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Florida
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Dollar spent on a dating site like this and when it is not working well and it comes to the point where you are making this a very good chance of you getting in love and indecent relationship. And you don't get a reimbursement when there's an automatic charge you did not authorize.

Date of experience: June 24, 2023
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Totally a falsehood. It's a Scam site. It is manipulation to steal your money. Don't fall for it.
They make you spend money and money to converse with someone. And that's a lot of money you have to spend.

Date of experience: August 10, 2022
California
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Total scam.
July 1, 2023

It's a total scam. I also read their T&Cs and not one mention using BOTs "for entertainment" as several other services do (Usually in size 1 font!) Don't doubt some people are real - but I couldn't fine ONE! Laws need to address the theft committed. And it truly is theft since not indicating the fact BOTs and/or false profiles used.

Date of experience: July 1, 2023
Kansas
1 review
4 helpful votes
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A total joke!
June 18, 2022

Thank God. I didn't stay on here but for a couple of weeks and probably dropped a few hundred. What was funny is I called some of these worthless parasites out on what they are doing. It felt good to put them in their place. I am telling any and every single person i know that this is a complete scam. They won't be around to much longer i wouldn't think. And if you do get on there and the first question is, "would you bring me sex toys or flowers on our first date" do not even respond. This site is 90 percent scam. Maybe more. Jusst stay away from it.

Date of experience: June 18, 2022
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Bots constantly write you so that you will spend all your coins. Coins are used to chat with the women. So you cannot chat if you do not buy more coins. This is how the site makes money. This site is totally fake with not one real woman who will mutually leave the site with you. They try to keep you there so that you will buy more coins. A huge let down and biggest fraud out there. Stay plenty clear of these criminals!

Date of experience: March 6, 2023
Luxembourg
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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The only advise I can give is don't go anywhere near DateYou. It's fraud. They con you out of your money by flooding you mailbox with juicy messages written by bots. Most of the photos are stolen. I was trying to find a legit local dating app but it's definitely not DateYou. Anyway, DateYou is utter scam and money grubbers, trust me. I learned my fair share of lessons there and I don't recommend it to anyone. Don't believe these fake sexy photos. They are either stolen or belong to outdated profiles, in any case they are being misused by DateYou app.

Date of experience: June 25, 2022
Norway
3 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Don't get engaged with DateYou. It's a big money scam to separate users from the cash! You don't get to meet real girls. You get to chat with their employees. They usually speak in short bursts and they are vague about giving any details. In all likelihood they are getting their commission for chatting with you. They pay the women for seducing men and chatting with them. Theoretically you may still meet someone genuine on DateYou website but chances are very low. It can take years. Are you sure you have that many years to waste? One day I just realized that my time was very precious and they just left DateYou without any regret.

Date of experience: February 15, 2023
North Carolina
1 review
0 helpful votes
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All chat bots
September 23, 2024

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Date of experience: September 23, 2024
North Carolina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Staaaay awaaaay!
October 21, 2022

Dateyou.com is 20% hoax, 30% scam and 50% fraud. In an apparent moment of weakness, I joined the site and immediately was deluged with likes and messages from good-looking women who wanted to meet me (and even wanted sex with me). And they all begged me to write back. That's the business model. Every time you write, it costs you money. The women on this site are less real than the ones who dance on poles. I'd bet the farm (if I had one) that the women on this site are actually employed by dateyou.com and are paid based on the responses they get. And the only way to cancel your membership is doing so by mail (an offshore corporation). I'd bet the same farm that the same women (I'm in North Carolina) will show up if you're in Arizona. Of all the dating Web sites, most of which aren't very good, dateyou.com is the worst of the worst of the worst.

Date of experience: October 21, 2022
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Date you is a con site
January 31, 2023

It is a con business. Women are not real but pics of cheap women who have sold their pics to to the site for which they seem to get commission even though it is site management which sends messages attracted by pics. A TOTAL FRAUD

Date of experience: January 31, 2023
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fantasyland and you lose
November 26, 2022

Good platform. The moderator gets you to text and away goes your money. One word is 50 coins. Good looking women but just a front. Read the reviews not lying.

Date of experience: November 26, 2022
Michigan
1 review
1 helpful vote
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They charge per responce and sentance. They have fake women I am near positive either work for tge site, Own it, or it's A.i. So you need to buy more Coins. Cose $10 for like 5 sentances and the women were titally fake... Do not waste your Time or money... It's sad

Date of experience: June 22, 2023
Massachusetts
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam site
July 25, 2022

Biggest fraud and scam dating site I've ever tried to use. Bots and fake profiles trying to get you buy more coins. Not a chance in hell you'll ever meet a real person on this site.

Date of experience: July 25, 2022
Missouri
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Total scam
January 22, 2022

Fake profiles and actresses used to lure you in and waste your money on fake singles who are there simply to get you ro talk to them and waste your money and time.

Date of experience: January 22, 2022
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Costs Too Much!
February 10, 2023

I'm divorced and looking. Dateyou.com allows you to join for free and then soaks you per message speaking to potential partners. Not experienced in online dating, it seems there are more women seeking men (90% with children) than the other way around. I had a plethora of contacts. Most said they liked my picture. (I thought perhaps the site was paying the ladies a commission on the number of messages they could elicit from men. That's what it felt like, anyway.) All women who contacted me wanted a message back, you can't blame them. Following the purchase of $10.00 pack of "coins" each message I wrote was over one dollar per message. At $100 I was barely keeping up, in fact, I didn't keep up. This site is safe for women who just want to chat, ad infinitum. Unfruitful in the dating department for me because the women are a little fearful. Again, you can't blame them. To sum up, the site experience was expensive and unproductive. I finally pulled the plug. I had to cut my losses. You're better off buying a woman a drink at the bar. A lot cheaper and probably more fulfilling.

Date of experience: February 10, 2023
Pennsylvania
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I havent spent any money yet, till I could do some research on the internet and find some good moral reviews and haven't found one. I filled out my profile and in less than 2 days I had over 50 women beating down my phone I haven't responded to anyone cuz I wasn't going to spend money I only clicked on like and that was it, some of them got mad because I didn't respond after I checked out their profile which is a hint right there, I get new clicks every minute on my profile I'm probably over 100 by now in 2 days are you kidding me so after careful review of all the unsatisfied customers I decided that I am not going to spend a dime, damn shame cuz of some of them were kind of cute, oh well anyone have any other suggestions on any dating sites that are legit?

Date of experience: December 6, 2023
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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This site is trash, worst site EVER (hands down). All everyone wants to do is chat. No one wants to meet in a public place (for a date). I thought the point was to meet that special someone, but NO ONE, I mean one is actually out to do that. They just want you to just keep spending your money to chat. GARBAGE GARBAGE GARBAGE…

Date of experience: April 29, 2023
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It's a scam
February 8, 2023

They pay women on this site to run the bill up for men.You have to pay per message sent and it's very expensive.So the women try to keep the men conversing.

Date of experience: February 8, 2023
New York
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Save your money!
August 30, 2022

I called them out on being a scam and the one admitted it was, I angered her of course because of the way I called her out. It's a complete scam and don't waste your time and money.

Date of experience: August 30, 2022
New Jersey
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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Red Flags Everywhere
January 9, 2024

The entire process is shabby the dozens of responses I got about being so "Hot" or "Sexy" when I didn't even post an image.

Date of experience: January 9, 2024

Overview

DateYou has a rating of 1.3 stars from 73 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with DateYou most frequently mention fake profiles and total scam. DateYou ranks 626th among Dating sites.

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