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Romania
2 reviews
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It's not as good as it seem to be at first. There are a lot of problems to deal with, first of all - scammers. There are too make of them. You can meet an occasional con artist even on sites like J7Match.com
I mean truly reputable platforms - but it happens so rarely that it does not turn into a problem there. But as for DateYou, the site is literally unusable because of scammers. They create fake accounts and ty to rip people off. There is no way you can trust pretty women on DateYou.

Date of experience: March 3, 2025
California
1 review
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It is 101% FAKE
February 15, 2025

Be careful they will pull you in and take your money with the promise of hooking up. But first they need to get to know you. They got me. You can't trust anyone who is on that site. Please don't go there. Keep your money.

Date of experience: February 6, 2025
California
2 reviews
26 helpful votes
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What a scam crock of sh1t
February 17, 2025

This "dating platform" at first appeared to be legit. I made a basic profile with a few pics and within minutes got several messages. All the accounts had what looked like normal candid cellphone pics. Most of the women were cute to very attractive. I was excited and very intrigued. That ended when I realized how much money it took just to send one limited text message. 50 cents is just ridiculous but I decided to limit my conversations to 2 gals. After a few days of chatting I had spent $230 and really knew nothing about these ladies. It was non stop PG-13 sex talk and unoriginal fake engagement designed to keep me excited like Pavlov's dog. I felt I had developed a little rapport with each gal so I tried to plan a date...nope. Tried to move conversation to email or text...nope. What's the point then to it all? The point is to empty men's pockets. After $300 I gave up. Save your money. It's sad that people would be that disingenuous with peoples feelings and money. I find it abhorrent.

Date of experience: February 1, 2025
California
1 review
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APPLE CORE...
December 24, 2024

You might as well enjoy the art of listening to a woman beg to keep messaging her so they can earn money or step up the latter to meet the better man, and there will always be a better man. You have a 1% chance to meet any woman on the 3 sites they are tied into. FetishSpace, Date you, Granny. Among the Grabby's there are some young ladies you can talk as dirty as you want. The true Graannys are mostly [sgagy-wags] only buy coins when they have for each coins you buy they give you a coin. Example buy 2000 you get another 2000. 4000 can go only so far at 60 coins per chat. You think you are going to slide your $#*! into any of these women, you are very wrong. I will tell you why you won't These sites are a perfect place for the woman of beauty or not so beauty to,become a mans whore without any downside. Why should she come out to the very thing that provides safety, income, and company from a new friend or a man who is sucking her tits on cyber space'. She can climax without you being with her. No STD, NO PHYSICAL BEATING,ETC iT took me over two years to realize they are the best at lies and the art to beg. Good Luck, over all it is up to you.

Date of experience: December 22, 2024
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Money scam
November 10, 2024

You try to reach out to a lady
Most of the response are similar. Only feel safe chatting on the site refuse to send email. Like phone sex. They just try to keep you hooked with one liners so you continue to respond(at a cost) to the messages
This site needs to be investigsted

Date of experience: November 10, 2024
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Total Sxcam!
September 29, 2024

I am a cybersecurity expert, and this is the worst face site I ever found. The women are mostly fake, and when your disclose their fakes, they erase the profile your paid to establish. Sexy pictures, but they are not real persons.

Date of experience: September 29, 2024
Utah
1 review
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'DO NOT' waste your time on the 'dateyou' website. It is 101% fake. Every single profile is nothing more than a person sitting at a desk, working for some company. Trying to get you to 'BUY' coins. That's it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Fortunately for me. I was smart enough to catch this before spending a red cent on their stupid coin ploy. But I have to give them credit for trying. (I only chose one star because I was forced to.)!YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!

Date of experience: August 30, 2024
Romania
3 reviews
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There are no real girls there. Only bots lol. They bombard your email with messages telling you how sexy you are - even if you don't have photos in your profile. When you pay for membership they vanish into thin air. Don't be coned into DateYou trap. They are consummate criminals. All they want is separate you from your cash without introducing you to at least one real girl.

Date of experience: August 26, 2024
Panama
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Is DateYou a Scam?
June 21, 2024

From my perspective, yes. Responses from females I contacted are contrived, and do not specifically questions I posed. Requests to communicate via email or another message service go unanswered. Very early in a few messages, the respondent made direct reference to my genitals. The latter is a dead giveaway - these are not real women communicating.

