Alena those women are paid actors mostly. How they get on the site is by joining a local agency or answering an ad that talks about customer service or other types of work. I would avoid that. The down side is that if you end up working for an agency like this you cannot marry the men you meet, or at least you cannot have a sexual relationship with any of them until after you get your visa. Yes, all true. To do so otherwise can jeopardize your standing and classify you as a prostitute. Most agencies that pay the women to be on this sites will tell you that. Your best bet is to find a local agency. Join it. Some are good, some are bad. Lookup Russincupid, UkraineDate, or Internationalcupid. You can still use those sites for free, you just will not be able to contact Standard member for free, only Gold or Platinum.