Larry W.

Guys, there are thousands of pictures of beautiful women on charmdate.com, just like on the other Ukrainian/Russian singles websites. And there are beautiful women in Ukraine and Russia (and in the United States). I just came back from a two week trip there, thinking I was going to "finally meet my woman". She knew I was coming, but would not meet with me. This is the almost always result when you try to meet then in person because you are so damn tired of spending hundreds and then thousands to maintain the communication via their f*cking paid communication model. You think "we'll meet up, we'll get each others contact info and kiss charmdate goodbye. And you'll think, she says she is so fond of me, i mean so much to her, she loves me, she sends me special pictures, etc.
Well guess what men! When you get there, there will be an issue. She told me her Granny was sick, and that she had to travel 8 hours by train to a small village to be with her. There are no doubt hundreds of excuses, but count on this, this is what is going to happen to you if you fall for this scam.
She never would meet up for me. I finally called her out on it and I said ok, send me a selfie with your Granny, and a selfie with a piece of paper showing todays date. She acted all butt hurt ("You don't believe me!" But promised to still send the picture once the website "approved it". Well, guys that picture and email never showed up. So take it from a guy who wasted thousands of dollars, $399.00 at a time on CharmDate, DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY. Instead, go to Kyiv, or to Moscow or Saint Petersburg (when they reopen Russia) and invest your time finding a real woman, not some imposter who sends you pictures of a model that you WILL NEVER MEET!
But when you get there and go out on a date, you have to be careful of the in person scam. I met a girl for lunch in Kyiv that was a spectacular 9.5/10. She was 5'8", with an amazing body. Lunch was great. She suggested that maybe we could go for a walk. Sure, I thought. Well how convenient, a Victoria Secrets store was like 100 feet from where she suggested for lunch, and she tried on bikinis and one piece suits that showed everything you could dream for, with sheer coverups, the whole nine yards. She was inferring to me that we could go to a club she knew with a roof top pool that was heated (even in December, NOT) and we could go for a dip together, etc. etc. But all of a sudden, she was ringing up her new "collection" and it was $38,000 in greevna (RBH) Ukrainian money which is about $1300+ in USD. And she was just standing there all excited, but no purse in hand. No credit card in hand. Just sort of wringing her hands like a damsel in distress, inviting me to step up. When i realized how much it was going to be, I just politely took a half step back and shook my head no. I said, we just met, and we don't know each other that well. Well, she was butt hurt, and she wouldn't meet up later that day like she promised. So watch out if the lady suggests a place in or next to shopping areas ( and you just won't know usually). So don't use f*cking Charmdate, or other pay for letter sights, and instead, book a trip to these places and find the real deal.