Date of experience: June 21, 2024
Ohio
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Totally a scam
January 12, 2024

I think it's funny that I get messages from girls telling me that they think I'm, "so cute". When I don't even have a photo on my profile. Asked for email address from a few, and the same response, "I don't have an email account..." Well how did they sign up. Total scam. Don't waste your time.

Date of experience: January 12, 2024
Massachusetts
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Fake responders
January 14, 2024

They never answer a question you ask the woman, avoid responding to you.
I had a conversation 3 years ago on date you.com. The girl was plain looking, after my third chat I knew she was a false person. So today I spotted her, same woman,I tried to chat, doing that her reply page had my conversation with her from three years ago. I could of started up right then and chat with the ghost

Date of experience: January 14, 2024
North Carolina
5 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Warning! Fake site!
February 29, 2024

This site is completely a scam. The people are all Bots and reply always in and with the same responses. You have to keep buying coins and wasting time and money. The bot females will always try to make you stay, but RUN!

Date of experience: February 29, 2024
Hungary
1 review
0 helpful votes
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On the other sites I use like Seek4Match
Women actually strive to meet (well, it's the only way to build a relationship, isn't it?) so I find DateYou women confusing. I had been chatting with mixed success with quite a few women on DateYou until I ran into a problem: they found all kinds of excuses to put off the meeting. So I think all these words of love that girls told me there were lies and all their promises were false, something is wrong with them. Now that I have read other reviews I also come to the same conclusion: most likely girls are paid by DateYou so they are there for money.

Date of experience: June 17, 2024
Oklahoma
1 review
12 helpful votes
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This website is completely bogus. The same "women" are always online no matter what time of day or night, 24/7 and no woman is on line that much. They're all AI bots or people that are using fake profiles with stolen photos and locations working for and getting paid by the website just this game you added your money to buy coins to continue conversations that seem to go somewhere but never will. Luckily, I only wasted $10 of my hard earned money before I figured it out and I feel totally stupid that it took me that long to realize what was really going on. Save yourselves the unnecessary anxiety and stay away from this site it's a complete scam. Don't fund these criminals.

Date of experience: May 25, 2023
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I've was a customer of this site, I tried talking to Beautiful girls, and ugly girls... NOT ONE OF THEM IS REAL. They will continue to refuse any kind of outside communications... even after you have spent a lot of money to just send messages... please don't fall for this scam like I did. It's really sad some people will just try and profit off others sadness without being a legitimate dating site. Heck... you could do the same thing... but allow real people to try and get together... I wish I could give it Zero stars.

Date of experience: June 11, 2023
Kentucky
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Because they are nothing more than a big rip off and I m going to have this review posted on for everyone to see and read about it, plus I'm trying to get my money back in my bank account.

Date of experience: May 8, 2024
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam!
December 24, 2023

The sie is a scam! Save your money and go elsewhere. Some profiles are fake! They give you pictures of 60 year olds and I would realistically say they were half that age!.

Date of experience: December 24, 2023
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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It's fake
September 2, 2023

Algorithm. A bunch of women writing is fake. I guess they are scammers, male, can be some women, definitely using fake profiles. Not recommended. You will waste your time. They only want that you chat to charge money for every message.

Date of experience: September 2, 2023
Massachusetts
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Fake site
December 12, 2022

I literally am ripped w six pack no way 100 girls would say sorry I want to get to know u better first and drag me into conversation and when I texted the fake girls calling them out got weird responses I even told them $#*! off and they still text back which was supposed to cost them money? 20 cents a text to fantasize with a robot if that's your thing go to date you

Date of experience: December 12, 2022
Washington
1 review
17 helpful votes
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Fake and scam site
January 28, 2022

This site uses many fake accounts. Bots, using AI answer most of the questions. Averaged 90 e-mails a day received. It is a scam site that just wants you to buy more tokens to chat. If you say something like I just received 400 messages in 5 days, the answer will be " Thank you for sending your phone number, but I prefer we communicate on this site". Very poor AI. A total ripoff and scam.

Date of experience: January 28, 2022

Overview

DateYou has a rating of 1.3 stars from 73 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with DateYou most frequently mention fake profiles and total scam. DateYou ranks 626th among Dating sites.

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