per their email format will be disregarded. Attempts to Email your requests are not easily view able on the site. Their is no easy way to contact them. Don't get caught in the cycle!

I do NOT recommend eHarmony at all. The matches I communicated with I was not compatible with (even though the compatibility rating was high). I was consistently given matches outside of the parameters I set. You cannot close your account or delete your profile until the very end of your subscription which means... guess what... all those "matches" could be people who have met someone and moved on and are unable to delete account and/or profile. In order to take someone off your match list completely you have to hide them then BLOCK them. Way way way over priced (which I thought would ensure better matches, right?!) and they will not, under any circumstances, give you a refund or cancel your subscription early (I tried). Everytime you update your profile it goes into an update feed which is annoying...

For the price you pay you'd think you'd have a little more control over these things and the matching system would really be more sophisticated.

A friend of mine recommended me to join eH so i gave it a go.

When i signed up i needed to answer a whole bunch of questions. The whole sign up process took like 30 minutes, LOL. Other good dating sites like Mingle2day and Match have a completely different approach but all the questions make sense when you decide to use eH.

I have met a few interesting people and you can tell that eH tries hard to to find the right singles for you. It is very worth trying and with the completely different approach a nice alternative to some other dating sites.