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Alena those women are paid actors mostly. How they get on the site is by joining a local agency or answering an ad that talks about customer service or other types of work. I would avoid that. The down side is that if you end up working for an agency like this you cannot marry the men you meet, or at least you cannot have a sexual relationship with any of them until after you get your visa. Yes, all true. To do so otherwise can jeopardize your standing and classify you as a prostitute. Most agencies that pay the women to be on this sites will tell you that. Your best bet is to find a local agency. Join it. Some are good, some are bad. Lookup Russincupid, UkraineDate, or Internationalcupid. You can still use those sites for free, you just will not be able to contact Standard member for free, only Gold or Platinum.

By Jer M.
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So many beautifull women, so many girls ready to chat, it's too perfect to not be a crap, true?

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True; it is a scam. Credits required to open emails and photos. Just pure scam

By Paul C.
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What is the truth about charmdate.com? asounds sketchy and who is taking the pictures?

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This is from an intelligent guy who got sucked in by the beauty of the women on Charmdate, wasted thousands of dollars, and went to Kyiv thinking I was finally going to meet the love of my life only to discover it is a scam and the women will always have an excuse why they can't meet up with you. The lady I finally zeroed in on told me that her "neighbor friend" took the pictures. Bull$#*!. There will be a mixture of casual cellphone pics mixed with very professionally made photos. The owners of Charmdate, the Chinese in HongKong, (you know, the same f*ckin people who gave us the damn corona virus 19) are extremely greedy, devious and know exactly what to put out there to hook the typical man. Run, don't walk, from this site. Fly there, learn to use Google Translate well in advance, and sign up for tinder. Holy $#*!, that worked for me and I just got back.

By Larry W.
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Why do we have to have your permission to date these women and marry them

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You do not need their permission. You must however pay fees for almost everything. The women may have some agreement with the company. After paying about $120 for the first meeting I distanced myself from Charmdate.

By DAVID C.
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How much does it cost the ukrainian ladies on this site to send emf or a photo? or do the men only pay?

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Only the men pay as far as I can tell. The women use writers who will say anything to keep you hooked. One of the things that pissed me off was that the woman would send one word not realizing that it cost $7 per letter whether it is one word or many. Even the women who write for themselves are told to write many short letters

By DAVID C.
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Can you locate ladies who are on charmdate

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Sometimes you can track down a woman but this is also rare

By DAVID C.
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Yes its a complete scam tell me more

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Yes it is a scam. Fake ladies. They are not real. They have this girls talking on behalf. Probably the real girl don't even know. Cos the real girl I know is nice.

By sam r.
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Why can't that ladies get a man's contact details if they are getting on well and want to progress with a relationship

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QUITE CORRECT USE YOUR HEAD AND FORGET YOUR HEART

By alan s.
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Are the lady's paid by charmdate.com to write letters?

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I agree totally with Bryan. If you just stick around long enough you will see the "translators" make errors. Stuff like forgetting to insert your name, so the canned message addresses you as "Dear [INSERT MAN"S NAME]..." or you will get pictures for the wrong girl, or different girls will send you word for word identical e-mails. It is so obvious at that point you are dealing with scammers it is sickening. Just stay away.

By Ian J.
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Are the ladies reimbursed for their letters and chat time? what incentive do you provide them financially.

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The ladies do not talk to you. They are employees of the company. Most of the women do not have the time. They work long hours and have family to look after. Family and working is a Ukraine woman's priority. They are contacted by the site when you wish to meet. This is from my Ukraine GF.

By Nicholas H.

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